Taurus, a virgo needs your help.

Posted by uncleVirgo4u
I'm a 26 year old female, virgo sun, virgo moon.
I meet this sexy ass hippy taurus dude. His moon is in leo. He's 32. This happened 6 months ago.
When we meet-instant connection/attraction/etc. (rare feelings, my friends)
The first time we hang out he tells me: 1. He is very religious and was celibate until age ~29. (weird about sex) 2. There is a girl in his life (for the past three years) who he's not dating but "shes in love with him." 3. He never wants to grow up or be in a relationship. 4. His last relationship was in high school.

Me being a Virgo, up for the challenge and unable to ignore my feelings, continues the persuit.


We have now been hanging out/intimate like 2-3 times a month since we met. We text almost every day. We facetime like once a week. Anytime we are together it lasts like 12-24 hours and its amazing.
I know the "other girl" is still "in the picture." But I have no idea how often they see each other or are intimate with each other.
Him and I are "not exclusive" which has been made very clear.

I have noticed this pattern of: one week he is super into me, talkative, we see eachother, etc. And then immediately after I am ignored for a week. This cycle continues to happen over and over again. I feel like he is purposely trying to resist feelings for me. I feel like I am being tortured with this inconsistency of affection.

I know you all are slow in love. I really like this dude-he is 100% aware of how I feel about him and knows I want "more".
But at what point do I just bail?

Posted by uncleVirgo4u
He is very religious and was celibate until age ~29. (weird about sex) 2. There is a girl in his life (for the past three years) who he's not dating but "shes in love with him." 3. He never wants to grow up or be in a relationship. 4. His last relationship was in high school.