Taurus anger is terrible, how to reconcile?

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Silex7 on Friday, April 27, 2012 and has 26 replies.
I am a scorpio guy who in a start relationship with a taurus girl, few days ago a VERY SMALL nonsense issue happened between us made her terribly angry at me (eventhough she is the mistaked one), I tried to call her alot of times she didn't answer my calls, neither answer my messages..i became really really sad coz i didnt think that taurus girls anger is terrible like that!!
one of my friend told me u should keep contact her, and the other told me no u should step far a while till she get calm,..
i really want to reconcile her, help me plz????
You sound young...how old are you?
If YOU didn;t harm her, then WHY are you chasing her? Dont be desperate....you will send the message that you are a door mat.Scorpios can be very manipulattive ..ie: making YOU the culprit and her the victim.
Is it more important to have her....than have her, and your, respect?
Thank you, no iam not young am 25 but my english is little bit horrid sorry, coz am Egyptian.
so you mean i should stop pull her attention and step far a while?
Hello Silex7,
It seems like the issue that was nonsense to you, wasn't nonsense to her. Just apologize send her flowers.. And give her space to return to you. If you keep bothering her, it will annoy her more. Trust me.
Thank you tarusbelle, and Yes i do trust what you're saying, but iam not going to bothering her more, i was just saying stand far for awhile untill she forgets about it.and i did really apologized but she didn't want to answer. I will wait for a while and then recontact her to see how it goes. and thanks for the advices all.
what i know is, its very hard to make taurus angry as generally they are very patient. However once there is a reason she got angry, its better if you give her some time. Being persistent at this time wont help, as she needs time to cool down and collect her emotions back. I am sure she comes back to you once she feels ok.
Yes you are right springmood, this is what Iam going to do. Thank you, you made my mood smile
What is the very small issue anyway buddy? Cuz many of the female bulls here will be more than ready to tell you whether it's small or not. Winking
Thanks mate for the reply, I have been jealous to her when some of her friends flirted her on Facebook and she was happy with that, i really hated that, the taurus girls are flirty and this is a HUGE problem with me and when i told her i really don't like that u should at least respect how would i feel about it, she got MAD and exploded like a stormy bull, as if i don't have a right with that (i know some guys don't mind with that) but for me i don't really like how she likes to get flirted with boys..and i found it as a common thing with taurus in general!..and u know what mate? if i did that with girls she would explode on me, so how could she accept it at herself and doesn't accept it on me? i even respect stuff like that when it comes with girls but she doesn't!
uhmm hahaha probably back away for now and hope for her to come back.
Apologise sincerely
back off
then see what happens
Well iam alil late with my comment but I still will give it to u. Taurus people are very patient it take them alil time to get piss off. Unless they are insecure in a area or just feel stress also when they can be very defensive,and contradict there's selves.
I have plenty of taurus females and males around me.work family and just hang out people all of them are different in there own way but all of them had act one point got defensive. I had one guy act my job who is about to get married I think his girl friend and this whole relationship situation is very sensative to him if anyone say anything about marriage in a way that's against wat he doing he be come agressive. And began to question people . He ask me y I dnt get married yet I told him why I wasnt readyand y at this moment it not for me. Some of the reasons had to do with. Age and things that I haven't got done with yet ,he became judge like on me question me with this court like demeanor. He didn't like my reasons y I choose not to be married. He hated the fact that everything I name remind him of his self.
For her to be mad to the point that she not speaking to u it might be because she don't like the fact that u seeing things that she want to hide. Either way I would give her space, when taurus really into u ,uwill no it. And they will be determine to make something right when they really want something to work
Ignore her.
Yep. You have to let them be right even when they aren't. If this is s problem, find another sign.
Posted by QLIbraMale
Most Taurus are quick temperted, give them space to blow off steam. they'll be back to normal most of the time.



wrong!
taureans with heavy fire placements, particularly in mars, are quick-tempered. the sun alone is actually very patient and slow to react.
Posted by cancerlovestaurus
Yep. You have to let them be right even when they aren't. If this is s problem, find another sign.



you must be unwittingly planning to breakup (if you haven't already) because ^that is ridiculous.
either that or you're a pushover, manipulator and need to get your grown woman on.
^ Beautiful.
Posted by caligula
Posted by cancerlovestaurus
Yep. You have to let them be right even when they aren't. If this is s problem, find another sign.



you must be unwittingly planning to breakup (if you haven't already) because ^that is ridiculous.
either that or you're a pushover, manipulator and need to get your grown woman on.
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None of the above. Just cheap entertainment in-between time. I love to flash red and watch you taurus charge at the wall. No. Just kidding. Yes Dear. You are right.
Actually Sun signs tell little about how people handle anger. But since Mercury moves close to the Sun we usually can tell about someone's mindset just by knowing their Sun sign. So when the bull decides it's over, then it's over for good. They just HATE having to change their minds. That's unless Mercury is in Aries or Gemini.
Posted by robyn808
I'm late too but curious for an update.
That would not be a minor issue for me. I will not be controlled, or told what to do. I'm guessing it didn't come out in the best way. I cant speak for everyone... but I'm extremely loyal. and if I was ever questioned about that, the most I'd say is *angry stare* "I don't cheat" and then I'd walk away till I cold down. But in the beginning of a relationship, you question my loyalty and tell me what to do.... well that my very well be a deal breaker. But if you post that on my wall and embarrassed me in public, you wouldn't exist to me.
Sorry being honest and letting you know why she may feel she has a good reason for being mad. It sound completely rational to me.


All he said was that he didnt like her flirtig with other men on fb for everyone to see. If your partner cant respect that F that....I think he should be the one mad here. Dont chase that girl let her be and if she comes back dont let her make you feel you were wrong. I wouldnt even speak on the issue again either, just flirt with woman for her to see and see how she likes it. Whats good for the goose....
I just dont get how she is mad
So confused....
my girlfriend (Taurus) and i never argue, but once in awhile we have an argument about minor issue that really dont come close to a breakup. she gets angry at me and ignores me completely and tells me i dont respect her even though she is the one who starts the argument. im afraid that she doesn't love me and will one day leave me for a minor argument. are all taurus women like this...please give advice.
thanks
Posted by Capriquoise
back off



Yep.
Women in general hate marauding, jealous men who get angry over the existence of other men in their lives.
Yes, a little jealousy here and there can be cute.
However, it should never be a regular thing, and is quite off-putting for most women.

@mac2life
I don't know if all Taurus women are like that but I have Aries Mercury and a Sag moon (very fiery), so I am very much like that. Its just an argument and I usually cool down very very quickly and then feel silly for making such a big deal of it. My pride will not let me apologize for making a big deal of it though but you'll know I'm sorry because I act really sweet and nice afterward (lol). If that's the only reason you fear she doesn't love you then I wouldn't hurt my head over it. If there are other issues then you have a lot more to examine than her temper. Also, what may seem minor to you may not really be all that minor to her. Examine what you're fighting over and also how you fight. Disrespect is a huge thing for Bulls in general.