Taurus behaviour or just his own personal issues?

Posted by Parkourler

To your question: It is clearly abusive and weak behavior.It is unhealthy and NOT typical taurus. Instead of taking responsibility and focusing on his mistakes, he just simplifies a complex relationship issue and makes you his scapegoat. Children do that, not adults.

He keeps contacting you and tells you hurtful things. That is clearly abusive and intrusive.

I think you should do 2 things:

- Cut all ties, block him and if that doesnt work get a restraining order. Be hard and firm even if that is not something a friendly pisces can easily do. You need to muster up strength and toughness and maybe even suppress your "soft" nature to a certain extent. .

- Do some serious soulsearching and face some painful truths. No offense but letting somebody treating you bad for years instead of standing for yourself and establish some boundaries indicates that you`ve got serious issues that must be addressed and worked on. Maybe its lack of selfesteem or your parents were emotionally abusive, whatever. A healthy persons establishes boundaries and takes care of herself.

You might need therapy. But you better do it before you enter a new relationship, because you might get the same problems and attract the same kind of men. Please dont see my harsh words as attack but as honest feedback. The truth can be painful.

W A K E T H E F U C K U P . Does being treated like that not make you furious? You deserve be treated well and loved.

Let her inspire you, and embrace the attitude of the girl in the picture without turning into a bossy brat.

http://www.gurl.com/2012/09/06/stand-up-for-yourself/

Posted by TaurusBull1977
The issue isn't astrological.

He's a cheating crackhead who was caught in his own BS and he's guilt-tripping you for it.

You're a Pisces, so you're allowing his manipulative ways to drown you in his "pity, woe is me" phase.

Next time he calls you, tell him, "before the local dealer or the live in cumbucket get their hands on my child support money, I would like it in my hands....NOW!"

Listening to his rants with no monetary compensation is just a waste of time.