Taurus bragging

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by beautifulday on Friday, March 30, 2018 and has 10 replies.
We brag? Not the bulls I know...
Posted by beautifulday
I know you guys are super loyal but what's up with all the bragging? I have a friend who just brags all the time. Like the other day she almost sounded like Trump when she started telling me how much she makes...she didn't tell me exactly how much but went on to say how she makes more then her boss. She does things like that all the time...Oh i know how to dance this style , I know how to do this...she's not young so my question is to you ladies and gentlemen is if this is a common trait in Tauruses? I knew one other guy who tried to date me but kept bragging about how he makes this amount of money...he actually gave me the number. He was actually asking me to manage his money because he keeps making expensive purchases. I politely declined. Is this coming from a place of insecurity?

I really want to like this girl and she thinks i'm her best friend (because i'm usually there for her if she's sick but try to not hang with her otherwise) but she keeps being too forceful so i wanna do nothing but keep my distance from her. Also, she says bad things about her partner to me when she's moody and i know her partner and I know how amazing her partner is to her. Should i be careful with this girl or is this just surface insecurity?

Sorry i just don't know too many of you besides my another friends boyfriend who is super loyal and hardworking and loves her so much.
I think it's safe to say that not all bulls like to brag

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If they're interested in you, I've noticed they do brag a bit in attempt to impress you (I find it cute, though). I think their mentality is that it's not bragging if it's true. lol Outside of that, I don't notice much boasting.

Posted by earlorg16
We brag? Not the bulls I know...


The irony. Tongue
Posted by Fleshpot
If they're interested in you, I've noticed they do brag a bit in attempt to impress you (I find it cute, though). I think their mentality is that it's not bragging if it's true. lol Outside of that, I don't notice much boasting.

Posted by earlorg16
We brag? Not the bulls I know...


The irony. Tongue
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If she has Aries in her chart, the bragging will come from there


Well I had a similar experience. Two of my old bestfriends..and a few Taurus a knew. The best friends we knew each other since childhood. The pattern I notice... extremely insecure but humble then turn into this monster when they gain success. Then karma hit them they fall.. then the pattern start all over again. It's not only with money..it's relationship ,new friends, there new looks,and material things. Sadly a lot of them don't see themselves until they are tired of repeating patterns. I end long term friends over this..not just the bragging these friends turn into people I just didn't like. It's shocking how success can ruining a person. I talking about changing a person to the point you don't recognize them.
All the Taurus people I know are super humble.
Posted by Fleshpot
If they're interested in you, I've noticed they do brag a bit in attempt to impress you (I find it cute, though). I think their mentality is that it's not bragging if it's true. lol Outside of that, I don't notice much boasting.

i got a little of the bragging when there was an attempt to impress me. it was cute. i don't think it's a specifically a bull thing though. more a human thing.

if anything bulls tend to be quite hard on themselves.
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Posted by butterfly30
Well I had a similar experience. Two of my old bestfriends..and a few Taurus a knew. The best friends we knew each other since childhood. The pattern I notice... extremely insecure but humble then turn into this monster when they gain success. Then karma hit them they fall.. then the pattern start all over again. It's not only with money..it's relationship ,new friends, there new looks,and material things. Sadly a lot of them don't see themselves until they are tired of repeating patterns. I end long term friends over this..not just the bragging these friends turn into people I just didn't like. It's shocking how success can ruining a person. I talking about changing a person to the point you don't recognize them.
Interesting

I seemed to have followed this pattern but the thing is I can never keep friends I do not have that skill unless it’s friends who know I disappear to work on things.

And the people I did leave Behind is because they did something to cause me to leave them. An example I had a friend who would always criticize others yet not take responsibility for their actions. No self awareness. We no longer talk which I am fine with but I have a feeling if we were to run into each other they might reflect some of the things that you said, which may have some truth to it? I hit rock bottom about 6 years ago right now I am doing well back on my game doing my best to stay humble too. But the sacrifice it takes, I mean, it’s not easy.
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Well at least you are aware. Now you just have to keep trying hard to apply what you learn. I think the thing to remember is you will fall again if you don't get the pattern.

Taurus are great friends when they are humble. Like I said I had great friendships with these people...I miss both of my bestfriends but they couldn't stop the cycle. They fall they get it ..they get high they loose it. Ego was just bad. For example I had one of my exfriends who was very insecure about her body. She wore big clothes ,hated her hair,and didn't like herself. She was beautiful. She would ask me to help her with fashion shit which I did. I always told her she was pretty. When men would tear her down I would say girl f them. You are too beautiful to be treated like shit. Now when she change her wardrobe she realized she had a very curvy shape. She went out on a few dates and I swear to God this girl lost her damn mind. She started calling people ugly. Messing with alot of men. Critiquing things I wear. Onething that bother me was she will criticize my hair,make up and clothes and turn around and wear her hair like mine,buy the same outfit, and wear the same makeup. It was always this contradictory behavior. I don't like this but I do this. I notice she would compete with me. There were times I would say this person was cute..or I Think i like him. Next thing I know she's dating the person..I would just brush it off because it wasnt like I actually dated the guy myself. I just said he was cute. I can go on and on with things she had done.

When you talk about your situation with your friend critizing you...I notice that alot Taurus when they are in there humble state..or admire a person to the point they look up to them or respect them. They will take an beating from others. They have to learn how to balance all that out. Be humble but don't allow yourself to be taken for granted or to be treated badly. Be successful but you don't allow yourself to lose your mine..or treat other like shit.

Posted by DMV
If she has Aries in her chart, the bragging will come from there


That's what I was thinking, especially if she has an Aries Mercury or is ruled by an Aries Venus. Or any major mars aspects that makes her feel a need to constantly prove her worth to people