Taurus & Cancer crush? Long but interesting

Not sure what your signs are when you Taurus girls start crushing on someone.

So let me make this quick. First day she looks at me I look at her BOOM I have a crush. 4 months later still going on. I'm to shy when around her and can't be myself. AT ALL. And this will be my down fall. I am frustrated in my situation she smiles I wave I look she stares. Some times we don't talk at all and ignore each other completely. Like were not even there in the same room. I catch her looking at me with a smile and a lust look and she quickly turns away. I am confused. I like her but I'm getting sick of these games and I think she is too... How long do Taurus women do this with there crush? How long do they crush for?

I'm starting to think I don't have any chance in hell. It may just end up us both hating each other at the end. I know it's hard... But I'm going to try my bet to by myself in front of her. Should I confront her about how I feel when I am around her? I don't feel comfortable doing that BC of past mistakes of letting girls know how I feel ends horribly.

I know I can get along with this girl if only I didn't have a crush on her. I KNOW THIS! She has that personality that I feel comfortable with but I don't feel comfortable because I like her to much and scared if maybe I act myself she will find me annoying. I'm so f'in random when I speak sometimes! That's why! So I don't speak at all and save the embarrassment. I'm a Cancer btw for those who don't already know my obnoxiousness on these forms couple months back. That's why I stop posting here. But I really need advice. I like her and I want to start talking to her. I know what you're going to say. Just go up and talk to her... Yea I know but what do I say? I've tried that. It's hard ok. Yea last time I did try to talk I was talking fast she knew I was nerves (least I tried) Told her (I work with her btw) that I mastered my sliding technical behind the counter. Wtf right? That's what she said.

I'm a funny guy. And I have made her laugh before but that's only when I don't notice her around me. I tell jokes like it's a natural. But I can't tell jokes if I'm trying to tell jokes. I just say the most random things ever that make people laugh. Tho I'm shy and quiet some times.

Me
Cancer
Moon cusp of virgo and libra (I fit more of libra personality tho when I read it)
Merc is in a cusp of cancer and leo
Venus is in a cusp of leo virgo
Mars is in cancer.

She is
Taurus
Moon in Scorpio

Hm, well, if you are already nervous and will think it will go bad then I somewhat concur with GreatBull, you as a cancer however, will not take that as a possibility haha.
I think you should try it out, even though with my little situation with taurus is telling me to tell you to be prepared for more awkwardness and stares.
I don't give up easily on most things, and I'm sure that not until you find out how bad or how good you get along with this girl on a personal basis you wont give up either.
I say, next time you crack your jokes around her and she laughs, try and talk to her.
ORR.
One day just start talking to her, more.
And honestly there is no other advice to give you then "Go and talk to her."
I always say, there is no harm in trying.
🙂
Goodddd luck!

Buut itsss sooo haarrrd to just talk to her... I'll try it. Thanks for reading this book! I still like her. But atm I am giving a bad vibe and she is returning it to me... It's all my fault. I'm going to talk to her tomorrow since I work with her. I'm never going to bring up what I'm feeling because I feel that would just bring more awkwardness. I'm just going to say Hi and see what I come up with then. Probably just a smile. I think it would be weird to say "so how are you doing today"... A girl at work likes me and did this and I think she's weird.... I'm going to say hi and tell her a joke. Yea! That would be great! tho I know for sure I will studder and my voice will be more high pitch then normal. awwwkwarrrrd? Again thanks! I don't want the fire to go away. But I feel like it is? We clicked the moment our eyes saw each other. There just has to be something there for it last this long. 5 months!
Tho sometimes I feel intimidated by her bc she is to beautiful. She thinks I hate her now because of yesterday? I'm an idiot for ignoring her. But I felt so insecure at the time.
And most of you know cancers are not very confident people we hide it and put on a show.

Btw that was only half of what I wrote.. I just notice that. I forgot what I typed.. oh well...

shame on you shishno for not mentioning that she has a boyfriend. You need to let it be as long as that is the case. Be her friend but don't try to get in the middle of her relationship. She will not trust you and you will not trust her.

She is

Taurus
Moon in Scorpio
merc in Aries
Venus in Gemini
Mars in cancer.

That was cut out btw.

Not sure how compatible that is...

I did mention she had a boy friend but it was cut out... 😢

if it was cut out then you didn't mention it - and this system tells you when you've gone over the limit of words so you knew perfectly well that information wouldn't show up. You're trying to be sneaky and get the answer that you want to hear.

Bottom line: don't do it.

I think I said something like this?

But she has a boy friend and I am confused of why she is looking at me like this and showing interest. She started the eye tag game not me (tho she got me wanting more). And I am willing to wait. I'll be patient I feel she is worth it. Equivalent exchange! I feel my hard work will pay off.

I really did type it. I swear! I havent posted a topic for so long and I forgot. OK fine you win yes I didnt mention it! sheesh. lol... have to be such a investigater. =P
But I really didnt know the system had a limit... know I do..

funny how you left all that [supposedly] for the end rather than mention it in the begining when you were talking about all this eye contact etc.... quite frankly I don't believe you intended to mention it until I said something. and all the advice you might get here about sucking it up and going and talking to her would be worthless because you didn't tell the whole story.

you're only hurting yourself by doing that.

I'll probably will never date her. I dont think she will be at my party too... I can live to dream... Your right. The truth hurts. I need to leave her alone(.) And I started yesterday but I feel bad about it... I dont want to but I have to! I'm repeating my past mistakes. tho this time I didn't confess my feelings like I did in the past. I'm getting better at this. tho it hurts. I can never take things seriously so people don't take me seriously. I hide from jokes and fake smiles. When really that's not how I feel. Its hard to let go and I know thats what I got to do... Best thing that can ever happen to her is fading away...

well I weill tell you this.... I may seem like I'm being hard on you but she will be just as hard. I had a friend call me after years of not seeing each other and confess he had always had a crush on me and still did. I told him I had aboyfriend and his response was "well promise me if things don't work out you'll give me a chance" and I was VERY upset and felt that was extrememly disrespectful of him to even suggest it would not work out. It DIDN'T work out and the guy actually broke up with me VERY shortly after but I was still angry with the other guy because at the time he had no reason to say that and I found it very offensive. I think she will too.

I am a dick head. And a loser that can't get the girl bc most I meet are already taken. I always do stupid shit like this. I need to change and not be such an ass. I'm never myself in front of people and they know this they see it! That's why people don't like me. I'm a fake. Truth hurts but I can finally admit to that now. I need to change.

are you one of those cancers that goes after girls who are taken because you'd rather be rejected because she has a boyfriend than just flat out rejected? maybe that is your real problem and you should work on that. Just a suggestion.

NO I honestly dont. They just happen to always have a boyfriend. Last girl I had a crush (tho not as strong as this one) didn't have a BF and she rejected me because I was just moving to quickly (she was a Leo btw). Or maybe you could be right. But I really doubt it. I fall in love with girls guys would love to be with. I'll learn from this. next time I crush on a girl I bet she will have a BF. but I will know what to do. Walk away before I start having feelings for her... Best thing. I feel like I'm still learning...

well think about it this way - if she has a boyfriend she's not for you [at least not now] and when the right girl comes along she won't have a boyfriend. Everything happens for a reason.

There are lots of girls out there. But most are taken... KNow I only get like this with a girl I have a crush on... Normal girls to me are easy to talk to and get along with I have the PUA thing down. Just not with the girls i'm crushing on. my mind goes blank.

true. You want what you cant get...

I'm just glade I never went up to her and confest my feelings. But she knows by my body language I am sure.

Its going to take awhile to get out of the awkward zone but I feel its possible.

I envy people with relationships. I also wonder how it would be like. You see the longest relationship I've ever had was 2 weeks. And I got dumped when I have just finished shopping for a necklace for her. I remember it very well. I had the necklace in my hand I was getting ready in the bathroom... Then I received a phone call from her friend saying that she wants to brake up with me. I latterly dropped on the floor I cried myself to sleep in the bathroom. (I am embarrassed to even put this out there for people to read.) Tho that was my first real dump. I still have that necklace?
And till this day I've been unsuccessful with girls.

I just write music and poems and draw.

Wow you made me open up Angel? You broke through my Cancer shell?

Thanks I think I know what to do... Tho I've always knew but never accepted it. I must move on. And I need to quit lying to myself. She lost interest (if ever)

Well, Im done reading the first page lol, this kinda blew up!
Andddd, what the hell? A boyfriend.
But once again, with you being a cancer, you will not give up.
I'm sure your all spacy and thinking that one day something will happen...ah shisno.
Haha.

what the f are buying a necklace for when u have just dated for two weeks......

angel broke through your shell....thats special......u should buy her a necklace or a watch or something 😉

the only shell I'm interested in is yours dear 😉

bc I was in love? I was in my early teens at the time and it was my first relationship... I didn't know what hell I was doing. Necklace was only 40-50 bucks.... I was trying to be romantic. What do I know? I wasn't a love guru... =/
You're both lucky to have that strong connection for each other without having anything in between you guys. Wish I had that.

Annoyed Cancer. Your right I always think one day it will work out. But it never does... I'm going to try and move on. Maybe be a friend only. Not like I confessed my undying feelings to her yet. So I'm still safe atm. Tho our body language speaks louder then words and we both can sort of tell what the other is thinking. It was just not meant to be.

nothing between us?? how about 3,000 miles??

I live in california and he lives in Florida, it was almost a full year before we met in person for the first tiem..... I think you need to be a bit more patient.....

shishno, are you the cancer guy at my work— lol I'm a Taurus and I'm pretty much crushing on this cancer guy at work (even though I have a bf *shock*) and he acts exactly the same way you do with your Taurus girl, but I'm never sure if he does like me. Like we say hi, but then we both clam up, and if we do talk it's so strained it's unbelieveable and we're both blushing and it's kind of embarrassing. When he walks past my desk he looks at me out of the corner of his eye and smiles at me. When he's talking to anyone else, he's fine, got a lot to say it seems, but with me, it's just ridiculously awkward. On work nights out he's always staring at me, and has been for the past 3 years, but I thought that if he liked me then he'd have appraoched me by now, I mean, 3 years is a loooong time. So I totally feel where you are coming from shishno!!! It sucks not being able to talk to someone you actually really like!

Thanks GB. To be honest, he's my bf in name only, we haven't been intimate for around 10 months which is why I'm crushing on this guy really. I've just got to get the courage to end it.

That's exactly why I am shy and it feels sooo awkward around her. I can't do anything bc she does have a Boy friend. When we do talk it's very hard and I can't think of anything to say but: HI how's work? Some times I come off as not interested at all. Some days we ignore each other and not say a word. Reason why I do this is because I am not sure what she's thinking... other days we would be smiling and looking at each other and wave. Why does she keep looking at me? does she like me or maybe I'm creeping her out or something? But why does she seem happy when I show up out of the blue when I'm not working and she always has this smile while staring at me?? (and I'm not just saying that to get my hopes up)Wish I knew what she was thinking! Now I try to stop looking at her. We just glace at each other to see if we are both still looking. But I look away and no longer smile.

No I'm probably not your guy. I live in the US. Also wow 3 years he's been doing this? By then I would probably have a new job and a new crush. Or who knows 3 years I could be going out with her. It could happen?

?Or not... Live the dream, live the dream?

Talk to that cancer guy! If you think he likes you. HE DOES. If you read our horoscopes, ?cancer in love? it will say we are shy when in love.

Also Copperhead, did you like him the first moment you saw each other? Was there something? First time she looked at me starting with a big smile I felt a little jolt and turned away quickly but she kept her eyes on me while I was talking. Then I notice while I was working I saw her just starting across the room at me.

I'm going to stop I'm only getting my hopes up. But yea? That's how mine started.

You should dump your BF 10 months is a long time he's probably cheating on you that's the only reason a guy would lose interest. Or he developed ED? Who knows?? Go after that cancer guy! If he still showing signs that he likes you for 3 years, imagine how it'd like once you are finally going out! We are romantics.

I'm moving on btw with this girl. Doing something different for once. I don't want too... But I feel it's necessary for now. I feel if I continue I will just make it worse.

Here is a web site. http://www.dcbhoroscope.com/Full-Size-Images/Crystal-Ball.html<BR>

It always says ?Never give up never surrender? when I ask if I should move on or some times it says ?things will go your way?.

Yea kinda pathetic Id say. To sink that low as to getting advice from a f'in crystal ball?

I may take some friends from work to dinner for my B-day. Maybe invite her or something. Not to hit on her but just to get to know her like you said. I really don't know anything about this girl and I would like to so I can open up more. I only that we have some kind of connection. That is all. The awkwardness is fading slowly but surly.

I just want to be a friend If possible. Witch I'm sure is. I've never met a Taurus I haven't got along with (minus the crushing part)? I always feel comfortable around them (If not crushing on them) and they always trigger my comedic side bc there so easy to lol. This is just from experience with Taurus friends (girls especially)?

Btw. I'm not sure if I should apologize to her or not. would it be a good idea?

Maybe say.

Hey ____ I feel like I'm being rude by staring so I want to apologize.

Hmm. What should I say after that? Or should I even say this? I feel like if I apologize for being aka ?creepy? it would break some tension.

*sigh* okay.... bad advice merc...

Shishno let's put it this way - think about if she was YOUR girlfriend....don't do anything you wouldn't want another guy doing if she was with you.

Yea it's over... I'm repeating my past mistakes. Tho I still feel like I should apologize...
Or should I just leave it alone? What do you think?

if you never approached her to being with then there is nothing to apologize for... I think your looking for a backdoor into the situation.... i.e. you apologize and it sparks some dramatic discussion about how she has felt the same all along.... being sneaky again....

*begin

I think 3 years is way long enough for him to have made a move, it's not like he even knows I have a bf, we don't talk about things like that and he doesn't really talk to anyone in the office who would know either. So I don't think he particulary likes me, but I still think he's cute. I've always thought he was cute, but the fact that he never makes it really obvious has meant that sometimes I like him more than other times. Like we had a quick conversation over email yesterday about Euro 08 final, but that'll be it for a few weeks. Even if I was single I wouldn't make a move on him, I prefer the men to make the first move.

And about my bf, I don't think he is cheating, and he's had no problems with ED that I know about, he just hasn't been interested. Getting me downj quite a lot, as we live together, but we never go to bed at the same time so we're more like brother and sister. This is not the relationship I had in mind when I got together with him. But when I bring up the fact that we shouldn't be together he starts crying and begging for one more chance for things to change. I realise now that that's never going to happen so I'm going to have to bite the bullet and end things.

Copperhead. With the cancer guy, does it seem sometimes you both just completely ignore each other? Maybe he has a GF? Do you smile at him sometimes when you look at him? Or just look at him normally. I used to wave a lot to this Taurus girl at work. Like I said before it's pointless to do anything now. She looks like she is very much in love with her BF? Why did she have to show interest me?. She still keeps looking at me with a grin on her face. wtf? Like yesterday?. I caught her looking at me again. f'in getting my hopes up... I don't want to play these games of eye tag. She is torchering me without even knowing it. She will have to make her own decision. (tho I will never go up to her and ask that) Girls usually let you know if she likes you. But she is very attractive? she probably has guys following her and she has a lot to choose from. Why would she pick me? (She looks soo good in her tight jeans) a body of a goddess! I am cursed?.

Yea I agree Angel. Apologizing would just make things more awkward then it already is.
It sucks to say. But I will probably never have the privilege in going out with her or taking her out. It's just from past experience. It's sad but oh well. You'd think I'd be used to it by now. But I never used to it. Hurts every time.

shishno....people are friendly ...people like attention....people entertain themselves with friends and co-workers.......u will know a chick really likes u when your penis is buried deep inside her 😉

lol. I wish haha.

damn....does that mean I tipped my hand? 😉

Shishno, yes sometimes we totally ignore each other, then things will pick up again and it'll be the awkward smiles again and the blushing when we say hello. I always smile at him when I look at him, but I get embarrassed really easily with him, so people have commented in the past, asking me what I'm blushing for or why I'm smiling after he's gone. It's like being at school again! Like I remember one time, I was in a really good mood and I gave him this beaming smile as I walked past him and he went so red!! Was so cute!! I know he hasn't got a gf, as I casually asked someone who plays football with him. Nothing will ever happen with me and him, as he will never come up to me and I'll never go up to him, I'm too embarrassed to in case he doesn't like me. Maybe he thinks the same thing too. It's difficult when you can't even talk to someone properly without turning the same shade as a tomato!

Ok. Usually cancer and Taurus think a like when in love. IF you think he feels the same way. Most likely he is! I guess that's true about Taurus's getting embarrassed easily. Don't you hate it when he ignores you? Your situation sounds very similar to mine. I hate it when I ignore her! But I do it bc I'm feeling insecure. It's true that cancers get very shy when around someone they like. We are as patient as you Taurus. We will not make a move right away. Or we may just not make a move at all. We get intimidated easily. It sucks! I can talk to any other girl no problem. But her wow I struggle. My head is always trying to find the words and courage to speak. But I don't because I'll screw up some how. I also get this dumb look on my face while trying to figure out what to say to her. And end up saying some random bullshit like. (with a shaky and a nervous look) Its windy out side? nice day to fly a kite huh?.? WTF?. She gave me this small grin and a 1 brow up look node as she turned away? I think she was trying not to laugh? I am such an Idiot? I felt like shit after that. I screwed up this perfect opportunity to get to know her? Or who knows? She may even think it's cute? Doubt it!
Anyways that was all in the past.

this is sooooooo f'in true!

Cancer Love and Relationships

Like Taurus, Cancer likes committed relationships. Can_cerians function best when the relationship is clearly defined and everyone knows his or her role. When they marry it is usually for life. They are extremely loyal to their beloved. But there is a deep little secret that most Cancerians will never admit to: commitment or partnership is really a chore and a duty to them. They enter into it because they know of no other way to create the family that they desire. Union is just a way - a means to an end - rather than an end in itself. The family is the ultimate end for them.

If you are in love with a Cancerian you must tread lightly on his or her feelings. It will take you a good deal of time to realize how deep and sensitive Cancerians can be. The smallest negativity upsets them. Your tone of voice, your irritation, a look in your eye or an expression on your face can cause great distress for the Cancerian. Your slightest gesture is registered by them and reacted to. This can be hard to get used to, but stick by your love - Cancerians make great partners once you learn how to deal with them. Your Cancerian lover will react not so much to what you say but to the way you are actually feeling at the moment.

Wow. Maybe being friends is not so bad lol. I had the best conversation with her. Tho I was still nervous but I fight through it and talked. She's a funny girl. The awkwardness is fading away quickly. She gave me her number. This morning I had a dream about her naked... Her best friend was on top of her just hugging nothing sexual... all I can see was her nipples. For some reason I had a zooming ability and I zoomed in on them.... She had just broken up with her boy friend in my dream and then she text me; are you lurking at me?

BTW She still checks me out. bc when I was talking to this other girl she kept looking at me. I know it may sound like I'm getting my hopes up but I'm just sharing you guys what I have experienced and how my journey to become friends with her. Of course I still have feelings for her. I can't just not have feelings because I say I don't have feelings. So don't bash me to hard for this. I know what I'm doing and I already told you what my decision is. That's to become friends and get to know her better. I'm just happy that finally I can talk to her almost normally, and sharing it to everyone. I just notice once I over come my fear of talking to her and just be myself we really get on very well! Like we make each other laugh and smile. I should have never been nerves to begin with! I could have been friends with her a looong time ago! I'm such an idiot!

I feel like I'm going to get bashed...

hah yea. That was one of the best dreams I had in a long time!
I also saw the right side of her but cheeks and almost could see the honey pot but twas covered by shadow. It was still hot! I woke up with a stiffer. The other day I saw her bend over (like a sexy bend over) and she knew I was behind her looking as always. D.A..M.N. I think that's what triggered that kind of dream. That I had the quickest boner I ever had that night. (angle is going to bash me)

I'm surprised on how well we are both getting along now. She is looking at me and smiling more. I'm going to miss her tho.... She's going out of town for 2 weeks. I didn't even get a chance to say good bye properly... just a wave and a smile good bye.
I missed her the moment I saw her left the building... I had a great day last night that's for SURE. But when she left my good mood left with her. I was bumd out knowing she'll be gone for 2 weeks. Work is going to suck? I love talking to her! We keep eye contact and smile. It's almost like slipping away in an imaginary world when I'm with her. You can tell a lot by just looking at there eye's. She had a sparkle in hers.

Yes I still like her. Talking cant hurt it's just that ?talking?. That's how friendships (relationships) start you told me to just be her friend and so I am. If she wants to hook up that's cool. I have no problem with that. I can trust once that happens she would have already broken up with her BF.

I told someone for the first time How I felt about her (I was in a very good mood yesterday)... I told him not to say anything but at the same time I kinda did want something to slip just to see what would happen? Not like a big give away... we both can already tell...

I my just be getting my hopes up again?. I'm going to let fate deal with this. I sure hope fates on my side this time... All my crushes have failed. EVERY SINGLE ONE. But I have never tried being friends with them. And I was never into horoscopes back then and never went on the internet to figure them out. I just plain out weird about it. Getting advice from friends that don't even know what the hell there talking about. There always saying some bs like. Hurry up and ask her out before it's too late. But you can't just ask a girl out lol! I learned that the hard way?

Also found an interesting web site. You can put in your birthday and get your relationship rating. I got a 80% compatibility with mine.
http://www.love-meter.net/lovemeters/chinese-love-meter.php

Her BF is a skinny kid. She looks stronger then him! Well I got an 80% lol. I think I'd hate it too if I got less than 40% ... But yea your right it does sucks lol. Just a confidence booster.

I think she broke up with her BF? I'm not for sure tho. Are Taurus really black and white? If she is interested she will show more interest and talk to me more. But do you think I'll have to spell it out for her that I like her? It's so obvious already...

Cant get my hopes up bc I don't know for sure? I'd feel like an idiot. Tho Atm I've been feeling like crap? I fear the worst. Something will happen like in the past attempts of relationships. Fate is never on my side.