Taurus dude, gem girl!!

What's his deal? Why has he changed? For a year he was a complete sweetheart gave me rides, to and fro, payed for my food, complimented me and what not. After that year, two weeks later he had a party, he said hey. And that's it. He didn't talk to me at all for the rest of the night. But when I talked to people I saw him staring from a distance. The other night he and a few buddies were at del taco. I was talking with one of his buddies. BOOM! He frekin exploded. So much rage. But he didn't explain himself. He just said I'm going home. Wth?

He tried courting me. But i was resilient. Only because of the many friendly females he had. I just wonder if they all got the same treatment.

He's right. He didn't need to explain himself.

@Minanim I recently moved back to los angeles recently. He's from the suburbs. He came to an event that I was at. I didn't expect that at all. He saw me . He asked me like at least 15 questions or more. I felt like I was being interviewed. If its true what they say if you love some one let them go. And if they come back their yours? Hmm?

yeah it sounds like he has finished analyzing you and because you were so resilient (he probably felt he had no signs), it appears he doesn't want to invest in you anymore.

sorry 😢 it's best for you to move on.

if you really want him, it sounds like you have to do a hail mary and be direct.

Posted by butterflygirl
He tried courting me. But i was resilient. Only because of the many friendly females he had. I just wonder if they all got the same treatment.

If you feel that way it's probably for a reason. My Taurus friend DID give another girl the same at our job before we started talking. I don't think you did anything wrong per se...if you don't feel secure why should he?

I think both of you should sit down and talk talk talk.

When I would have normal conversations with other males he considered it flirting. When I tried talking to him. He just shut me out. He didn't like opening up. Even if only one person was around. When he's good, he's sweet cherry pie. When he's bad, he's unbearable to the point where I leave home.

The males are HARD to communicate with. Sometimes it will feel like a no win situation. Try writing him a letter maybe.

well ... there success stories of the female gems in this taurus forum ...

you have to chase him back ... and its require effort and TIME 😛

texting is the best way to talk to a taurus ... as mostly taurus are shy and awkward towards the girl they like

be hurry before he has someone else in life ...

Im in gemini/taurus cusp. Virgo moon.
This is making more sense to me.


I'm going to miss him
His smile, his hugs, asking me what shirts look better on him, his amazing hospitality.
He treated me like a princess, and it took me till now to realize what I lost. Literally my mom told me a week ago. A man doesn't do all that for nothing. But while he did what he did for me, I was focusing on other things not even noticing what I had infront of me.

Posted by lnana04
The males are HARD to communicate with. Sometimes it will feel like a no win situation. Try writing him a letter maybe.

It's true, but if you have a point and stand your ground they do come around. It takes time. They are the kind of people who say NO before you finish your sentence and they even know what you were going to say haha. THIs happens frequently with me. Very very very stubborn.

As the others mentioned, all in or all out. As a Gem you prob sent mixed signals, and he figured, it's going nowhere and has moved on.

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and it's funny cause that seems very one sided, considering the harem and flirtation of taurus males.

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Posted by anonymousheart
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and it's funny cause that seems very one sided, considering the harem and flirtation of taurus males.

it's a changeability and a lack of consistency in relating, a fickleness. someone disloyal pretty much.

yeah fair play. we are not attracted to harem members tho. maybe we like something about but the bottom line is they are there because they don't make the cut.

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Interesting. And yea, I guess you're right. So you don't think a Taurus would ever fall for a harem member? Is it impossible?

And where do you draw the line between harem, fanzone, and disloyal?

It's funny- my dude has a host of admirers. One of which, you've probably seen me mention, is obsessed. But a 'friend'. I found out he broke up with his first girlfriend bc he was jealous over her male attention....I thought that was laughable. I don't play those games, and my lines are clear.
I guess Taurus harem is to Leo fanclub. But my fanclub is expelled once I have a mate. Or atleast limited to only seeing me on stage 😉