Taurus Dude HELP
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by woodenmeow on Wednesday, May 8, 2013 and has 9 replies.
I have posted before. I had been seeing a taurus for 3 yrs long distance. Then we had it out. Where he wanted to be just friends. He said its not that he doesn't have feelings for me, it just the long distance.
So for now It has been professional between us.
There has been a few text back & Forths. A few push pulls between as well. Him telling me he just dosen't do long distance relationships, and that he is not to be proven wrong. Then when I said.. "I got it, you don't want me". He replied there is no need to make negative statements. It wasn't negative it was the truth.
So sorry about the wordyness... my question is. After he knows he broke my heart and has dug his hoofs in the sand. He emailed me today and told me that he has a meeting in my town June 5 and would like to grab dinner with me.
I am totally scratching my head. I have no idea why he is even asking me to dinner.
Please shed some light on this for me...
So for now It has been professional between us.
There has been a few text back & Forths. A few push pulls between as well. Him telling me he just dosen't do long distance relationships, and that he is not to be proven wrong. Then when I said.. "I got it, you don't want me". He replied there is no need to make negative statements. It wasn't negative it was the truth.
So sorry about the wordyness... my question is. After he knows he broke my heart and has dug his hoofs in the sand. He emailed me today and told me that he has a meeting in my town June 5 and would like to grab dinner with me.
I am totally scratching my head. I have no idea why he is even asking me to dinner.
Please shed some light on this for me...
Okay , get out of your feelings and look at the big picture.
He broke up with you because it hurts him that you two are so far apart. Thats the main reason why people dont do long distance. He asked you not to make negative comments because in all actuality he wants you, he just hates the distance & he wants you to see that. He asked you to dinner because he finally got the chance to be in your city & he likes you enough not to leave without taking advantage of this opportunity & seeing you as well as showing you he still cares despite the distance.
what you decide to do is up to you; i dated a Taurus & their actions are very simple & logical.
He broke up with you because it hurts him that you two are so far apart. Thats the main reason why people dont do long distance. He asked you not to make negative comments because in all actuality he wants you, he just hates the distance & he wants you to see that. He asked you to dinner because he finally got the chance to be in your city & he likes you enough not to leave without taking advantage of this opportunity & seeing you as well as showing you he still cares despite the distance.
what you decide to do is up to you; i dated a Taurus & their actions are very simple & logical.
@LoveeStoned -
I really liked your explanation. I told him that I will let him know about dinner. It is still early in May before I need to make a real decision on it. Also, I would like to see how he acts towards me as well.
Still not sure what to feel.
I really liked your explanation. I told him that I will let him know about dinner. It is still early in May before I need to make a real decision on it. Also, I would like to see how he acts towards me as well.
Still not sure what to feel.
I'm a taurus woman and my best friend is a taurus guy. We are very logical. We have no ulterior motives up our sleeve. Taurus LOVES to be constantly around the person of our affections so when he tells you its distance.. hun, it really is distance. Theres nothing worse for a taurus then to not be able to see, or touch the person we want to be with. We also don't like the negative sloshes of "I got it, you don't want me". He does, and saying that to him probably hurt his feelings and irritated him a little at the same time.
He wants to see you, he wants to see where this will lead and since he will be in town and wants to take you out to dinner that is a very positive thing. Taurus's are stubborn but when it comes to love we will go to the ends of the earth for it. If that date goes well, TRUST me... he will think twice about the "no long distance" rule. I say go for it, the only thing you have to lose is it doesnt work out.
He wants to see you, he wants to see where this will lead and since he will be in town and wants to take you out to dinner that is a very positive thing. Taurus's are stubborn but when it comes to love we will go to the ends of the earth for it. If that date goes well, TRUST me... he will think twice about the "no long distance" rule. I say go for it, the only thing you have to lose is it doesnt work out.
I'm also a Taurus woman and I agree with the above post. We are very physical creatures. I'm not sure whether I would ever say I wanted long distance but I'm sure I could be convinced if the right man, with the right amount of dedication came along. We would have to spend a hell of a lot of money in phone calls, plane tickets etc. because I would need to see him all the time. So pull it all out for the date - I'm sure you'll be "convincing".
@woodenmeow
Sorry for the late response. but, in my experience id say he'll probably be nonchalant at first which can be a little confusing and frustrating.
Eventually he should spill his emotions out. slowly but surely & thats when things get interesting.
smh Taurus' love to put on this tough guy act but they're really big softies , it's cute ^.^
Let me know how things turn out for you (:
Sorry for the late response. but, in my experience id say he'll probably be nonchalant at first which can be a little confusing and frustrating.
Eventually he should spill his emotions out. slowly but surely & thats when things get interesting.
smh Taurus' love to put on this tough guy act but they're really big softies , it's cute ^.^
Let me know how things turn out for you (:
Delvianna01,
I think you are correct about his reaction to the my remark about "you don't want me". Since that comment we have only communicated through work emails and I have been friendly, and he back to me. I don't plan on making anymore comments like that. It was a heat of the moment text, I was frustrated too. I know he said it's distance. But when he was here in town visiting, I asked him on a napkin to be my boyfriend. Thought it was cute. His answer for that is yes, if I had time. So I was just frustrated because it just seems like he keeps changing his answer. Just confusing.
Fingirl31 - Let me first by telling you that he and I work for an airline and fly for free whenever we want to. So making something like this work isn't a big thing, or shouldn't be. Lots of people in our industry do things like this.I belive he is something special, and when he left wanted to keep it going. His last words before he left was you will come see me in Tampa. I said yes of course. Where-ever you are. I tried making plans to spend time but he would always break them.
So I am still scratching my head on this one. Every time he comes to town for work meetings he always asks me to dinner.
LoveeStoned.. I will keep all of you posted. How everyone explained it. I am planning on saying yes to dinner. When he asked me and by the way he has never asked this far in advance.
His birthday is Wed/ May 15. Should I text him happy bday or just a fb message?
I used to send a card, gift. Since our big blow out I haven't felt the need to go all out.
What do you guys think?
I think you are correct about his reaction to the my remark about "you don't want me". Since that comment we have only communicated through work emails and I have been friendly, and he back to me. I don't plan on making anymore comments like that. It was a heat of the moment text, I was frustrated too. I know he said it's distance. But when he was here in town visiting, I asked him on a napkin to be my boyfriend. Thought it was cute. His answer for that is yes, if I had time. So I was just frustrated because it just seems like he keeps changing his answer. Just confusing.
Fingirl31 - Let me first by telling you that he and I work for an airline and fly for free whenever we want to. So making something like this work isn't a big thing, or shouldn't be. Lots of people in our industry do things like this.I belive he is something special, and when he left wanted to keep it going. His last words before he left was you will come see me in Tampa. I said yes of course. Where-ever you are. I tried making plans to spend time but he would always break them.
So I am still scratching my head on this one. Every time he comes to town for work meetings he always asks me to dinner.
LoveeStoned.. I will keep all of you posted. How everyone explained it. I am planning on saying yes to dinner. When he asked me and by the way he has never asked this far in advance.
His birthday is Wed/ May 15. Should I text him happy bday or just a fb message?
I used to send a card, gift. Since our big blow out I haven't felt the need to go all out.
What do you guys think?
Id text him. only because i hate contacting someone via fb. I wouldnt feel the need to send a gift neither, IMO i dont think he'd expect one anyway. But dont take everyones advice to heart. keep going with your gut feeling & woman instincts. You know whats right more than anyone.
My mother always told me, in any situation, "if it feels right then proceed with caution. If it feels wrong then it is & you should remove yourself from the situation"
My mother always told me, in any situation, "if it feels right then proceed with caution. If it feels wrong then it is & you should remove yourself from the situation"
Good Advice. I am trying to NOT take all my friends advice. THey told me to not even acknowledge his birthday on FB or text. I truely think that would really hurt his feelings.
Still confused. It is tommorrow so the sands in the hourglass are running out...
If anyone has other input I am open to it.
Still confused. It is tommorrow so the sands in the hourglass are running out...
If anyone has other input I am open to it.
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