Taurus ex at the same event as me

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Libragirl445 on Thursday, December 31, 2015 and has 11 replies.
Me and my Taurus ex have been no contact for about a month. We had an amicable break up although I did try to push to work things out, but he didn't want to. Finally decided to leave him alone.

When we first met he knew I was a huge fan of this artist and that I really wanted to see him in concert. He was a fan of concerts and we went to a couple of concerts together. Well my favorite artist is performing tmm night for New Year's Eve and I told him (last month) that I planned on going. He didn't show any particular interest in it. Since we haven't been in contact I bought my tickets and posted them on a social media account. Couple of days later he ALSO posts tickets that he bought to the same show!!!! Mind you, HIS favorite performer is also performing the SAME NIGHT right near the location. I'm confused because he's made no effort to contact me whatsoever didn't even wish me a merry Christmas and now he's showing up at the same event he knows I was waiting on all year. So now I might have to see him. It's a pretty popular show so I was thinking maybe I'm overthinking it but i am very annoyed. I've been doing well keeping my distance I'm scared seeing him will resurface some pain.

Any insight on this? Also if I see him, since we haven't spoken should I greet him or ignore him?

Just greet him and let it go. He'll probably talk to you. My Taurus ex did in a similar situation to yours, but we didn't reconnect. Ignoring him would be kind of childish, and he may think you're incapable of moving on. Men like to think you're stuck on them. It feeds their ego, even if they don't want you anymore for themselves. If you see him acknowledge him, but just be as normal as you can be despite how difficult it may be for you. And enjoy your concert !
Posted by busyeyes88
U are over thinking. He likes an artist that will he performing at the same place... No BIGGIE.... If a taurus has an amicable split with an ex, the chances are they will not be changing their mind and your ex has told you at the time that he does not want to reconsider.

If you bump into him be polite... But keep it moving. If there is any interest on his part he will indicate as such.


Yes I'm clear on that already. Hence why I brought it up myself, I'm not that dull. And you misread, it's MY favorite artist that is performing. He ditched the other artists show to go to MY favorite artists show. Then he bought the tickets days after I did after he knew I was planning to go for months.
Posted by busyeyes88
U are over thinking. He likes an artist that will he performing at the same place... No BIGGIE.... If a taurus has an amicable split with an ex, the chances are they will not be changing their mind and your ex has told you at the time that he does not want to reconsider.

If you bump into him be polite... But keep it moving. If there is any interest on his part he will indicate as such.


I never asked what are the chances of him changing his mind and I didn't mention in my post that im interested in that to begin with. You're making it sound like I'm pining over him when honestly I just am stressed out about seeing him at this event I was really really looking forward to and I was asking for advice on WHY he would do that or what I should do if we do cross paths.
Posted by Season
Just greet him and let it go. He'll probably talk to you. My Taurus ex did in a similar situation to yours, but we didn't reconnect. Ignoring him would be kind of childish, and he may think you're incapable of moving on. Men like to think you're stuck on them. It feeds their ego, even if they don't want you anymore for themselves. If you see him acknowledge him, but just be as normal as you can be despite how difficult it may be for you. And enjoy your concert !

Thank you I'm definitely going to try to! You're right, ignoring him would be childish.
Posted by AriesLady8
Follow his lead. He is the man after all. Men are hunters. Don't chase him down for anything. Not even a hello.

I think you're just in your emotions which is normal. It's only been a month. Don't think too deeply into this. You'll wreck your brain in vain. Go. Enjoy yourself. Put all thoughts off him out of your mind for that night at least. Let this be a night of release for you. Get dolled up. Put on a cute outfit. And go have a good time. If HE comes over to YOU to say hi, be ladylike and greet him. But leave it at that! If he's watching you, make sure he sees that you're having a great time.

Taurus are possessive. Even if they don't want you. So you being cute out having a good time will most likely get under his skin if you two shared anything substantial.

Do not go home with him or have sex with him that night if he tries to. You will regret it. If he tries to get back with you or is acting or giving you attention like that what he wants, tell him you two can discuss it at a later date. During the daytime. If he is serious he will do.


Would never ever go home with him and he definitely knows that! But thank you for your advice it was really helpful and you're totally right!
Posted by busyeyes88
Posted by Libragirl445
Posted by busyeyes88
U are over thinking. He likes an artist that will he performing at the same place... No BIGGIE.... If a taurus has an amicable split with an ex, the chances are they will not be changing their mind and your ex has told you at the time that he does not want to reconsider.

If you bump into him be polite... But keep it moving. If there is any interest on his part he will indicate as such.


I never asked what are the chances of him changing his mind and I didn't mention in my post that im interested in that to begin with. You're making it sound like I'm pining over him when honestly I just am stressed out about seeing him at this event I was really really looking forward to and I was asking for advice on WHY he would do that or what I should do if we do cross paths.

You are pretty defensive which makes me think you still have feelings for him. If you.didn't why create the thread? He's your ex and it's a "free country" so why can't he book tickets to see your favourite artists?

Why should you be stressed out about seeing him if the split was amical and there's no hard feelings?!

Perhaps he could be trying to get under your skin, but why should you care? He's your ex?
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Of COURSE I still have feelings for him, I was falling for him and the break up is still very recent. Never denied that. However, that doesn't mean I'm still hoping he'll "change his mind" about me or even that we should be together. Yes I'm defensive because you came into my thread making assumptions and NOT addressing the whole point of my thread and instead basically telling me that I'm wrong for feeling how I feel (annoyed at him for getting the tickets). Obviously it affects me if I made the thread that's common sense. Just because I still have feelings or still care DOESNT mean I want him to change his mind, I'm actually still very very hurt by the situation and I'm trying to heal. And I've been doing a wonderful job in doing so until this happened so I went online and asked for advice.
I am stressed out about seeing him because it's how I feel and it is not your place to tell me I'm wrong for feeling that way. You don't know me. Before you badger someone's posts or try to offer your two cents also be sure to read them thoroughly.
OP, are you going with somebody or alone to the concert?

there will be lots of people at the concert maybe you will not see him at all.....

but I understand how you feel.... I skipped many events in similar situations because I wasnt sure, how it would affect me and was not prepared to see the man with a possible new girlfriend smile
Posted by busyeyes88
Posted by Libragirl445
Posted by busyeyes88
Posted by Libragirl445
Posted by busyeyes88
U are over thinking. He likes an artist that will he performing at the same place... No BIGGIE.... If a taurus has an amicable split with an ex, the chances are they will not be changing their mind and your ex has told you at the time that he does not want to reconsider.

If you bump into him be polite... But keep it moving. If there is any interest on his part he will indicate as such.


I never asked what are the chances of him changing his mind and I didn't mention in my post that im interested in that to begin with. You're making it sound like I'm pining over him when honestly I just am stressed out about seeing him at this event I was really really looking forward to and I was asking for advice on WHY he would do that or what I should do if we do cross paths.

You are pretty defensive which makes me think you still have feelings for him. If you.didn't why create the thread? He's your ex and it's a "free country" so why can't he book tickets to see your favourite artists?

Why should you be stressed out about seeing him if the split was amical and there's no hard feelings?!

Perhaps he could be trying to get under your skin, but why should you care? He's your ex?

Of COURSE I still have feelings for him, I was falling for him and the break up is still very recent. Never denied that. However, that doesn't mean I'm still hoping he'll "change his mind" about me or even that we should be together. Yes I'm defensive because you came into my thread making assumptions and NOT addressing the whole point of my thread and instead basically telling me that I'm wrong for feeling how I feel (annoyed at him for getting the tickets). Obviously it affects me if I made the thread that's common sense. Just because I still have feelings or still care DOESNT mean I want him to change his mind, I'm actually still very very hurt by the situation and I'm trying to heal. And I've been doing a wonderful job in doing so until this happened so I went online and asked for advice.

You said the split was amical. Sorry it's not my intention to hurt your feelings! Concerts are huge places... The odds are you won't even.bump into him!
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It's okay, I should have been a little more clear about the circumstances in my post and I apologize for being a bit rude! yes that's true and hopefully I won't.
Posted by Pandora101
OP, are you going with somebody or alone to the concert?

there will be lots of people at the concert maybe you will not see him at all.....

but I understand how you feel.... I skipped many events in similar situations because I wasnt sure, how it would affect me and was not prepared to see the man with a possible new girlfriend smile

I'm going with 2 of my friends and yes I definitely hope I don't, I don't want to skip out just because I've been soo excited for this show for so long, I know he is still single so at least I won't have to deal with seeing that but seeing him will be rough for me. Im crossing my fingers I don't see him if I do I guess I'll just have to make the best out of it and deal with that if it comes