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Taurus female and Virgo male
Posted by jane84My son's father is a Virgo and there was a strong connection with us physically - but he lacked the ability to be connected emotionally, had another woman or two or three, and only came around when it suited him. I was young and dumb. We are still friends but live in different states thank god, we just talk over email a few times a year. He gets me so mad he lights my Aries fire. It's all different because of other planetary placements so you can't go by one experience.
Feel like they are drawn to each other but it doesn't really seem to match?
Any successful relationships out there? Experiences?
Trying to help a Taurus friend out but I'm so confused as to how this is supposed to work... They seem similar, but different in many ways. Of course you have to take their background into account as well. But they have very similar backgrounds... I just don't know what to tell my friend anymore. She calls me daily about it.
Posted by tctaPosted by jane84My son's father is a Virgo and there was a strong connection with us physically - but he lacked the ability to be connected emotionally, had another woman or two or three, and only came around when it suited him. I was young and dumb. We are still friends but live in different states thank god, we just talk over email a few times a year. He gets me so mad he lights my Aries fire. It's all different because of other planetary placements so you can't go by one experience.
Feel like they are drawn to each other but it doesn't really seem to match?
Any successful relationships out there? Experiences?
Trying to help a Taurus friend out but I'm so confused as to how this is supposed to work... They seem similar, but different in many ways. Of course you have to take their background into account as well. But they have very similar backgrounds... I just don't know what to tell my friend anymore. She calls me daily about it.
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Yeah I don't know all his exact info since I don't know the time of his birth. She has her moon in Scopio, Venus in Aries, Mars in Pisces.
But that's basically what is happening. He can really make her mad. She cusses at him and he leaves or gets upset. But her main thing is that they don't connect emotionally and their communication is not great either. With her there was a strong connection physically, but another huge problem is that he has stopped. He's been busy with work and wanting to see his friends...more than wanting to see her or be with her physically. One big thing I can see: he's sarcastic and moody. She needs physical touch and words of affirmation. He cuts her with his words.. Which is why I don't think it will work. But I don't know what to tell her. She loves him... I mean I hope it works out, but they fight a lot. I mean not when they are around others (they seem fine around others) but she calls me daily about how she's mad at him again.
Posted by LeeaniheeYeah I don't understand. She wants to stay with him, but the more she tells me the more I think it's going to end bad.. I mean no one wants to see a good friend go through that. And she's been divorced once already..Posted by jane84In my experience it was a bad combination. I m taurus girl and i even have a lot of virgo in my chart but still wasnt a good match.. You said it right "feel like they are drawn to each other but it doesnt really seem to match".. Couldnt have said it better! I was going around in circles with mine for three years, just waste of time, no pleasure, failure combo from the start.
Feel like they are drawn to each other but it doesn't really seem to match?
Any successful relationships out there? Experiences?
Trying to help a Taurus friend out but I'm so confused as to how this is supposed to work... They seem similar, but different in many ways. Of course you have to take their background into account as well. But they have very similar backgrounds... I just don't know what to tell my friend anymore. She calls me daily about it.click to expand
The "going around in circles" definitely sounds like their relationship.
Posted by NevermoreIn what ways did you notice it didn't work and who broke up with who if I might ask?
Had a relationship with him for a year... Doesn't match at all.
Although I do hope that there's Virgo male with Aries moon out there that it seems to be fun with.
Posted by jane84wow, well he doesn't sound like relationship material anyone - she could do better elsewhere ...Posted by tctaPosted by jane84My son's father is a Virgo and there was a strong connection with us physically - but he lacked the ability to be connected emotionally, had another woman or two or three, and only came around when it suited him. I was young and dumb. We are still friends but live in different states thank god, we just talk over email a few times a year. He gets me so mad he lights my Aries fire. It's all different because of other planetary placements so you can't go by one experience.
Feel like they are drawn to each other but it doesn't really seem to match?
Any successful relationships out there? Experiences?
Trying to help a Taurus friend out but I'm so confused as to how this is supposed to work... They seem similar, but different in many ways. Of course you have to take their background into account as well. But they have very similar backgrounds... I just don't know what to tell my friend anymore. She calls me daily about it.
Yeah I don't know all his exact info since I don't know the time of his birth. She has her moon in Scopio, Venus in Aries, Mars in Pisces.
But that's basically what is happening. He can really make her mad. She cusses at him and he leaves or gets upset. But her main thing is that they don't connect emotionally and their communication is not great either. With her there was a strong connection physically, but another huge problem is that he has stopped. He's been busy with work and wanting to see his friends...more than wanting to see her or be with her physically. One big thing I can see: he's sarcastic and moody. She needs physical touch and words of affirmation. He cuts her with his words.. Which is why I don't think it will work. But I don't know what to tell her. She loves him... I mean I hope it works out, but they fight a lot. I mean not when they are around others (they seem fine around others) but she calls me daily about how she's mad at him again.click to expand
Posted by tctaI mean she likes to cuddle and hear her man tell her how much he wants to be with her. She wants to be appreciated and hugged when she's having a bad day. He doesn't seem like that type. But he is very driven, organized, educated, and close with many people (has lots of friends.) Like I said, drawn to each other but so different. I think they both are just meant for different people. But I'm not her and only she knows what she really wants. I just let her vent. I do want her to be happy...but I can't make decisions for her.Posted by jane84wow, well he doesn't sound like relationship material anyone - she could do better elsewhere ...Posted by tctaPosted by jane84My son's father is a Virgo and there was a strong connection with us physically - but he lacked the ability to be connected emotionally, had another woman or two or three, and only came around when it suited him. I was young and dumb. We are still friends but live in different states thank god, we just talk over email a few times a year. He gets me so mad he lights my Aries fire. It's all different because of other planetary placements so you can't go by one experience.
Feel like they are drawn to each other but it doesn't really seem to match?
Any successful relationships out there? Experiences?
Trying to help a Taurus friend out but I'm so confused as to how this is supposed to work... They seem similar, but different in many ways. Of course you have to take their background into account as well. But they have very similar backgrounds... I just don't know what to tell my friend anymore. She calls me daily about it.
Yeah I don't know all his exact info since I don't know the time of his birth. She has her moon in Scopio, Venus in Aries, Mars in Pisces.
But that's basically what is happening. He can really make her mad. She cusses at him and he leaves or gets upset. But her main thing is that they don't connect emotionally and their communication is not great either. With her there was a strong connection physically, but another huge problem is that he has stopped. He's been busy with work and wanting to see his friends...more than wanting to see her or be with her physically. One big thing I can see: he's sarcastic and moody. She needs physical touch and words of affirmation. He cuts her with his words.. Which is why I don't think it will work. But I don't know what to tell her. She loves him... I mean I hope it works out, but they fight a lot. I mean not when they are around others (they seem fine around others) but she calls me daily about how she's mad at him again.
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She's not the only relationship I know like that though.
My bf's best friends are Virgos.
One is married to a Scorpio but it tooks years. They do seem happy though. But he is not the affectionate type, my BF lived with them and said he rarely saw them cuddle, hug, or show any type of PDA. (There's nothing wrong with that, but they seem to "match" more is what I mean.) This Virgo is the independent type too, him and my BF play golf often.
The other is a driven work oriented Virgo. He started a relationship with a Taurus after his last breakup. But they are off and then on. Off and then on. It's the same story. They can't seem to stay away from each other but just don't seem to match either? I don't know.
My bf's best friends are Virgos.
One is married to a Scorpio but it tooks years. They do seem happy though. But he is not the affectionate type, my BF lived with them and said he rarely saw them cuddle, hug, or show any type of PDA. (There's nothing wrong with that, but they seem to "match" more is what I mean.) This Virgo is the independent type too, him and my BF play golf often.
The other is a driven work oriented Virgo. He started a relationship with a Taurus after his last breakup. But they are off and then on. Off and then on. It's the same story. They can't seem to stay away from each other but just don't seem to match either? I don't know.
Posted by NevermoreAgain, it sounds like something she'd say IF they broke up. Did you mean veggies? Because he doesn't either! She gets upset because she wants to cook and then he criticizes the food (or doesn't like it.)Posted by jane84I broke up, because I can't stand him anymore.Posted by NevermoreIn what ways did you notice it didn't work and who broke up with who if I might ask?
Had a relationship with him for a year... Doesn't match at all.
Although I do hope that there's Virgo male with Aries moon out there that it seems to be fun with.
he's a lot of more stubborn than me.. very righteous, spoiled child who doesn't eat vegdies (like for real) and very criticizing, but can't do that to himself (he only thinks that he's smart). And sex is nothing. A lot of more introvert than I do. 😐
It's liek I'm a mother than a gf.click to expand
She does say also that he has started to tell her that "she used to be so strong and confident and he doesn't know what happened to that girl." She said it's because she let her guard down. But now she just gets criticism from him, when she really just wants him to be emotionally there.
I think earth/earth could benefit from a therapist or mediator of some sort.
I think it's a good match, just a lot of other stuff that makes it not work, plus they have similar "game" which turns them off of eachother, if that's makes sense. After my Virgo sister's Scorpio, she was tangled with a Taurus for five years. They never really got it off the ground, but both my mother and I thought he had strong feelings for her and we knew she had strong feelings for him. He took advantage, and she never really opened up. As soon as he moved on, all it seems he could think about was my sister go figure. It's like everything is there, but they don't know how to make it work with eachother.
I think it's a good match, just a lot of other stuff that makes it not work, plus they have similar "game" which turns them off of eachother, if that's makes sense. After my Virgo sister's Scorpio, she was tangled with a Taurus for five years. They never really got it off the ground, but both my mother and I thought he had strong feelings for her and we knew she had strong feelings for him. He took advantage, and she never really opened up. As soon as he moved on, all it seems he could think about was my sister go figure. It's like everything is there, but they don't know how to make it work with eachother.
Posted by Redoctober2000She's 26 and he's 31. I try telling her somewhat but she's stubborn as hell. Another friend of hers told her bluntly what she thought and she assumed the girl was just jealous of her and stopped talking to her. I mean that's her life too. I've tried telling her he is just not that type of guy she keeps describing that she wants.. But she said she loves him. He's not a horrible guy, just not good together maybe. Or not what she really wants anyways.Posted by jane84You need to be a good friend and tell her truth... She is wasting her time and she knows it... This is now not about signs... He treats her like shit and her love is being wasted. Why waste it someone who does not want you when there are plenty out there who do.Posted by LeeaniheeYeah I don't understand. She wants to stay with him, but the more she tells me the more I think it's going to end bad.. I mean no one wants to see a good friend go through that. And she's been divorced once already..Posted by jane84In my experience it was a bad combination. I m taurus girl and i even have a lot of virgo in my chart but still wasnt a good match.. You said it right "feel like they are drawn to each other but it doesnt really seem to match".. Couldnt have said it better! I was going around in circles with mine for three years, just waste of time, no pleasure, failure combo from the start.
Feel like they are drawn to each other but it doesn't really seem to match?
Any successful relationships out there? Experiences?
Trying to help a Taurus friend out but I'm so confused as to how this is supposed to work... They seem similar, but different in many ways. Of course you have to take their background into account as well. But they have very similar backgrounds... I just don't know what to tell my friend anymore. She calls me daily about it.
The "going around in circles" definitely sounds like their relationship.
Tell her to sit him down to have that talk and find out if they are on the same page and BOTH of them are willing to make it work or she cuts rhe cord. Life is too short.
We have all been young and dumb once or twice but if she is over age 30, that shit she is putting up with needs to stop...click to expand
Posted by Redoctober2000Hmm well I do think Taurus and Taurus could work.. But my other guy friend is a Taurus (I can't tell you how many Taurus people are around me) and it took him FOREVER to finally give into his Taurus girlfriend's wish to get married. (And they are not young to where they were waiting for things to happen or settle) Looks like it's finally going to happen. But they fight all the time. Talk about locking horns. My Pisces guy friend who is best friend's with him hates being around them... Nothing like his Leo and him. Totally different type of relationship.Posted by lnana04Disclaimer: not ALL earth and earth.... My "earth and earth combo are doing just fine!!!
I think earth/earth could benefit from a therapist or mediator of some sort.
I think it's a good match, just a lot of other stuff that makes it not work, plus they have similar "game" which turns them off of eachother, if that's makes sense. After my Virgo sister's Scorpio, she was tangled with a Taurus for five years. They never really got it off the ground, but both my mother and I thought he had strong feelings for her and we knew she had strong feelings for him. He took advantage, and she never really opened up. As soon as he moved on, all it seems he could think about was my sister go figure. It's like everything is there, but they don't know how to make it work with eachother.click to expand
I do wonder who she'd be happy with.
Virgo and Taurus seems like that type that would make sense, but doesn't... Weird.
Posted by febyWell that's good!
It definitely works though. They've been together for over 10 years. Not married, no children, share the same studies (both research scientists)
Only problem is she wants to get married and have kids.. I think he'd be content without that, even though he tells her what she wants to hear a lot.
But I see how it could work, just didn't have any personal stories. Thanks for sharing yours!
Posted by febyLooks like they have the same goals! Nice
It definitely works though. They've been together for over 10 years. Not married, no children, share the same studies (both research scientists)
It's a beautiful combination, but not an easy combination.
I can't speak for all Bulls, or all Virgo men, but can only speak from my experiences.
We're both very intelligent individuals, and never grow tired or bored of having discussions about various topics. ( I have a Moon in Gemini).
Communication has never been a problem.
However, his mutual patterns drove me crazy in the past, but then I realized this was due to my own insecurities, of wanting things to remain the same, and of course a fear of losing him, which was ridiculous because he never gave me a reason to feel this way.
At first, I thought he was cold. As a typical Bullette, I crave affection. I informed him about this during the initial stages, at first he stated that he was uncomfortable, and then as I became more in tuned with him, I realized that it was just shyness and insecurity. Instead, I was very affectionate with him, but I made sure they were unexpected. A kiss on the lips, a caress on the face, a peck on the neck, and little touches here and there. I realized his face would light up every time I did this, and he began to reciprocate. Being affectionate with me came naturally afterwards.
Communication, I think is great with them, however, they do seem to have issues with vulnerability. This aspect is rarely expressed, so it is very important to be in tuned with them. When he's quiet, he's in deep thought. He hates to be pitied. This is when I avoid coddling or nurturing him right away. I ask. He vents, and I just listen...listen...listen...intently. No interruptions. And then I offer solutions, my responses are accompanied with a little ego boosting and pragmatic responses. Then Making love happens, and the nurturing kicks in after the pillow talk. This is where he is the most vulnerable. This is where I hear practically everything else that is bothering him.
If you're an emotional-based Bull, this combination can be challenging. I am quite firm in my opinions, and I DO have a possessive streak. But I always fight with logic (thanks to my air placements). Virgos, I tend to notice like to keep exes as friends...and hmmm...that was a deal breaker for me. He felt my horns on this one. I think it scared him. I am usually calm and collected. lets say the 'ex-friends' bit was not happening, and he complied. If you're firm, they will adapt. Utilize that 'fixed' energy. The mutable tendencies can be frustrating, I know, but when I say 'utilize' that fixed energy, I mean it!
The cardinal energy to take the lead in the beginning is missing for a mutable sign like the Virgo.. Bulls can have dominate personalities, but we are probably one of the most traditional women in the zodiac. This can appear contradicting. I simply took the lead, and then fell all the way back. Virgos will not take the lead, but love to feel needed. This is where you give them the reigns to take the lead, make them feel needed. This is how it works!
I can't speak for all Bulls, or all Virgo men, but can only speak from my experiences.
We're both very intelligent individuals, and never grow tired or bored of having discussions about various topics. ( I have a Moon in Gemini).
Communication has never been a problem.
However, his mutual patterns drove me crazy in the past, but then I realized this was due to my own insecurities, of wanting things to remain the same, and of course a fear of losing him, which was ridiculous because he never gave me a reason to feel this way.
At first, I thought he was cold. As a typical Bullette, I crave affection. I informed him about this during the initial stages, at first he stated that he was uncomfortable, and then as I became more in tuned with him, I realized that it was just shyness and insecurity. Instead, I was very affectionate with him, but I made sure they were unexpected. A kiss on the lips, a caress on the face, a peck on the neck, and little touches here and there. I realized his face would light up every time I did this, and he began to reciprocate. Being affectionate with me came naturally afterwards.
Communication, I think is great with them, however, they do seem to have issues with vulnerability. This aspect is rarely expressed, so it is very important to be in tuned with them. When he's quiet, he's in deep thought. He hates to be pitied. This is when I avoid coddling or nurturing him right away. I ask. He vents, and I just listen...listen...listen...intently. No interruptions. And then I offer solutions, my responses are accompanied with a little ego boosting and pragmatic responses. Then Making love happens, and the nurturing kicks in after the pillow talk. This is where he is the most vulnerable. This is where I hear practically everything else that is bothering him.
If you're an emotional-based Bull, this combination can be challenging. I am quite firm in my opinions, and I DO have a possessive streak. But I always fight with logic (thanks to my air placements). Virgos, I tend to notice like to keep exes as friends...and hmmm...that was a deal breaker for me. He felt my horns on this one. I think it scared him. I am usually calm and collected. lets say the 'ex-friends' bit was not happening, and he complied. If you're firm, they will adapt. Utilize that 'fixed' energy. The mutable tendencies can be frustrating, I know, but when I say 'utilize' that fixed energy, I mean it!
The cardinal energy to take the lead in the beginning is missing for a mutable sign like the Virgo.. Bulls can have dominate personalities, but we are probably one of the most traditional women in the zodiac. This can appear contradicting. I simply took the lead, and then fell all the way back. Virgos will not take the lead, but love to feel needed. This is where you give them the reigns to take the lead, make them feel needed. This is how it works!
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Trying to help a Taurus friend out but I'm so confused as to how this is supposed to work... They seem similar, but different in many ways. Of course you have to take their background into account as well. But they have very similar backgrounds... I just don't know what to tell my friend anymore. She calls me daily about it.