Taurus get in here, Taurus women especially

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Markov23 on Saturday, August 16, 2014 and has 2 replies.
She was very sweet, caring and loving. She did say she didn't want to be in a relationship and that her previous one well she basically ran away from that one due to anxiety but I continued pushing it. She does have a lot of pressure to deal with and very rarely she'd open up about them. Yet she so passionate about life. The first time we hung out I initiated contact and we kissed, it a was very passionate moment for the both of us. We held hands and she opened up the way a taurus would when they are made love to. We would text here and there and she'd call me. We'd talk for a long time mostly very touching subjects like about life and family ect. Her calls began to stop and texts were taking longer to respond. Right before she went hot and cold she mentioned that I pressured her too much and that she wasn't ready for anything After 2 months of hot and cold I asked what happened. Her reply was that we should stop talking. Just like that. It was very hard for me to confirm what the problem was. I asked what my fault was and she did say it wasn't my fault. It's hard We aries men fall hard. I have written an apology letter to her regarding the situation. So that what ever mistake I've made I won't repeat and that she's very special to me and the reasons why she is special to me. It's been a month and half since I've sent her the letter as a text. She still hasn't responded. So why would you cut contact when everything is going well? And how do you think she will allow me back in her life? If so how can I just get her talking to me? Write as much as you can. From a taurus point of view and please understand that I want her back.
My suggestions are that you do exactly as she says. I am a Taurus female and this situation has happened to me, only it wasn't with an Aries male. I can tell you from my situation, what HE could have done. That he was capitalized so that it would emphasized so that you can look at it and say, "Maybe this will work for me"...but, please remember that it might not.
It started off wonderful. Sparks flew, I felt secure, because I was in control. I knew where he and I stood. I had just left an abusive relationship (with a male Capricorn) and my new mate was very understanding of that. We hit it off well. I liked him, I might have even felt love, but it was under control and my emotions were in check.
However, the longer we stayed together, the more in love I fell, because Taurus in general are incredibly turned off by huge changes, therefore they'll just stay put until they can't do it anymore. We "wait it out" unless we see that there's no need for waiting. Anyways, I was romantic and sweet. I thought he hung the moon. My heart was giving him all of these green lights, but I, myself, was searching desperately for a yellow light. I needed the relationship to yield, because I couldn't control my feelings for this person anymore.
So, I confronted him directly with my fears and he comforted me. You can't just ask a Taurus lady about her problems, though. She'll become defensive, trust me. The female Taurus is no horse. There's no breaking her in. These bulls' have horns and are very capable of using them to keep people at a distance. We can't let just anyone get in our heads. Instead, creatively get back into her life. I also played the hot and cold game for a while, maybe a couple of months after telling him that I felt restless and pushed. Honestly, I feel bad for wasting his time, but I hate being rushed. I hate anything moving too fast. That might just be how she felt. It isn't anyone's fault.
Something that always brings me back, though, is the fact that Taurus women are very nosy. For me, it's not even a "snoop" thing, it's like I just want to know things because it makes me feel trusted. The more specifically a person answers my "irrelevant" or "pointless" questions , the more I'll tell that person, because I'll feel like they trust me, so I can trust them. That being said, we check up on our ex mates constantly. We just want to make sure that your life is less glamorous without is. I think that goes for anyone, though.