Taurus gets manipulated and gets mad at the truth

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by ScorpioFish on Tuesday, November 26, 2013 and has 32 replies.
Okay, Bulls.
This is really for Taurus girls.
Not all of you are this bad, but what is up with Taurus girls who are easily brainwashed and manioulated by bad people? And then when you are under the complete control of monsters, you become angry and ugly when confronted by those who speak the truth and attempt to make you see the error and fallacy of your decisions and the idiots and assholes you are attached to?
Seriously, not all of you are bad. But some of you girls seem to magnetize to shitbags, and you seem interested in death before detachment.
Weirdos.
See, Scepter, you acknowledge the Taurus affinity for monsters.
What I don't get is how you can go against common sense minded folks when they try to pull you away from the monsters?
Why, for the name of all that is Holy, do you hang onto these assholes anyway?
Sheesh.
Seriously.
My bull has no interest in ever, ever letting go of her relationship with this psychopath crapricorn.
That "c@nt" crapricorn she calls her "friend" has done the following to her:
1.) Left my Taurus sitting at an airport pick-up zone while she was drinking beer at the pool. This was after she promised to pick her up.
2.) Acting like a disrespectful little wh@re to her in a bar because my Taurus didn't have any cigarettes. The little C@NT was so rude to my bull that a perfect stranger chimed in with, "Are you sure that you two are friends? She has no right to speak to you two like that at all." I know, dude. I know.
3.) Fucked about 40 guys this year. This is in addition to the 30 or so she fucked last year. I keep telling my bull to be careful not to drink out of the same glass as that nasty pig. I don't want to ultimately catch God only knows what that skank has by proxy.
4.) Crashed around in the kitchen clanging pots and pans, stirring up their rat dogs to a barking frenzy and inviting random penis into the house at 3 AM after my bull specifically told the little wh.ore to be quiet since I had to get up at 5 AM for work with my students.
5.) The little wh.ore was out drinking and got a DUI after ramming head on into this innocent dude on his way home from work at 2 AM one night. She totalled both his car and her car, messed him up and then the little sh!t lied to the police and refused a breathalizer test from them. She then got some slick lawyer, and got away with the whole thing.
6.) I could go on about this little POS, but I am just tired and frustrated from talking about it.
Why do you bulls cling so bitterly to @ssholes like this pig? Seriously, why????
That wh@re isn't her friend. She's a "friend" of convenience at best, but seems to manipulate and use her.
Posted by ScorpioFish
Okay, Bulls.
This is really for Taurus girls.
Not all of you are this bad, but what is up with Taurus girls who are easily brainwashed and manioulated by bad people? And then when you are under the complete control of monsters, you become angry and ugly when confronted by those who speak the truth and attempt to make you see the error and fallacy of your decisions and the idiots and assholes you are attached to?
Seriously, not all of you are bad. But some of you girls seem to magnetize to shitbags, and you seem interested in death before detachment.
Weirdos.


It's the same for guys my dear. YOU NAILED IT. From what I noticed Taurus likes to see the silver lining and lives in a cloudy dream when it comes to people's flaws they are close to. The truth tellers are the ones that are rejected, or seen through suspicious eyes. It's kind of sad, very annoying- and I'm right there with you.....
I've come to the conclusion that Taurus's are suckers.
Posted by soultalk
I guess you just need to wait to get to that irreplaceable place with taur then taur might defend you with his or her life.


Yup. Or set it up with a sob story where they feel like they're protecting the underdog. Taurus let me know he just naturally defends someone when they are not there to speak up for theirself. Blind defence- kind of retarded imo...
Pretty much. I'm trying to figure it out...Bc this Taurus chick that won't get off my guy's jock is probably the MOST NEEDY person I've ever seen. The way she writes me annoys the piss out of me. I find her pushy. But she's a very...big girl, so I think he already feels sorry for her, that coupled with this I needy you, you're awesome vibe. Oh and she gave him a whole soul mates story, seems to make for an absolute potion of him being at her beck and call...well, until I entered the picture smile
Oh, and she'd spin the whole spiritual aspect too.
She used to call and say, "I just felt like I need to tell you, GOD LOVES YOU."
Haha, OK! More like, "I love you." But he used to get googly eyed over that crap.
Posted by soultalk
That is the worst, him not seeing the plastic person that everyone is seeing. I can see where you and SF are coming from. But sad truth is only when bulls feel that famous rage of theirs for that person will they cut them off completely. Anyone else saying anything is like talking to a stubborn child.


Don't worry. Two can play the unclear intentions game. smile
It's not so much being a sucker but when you have decided you want something even if its bad, you want it. I want what I want, raw ambition, nothing will stand in my way. This goes for males and females of the sign I have noticed but when they are done it's like that person never existed.
Posted by PVAF
Posted by thescepter
does she have aqua?
11th house sun?


That's a myth ands. Sad
Or maybe not...eyes friends list...
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well i can definitely relate to the heart wants what the heart wants.
Posted by thescepter
Posted by PVAF
Posted by ScorpioFish
What I don't get is how you can go against common sense minded folks when they try to pull you away from the monsters?
Why, for the name of all that is Holy, do you hang onto these assholes anyway?
Sheesh.

Because a Taurus is just a Pisces in a suit. LOL!
Okay maybe not, but Pisces, the women at least, make horrible choices when it comes to mates sometimes. The heart wants what the heart wants.


hell no lol the chat room starts to go bad and all the fishies swim away. i stay for the fireworks. pisces and taurus are very different. taurus out zen zenmasters. pisces need piss free ponds.
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like buddha. super zen taurus.
Posted by anonymousheart
Posted by ScorpioFish
Okay, Bulls.
This is really for Taurus girls.
Not all of you are this bad, but what is up with Taurus girls who are easily brainwashed and manioulated by bad people? And then when you are under the complete control of monsters, you become angry and ugly when confronted by those who speak the truth and attempt to make you see the error and fallacy of your decisions and the idiots and assholes you are attached to?
Seriously, not all of you are bad. But some of you girls seem to magnetize to shitbags, and you seem interested in death before detachment.
Weirdos.


It's the same for guys my dear. YOU NAILED IT. From what I noticed Taurus likes to see the silver lining and lives in a cloudy dream when it comes to people's flaws they are close to. The truth tellers are the ones that are rejected, or seen through suspicious eyes. It's kind of sad, very annoying- and I'm right there with you.....
I've come to the conclusion that Taurus's are suckers.
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Can't argue with that, but when we act partial and speak the truth people get offended like we're about to rape them. What is it with you people and what is it with us? =p
Posted by ScorpioFish
Okay, Bulls.
This is really for Taurus girls.
Not all of you are this bad, but what is up with Taurus girls who are easily brainwashed and manioulated by bad people? And then when you are under the complete control of monsters, you become angry and ugly when confronted by those who speak the truth and attempt to make you see the error and fallacy of your decisions and the idiots and assholes you are attached to?
Seriously, not all of you are bad. But some of you girls seem to magnetize to shitbags, and you seem interested in death before detachment.
Weirdos.


Are you sure it's not their Venus at work here or possibly that *wonderful* (note the sarcasm) aspect of Venus square Neptune?..I haven't known many Tauri women to allow themselves to be brainwashed or manipulated easily..I know with me personally I can see blatant manipulation from a mile away and I wonder if the person is being this obvious on purpose or do they really think they're doing something here? A lot of times if it's something little I'll let it go and won't say anything..but if it's an ongoing thing then I'll call them out on it.
Posted by ScorpioFish

Not all of you are this bad, but what is up with Taurus girls who are easily brainwashed and manioulated by bad people? And then when you are under the complete control of monsters, you become angry and ugly when confronted by those who speak the truth and attempt to make you see the error and fallacy of your decisions and the idiots and assholes you are attached to?


Depends on age and maturity.
I can spot a Bullshitter with my eyes closed.
My choices are based on my gut instinct. If I have a good feeling about this individual, then I proceed to move slowly...with interest....but still connecting the dots....
I can't speak for all Bulls...just myself....I'm not easily brainwashed.
Would I get upset if it was brought to my attention?
Well, you better bring some evidence, tangent, concrete proof!
I don't vouch for outsiders as much as much as I do for the individuals in my inner circle.
-Taurus Sun, Gemini Moon, Aqua Rising, Aries Venus.
"Well, you better bring some evidence, tangent, concrete proof!"

Otherwise it will be rationalizing all the way from a bull.
You say you proceed based on gut instinct, but need concrete proof from other people, also proceeding on their GUT instincts. Do as I say, not as I do, no?

I smell some bull..
Posted by anonymousheart
"Well, you better bring some evidence, tangent, concrete proof!"

Otherwise it will be rationalizing all the way from a bull.
You say you proceed based on gut instinct, but need concrete proof from other people, also proceeding on their GUT instincts. Do as I say, not as I do, no?

I smell some bull..


If I have a good feeling about this individual, then I move with them gradually, but still keep my eyes open, until I'm able to fully trust them...this is when I allow this person in my inner circle.
My best friend SAG (friends for 24 years), Creditable person. Creditable source.
I have the same approach in regards to relationships.
This means once the individual has proven themselves trustworthy...I can vouch for them.
I don't trust too many people. I'm quite private actually. I can only vouch for people who are close to me.
Everyone else, are virtual strangers.
If an 'outsider' is attempting to prove otherwise (for someone I have already vouched for), you better bring some proof.
So, no....
No Bull.
True story.
There is a lot more to be learned about Bulls than what is divulged in the zodiac.
Slow-moving doesn't indicate naivety, indecisivesness, or confusion.
But caution, alertness, tactfulness, and perseverance.
This is where the confusion comes in for most people.
We're fixed signs. No restless disposition. We will ask the Who...What...How...When...Where...on the road to assessing an individual, we're just not easily distracted... we're focused...and reading you... and reading you...and reading you...YES...even if you think we're not paying attention...Do not let our silence fool you...we're always watching... actively listening...and paying attention.
Anonymousheart....
If you have any reservations about anyone in your life (friend, family, partner)....
Ask a Bull to assess this individual. I bet you their asseseement will be more spot on than yours.
As quiet as this Bull may appear to be, they will provide a mouthful in dissecting an individual.
I'm no speaking on behalf of all Bulls, just myself, my family members, friends, and the Bulls I have interacted with outside my circle.
Posted by MintSprinkles

I haven't known many Tauri women to allow themselves to be brainwashed or manipulated easily..I know with me personally I can see blatant manipulation from a mile away and I wonder if the person is being this obvious on purpose or do they really think they're doing something here?


This^^^^^^^is applicable to me!
Posted by TaurusBull1977
There is a lot more to be learned about Bulls than what is divulged in the zodiac.
Slow-moving doesn't indicate naivety, indecisivesness, or confusion.
But caution, alertness, tactfulness, and perseverance.
This is where the confusion comes in for most people.
We're fixed signs. No restless disposition. We will ask the Who...What...How...When...Where...on the road to assessing an individual, we're just not easily distracted... we're focused...and reading you... and reading you...and reading you...YES...even if you think we're not paying attention...Do not let our silence fool you...we're always watching... actively listening...and paying attention.
Anonymousheart....
If you have any reservations about anyone in your life (friend, family, partner)....
Ask a Bull to assess this individual. I bet you their asseseement will be more spot on than yours.
As quiet as this Bull may appear to be, they will provide a mouthful in dissecting an individual.


Sadly this isn't true for my bull. He IS naive, and not a great judge of character. However, I feel his innocence protects him, because he is so sweet, he does tend to bring the best out in people. So it's almost like his assessments are correct, just not from a whole perspective. As his mother says, "He has no intuition." It's very true. If I want to know about someone, I just ask my Scorpio friend. She's way more observant that any bull any day of the week..
"Then we pop up like Surprise!"
Well that bit's true..
Posted by anonymousheart
Posted by TaurusBull1977
There is a lot more to be learned about Bulls than what is divulged in the zodiac.
Slow-moving doesn't indicate naivety, indecisivesness, or confusion.
But caution, alertness, tactfulness, and perseverance.
This is where the confusion comes in for most people.
We're fixed signs. No restless disposition. We will ask the Who...What...How...When...Where...on the road to assessing an individual, we're just not easily distracted... we're focused...and reading you... and reading you...and reading you...YES...even if you think we're not paying attention...Do not let our silence fool you...we're always watching... actively listening...and paying attention.
Anonymousheart....
If you have any reservations about anyone in your life (friend, family, partner)....
Ask a Bull to assess this individual. I bet you their asseseement will be more spot on than yours.
As quiet as this Bull may appear to be, they will provide a mouthful in dissecting an individual.


Sadly this isn't true for my bull. He IS naive, and not a great judge of character. However, I feel his innocence protects him, because he is so sweet, he does tend to bring the best out in people. So it's almost like his assessments are correct, just not from a whole perspective. As his mother says, "He has no intuition." It's very true. If I want to know about someone, I just ask my Scorpio friend. She's way more observant that any bull any day of the week..
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That's some nice generalizations you've got going on there...
Well I'll speak for MYSELF..but I'm always the one in the group accused of being a "hater" because I may get a "funny" feeling about a person and vocalize my concern that the person is either shady or there is just something about them I don't like..I'm usually met with "oh she's fine, you're just being a hater blah, blah, blah" Welp like clock work..1 month, maybe 2-3 mos later.."omg girl you were SOOO right about such and such..that bitch *insert fucked up thing they did*. I've always had the gift of being able to read people..I've had a guy accuse me of practicing vodoo..told me I "knew" too much and I "scared" him...
Yea, so what was that again about bulls not being very observant? smile
Posted by robyn808
And Taurus influence doesn't make people suckers. It doesn't cover our eyes in wool.
You forget that Taurus has the strength of a bull. They can often balance a heavier load on their backs, for quite a while before it ever gets close to breaking. And because of this we often take on the burdens that others cant handle.
Each sign serves a purpose, has a specific set of jobs, you may not understand it but it doesn't mean that its not important.


THIS so much...
I didn't mean to generalize...but I have observed this in many Bulls including myself...smile
Some people seem to equate :
slow moving = stupid
vouching for people who do not hide their true nature with us = having no intuition.
Huge misconception....
The individuals in my inner circle will come with flaws, but I can guarantee you they will not be phonies, liars, or backstabbers.
Posted by robyn808

And they gravitate to people who are true to themselves, people who seem to keep it real. So who ever they are, how ever they are we don't try to judge them so much...


This is the only way I would allow an individual in my inner circle...
Posted by ScorpioFish
Seriously.
My bull has no interest in ever, ever letting go of her relationship with this psychopath crapricorn.
That "c@nt" crapricorn she calls her "friend" has done the following to her:
1.) Left my Taurus sitting at an airport pick-up zone while she was drinking beer at the pool. This was after she promised to pick her up.
2.) Acting like a disrespectful little wh@re to her in a bar because my Taurus didn't have any cigarettes. The little C@NT was so rude to my bull that a perfect stranger chimed in with, "Are you sure that you two are friends? She has no right to speak to you two like that at all." I know, dude. I know.
3.) Fucked about 40 guys this year. This is in addition to the 30 or so she fucked last year. I keep telling my bull to be careful not to drink out of the same glass as that nasty pig. I don't want to ultimately catch God only knows what that skank has by proxy.
4.) Crashed around in the kitchen clanging pots and pans, stirring up their rat dogs to a barking frenzy and inviting random penis into the house at 3 AM after my bull specifically told the little wh.ore to be quiet since I had to get up at 5 AM for work with my students.
5.) The little wh.ore was out drinking and got a DUI after ramming head on into this innocent dude on his way home from work at 2 AM one night. She totalled both his car and her car, messed him up and then the little sh!t lied to the police and refused a breathalizer test from them. She then got some slick lawyer, and got away with the whole thing.
6.) I could go on about this little POS, but I am just tired and frustrated from talking about it.
Why do you bulls cling so bitterly to @ssholes like this pig? Seriously, why????
That wh@re isn't her friend. She's a "friend" of convenience at best, but seems to manipulate and use her.


Hmm maybe there is an aspect to that relationship you just don't see, we always have our reasons... Your right though, the friend does sound like Satan's pawn but for some reason your friend is attached. Have you ever asked your friend why? Put all the bullshit aside, sit her down, let her know your honestly confused as to why she keeps her around... Although you may not get the answer that you were looking for, that's a good place to start. Also I dunno about all Taureans but as much as I agree with the gravitating towards people w
who are true to themselves, we also have a soft spot for those who are misunderstood, the underdog, the troubled one, the quiet shy kid, we kinda or atleast I want to be the stronghold for them to come back to their senses, and maybe that's the part that your not seeing with those two? we cant be vuneralbe with just anyone they have to be able to earn our trust and well...somehow she got it.
lol and just thought about how most of my best friends except for maybe two are three, we're the ones people (my mother included) would be against...but I stuck by them because I knew who they were and I knew they respected me as I am so I did the same and those relationships were always the strongest.
Also you can't approach a bull any which way number one... once a topic we dislike comes up we are guarded and depending how it goes we go in defense mood automatically. No one can say shit to me about the people I'm with... I can admit we may not always have the best judgment but we like to think we are a good judge in character and so we have to defend it. Could be a pride thing, or you can call it stubborn but it is what it isLaughing When the time comes for that relationship or chapter to end it will but until that time we are loyal.
Good feedback, bulls.
Question: Aside from sit her down and put her in defense mode about her asshole friend...
What would you do if the person you are with has a psychopath friend who cinstantly causes troubke for yiur relationship? Would you be okay with such sick behavior, or would you stuff his/her ass into a glass display case or what?
Posted by TaurusBull1977
I didn't mean to generalize...but I have observed this in many Bulls including myself...smile
Some people seem to equate :
slow moving = stupid
vouching for people who do not hide their true nature with us = having no intuition.
Huge misconception....
The individuals in my inner circle will come with flaws, but I can guarantee you they will not be phonies, liars, or backstabbers.


So true...my friends may seem like a mishmosh of all kinds of random people...haha they may seem too weird, too honest, too quirky, too brash, too quiet, too emotional, too cold... but they're real...I have no interest in being friends with people who can't be honest with themselves or others.
Posted by scorchedearth
just because someones boyfriend has no common sense or ability to read people doesn't mean we're all like that. what a fucking idiot.
our loyalty is very strong and sometimes we stay longer than we should for that reason but that doesn't mean we don't *see* the problem. we just try to work through it. sometimes that doesn't work out for us. that doesn't mean we're a bunch of morons who can't see what's going on around us. give me a fucking break.


Haha Yea you're also really polite and tactful with words too...
Really, I'm super impressed.
Posted by Carlikins
Also you can't approach a bull any which way number one... once a topic we dislike comes up we are guarded and depending how it goes we go in defense mood automatically. No one can say shit to me about the people I'm with... I can admit we may not always have the best judgment but we like to think we are a good judge in character and so we have to defend it. Could be a pride thing, or you can call it stubborn but it is what it isLaughing When the time comes for that relationship or chapter to end it will but until that time we are loyal.


this is very valid advice. thanks for sharing that in a calm way without heat. i respect that. definitely if you come with heat they will turn from you on an issue they might receive with grace if you were less emotional. it is a pride thing, but also a defense of not liking to fight, and just not understanding that type of personality. i'd imagine it also just hurts them, bc they are so sensitive, so it's rejected straight out the gate.
In relationship if I felt it was completely mine and all on the level idgaf who you are..that would be on blast. My man would be my choice and if someone was slandering essentially my choice and calling my judgment into question they'd have a cage match on their hands.
Not that I wouldn't listen to someone's honest opinions from a well meaning place or poo poo their feelings BUT! If someone was out to stir shit purely for its own sake they'd be put in their place.
fin
Taurus Sun, Aries Moon and Mercury, Pisces Venus.
Ya heard.

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