Taurus guy acting so strange!!

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by fishNchips on Saturday, November 4, 2017 and has 5 replies.
Okay I’m a Pisces sun (22) & gay as fuck & he’s a closet gay Taurus (19). It all started in August 2017, I met him in class & we hit it off there. I asked him where he lived & he talked about having no one & he wants someone to cuddle with, I was like “oookay” . Tbh I was stalking him on Facebook but I didn’t know he was the same guy. Over the weekend I was thinking of telling him that I like him, my mars is in Leo, I’m fucking impatient, if I like you I will tell! So I told him I like him & he’s mood changed, he said he’s pansexual which is some bullshit! & that he’s seeing someone on Instagram, seriously? But he agreed to our “date”. The next Thursday he told me he can’t make it he’s busy that weekend. Then I tried for weeks but he’s ALWAYS making excuses not to be alone with me. On the other hand he’s been liking my pictures on Instagram since we met, not all of them, he’s the first one to like them. One time I posted a shirtless picture & he liked it. He’s so weird but I like him a lot! One time he stared at me until I said hi, at an empty classroom where I usually sit. It was not the first time, he did catch me one time being alone in the same classroom he greeted then he left fast. I showed him but artwork on deviantArt which was by far my strangest creepiest artwork, yet he didn’t say anything about it. Recently he selectively liked my pictures mostly my vartistic ones & a cartoon video of me saying I’m in love. That day we had a chat & it turned south after I suggested we should go out for ice cream, he said he wanted something fattier, then I said let’s get two large pizzas for us each then he didn’t reply but he did like my pics the same day. The last time I saw him he gave me a strange look he hugged me introduced me to his friend then he “fled” with his friend like I was nothing! So today he added me as friends on Snapchat & don’t know what to do I’m still interested in him (even if it’s been 3 months) but he’s so confusing & he comes & flees a lot. When is he going to tell me the truth about he’s feelings towards me or should I tell him I like him? EVEN IF ITS SO OBVIOUS! I’m giving him the end of this year then I think I’ll move on but I genuinely still like him so much!!
Thanks for nothing motherfuckers
As the proud partner of a formerly-straight-now-something-else Virgo man, the first thing I can tell you with 100% certainty is to NOT give earth signs ultimatums. Especially closeted gay ones. Rushing them is the best way to lose them forever.


I worked hard for 4 years to get us where we are today, and even then there was no guarantee. Up until 10 months ago I believed that me + him = NEVER gonna happen even if hell froze over. But the way I did it is by being the best friend I could possibly be and never push him into doing something he didn't want to do. No strings attached. In the end HE came to me.


Stop being obsessed with what you want, and look at it from his point of view for a change. A good first step is to show him this vid from our own @Taurusinshania


I agree with the ultimatums.. Im not a gay an but 95% of my male friends are gay and what I have learned from them is if he's in the closet, he's in the closet! He's not yet ready, and you expecting something from him will get you no where. He needs to come terms to who he is and what he wants first. I wouldn't get my hopes up... I would just be his friend and thats it. Many of my male friends end up in star crossed relationship when they fall for someone that isn't ready to come out of the closet yet. My advice is let it go while you're ahead
Posted by fishNchips
(even if it’s been 3 months)
Seriously now? 3 months are nothing for a Taurus. I have known my Taurus for a year & he hasn't spelled that he likes me yet. Be patient.


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