Posted by DeleterNerdHahaha u know mee. Too bad since I deleted him on snapchat, though I have him on instagram and another app, I accidentaly opened his snapchat story and I was totally ignoring him so I deleted him and since my snapchat is open for everyone to see when I put something on story he can see what I put on my snapchat since yesterday and he doesn’t want to open my story I realize till today. Since he’s been on snap and instagram-.- And this is till he gets in touch w me and lower his ego. They aren’t jealous types in the beginning I feel like so that makes me more comfortable since i’m all about freedom. We have those intellectual conversations and I miss him being in my city. But I realize I can make him jealous even without trying. Since he’s shown me that he gets jealous but when it’s not meant to make him feel that way it’s usually a missunderstanding..
Next time just say haha alright my bad then send another in a week. Do what aries are best at and feign forgetfulness "oh babe, sorry I forgot. You know me, so forgetful"
Posted by The_Mad_H8RYeah!! Maybe maybe not but he tells me that i’m not direct and honest with communicating my thoughts and feelings and I tell him why don’t u ever ask me? Since i’m the opposite of what he observes and indicates alot of times. If he’s the one feeling that i’m not direct and that I don’t communicate my feelings and thoughts it means he’s been thinking about it after we last met.. I gotts be honest I have too but why make things complicated u know.. we should go on as friends. Why make things complicated? Friends sounds better than for example friends w benefits or trying to make a relationship outta it or even try to ignore each other till our contact doesnt exist no more..
My guess would be he's being territorial.
Probably more of a "hey other guys Watching this.... she has me.. she mine" kinda thing. Also letting you know that he likes you. Not sure how old you are but this sounds like something I'd have done in my teens.
Posted by DeleterNerdBut what if what he wrote wasn’t about jealousy but just that he actually thinks that I try too hard to impress which is not true? If me and him finally discuss this do you think he’ll admit to being jealous if that’s what it is about? I forgot to tell u guys that when I did a video on snap of me lipsyncing and dancing I filmed the barbeque party and the guys at the party to show people around I guess. (we were 2 girls and 4-5 guys. Does that give more reason for it to be true, that he got jealous? 🌹
Yeah but he called her a tryhard even though he was just being possessive lol. He deserves to be messed with a little.
Posted by The_Mad_H8RDefinitely not. He knows about the circumstance and he also knows that I take him more as a friend than a guy I could date due to the circumstance with distance. And it’s not like I feel interested the whole time we spend with each other. I just go with the flow, act myself and act as a friend u know u gotta have ur limits.. I don’t wanna get him all headfucked but I feel headfucked by the situation too so.. but otherwise sure, he is interesting to me and I kinda miss him rn.Posted by JJ4568
Friends, cuz I think strategy due to the circumstance. But he has my attention also.
Have you made that clear? Are you trying to string him along? click to expandclick to expand
Posted by JJ4568Aries are known to be try hards.Posted by DeleterNerd
Yeah but he called her a tryhard even though he was just being possessive lol. He deserves to be messed with a little.
But what if what he wrote wasn’t about jealousy but just that he actually thinks that I try too hard to impress which is not true? If me and him finally discuss this do you think he’ll admit to being jealous if that’s what it is about? I forgot to tell u guys that when I did a video on snap of me lipsyncing and dancing I filmed the barbeque party and the guys at the party to show people around I guess. (we were 2 girls and 4-5 guys. Does that give more reason for it to be true, that he got jealous? 🌹 click to expandclick to expand
Posted by DeleterNerdTo tell him I understand where he’s coming from and tell him I got u that’s me all the way. And i’ll tell him to be more open and learn to discuss without getting all sensitive and start a fight.. I hate drama myself but why do you guys think that he also wrote that we shouldn’t snap each other like send each other whatever furthur forward but only call each other or text if we wanna talk?Posted by JJ4568Posted by DeleterNerd
Yeah but he called her a tryhard even though he was just being possessive lol. He deserves to be messed with a little.
But what if what he wrote wasn’t about jealousy but just that he actually thinks that I try too hard to impress which is not true? If me and him finally discuss this do you think he’ll admit to being jealous if that’s what it is about? I forgot to tell u guys that when I did a video on snap of me lipsyncing and dancing I filmed the barbeque party, some guys. Does that give more reason for it to be true, that he got jealous? 🌹 click to expand
Dont use the word jealousy. For some reason that word makes taurs put up a wall. Use possessive. But he was definitely just being jealous lol. If you want him to be happy, then talk about it in a way that makes it seem like you understand where he was coming from if you do... click to expandclick to expand
Posted by DMVSure! But not in this case that’s why I asked to get more point of views.Posted by JJ4568Posted by DeleterNerd
Yeah but he called her a tryhard even though he was just being possessive lol. He deserves to be messed with a little.
But what if what he wrote wasn’t about jealousy but just that he actually thinks that I try too hard to impress which is not true? If me and him finally discuss this do you think he’ll admit to being jealous if that’s what it is about? I forgot to tell u guys that when I did a video on snap of me lipsyncing and dancing I filmed the barbeque party and the guys at the party to show people around I guess. (we were 2 girls and 4-5 guys. Does that give more reason for it to be true, that he got jealous? 🌹 click to expand
Aries are known to be try hards.
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Posted by DeleterNerdPosted by JJ4568Posted by DeleterNerdPosted by JJ4568Posted by DeleterNerd
Yeah but he called her a tryhard even though he was just being possessive lol. He deserves to be messed with a little.
But what if what he wrote wasn’t about jealousy but just that he actually thinks that I try too hard to impress which is not true? If me and him finally discuss this do you think he’ll admit to being jealous if that’s what it is about? I forgot to tell u guys that when I did a video on snap of me lipsyncing and dancing I filmed the barbeque party, some guys. Does that give more reason for it to be true, that he got jealous? 🌹 click to expand
Dont use the word jealousy. For some reason that word makes taurs put up a wall. Use possessive. But he was definitely just being jealous lol. If you want him to be happy, then talk about it in a way that makes it seem like you understand where he was coming from if you do... click to expand
To tell him I understand where he’s coming from and tell him I got u that’s me all the way. And i’ll tell him to be more open and learn to discuss without getting all sensitive and start a fight.. I hate drama myself but why do you guys think that he also wrote that we shouldn’t snap each other like send each other whatever furthur forward but only call each other or text if we wanna talk? click to expand
He's probably not talking to you right now because you actually deleted him. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by The_Mad_H8RI already told him, several of times but he gets that I like him too so..Posted by JJ4568Posted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by JJ4568
Friends, cuz I think strategy due to the circumstance. But he has my attention also.
Have you made that clear? Are you trying to string him along? click to expand
Definitely not. He knows about the circumstance and he also knows that I take him more as a friend than a guy I could date due to the circumstance with distance. And it’s not like I feel interested the whole time we spend with each other. I just go with the flow, act myself and act as a friend u know u gotta have ur limits.. I don’t wanna get him all headtreetrunked but I feel headtreetrunked by the situation too so.. but otherwise sure, he is interesting to me and I kinda miss him rn. click to expand
Make sure he understands exactly where you guys stand and what you want in the future. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by MoonshineLeoMhm.. I don’t know what to do but i’m gonna try to discuss this behaviour with him and I get him but he has to get me in this situation. Also get the circumstance of it.
I dont think being more than friends is possible for him, look at how hes acting already sounds like a headache
Posted by The_Mad_H8RExcately. Me too but i’m trying to be more realistic and go with the flow, while he’s here bugging.Posted by JJ4568
That’s the thing. He thinks he can observe me and think he read my mind just because he observed me in his own way. Doesnt have to mean that he is right tho😓
I'd guess he's looking for patterns of stability. Something to build on. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by DeleterNerdPosted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by DeleterNerdPosted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by DeleterNerdPosted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by JJ4568Posted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by JJ4568
Friends, cuz I think strategy due to the circumstance. But he has my attention also.
Have you made that clear? Are you trying to string him along? click to expand
Definitely not. He knows about the circumstance and he also knows that I take him more as a friend than a guy I could date due to the circumstance with distance. And it’s not like I feel interested the whole time we spend with each other. I just go with the flow, act myself and act as a friend u know u gotta have ur limits.. I don’t wanna get him all headtreetrunked but I feel headtreetrunked by the situation too so.. but otherwise sure, he is interesting to me and I kinda miss him rn. click to expand
Make sure he understands exactly where you guys stand and what you want in the future. click to expand
Do virgos do that? Or do we expect people to read our minds? click to expand
Haha it depends. Can be very forward or be very moody and you have to read their minds. It's a crap shoot click to expand
Yes! So do taurs need reassurance when we're being the latter? Other signs will just ask for it from us, but tauruses dont really. click to expand
It definitely wouldn't hurt. click to expand
Last question: but do they kind of give up or lose interest if you dont? click to expand
Are you asking if they can go from love interest to friends? I would think so. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by JJ4568Posted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by JJ4568
That’s the thing. He thinks he can observe me and think he read my mind just because he observed me in his own way. Doesnt have to mean that he is right tho😓
I'd guess he's looking for patterns of stability. Something to build on. click to expand
Excately. Me too but i’m trying to be more realistic and go with the flow, while he’s here bugging. click to expand
He's tryna figure out where you guys truly stand. Sounds like you're not sure yourself and are kinda giving mixed signals. That's my take. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by JJ4568Posted by MoonshineLeo
I dont think being more than friends is possible for him, look at how hes acting already sounds like a headache
Mhm.. I don’t know what to do but i’m gonna try to discuss this behaviour with him and I get him but he has to get me in this situation. Also get the circumstance of it. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by JJ4568
That’s the thing. He thinks he can observe me and think he read my mind just because he observed me in his own way. Doesnt have to mean that he is right tho😓
I'd guess he's looking for patterns of stability. Something to build on. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by JJ4568
That’s the thing. He thinks he can observe me and think he read my mind just because he observed me in his own way. Doesnt have to mean that he is right tho😓
I'd guess he's looking for patterns of stability. Something to build on. click to expand
How is he building but wants to limit contact with her? yea not buying this click to expand
He's texting and calling. How is he not communicating? He's trying to get her alone for a better read. It's common sense really. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by The_Mad_H8RYeah haha!Posted by JJ4568
Yeah but it’s not like we can’t send each other memes or watch each others storys on insta or snap.. But at the moment we don’t talk. We haven’t spoken since friday.
It’s complicated for both of us and it does make sense that he wants to not be in contact on snapchat since we send stuff of what we’re doing almost everyday, and since he’s on my bestfriendslist I send stuff to him too, I also send stuff cuz I wanna share what i’m doing with him.
That's hard though, like being hungry and having steak put in your face but can't eat. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by JJ4568
That’s the thing. He thinks he can observe me and think he read my mind just because he observed me in his own way. Doesnt have to mean that he is right tho😓
I'd guess he's looking for patterns of stability. Something to build on. click to expand
How is he building but wants to limit contact with her? yea not buying this click to expand
He's texting and calling. How is he not communicating? He's trying to get her alone for a better read. It's common sense really. click to expand
he said "we should only text or call" key word ONLY, is that not a red flag? hes making things wayyy too complicated. click to expand
How is he making it complicated? He's saying there are a million people looking at your snaps.. lets talk privately.. she likes him he likes her but situation complicated.. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by JJ4568
That’s the thing. He thinks he can observe me and think he read my mind just because he observed me in his own way. Doesnt have to mean that he is right tho😓
I'd guess he's looking for patterns of stability. Something to build on. click to expand
How is he building but wants to limit contact with her? yea not buying this click to expand
He's texting and calling. How is he not communicating? He's trying to get her alone for a better read. It's common sense really. click to expand
he said "we should only text or call" key word ONLY, is that not a red flag? hes making things wayyy too complicated. click to expand
It's exactly what DMs. Were invented for. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by The_Mad_H8RThat’s how situations can be. Me and him, were getting to the straight to the point part, so till then that’s all we’ve got.Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by JJ4568
That’s the thing. He thinks he can observe me and think he read my mind just because he observed me in his own way. Doesnt have to mean that he is right tho😓
I'd guess he's looking for patterns of stability. Something to build on. click to expand
How is he building but wants to limit contact with her? yea not buying this click to expand
He's texting and calling. How is he not communicating? He's trying to get her alone for a better read. It's common sense really. click to expand
he said "we should only text or call" key word ONLY, is that not a red flag? hes making things wayyy too complicated. click to expand
How is he making it complicated? He's saying there are a million people looking at your snaps.. lets talk privately.. she likes him he likes her but situation complicated.. click to expand
You're ASSUMING that though he didnt say that... and if you're a guy who does this then you need to grow up. Ladies like men who are straight to the point. click to expand
Have you read this thread? There is nothing straight to the point about any if it click to expandclick to expand
Posted by tizianiExcately. People have their own minds and understandings. That’s what communication is for, that’s the key and we will get there.Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by JJ4568
That’s the thing. He thinks he can observe me and think he read my mind just because he observed me in his own way. Doesnt have to mean that he is right tho😓
I'd guess he's looking for patterns of stability. Something to build on. click to expand
How is he building but wants to limit contact with her? yea not buying this click to expand
He's texting and calling. How is he not communicating? He's trying to get her alone for a better read. It's common sense really. click to expand
he said "we should only text or call" key word ONLY, is that not a red flag? hes making things wayyy too complicated. click to expand
??
if anything that's making it simpler.
This looks like that weird territory men and women see things totally different. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by tizianiPosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by JJ4568
That’s the thing. He thinks he can observe me and think he read my mind just because he observed me in his own way. Doesnt have to mean that he is right tho😓
I'd guess he's looking for patterns of stability. Something to build on. click to expand
How is he building but wants to limit contact with her? yea not buying this click to expand
He's texting and calling. How is he not communicating? He's trying to get her alone for a better read. It's common sense really. click to expand
he said "we should only text or call" key word ONLY, is that not a red flag? hes making things wayyy too complicated. click to expand
??
if anything that's making it simpler.
This looks like that weird territory men and women see things totally different. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by tizianiPosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by tizianiPosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by JJ4568
That’s the thing. He thinks he can observe me and think he read my mind just because he observed me in his own way. Doesnt have to mean that he is right tho😓
I'd guess he's looking for patterns of stability. Something to build on. click to expand
How is he building but wants to limit contact with her? yea not buying this click to expand
He's texting and calling. How is he not communicating? He's trying to get her alone for a better read. It's common sense really. click to expand
he said "we should only text or call" key word ONLY, is that not a red flag? hes making things wayyy too complicated. click to expand
??
if anything that's making it simpler.
This looks like that weird territory men and women see things totally different. click to expand
this girl was just having fun in her snap and hes like noooo you cant be fun, block! lol
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No doubt he's been a baby about some of it.
But ultimately it just sounds like he's trying to not mix up their relationship with snapchat if it's just going to cause grief for both. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by tizianiLol u got it all wrong, u think u some sort of behaviour psychologist tho? 😂 I won’t explain myself since this comment makes me realize that some people only understand with their level of perception so i’m being cautious 🌹
It looks to me like both of you are trying to prove something that isn't worth proving.
He reacted like a prick to your video, obviously out of insecurity.
And others are right, it's no point trying to get anyone, Taurus or any sign, to try and face their own bad reactions when they're not ready to be honest about why.
But instead of just letting it slide and working towards what's good about you both, you are more concerned with getting him to keep his pants down with his vulnerabilities. In the end he will only resent you for that.
Posted by tizianiExcately, and I can respect that. I could just start thinking before sending him stuff now that I get it. I respect his vulnerability since if it was reversal of roles I would feel the same way but just act on it better than he did. The circumstance makes us the most confused. I wish he lived near me haha..Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by tizianiPosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by JJ4568
That’s the thing. He thinks he can observe me and think he read my mind just because he observed me in his own way. Doesnt have to mean that he is right tho😓
I'd guess he's looking for patterns of stability. Something to build on. click to expand
How is he building but wants to limit contact with her? yea not buying this click to expand
He's texting and calling. How is he not communicating? He's trying to get her alone for a better read. It's common sense really. click to expand
he said "we should only text or call" key word ONLY, is that not a red flag? hes making things wayyy too complicated. click to expand
??
if anything that's making it simpler.
This looks like that weird territory men and women see things totally different. click to expand
this girl was just having fun in her snap and hes like noooo you cant be fun, block! lol
click to expand
No doubt he's been a baby about some of it.
But ultimately it just sounds like he's trying to not mix up their relationship with snapchat if it's just going to cause grief for both. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by tizianiNo he didn’t.Posted by JJ4568Posted by tizianiPosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by JJ4568
That’s the thing. He thinks he can observe me and think he read my mind just because he observed me in his own way. Doesnt have to mean that he is right tho😓
I'd guess he's looking for patterns of stability. Something to build on. click to expand
How is he building but wants to limit contact with her? yea not buying this click to expand
He's texting and calling. How is he not communicating? He's trying to get her alone for a better read. It's common sense really. click to expand
he said "we should only text or call" key word ONLY, is that not a red flag? hes making things wayyy too complicated. click to expand
??
if anything that's making it simpler.
This looks like that weird territory men and women see things totally different. click to expand
Excately. People have their own minds and understandings. That’s what communication is for, that’s the key and we will get there. click to expand
Did he make you worry that he might turn controlling or something? I feel like you gotta let some things slide. But fair enough. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by tiziani😊😓 what to do what to do.Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by tizianiPosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by tizianiPosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by JJ4568
That’s the thing. He thinks he can observe me and think he read my mind just because he observed me in his own way. Doesnt have to mean that he is right tho😓
I'd guess he's looking for patterns of stability. Something to build on. click to expand
How is he building but wants to limit contact with her? yea not buying this click to expand
He's texting and calling. How is he not communicating? He's trying to get her alone for a better read. It's common sense really. click to expand
he said "we should only text or call" key word ONLY, is that not a red flag? hes making things wayyy too complicated. click to expand
??
if anything that's making it simpler.
This looks like that weird territory men and women see things totally different. click to expand
this girl was just having fun in her snap and hes like noooo you cant be fun, block! lol
click to expand
No doubt he's been a baby about some of it.
But ultimately it just sounds like he's trying to not mix up their relationship with snapchat if it's just going to cause grief for both. click to expand
understandable but the point is hes going about it totally wrong, its diminishing the connection now op is all paranoid. that sucks click to expand
I can't argue with that. The joys of miscommunication lol click to expandclick to expand
Posted by tizianiSounded more as a statement to me.Posted by JJ4568Posted by tiziani
It looks to me like both of you are trying to prove something that isn't worth proving.
He reacted like a prick to your video, obviously out of insecurity.
And others are right, it's no point trying to get anyone, Taurus or any sign, to try and face their own bad reactions when they're not ready to be honest about why.
But instead of just letting it slide and working towards what's good about you both, you are more concerned with getting him to keep his pants down with his vulnerabilities. In the end he will only resent you for that.
Lol u got it all wrong, u think u some sort of behaviour psychologist tho? 😂 I won’t explain myself since this comment makes me realize that some people only understand with their level of perception so i’m being cautious 🌹
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That's why I started off my post with "it looks to me like"
Because I don't want to make the time to write in longhand. Just getting to the point of what I see. If it's wrong it's wrong. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by MoonshineLeo🤯💔
Sucks when you feel like you cant be yourself around a guy you really like, as a aries moon i totally relate to this
Posted by JJ4568Posted by MoonshineLeo
Sucks when you feel like you cant be yourself around a guy you really like, as a aries moon i totally relate to this
🤯💔 click to expandclick to expand
Posted by MoonshineLeo20. Yeah I kinda get what u mean even tho thats what I already stand for but when u wrote that it sucks when you feel like you can’t be yourself around a guy you really like because of reasons u can’t do anything about. Even though we’re more like 90% ourselves w each other mixed with some goofyness I feel like those 10% is all this in this thread. There’s nothing to do about it so u gotta act all cool and have ur limits when it comes to staying friends. And that’s what hurt my heart a bit when I started thinking about that now.Posted by JJ4568Posted by MoonshineLeo
Sucks when you feel like you cant be yourself around a guy you really like, as a aries moon i totally relate to this
🤯💔 click to expand
Idk how old you are but as you get older you’ll know when to tone down your fire, a lot of people won’t like all that fire and you will have to simply respect that and send them on their way. Don’t change yourself the right person will like all of you even when you’re being extra lol chin up! click to expandclick to expand
Posted by JJ4568Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by JJ4568Posted by MoonshineLeo
Sucks when you feel like you cant be yourself around a guy you really like, as a aries moon i totally relate to this
🤯💔 click to expand
Idk how old you are but as you get older you’ll know when to tone down your fire, a lot of people won’t like all that fire and you will have to simply respect that and send them on their way. Don’t change yourself the right person will like all of you even when you’re being extra lol chin up! click to expand
20. Yeah I kinda get what u mean even tho thats what I already stand for but when u wrote that it sucks when you feel like you can’t be yourself around a guy you really like because of reasons u can’t do anything about. Even though we’re more like 90% ourselves w each other mixed with some goofyness I feel like those 10% is all this in this thread. There’s nothing to do about it so u gotta act all cool and have ur limits when it comes to staying friends. And that’s what hurt my heart a bit when I started thinking about that now. click to expandclick to expand
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