Taurus is getting philosphical? Is it good

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Mineral on Sunday, July 1, 2018 and has 13 replies.
I know this Taurus guy a year now, it all started when his friend(an other taurus) who was very good looking got rejected by me. Nothing happen between us as I was clear I had no interested in him. However his friend....

It's been months now that whenever it happen to see him around his eyes shine, when looking at me. I have been hoping he would be interested, and I recieved a fb request from him, he has been pretty philosophical with me. I'm attracted ho him because from the few times we have talked he seems like an intelligent guy.

We are flirting on the fb, he has not asked me out yet even thought I have been giving him the green light. Also he askes nothing personal about me, he just get super philosphical in any massage we sent. I wonder is it a good thing? How is it possible he makes no personal questions, about my life, dreams etc...

I'm a capricorn by the way. If that might help.

I forgot to add that when I ask him any question he answers superficially. I asked him what are his goals in life and he was like " If you have asked me few years ago I would have served you an different answer, it's important that we just follow what we want and have no regrets".

Hmmm.. what an answer!
I can go philosophical when I feel insecure about something personal, finances and stuff like that, also from the state of a relationship.

happened a lot when I was younger, like trying to impress with what I have mixed with inspiration from the other person, pure Transcendental verbal chaosLaughing
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Posted by Mineral
I know this Taurus guy a year now, it all started when his friend(an other taurus) who was very good looking got rejected by me. Nothing happen between us as I was clear I had no interested in him. However his friend....
It's been months now that whenever it happen to see him around his eyes shine, when looking at me. I have been hoping he would be interested, and I recieved a fb request from him, he has been pretty philosophical with me. I'm attracted ho him because from the few times we have talked he seems like an intelligent guy.
We are flirting on the fb, he has not asked me out yet even thought I have been giving him the green light. Also he askes nothing personal about me, he just get super philosphical in any massage we sent. I wonder is it a good thing? How is it possible he makes no personal questions, about my life, dreams etc...
I'm a capricorn by the way. If that might help.



Does he have a lot of Gemini placements? Our conversations are intellectually based, thats how we learn compatibility with our love interest. By learning your reaction speed, complexities, span of interests and ability to converse and keep up with us
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I don't have much information, I just know he is a Taurus.
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
You’re going to have to make it more obvious you’re interested. Compliment him on something, say you like hanging out with him.
Apart from that, is it a positive thing he is behaving this way?
Posted by Mineral
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
You’re going to have to make it more obvious you’re interested. Compliment him on something, say you like hanging out with him.


Apart from that, is it a positive thing he is behaving this way?
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does he behaves like that face to face?

otherwise I'd say no, verbal diarrhea can be a sign of insecurity.
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Posted by Mineral
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
You’re going to have to make it more obvious you’re interested. Compliment him on something, say you like hanging out with him.


Apart from that, is it a positive thing he is behaving this way?


It’s difficult to tell from what you wrote. We sometimes don’t like to answer personal questions and don’t like to intrude on others so don’t worry about him dodging those questions. He will answer when more comfortable. Do you hang out in real life? That’s a more reliable way to guess his interest and get him more comfortable around you.
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No we don't hang out together. The only reason we know each other is because of the attempt of his friend to get to know me. He greets me whenever he sees me around and I also do the same. Sometimes it gets awkward because while he is with his and I am with mine we are the only people to greet and smile at each other.

I have had friends ask me "Are you dating him?" "Whats happening with that guy" even before he would initiate contact.

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Posted by Mineral
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
You’re going to have to make it more obvious you’re interested. Compliment him on something, say you like hanging out with him.


Apart from that, is it a positive thing he is behaving this way?

does he behaves like that face to face?
otherwise I'd say no, verbal diarrhea can be a sign of insecurity.
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From his side: huge smile, shining eyes, he moves awkwardly and try to fix his hair when I'm around.
to be honest.....i dont think he is THAT serious.or he is just wayyyyyy more air

it just really doesnt sound like an earth sign. if they pursue you and reallllyyyyyyy want it.....you willknow

but like i said.....i think more air

or like anothertaurusguyreturns said......maybe you are not showing as much interest as you think and he feels like maybe you are not looking for more

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Posted by Endless
Posted by Mineral
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
You’re going to have to make it more obvious you’re interested. Compliment him on something, say you like hanging out with him.


Apart from that, is it a positive thing he is behaving this way?


does he behaves like that face to face?
otherwise I'd say no, verbal diarrhea can be a sign of insecurity.


From his side: huge smile, shining eyes, he moves awkwardly and try to fix his hair when I'm around.
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"he moves awkwardly and try to fix his hair when I'm around."

yeah sound like some sort nervousness and a little insecure too.

you know I got so nervous I actually kinda ruined a nice friendship once.

I got into tinder just so I could learn a little how to text " right" it took me a whileLaughing but I learnt a lot.

maybe he got the same problem, being so used to be a good speaker that now that he's nervous and texting he's all awkward instead.
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Posted by Mineral
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
You’re going to have to make it more obvious you’re interested. Compliment him on something, say you like hanging out with him.


Apart from that, is it a positive thing he is behaving this way?


does he behaves like that face to face?
otherwise I'd say no, verbal diarrhea can be a sign of insecurity.


From his side: huge smile, shining eyes, he moves awkwardly and try to fix his hair when I'm around.
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maybe this helps....

taurus needs to know you will put in what he/she does

so after a year....you CAN be more upfront

it may be scary but im afraid if you dont .......yupppp pen palls like taurus here said

maybe usefull: every effort he makes...top it with doing the same but just a little more then what he does

if he suggests something: raise his idea!!!

this way you wont feel like you are taking the risk of rejection which to be honest, is not what is gonna happen...if he is smitten with you?? cant tell to be honest.

not sure.....

but he is talking to you for a year

but if you wanna move forward

take that jump
heck!!!! i think you should ask him to meet up to be honest