Taurus ladies and Pisces men...any experiences?

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Carlikins on Saturday, November 23, 2013 and has 18 replies.
Reading a thread Dreamari posted and it had me thinking about my experience only reversed...
Soo My first relationship was with a Pisces guy. We dated for 10 months and it didn't work out, but there were a lot of signs it wouldn't, most of those signs he told me to expect since the beginning but me being a me thought those things might change... I'm not grouping all Pisces together, but I always thought Taurus and Pisces were compatible, we are with most water signs. I could never really tell how he actually felt about me (I need to know where I truly stand with a person and he just felt so vague) I can honestly say I was the most insecure one in the relationship since he was my first. It failed due to lack of compromise, communication and maybe a bit of understanding on both parts. I did try my best and I hate giving up on anything, but after awhile didn't seem like much would change so it was either stay and try to be all that he wanted or let it go and feel at peace with myself. Felt like I was losing myself trying to figure out what it was he wanted.
Does anyone (female Taurus especially)have a similar experience?
And has the pairing worked for anyone?
Another thing is after awhile it seemed to me like he was pushing me away, maybe not purposely but once I broke it off he said it wasn't what he expected. He was very good at confusing the shit out of me and contradicting himself...
Any insights on that, maybe a certain sign influence or that was just him as a person?
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My first relationship was with a Pisces. We met our senior year of HS. We didn't start dating until after graduation. We were inseparable and practically lived together. It was easy and fun. We just clicked. We understood each other well and had so much in common. Everyday was an adventure with him. We'd go to the beach at midnight and end up staying up all night and go watch the sunrise as we hiked through the hills. We were young and having fun. We never fought, i trusted him completely, and he always had my back. It was great for the first year. Then I had to move away. I was only a couple hrs away and we tried to make to work. At first it was okay but the distance just got to be to much. We both got busy with jobs and college. We'd see each other when we could, usually twice at week at least but it wasn't enough. He wanted more time and attention and eventually started looking for it elsewhere. The harder I tried to hold on to him the harder he pulled away. I had already lost him by then. After that he'd always come back wanting my attention after each break up with someone else until I had to tell him to stop. He still checks in with me every so often.
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I'll most def get back to you on my recent year long... Thing... With the only pisces man I've ever dated and he was a pisces moon cancer ascendant too lol
I don't have the energy to even figure out where to begin right now lol
But I too have heard (especially as a reminder from him lol) that the pair is generally favorable tho I'm still baffled as to see how...
I'm much more comfortable and fluid with scorpios and incredibly attracted by their intensity Winking
I WILL get back to you tho
-heather
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I??m an Aries woman and I dated a Pisces man for 2 years.
I was young, in high school, and hated the world (oh teenaged angst), so I escaped with him to his imaginary world. I remember we had very little conflicts???we couldn??t bear to fight with each other???and were like a dynamic duo. I had his back and he had mine. We hardly ever expressed our feelings to each other verbally, but through actions and deeds. Unfortunately, the older I got, the less I wanted to live in ???Lala Land?? and he wasn??t willing to face reality with me. I left him behind.
We??re still very good platonic friends. I know I can go back to him and it will be like I never left, but that??s the problem???he??s exactly where I left him. It depresses me to see him going nowhere.
My mother was born in the same week as him, and she??s perpetually stuck at 16-years-old. I??m not sure if this is a common Pisces problem or just a coincidence??_ But anyway, she dislikes confrontations too, and prefers to live in her own little world than deal with real issues and consequences. I??ve never learned the secret to getting through to them.
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Posted by raerain
I have my moon and mars in taurus and he has pisces moon and rising. It is what keeps us apart as well as bonds us at the same time.
He is an escapist, communication does not happen with him. We just have to feel each other out. We are deeply connected but at the same time I need to overlook so many things about him that makes me feel like a pushover.
He tells me I am the only girl that can handle him. He hates confrontation and usually smokes up to deal with his issues. We are very comfortable with each other but his unstable and inconsistent nature makes me feel very insecure at times.
A LOT of patience is needed with such guys.


Raerain you make a good point about needing to be able to feel one another out... Pisces have amazing empathic abilities and in-tune with their intuition, as for me I need to follow what I know, what I can see, touch, hear. He expected me to just know what he wanted or what he meant (be a mind reader...) and hated repeating himself.
I felt like I had to overlook a lot of things too and give him his way often but he refused to do the same for me...he is selfish said so himself but I didn't believe it tell I saw for myself. I can be a bit selfish at times myself most humans are but with people I care for I would always put myself last... I can be very patient and was during that time because the thought of breaking up entered my mind at least several times before I actually did, but once I felt like he didn't care, it' wasn't worth it and I'm wasting my time then there is just no point once I make up my mind...
So Question...
Would you stay with someone if u received no acknowledgment on or during your birthday or would it be a deal breaker?
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Posted by AbbyNormal
I'll most def get back to you on my recent year long... Thing... With the only pisces man I've ever dated and he was a pisces moon cancer ascendant too lol
I don't have the energy to even figure out where to begin right now lol
But I too have heard (especially as a reminder from him lol) that the pair is generally favorable tho I'm still baffled as to see how...
I'm much more comfortable and fluid with scorpios and incredibly attracted by their intensity Winking
I WILL get back to you tho
-heather



Oh lord, lol I understand the feeling completely, get back to me when that energy comes back Winking and I dunno if it's a Scorpio thing but every time I meet one I feel like there is underlaying sexual tensionLaughing I wonder if they know what they are doing or is it just physical attraction... But even the ones who I'm not that attracted too! Must be a gift... >_> could be just me too lol
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Pisces men = emotionally messy = ewww!
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Posted by raerain
continued...
He is very insecure and keeps testing me with his silly games.
But I am too bull headed to leave him and I know he cares. For now Tongue


Awws = ] I'm glad it's working out for you, I cared about him but he wasn't very reassuring and affectionate so at least you got some pros to balance out the cons!
My ex didn't forget my birthday...he knew. I was trying to make plans with him, he full out ignored me and when I did see him he wanted to discuss work issues never even brought it up... he is forgetful though, between him n I he's def worst lol. There are a list of wrong doings but...
That was the last straw for me,
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I agree 100% here with the vagueness, lack of expressing feelings. I dated a Pisces/Aries cusp for 2 and a half years and I was verbal w/him from the start. Year 1 started out really good and exciting and then it slowly began to fade. I always knew when he didn't feel like going out, doing anything - he would use his daughter as an excuse. He 'might' have her this weekend, sometimes I'd wonder if he'd even get her at all but whatevz, if you want to be by yourself I get it. And I wouldn't hear from him all weekend. But yet I noticed when he really would get her, he wanted to be with me all weekend, I helped him a lot w/her (she was 3 yrs old). Pattern here. We never fought, no drama whatsoever. After a while it got to me...while I don't want a r/s where we fight all the time, but at least I would know how you really felt about me. I was the one that would say my piece if something he did would piss me off. He would just say 'ok' and that was it. Really?!
He was selfish also. I knew the end was near around my bday dinner too. He didn't want to go because he 'didn't like' dinner parties. I'm thinking ok wth is up with that...that's when it began to sink in that maybe he didn't care for me as much as I did for him. Who knows but I too felt like I was being pushed away.
We got along great, had same sense of humor and laughed for days. But when reality set in, it was a very gray area and it left me feeling insecure and neglected. I think I'd prefer to be with someone that takes a more direct approach because just floating on thru drove me bananas. In the end I was the one that did him the favor of breaking it off. He wanted to remain friends but I just thought that was too weird...told him maybe later and he got mad. Once again, a gray area where I couldn't really understand that logic. FWB? I don't think so!
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Posted by MintSprinkles
Pisces men = emotionally messy = ewww!


Exactly. I think Pisces men are the most pathetically weak in all the zodiac
*not faithful
*don't want to work
*unfocused
*overdramatic
*prone to bullying

This appears to go against all Bull's principles...
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Posted by peaceloveandhappiness
I agree 100% here with the vagueness, lack of expressing feelings. I dated a Pisces/Aries cusp for 2 and a half years and I was verbal w/him from the start. Year 1 started out really good and exciting and then it slowly began to fade. I always knew when he didn't feel like going out, doing anything - he would use his daughter as an excuse. He 'might' have her this weekend, sometimes I'd wonder if he'd even get her at all but whatevz, if you want to be by yourself I get it. And I wouldn't hear from him all weekend. But yet I noticed when he really would get her, he wanted to be with me all weekend, I helped him a lot w/her (she was 3 yrs old). Pattern here. We never fought, no drama whatsoever. After a while it got to me...while I don't want a r/s where we fight all the time, but at least I would know how you really felt about me. I was the one that would say my piece if something he did would piss me off. He would just say 'ok' and that was it. Really?!
He was selfish also. I knew the end was near around my bday dinner too. He didn't want to go because he 'didn't like' dinner parties. I'm thinking ok wth is up with that...that's when it began to sink in that maybe he didn't care for me as much as I did for him. Who knows but I too felt like I was being pushed away.
We got along great, had same sense of humor and laughed for days. But when reality set in, it was a very gray area and it left me feeling insecure and neglected. I think I'd prefer to be with someone that takes a more direct approach because just floating on thru drove me bananas. In the end I was the one that did him the favor of breaking it off. He wanted to remain friends but I just thought that was too weird...told him maybe later and he got mad. Once again, a gray area where I couldn't really understand that logic. FWB? I don't think so!




Wow reminds me of my ex...
we just seemed to float on by. we had a lot of good days but after the first 3 months he always found something to say about me. I wouldn't say we had explosive arguments or many arguments at all but he was so critical on me. Afterwards I realized how manipulative he actually was and I just went with everything he said or wanted because I really wanted to be good to him like I thought a girlfriend should be but he was too unconventionally, very anti-social, didn't like a lot of things like yours, and
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and when he did something wrong never fessed up to it or even apologized...in the end everything was "my fault" anyway... In fact he rarely invited me out with him, but he also didn't go out much either, it was mostly pick/drop him off at work or home or pick up weed lol. He only took me out to his work place which I was fine with cus I knew his situation and I'm not the type of person who likes to force people to do things they don't want to do, and I don't care to be wined or dine as most woman (though it would be niiice lol).
I suggested we be friends afterLaughing and he basically used me again and then got mad over something that I had nothing to do with and said he was done with me period... then he called me, sent me mixed signals like "I was really upset and I miss you." but once I suggested us speaking more he said why? I asked him what he wanted from me and he said nothing and to stop calling as if I was calling his phone of the hook... I think it was his way of making it seem like he was ending it his own way.
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Posted by anonymousheart
Posted by MintSprinkles
Pisces men = emotionally messy = ewww!


Exactly. I think Pisces men are the most pathetically weak in all the zodiac
*not faithful
*don't want to work
*unfocused
*overdramatic
*prone to bullying

This appears to go against all Bull's principles...
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Completely wishy-washy... bulls need solid ground underneath them, with him it was like trying to walk on water literally, and there he was swimming around me in every which direction.
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Posted by anonymousheart
Posted by MintSprinkles
Pisces men = emotionally messy = ewww!


Exactly. I think Pisces men are the most pathetically weak in all the zodiac
*not faithful
*don't want to work
*unfocused
*overdramatic
*prone to bullying

This appears to go against all Bull's principles...
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You clearly don't know much.
I own my own 4 bedroom home and 3 vehicles.
I value a stable relationship with a woman because I want a marriage and lots of babies.
Have decent savings account, good morals and 60+ hour workweeks.
Care to re-state your bullshit opinion again?
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I agree with you ScorpFish. A lot of Pisces men may be like that but definitely not all.
I figure Im dealing with an atypical Pisces who must have a fire moon. Because he is way tougher than most pisces men I know. He's VERY masculine and while he has that fantastic emotional quality its very reined. He certainly can't be bullied. He'd destroy anyone who tried. I of course think his ultramasculinity oozes sexy.
I think he likes mental peace but Im beginning to discover that he kinda gets off on having his emotions stirred. Like it literally draws him to me when I do something to give him an intense emotional reaction. I feel like a sort of difribulator (sp). I hope my venus in Aries is enough lol
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Posted by SweetestFatale
I agree with you ScorpFish. A lot of Pisces men may be like that but definitely not all.
I figure Im dealing with an atypical Pisces who must have a fire moon. Because he is way tougher than most pisces men I know. He's VERY masculine and while he has that fantastic emotional quality its very reined. He certainly can't be bullied. He'd destroy anyone who tried. I of course think his ultramasculinity oozes sexy.
I think he likes mental peace but Im beginning to discover that he kinda gets off on having his emotions stirred. Like it literally draws him to me when I do something to give him an intense emotional reaction. I feel like a sort of difribulator (sp). I hope my venus in Aries is enough lol


I love my bull. I really do.
But she is 0/2 on holidays right now.
She ditched me on Veterans Day, and she ditched me again on Thanksgiving.
Christmas/New Years' trouble will mark strike 3 as far as I am concerned.
Grrr...
An Aries girl tackled me 3 times this past weekend though.
Help, hahaha!!!
Winking
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Posted by anonymousheart
Posted by MintSprinkles
Pisces men = emotionally messy = ewww!


Exactly. I think Pisces men are the most pathetically weak in all the zodiac
*not faithful
*don't want to work
*unfocused
*overdramatic
*prone to bullying

This appears to go against all Bull's principles...
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+1 hit the nail on the head with my year long experience with pisces/pisces male
But i still don't quite have the energy to totally delve into that one lol I'll still get back to you but as stated above *DING-DING-DING* Principles baby...
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Posted by ScorpioFish
Posted by anonymousheart
Posted by MintSprinkles
Pisces men = emotionally messy = ewww!


Exactly. I think Pisces men are the most pathetically weak in all the zodiac
*not faithful
*don't want to work
*unfocused
*overdramatic
*prone to bullying

This appears to go against all Bull's principles...


You clearly don't know much.
I own my own 4 bedroom home and 3 vehicles.
I value a stable relationship with a woman because I want a marriage and lots of babies.
Have decent savings account, good morals and 60+ hour workweeks.
Care to re-state your bullshit opinion again?
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+1 not personal to you scorpfish... Your scorpio aspects probably have a lot to do with that passion you're expressing... Which i love! Im with a scorpio/scorpio now who is more fitting for me...
Mine was probably an atypical case anyway bc my pisces/pisces had a venus and mars in pisces and asc in cancer and would tell me the exact same dreams for himself but never executed... Even when he asked me to marry him and i packed and he never showed... Even when i forgave him and gave him chance after chance.. Turning the other cheek... Literally... He ended up being strangely abusive... To the point of being pretty physical which is not common for someone of his chart... But he alsi had other influences i believe made him act outof character...
When he was in his right mind, he was a shining star in my eyes, but he let that light dim and fade of his own accord sadly...
-silent cries and two black eyes... Starstruck
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