Taurus male and mind games
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Taraji on Friday, August 8, 2014 and has 9 replies.
Ok so I'm An Aries, met this guy and we clicked. He was very honest from the beginning. He said he wanted me as his girlfriend after a month. Things have been good since then he loves my cooking and we always have a laugh. Lol.
Now all of a sudden Taurus man disappears. Haven't heard from him for a week now. Although a week before things were a bit different. Conversations were shorter, he took ages to reply text messages like a whole day. I did call him out and said communication is very important when getting to know someone. He apologised. And then it didn't change he carried on....I never brought it up again and just acted normal..whenever he answered I'll give him a reply. Then I stopped initiating contact and he also hasn't contacted me. It's only been a week... But still should I be worried.
This whole withdrawing thing actually started when I told him I'm waiting till marriage to have sex. So I'm guessing that's the reason why he stopped initiating contact or is he just pulling a disappearing act. Or could he just be playing mind games to see what I can put up with?
Now all of a sudden Taurus man disappears. Haven't heard from him for a week now. Although a week before things were a bit different. Conversations were shorter, he took ages to reply text messages like a whole day. I did call him out and said communication is very important when getting to know someone. He apologised. And then it didn't change he carried on....I never brought it up again and just acted normal..whenever he answered I'll give him a reply. Then I stopped initiating contact and he also hasn't contacted me. It's only been a week... But still should I be worried.
This whole withdrawing thing actually started when I told him I'm waiting till marriage to have sex. So I'm guessing that's the reason why he stopped initiating contact or is he just pulling a disappearing act. Or could he just be playing mind games to see what I can put up with?
Agreed with @ScorpioHarmony. She said it perfectly... If he's not willing to respect your decision, then he's not worth it. I made the mistake of giving into a Taurus when I was younger. Don't make my mistake. Don't let him make you feel guilty for your decision. Stick by your decision. You are strong, Aries! (:
Waiting til marriage??? Congrats... But is asked my Taurus man what he thought and said "Most men want to test drive the car before buying it". Taurus' are slow at commitments and even slower at marriage. Id suggest a Virgo man would be a better match for you. They love pure and chasteness in their women. My taurus didn't really take me seriously until we did the doo. I'm a great cook as well and I had him wait a couple of months but that pretty much brought us closer together. Good luck tho!!
Haha! That's funny... Thanks for all your advice. On to the next......
Posted by Taraji
This whole withdrawing thing actually started when I told him I'm waiting till marriage to have sex.
Posted by Taraji
Ok so I'm He said he wanted me as his girlfriend after a month.click to expand
I could be speculating, but this could be the problem. I could be wrong.
How could you guys enter into a relationship without discussing the terms of your sexual relationship? That's a pretty big deal for me as getting to the point of actually wanting to marry someone takes a LONG time for me. I couldn't go through that process without sex... just like I couldn't enter a committed relationship without making sure we're on the same page sexually. I agree this could be the issue with him.
But stick to your guns if that's really what you want. There are men who will respect you position.
But stick to your guns if that's really what you want. There are men who will respect you position.
I'm actually going thru the same thing...only on somewhat opposite terms.
He seemed all gung-ho about making a commitment after just a few short days of knowing each other...(I thought they like taking things slow... o_O)
We had an intense connection and are severely attracted to each other...and have been intimate...but ever since then he's been really stand-offish and has been deliberately ignoring me...
Not sure what to think of Taurus men at this point...
He's taurus sun/moon/mercury, gemini venus, capricorn mars.....dunno if the gemini aspect has anything to do with me feeling played.
He seemed all gung-ho about making a commitment after just a few short days of knowing each other...(I thought they like taking things slow... o_O)
We had an intense connection and are severely attracted to each other...and have been intimate...but ever since then he's been really stand-offish and has been deliberately ignoring me...
Not sure what to think of Taurus men at this point...
He's taurus sun/moon/mercury, gemini venus, capricorn mars.....dunno if the gemini aspect has anything to do with me feeling played.
I don't know *disappearing act* Maybe Taurus men dated women very clingy and expected their man to
commit right away.. I just can't relate. But I know bulls are just really picky. He can laughed with
you, dine with you, intimately in love with you.. whatever...it's just an act like nothing else matters.
so ladies do the same thing.
He will always come back and one day he will choose among those ladies he is dating. lol.
Taurus men are very sexual and he probably did disappear whenever you told him you are waiting till marriage to have sex. Taurus men can get any woman they want and once you told him that he probably went onto his next available option. Taurus men need to be physically satisfied and they are womanizers. They kind of remind me of Virgo men a little bit, both are known for the disappearing act. If I were you I would not initiate contact with him and just let it go. When a Taurus wants someone we are very persistent and will always stay in contact with them. And we rarely will play "mind games", we are pretty direct with our emotions and feelings for the most part.
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