Taurus male + Gemini female is never easy, but doable

i had a tough time specially in the beginning of the relationship .. we're engaged now.
u know what bothers me most that i really need him to say (i love u) .. i need to hear it and he never says it unless i ask him to .. which is not nice
i ask him ( do u love me ?) like 5 times a day
he can never express his feelings and i really want him to.
we have a huge sexual attraction
but i need to hear love words not only the sexual stuff
my Cancer ex expressed his feelings like all the time
may be im expecting what can't be happening

What is your moon, mars, and Mercury aspects compared to his own? That could be a guide to you to use as why someone has a tough time communicating emotions..compare and contrast since you are engaged. If you are engage it should mean you know how one another acts towards each other whether both need to adapt for a long term relationship.

Posted by missyaa1986
i had a tough time specially in the beginning of the relationship .. we're engaged now.
u know what bothers me most that i really need him to say (i love u) .. i need to hear it and he never says it unless i ask him to .. which is not nice
i ask him ( do u love me ?) like 5 times a day
he can never express his feelings and i really want him to.
we have a huge sexual attraction
but i need to hear love words not only the sexual stuff
my Cancer ex expressed his feelings like all the time
may be im expecting what can't be happening

He'll show you more than tell you. Just understand regardless of his sign. If this is how he is now, he'll always be that way. So if you want to marry him, you'll have to accept who he is.

Posted by Geminiam
I am a gem and was with a Taurus for 14 years. It can be very difficult. We were always great friends actually but the communication was an issue. Mine was like that in the beginning. After several years and tears he finally did start saying he loved me, but it took a lot of butter to get there. In the end we are much better as friends, without the emotions of a marriage. I wish you the best!

The communication part is very difficult
he thinks im demanding concerning feelings expressing
and i think he's demanding concerning looks
and it's very very exhausting

Posted by whatthecrab
Taureans are quick to say I love you, maybe thats because of my Virgo moon? I find it is easy to talk to them, we dont argue a lot but it never works out in the long run.. because the Taureans Ive met were all more concerned with being popular, even amongst people they dont like rather than have real relationships. Thats when I stop liking them.

he said i love you like 5 times from the day i met him till now
and i don't know is it right if i say it like 5 times a day and ask him if he does love me 5 times more ?
or should i stop expressing my feelings like he does ?

You have good man, stop trying to mould him it to something you want , the constant pressure, will push him away,its actions that speak louder than words for a taurean.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
What is your moon, mars, and Mercury aspects compared to his own? That could be a guide to you to use as why someone has a tough time communicating emotions..compare and contrast since you are engaged. If you are engage it should mean you know how one another acts towards each other whether both need to adapt for a long term relationship.

Ill compare Moon, Mars & Mercury aspects
This is a good advice ðŸ‘

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Posted by missyaa1986
i had a tough time specially in the beginning of the relationship .. we're engaged now.
u know what bothers me most that i really need him to say (i love u) .. i need to hear it and he never says it unless i ask him to .. which is not nice
i ask him ( do u love me ?) like 5 times a day
he can never express his feelings and i really want him to.
we have a huge sexual attraction
but i need to hear love words not only the sexual stuff
my Cancer ex expressed his feelings like all the time
may be im expecting what can't be happening

He'll show you more than tell you. Just understand regardless of his sign. If this is how he is now, he'll always be that way. So if you want to marry him, you'll have to accept who he is.

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Yeah i think ill accept the way he expresses his feelings and will not ask him for what he can not give
it is indeed the way he will always be

Posted by AriesLady8

Posted by whatthecrab
Taureans are quick to say I love you, maybe thats because of my Virgo moon? I find it is easy to talk to them, we dont argue a lot but it never works out in the long run.. because the Taureans Ive met were all more concerned with being popular, even amongst people they dont like rather than have real relationships. Thats when I stop liking them.

My Taurus ex said it first and kept saying it until I finally said it. Then he would never say. I needed to hear it. So it drove me up the wall. I felt like I didn't know if he did or not. When we separated he would say it all the time. * shrug

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They will do anything to get what they want
so stubborn •

Posted by 2putITmildly
You have good man, stop trying to mould him it to something you want , the constant pressure, will push him away,its actions that speak louder than words for a taurean.

This is so true and i know it
i just wished there was a way to convince him that i really need him to talk about his feelings more
and now im convinced that this is not possible
ill keep your words in mind
thank u

Posted by idk


hang on... i'm getting something........

prospects do not look good.

just kidding.... it will probably just be difficult. he's who he is and you are who you are.... i don't think these two signs are naturally cooperative, but i'm sure it can be doable. i personally think i went partially insane while attempting this pairing.... just my 2¢

yeah i know the feeling .. im going insane too lol
im really doing all i can do to make it last
we are so different , North and South and we know it
but we love each other and we are determined to make it last
i can't deny that now and then i have my worries
i need to do what is right

i think you need to ask yourself why do you need that constant reassurance? feeling secure is only something you can give yourself. if he told you a hundred times a day it would still not be enough because it wasn't 101 times. don't expect to be healed by another. it's not their job.