Taurus male please help.
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Airyfairy on Tuesday, October 31, 2017 and has 17 replies.
I have a friend who is Taurus, and we message, talk and see each other all the time!
He asked me out on a date and I said no for fear of wrecking our friendship.
We go hiking together, play golf and have a list of things we want to do like New walks, learning something new.
He rings me for advice on his daughter and we talk freely and frankly.
He has invited me to a family event and due to commitments I cannot attend and he is now thinking he won't go.
Lately he has been a little more forward via text about how I look and has come into my work, left and I texted him to ask if he just came in to perv upon me and look at my bum he texted back saying of course.
He initates texts every day asking what my plans are and today he told me he had a dream about me!
I like him a lot and we seem as if we are dating even though we aren't. No stone is left unturned in our conversations about family, friends, work and activities.
Sometimes I just want him to take the bull by the horns and kiss me already..... other times I'm scared if I make that move I will ruin our friendship.
Many months ago I told him I didn't like beards.... he said I have a beard and I said yeah I know! this past few weeks I've noticed he is clean shaven.
I'm an old fashioned 40 year old female I don't know what to do or how to make a move as such.
He asked me out on a date and I said no for fear of wrecking our friendship.
We go hiking together, play golf and have a list of things we want to do like New walks, learning something new.
He rings me for advice on his daughter and we talk freely and frankly.
He has invited me to a family event and due to commitments I cannot attend and he is now thinking he won't go.
Lately he has been a little more forward via text about how I look and has come into my work, left and I texted him to ask if he just came in to perv upon me and look at my bum he texted back saying of course.
He initates texts every day asking what my plans are and today he told me he had a dream about me!
I like him a lot and we seem as if we are dating even though we aren't. No stone is left unturned in our conversations about family, friends, work and activities.
Sometimes I just want him to take the bull by the horns and kiss me already..... other times I'm scared if I make that move I will ruin our friendship.
Many months ago I told him I didn't like beards.... he said I have a beard and I said yeah I know! this past few weeks I've noticed he is clean shaven.
I'm an old fashioned 40 year old female I don't know what to do or how to make a move as such.
Posted by Airyfairy
I have a friend who is Taurus, and we message, talk and see each other all the time!
He asked me out on a date and I said no for fear of wrecking our friendship.
We go hiking together, play golf and have a list of things we want to do like New walks, learning something new.
He rings me for advice on his daughter and we talk freely and frankly.
He has invited me to a family event and due to commitments I cannot attend and he is now thinking he won't go.
Lately he has been a little more forward via text about how I look and has come into my work, left and I texted him to ask if he just came in to perv upon me and look at my bum he texted back saying of course.
He initates texts every day asking what my plans are and today he told me he had a dream about me!
I like him a lot and we seem as if we are dating even though we aren't. No stone is left unturned in our conversations about family, friends, work and activities.
Sometimes I just want him to take the bull by the horns and kiss me already..... other times I'm scared if I make that move I will ruin our friendship.
Many months ago I told him I didn't like beards.... he said I have a beard and I said yeah I know! this past few weeks I've noticed he is clean shaven.
I'm an old fashioned 40 year old female I don't know what to do or how to make a move as such.
Ffs. He made a move and you rejected him. Do you want him to give you endless chances to keep turning him down?
I'm afraid you're going to have to be a big girl and take responsibility for your part.
And yes you may lose the friendship, but you might not and this could turn into a wonderful relationship for you. It's up to you want you want. He can't do anymore than he has.
I spoke to him today, and he said some lovely things but that, "That ship has sailed"
My own fault.
My own fault.
Posted by AiryfairyPerhaps it is for the best then. You can maintain your friendship. Problem is solved.
I spoke to him today, and he said some lovely things but that, "That ship has sailed"
My own fault.
Posted by Airyfairy
I spoke to him today, and he said some lovely things but that, "That ship has sailed"
My own fault.
Sorry. Sometimes we don't know what we have until it's gone. A human flaw.
Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
Taurus dont take long to get riled up. Once a taurus man has feelings they will always be there unless you do something like kill his dog 😂
All it takes is for him to see you again. Dont stop texting him. Taurus dont take well to the icing out or ghosting.
Taurus men are all about ego.
Text him as you normally would. Do not bring up being with him or his feelings.
Throw in a few compliments here and there. Dont overdo it. Just random. And make sure they are legit compliments. Taurus can spot a fake.
Say something (obviously when it applies to the convo)like
"I love how dependable you are"
Or "wow youre so clever thats why i like you so much"
It will get his engine revving again.
Girl trust me. These guys are predictable AF and so easy to get them eating out of your hand.
Not sure about that. Perhaps they return if there was a relationship but they also recognise when the time has passed.
Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesPosted by jeaneLol @ free Melania 😂😂Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
Taurus dont take long to get riled up. Once a taurus man has feelings they will always be there unless you do something like kill his dog 😂
All it takes is for him to see you again. Dont stop texting him. Taurus dont take well to the icing out or ghosting.
Taurus men are all about ego.
Text him as you normally would. Do not bring up being with him or his feelings.
Throw in a few compliments here and there. Dont overdo it. Just random. And make sure they are legit compliments. Taurus can spot a fake.
Say something (obviously when it applies to the convo)like
"I love how dependable you are"
Or "wow youre so clever thats why i like you so much"
It will get his engine revving again.
Girl trust me. These guys are predictable AF and so easy to get them eating out of your hand.
Not sure about that. Perhaps they return if there was a relationship but they also recognise when the time has passed.
If his feelings were as strong as he has shown..i.e Doing all sorts of things with her.. is not something a Taurus would ever do if he didnt have DEEP feelings for her.
Taurus do not move on that quickly. He simply needs some encouragement in the right way.
Trust me! I am practically completely surrounded by Taurus men. They are very simple men and essy to crack if you know how.click to expand
Yes perhaps. But they are stubborn. Some would rather sit in their own shit then get up and go back on what they said.
But yes, you could be right. Time will tell.
We flirt all the time!
The last thing on my mind was to hurt him or his ego.
We gossip a lot and he texted tonight whilst he was out with his buddies telling me all the scandal.
And I got my goodnight text too.
Thank you all for replying!
I really do appreciate them
The last thing on my mind was to hurt him or his ego.
We gossip a lot and he texted tonight whilst he was out with his buddies telling me all the scandal.
And I got my goodnight text too.
Thank you all for replying!
I really do appreciate them
Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesPosted by jeaneLol @ free Melania 😂😂Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
Taurus dont take long to get riled up. Once a taurus man has feelings they will always be there unless you do something like kill his dog 😂
All it takes is for him to see you again. Dont stop texting him. Taurus dont take well to the icing out or ghosting.
Taurus men are all about ego.
Text him as you normally would. Do not bring up being with him or his feelings.
Throw in a few compliments here and there. Dont overdo it. Just random. And make sure they are legit compliments. Taurus can spot a fake.
Say something (obviously when it applies to the convo)like
"I love how dependable you are"
Or "wow youre so clever thats why i like you so much"
It will get his engine revving again.
Girl trust me. These guys are predictable AF and so easy to get them eating out of your hand.
Not sure about that. Perhaps they return if there was a relationship but they also recognise when the time has passed.
If his feelings were as strong as he has shown..i.e Doing all sorts of things with her.. is not something a Taurus would ever do if he didnt have DEEP feelings for her.
Taurus do not move on that quickly. He simply needs some encouragement in the right way.
Trust me! I am practically completely surrounded by Taurus men. They are very simple men and essy to crack if you know how.click to expand
Taurus suns are simple. Sun is one placement.
Taurus men do acts of service for people they care for, not necessarily romantic love. H clearly cares for her, but he hung it out there in the breeze and she let him be exposed. That’s a big step back and he will not be looking to hang it out again. Looooooooong wait coming complete with fun little bs tests. She’s in the friend zone. Deeeeeep in the friend zone now.
What’s the rest of his chart?
I do not think the ship has sailed at all. If it had genuinely left the dock then I’d question if he was ever docked at all! I do think this could be ego which is closing him off. I wonder if he’s cancer Venus or has any cancer placements.
What was the time frame between him asking you out and you speaking to him when he said ‘that ship has sailed?’
What exactly did you both say?
I do not think the ship has sailed at all. If it had genuinely left the dock then I’d question if he was ever docked at all! I do think this could be ego which is closing him off. I wonder if he’s cancer Venus or has any cancer placements.
What was the time frame between him asking you out and you speaking to him when he said ‘that ship has sailed?’
What exactly did you both say?
I don't know the rest of his chart 😳
He asked me 6/7 weeks ago. I spoke to him there and then and also on tuesday.
We text everyday one day I counted 200 messages. Normal amount would be close to 100!
We have a hike planned for next week and it's gonna be at least 6 hours.
He still makes wee sexual innuendo jokes and just yesterday told me that I was sexy. (I'm not good with compliments and become dumb when they are given) I told him he needed his eyes checked and he said you know you are. He also compliments my parenting skills and comes to me for advice regarding his daughter who lives in another country. I know what he wants to try sports wise and had planned on surprising him one day by booking an experience day at it as I know he won't do it himself.
He had a health scare not so long ago and I've been nagging at him to go to the Drs... and he replies "yes mother" 😂
He asked me 6/7 weeks ago. I spoke to him there and then and also on tuesday.
We text everyday one day I counted 200 messages. Normal amount would be close to 100!
We have a hike planned for next week and it's gonna be at least 6 hours.
He still makes wee sexual innuendo jokes and just yesterday told me that I was sexy. (I'm not good with compliments and become dumb when they are given) I told him he needed his eyes checked and he said you know you are. He also compliments my parenting skills and comes to me for advice regarding his daughter who lives in another country. I know what he wants to try sports wise and had planned on surprising him one day by booking an experience day at it as I know he won't do it himself.
He had a health scare not so long ago and I've been nagging at him to go to the Drs... and he replies "yes mother" 😂
Posted by AiryfairyStart by figuring out what it is you want from him.
He asked me out on a date and I said no for fear of wrecking our friendship.
Sometimes I just want him to take the bull by the horns and kiss me already..... other times I'm scared if I make that move I will ruin our friendship.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by AiryfairyStart by figuring out what it is you want from him.
He asked me out on a date and I said no for fear of wrecking our friendship.
Sometimes I just want him to take the bull by the horns and kiss me already..... other times I'm scared if I make that move I will ruin our friendship.click to expand
What LN said. You need to know before you go down this road, because if you get a second chance out of the friend zone, you can’t be wushu washy and you can’t spurn his affection again.
We are heading out a few times this coming week.
Still lots of sexual innuendos via text.... usually him initiating ☺
Maybe he is just looking for a fwb or fb.
However he knows that's not me.
Still lots of sexual innuendos via text.... usually him initiating ☺
Maybe he is just looking for a fwb or fb.
However he knows that's not me.
Posted by AiryfairyCan you ask him out to dinner please!? Lol and maybe a movie too. Thanks!!
We are heading out a few times this coming week.
Still lots of sexual innuendos via text.... usually him initiating ☺
Maybe he is just looking for a fwb or fb.
However he knows that's not me.
Oh and let him pay so he knows it’s a date!
After our hike,
At his suggestion we are going to a resturant.... I'm driving (I rarely drink, my morals go awol😂)and I'm sure he will have a couple of beers!
At his suggestion we are going to a resturant.... I'm driving (I rarely drink, my morals go awol😂)and I'm sure he will have a couple of beers!
He wants me!!
Had a hike today and there were little touches here and there.... then play fighting.... then he said what would you do if I grabbed your bum.... I told him I would probably deck him! He then grabbed my shoulders.... when we got back to car he grabbed my knee and asked if I was ticklish... I replied nope.... then back to his for coffee and he playfully slapped my bum.
When I left I sent him a text saying there is a difference between slapping and grabbing... he said I though you would have enjoyed it more and I replied nothing as nice as your cheeks being cupped and gently squeezed 😂
His reply.... next time.... which is tonight!!
Had a hike today and there were little touches here and there.... then play fighting.... then he said what would you do if I grabbed your bum.... I told him I would probably deck him! He then grabbed my shoulders.... when we got back to car he grabbed my knee and asked if I was ticklish... I replied nope.... then back to his for coffee and he playfully slapped my bum.
When I left I sent him a text saying there is a difference between slapping and grabbing... he said I though you would have enjoyed it more and I replied nothing as nice as your cheeks being cupped and gently squeezed 😂
His reply.... next time.... which is tonight!!
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