Taurus man choosing work over me????

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by LovingCrab on Thursday, September 26, 2013 and has 8 replies.
Recently about a month and a half ago my taurus boyfriend nd i broke up, luckly it was over something minor so we decided to try to get back together again 2 weeks later however when we were together we lived together and when we decided to try and get together again i was staying with my grandmother so we could only talk to each other which seemed to be perfect except for the constant questioning of who else he's SEEing lol but seriously it was fine, being apart we open up nd told each other things we didnt say the 1st time around, we always told each other that we missed each other nd he even mention marrying me and having children at one point but then he decided to become a truck driver and leave for training, we he told me my heart sank nd i wanted to cry so bad but i didnt instead i put on a fake smile and incouraged him to go i also made him promise he wouldnt forget about me and he said he wouldnt and the before he left he finally asked me to be his again and if i wanted to be right there riding in the truck with him lol and all i could do was thank god then he was gone but its been a month now and i've only recieved 1 txt and no calls from him and i know for a fact he has a way of contacting me and we've never went more that 2 weeks without talking nd out of hurt i txted that i hated him nd he asked me why i told him because he hasnt made any effort in txting me when i know for a fact he can he then told me to calm down nd that it had nothing to do woth anything else its now been 2 weeks since that txt nd still nothing nd i feel like he just doesnt want to talk to me and it hurts me sooo bad now im geeling that maybe now isnt the right time to get back together but i do for a fact want to be with him in the future, was the feelings all a lie? Did i hurt him? Any advice? Im a cancer woman btw
Lol my baby likes it when i ignitiate the contact at times it makes him feel like i care but other times he just doesnt want to bothered so idk but yea your definately has a thing for u but isnt gonna put himself out there if he doesnt know u feel the same, from experience put a taurus in the friend zone and thats the role he'll play
Already done smile since its been a month it doesnt hurt as much anymore and finishing my last year of school has been my top priority lately nd i dnt need his company as much anymore but i do fear that since its been a month then maybe this goodbye nd it hurts to think that way because that man has took me out of my shell nd captured my heart than anybody was every allowed to nd i fell in love with his spirit and personality
Correct me if I am wrong here, I know he is a taurus and taurus are notorious for needing time and space to think things through. But it's been a month you say? Don't see him as a taurus, see him as a man. How long would you wait for a man?
How long would any woman or man wait for the other half to make any contact?
Posted by Lurverlurver
Correct me if I am wrong here, I know he is a taurus and taurus are notorious for needing time and space to think things through. But it's been a month you say? Don't see him as a taurus, see him as a man. How long would you wait for a man?
How long would any woman or man wait for the other half to make any contact?

Very true. A man who wants to see you will MAKE time no matter what he is doing or his scheule regardless of astrological sign. He will make the time to fit you into his schedule. LL, you remind me that I have made excuses for the men in my past behaviors. Good point!
Posted by CluelessCancer
I have never met a Taurus man i didn't respect 100% , that says alot, cause so many men fail, to be men.
So stick it to it hon, in the meantime take the focus off him, and direct your energies somewhere else...maybe start a new hobby..or something.


+1
i agree. So weird. Not just in my family but overall in my personal experiences, they're very loyal, knows how to keep a secret, discriminating, hardworking, also deserves to rest hard/play hard, because they've earned it. And they're quiet but very strong. Maybe just their upbringing and charts too. Since, history has shown there are only a few baddies. But that's so few and if they become bad, it's VERY bad (Hitler) but in a way, he was still commanding respect. So interesting. And Schindler, the man who was responsible for going undercover, dangerously being a spy under such times, is a Taurus too. No one ever mentions that, most people just focus on Hitler, but seem to avoid Schindler who is a Taurus Sun/Aries Moon/ Mars Gemini/Venus in the 3rd house (Gotta hand it to Mercury when they go under cover and use wiles to get the baddies, when they use it for good) Perfect roles for mercury who need swiftness and the perfect silver tongue. In those dark times, you can see how mercury plays a huge role astrologically speaking.
I love Schindler's statement, how his Taurus Sun who adores beauty and his courageous Aries moon in the first house of self, feels:
"When asked, Schindler told that his metamorphosis during the war was sparked by the shocking immensity of the Final Solution. In his own words: 'I hated the brutality, the sadism, and the insanity of Nazism. I just couldn't stand by and see people destroyed. I did what I could, what I had to do, what my conscience told me I must do. That's all there is to it. Really, nothing more.'"
http://www.astro.com/astro-databank/Schindler,_Oskar
Op, be thankful he loves to work alot and long hours, so he can afford all the beautiful things he can get you because when he rests up, he'll be snuggling with you on the couch for a very long time.
Oh i hope so, i think i'll contact him and see wht goes from there

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