Taurus Man Decoded

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Nefertari on Sunday, January 29, 2017 and has 37 replies.
Been reading up a fair bit on Taurus guys recently. Found one book pretty helpful for anyone going into new relationship with Taurus man. It preps you with the right mindset and what to expect from Taurus relationship.

Here's the link:

https://dianafosterblog.wordpress.com/

They're having a promo now, so might worth checking out if you don't know much about Taurus.

The book is called Taurus Man Decoded.
I forgot to add, the download is actually free since it is recently launched.

Author is collecting feedback and reviews. Just click Add to Cart and you can get a copy.

wow free download? how big is this file? lol

Thank you very much for this! Im gonna give it a try and add a feedback to the author page!
Taurus men, read this too so you can confirm if this is bs
Oh awesome!! Thank you!
This is brilliant, you should take it off as freebie and post half of the ebook. I am taurus and i am everything like u mentioned in the book, the second type of taurus guy - handsome, charming, self made wealth, tall dark, masculine,alpha, nice body, self entitled, treat girls like shit etc. I always have girl lining up wanting to date and have sex with me although i will reject them to make more money from my business. Basically i am a self made man from my business to personal relationships, i have been betrayed before from friends i trusted too much, woman whom wasted my time and money too much, cheated in business but all these struggles made me stronger as a taurean. Now i am battle hardened in every aspect of life, but people always think i got it easily especially those scorp guy friends i used to have who keep me close because they try to take advantage of me(whom i cut off comepletely), woman who try to lock me down with marriage whom i dropped almost immediately. I deserve more i want more sex and more money and i am fucking hungry for. Probably i am not evolved yet but i wont stop till i am at the top.
Also you as a virgo is fucking brilliant at decoding taurus guys. This is why although i am practical and pragmatic, people like you keep me staying in this astrology realm.
^you and all people who think judge like that dont understand the book because you are not a taurus. Only taurus will know how accurate it is. Reading that book was like reading my life lol. dumb bitchesstay dumb. Anyways keep up the good work OP.
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I don't think that they're that complicated
Lol yeah we really aren't.
i thought it was a good read also for what its worth

however if your ok with waiting for a taurus man to give you attention once every 3 weeks good luck to you

it actually reinforced my desire to go for a guy who does't pull that baloney and makes you feel special
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i thought it was a good read also for what its worth

however if your ok with waiting for a taurus man to give you attention once every 3 weeks good luck to you

it actually reinforced my desire to go for a guy who does't pull that baloney and makes you feel special


Wtf no they don't unless they're not into you?
Now btw being single, going for other guys and going on a long-term relationship with a Taurus, which one is worth it?

What if only one of the party feels the emotional connection? Hard decision to make
Did you guys read Why Men Love Bitches? Just saw the promo thread, but I got the hard copy already.

I started reading on it. Interesting cos so true!

And about what women do for guys. Women tend to give everything to men they are into, guys are like the opposite. Women know guys are like that, yet they still continue doing it.

When can the tables change?


Thanks a lot.... I find it very embarassing to bring up marriage and convertin, etc,... when we have never spoken about it in a serious manner. He mentioned married life few times but never marriage as such. Would be very presumptuous of me to assume he wants to marry me... And I agree with everything you said.

Asian family bro...It sucks!

Thanks a lot....Very helpful advice:-)

But if he has brought up marriage with you, isn't that a fact that you have known each other pretty long and he has all his basic facts about you? If so, he must have already known your religion. He has never found issues with that? Why would it become an issue only now?

I have some Taurus friends. They don't bring up marriage easily and don't bring the girl home unless she's the future wife. If you reach this stage, doesn't it mean he is okay with who you are and also your religion? Has he ever wanted you to convert? You are marrying him, not his family right?

And your children, if you have any, you are okay with them being religious?

I think you fall into the Love at First Sight category, that's why your Tauruses commit so fast! Lucky you, because most Taurus I know, friends and gf's boyfriends are really slow and take their time to commit. That's why he didn't pull the hot and cold with you?

Yep, they are very very possessive and territorial! Not sure whether that is an attractive trait, but it's interesting the way and manner they want to possess you. It's like they have a lot of little action which doesn't come up when he's with other people.

I understand where you are coming from. Asian family are more bonded and they expect you to follow the guy's family way. I have seen religions break family apart, so you need to give careful thought whether it is worth it. Even if your Taurus doesn't mind, once you marry into his family, they are sure to pick on you on that. And your children's religion will have to follow the father as well.

I think your Taurus is already set with marriage. Asking cousin to be bridesmaid and bigger house, if he has said that, pretty sure he has plans already or maybe underway to buy the house. Has he ever let you in on his finances?

I feel the best way is to talk to him. Religion is a big thing. Taurus like things their way but if you stand up for your belief, I feel he should be able to respect you for that. If a Taurus loves you, they will accept you. That's what I think.
I think the book is pretty accurate and spot on. For anyone wanting advice or is confused with dating a Taurus, this is a great book to read. It gives better advice then you'll ever find on here
Yeah, most often it has been intense attraction at first sight. I'm not sure if it can be called love though.... I took my time because I needed time to be certain of his and my feelings. Guess I'm lucky in that way. And only one Taurus Big Grin I'm not friendly with the others.

I'm happy with his possessiveness because I'm kinda possessive too:-P. But he isn't the jealous type.... all he wants is for others to know I'm with him. He doesn't even mind the attention because he trusts me. Unlike my Scorpio ex, who drove me insane with his suspicions and insecurities Sad

Wow!You know Asian families -D. His family asked me to convert or to break up with him. It is extremely hard to have a healthy long term relationship against his family's wishes. And his mom took good care of me when I was very sick and needed urgent medical help. She was great to me all these months.There is nothing much for me to do here.

He loves me, you know... He loves me a lot and i love him a lot... but he is being so dense. He doesn't understand what's happening here and thinks I'm just being a brat... He doesnt understand these things at all.

He sounds like a great guy for you! Is he intellectual? Asking because I know Taurus who are smart but seemed dense.

One thing I notice about some Taurus is they might seem slow, but they actually do get it slowly. They don't show it, but they have a lot of ideas. Not sure whether yours is this type. There are some who really are just slow.

I feel you need to be more open than him. Communication is very important with these guys. They appreciate you being open and honest.

I read the book. I feel a piece of advice pretty good. Like training the guy. Actually I feel all guys can be trained. Gosh, guys are so careless about things that are important to women! I feel if we bring up certain issues that bother us with them gently but positively, overtime they will understand more and try to empathise.

I have my lesson too. Being too understanding towards men in general, it will become a habit to them. If you don't speak up, they feel you don't mind so their behaviour won't change. Guys are more focused on the big things. They won't notice the little things until we tell them. Like they don't have time and space in their life for these.

Being patient and straight is good.

Posted by Aries_Luminary
I think the book is pretty accurate and spot on. For anyone wanting advice or is confused with dating a Taurus, this is a great book to read. It gives better advice then you'll ever find on here
I feel the same way too, that's why I recommend it after reading.

With my experience, most things happen in the book happened to me. Luckily, mine don't have to deal with drugs and sex issues. But exes and harem can be quite an issue. I hope the author writes more on these though, like details.

Anyway, luckily romance is not the only important thing in life.

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Yeah, most often it has been intense attraction at first sight. I'm not sure if it can be called love though.... I took my time because I needed time to be certain of his and my feelings. Guess I'm lucky in that way. And only one Taurus Big Grin I'm not friendly with the others.

I'm happy with his possessiveness because I'm kinda possessive too:-P. But he isn't the jealous type.... all he wants is for others to know I'm with him. He doesn't even mind the attention because he trusts me. Unlike my Scorpio ex, who drove me insane with his suspicions and insecurities Sad

Wow!You know Asian families -D. His family asked me to convert or to break up with him. It is extremely hard to have a healthy long term relationship against his family's wishes. And his mom took good care of me when I was very sick and needed urgent medical help. She was great to me all these months.There is nothing much for me to do here.

He loves me, you know... He loves me a lot and i love him a lot... but he is being so dense. He doesn't understand what's happening here and thinks I'm just being a brat... He doesnt understand these things at all.

He sounds like a great guy for you! Is he intellectual? Asking because I know Taurus who are smart but seemed dense.

One thing I notice about some Taurus is they might seem slow, but they actually do get it slowly. They don't show it, but they have a lot of ideas. Not sure whether yours is this type. There are some who really are just slow.

I feel you need to be more open than him. Communication is very important with these guys. They appreciate you being open and honest.

I read the book. I feel a piece of advice pretty good. Like training the guy. Actually I feel all guys can be trained. Gosh, guys are so careless about things that are important to women! I feel if we bring up certain issues that bother us with them gently but positively, overtime they will understand more and try to empathise.

I have my lesson too. Being too understanding towards men in general, it will become a habit to them. If you don't speak up, they feel you don't mind so their behaviour won't change. Guys are more focused on the big things. They won't notice the little things until we tell them. Like they don't have time and space in their life for these.

Being patient and straight is good.



It's over. We spoke last night.... He knows what happened. He askd me to answer his direct questions and made me give yes/no answers.

Did my family ask you to convert?

Did they ask you to break up?

Is that why you broke up?

He said I don't love him enough and that I broke up with him over nothing. He also said his Mon never wanted me to break up with him and it was all my decision because I was weak.

Right now he is extremely angry and stubborn...

Hey thanks a lot. I appreciate it. He is a great guy.... I am someone who is very good at messing up things.

You give very good advice... I didn't listen Sad

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I say don't be yourself up too much, even if you feel like you jumped the gun on breaking up don't beg him back or wait around because he will put you through the ringer trying to win him back. If he keeps makeing accusations like you don't love me and you know that you do I would just calmly say I have to disagree and I'm sorry you feel that way but I'm not going to try to change your mind. I do love you but I was put in a position that I should have never been put in and for future reference you might want to talk to your family about involving themselves in your relationships. And Then I would be on my way because if he is really angry and being stubborn right now he is only going to hurt your feelings.
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Yeah, most often it has been intense attraction at first sight. I'm not sure if it can be called love though.... I took my time because I needed time to be certain of his and my feelings. Guess I'm lucky in that way. And only one Taurus Big Grin I'm not friendly with the others.

I'm happy with his possessiveness because I'm kinda possessive too:-P. But he isn't the jealous type.... all he wants is for others to know I'm with him. He doesn't even mind the attention because he trusts me. Unlike my Scorpio ex, who drove me insane with his suspicions and insecurities Sad

Wow!You know Asian families -D. His family asked me to convert or to break up with him. It is extremely hard to have a healthy long term relationship against his family's wishes. And his mom took good care of me when I was very sick and needed urgent medical help. She was great to me all these months.There is nothing much for me to do here.

He loves me, you know... He loves me a lot and i love him a lot... but he is being so dense. He doesn't understand what's happening here and thinks I'm just being a brat... He doesnt understand these things at all.

He sounds like a great guy for you! Is he intellectual? Asking because I know Taurus who are smart but seemed dense.

One thing I notice about some Taurus is they might seem slow, but they actually do get it slowly. They don't show it, but they have a lot of ideas. Not sure whether yours is this type. There are some who really are just slow.

I feel you need to be more open than him. Communication is very important with these guys. They appreciate you being open and honest.

I read the book. I feel a piece of advice pretty good. Like training the guy. Actually I feel all guys can be trained. Gosh, guys are so careless about things that are important to women! I feel if we bring up certain issues that bother us with them gently but positively, overtime they will understand more and try to empathise.

I have my lesson too. Being too understanding towards men in general, it will become a habit to them. If you don't speak up, they feel you don't mind so their behaviour won't change. Guys are more focused on the big things. They won't notice the little things until we tell them. Like they don't have time and space in their life for these.

Being patient and straight is good.



It's over. We spoke last night.... He knows what happened. He askd me to answer his direct questions and made me give yes/no answers.

Did my family ask you to convert?

Did they ask you to break up?

Is that why you broke up?

He said I don't love him enough and that I broke up with him over nothing. He also said his Mon never wanted me to break up with him and it was all my decision because I was weak.

Right now he is extremely angry and stubborn...

Hey thanks a lot. I appreciate it. He is a great guy.... I am someone who is very good at messing up things.

You give very good advice... I didn't listen Sad

I say don't be yourself up too much, even if you feel like you jumped the gun on breaking up don't beg him back or wait around because he will put you through the ringer trying to win him back. If he keeps makeing accusations like you don't love me and you know that you do I would just calmly say I have to disagree and I'm sorry you feel that way but I'm not going to try to change your mind. I do love you but I was put in a position that I should have never been put in and for future reference you might want to talk to your family about involving themselves in your relationships. And Then I would be on my way because if he is really angry and being stubborn right now he is only going to hurt your feelings.


Thanks... I have seen that with certain relationships.

I know he is angry because I broke up with him over nothing(?! No way). He said religion never mattered to him. In all fairness, he visited Temple with me on New year's (that's the only time I seem to know the way to a temple) and that incident(and they seen a sext from me on his mobile) made his family insecure and it became a major issue for them.

I'm not going to call him.... I won't put myself through the ringer for anyone again and right now I'm just sooo angry. I expected him to find out and sort it. I never wanted to point fingers at his own family and make him choose. It is about his family's wishes and I'm not even engaged to him, for me to try and convince them from a certain position.

He never put me through any tests or anything... He made choices that made me happyy but I do understand why he would be hurt...Because I didn't pick him and he been extremely great as a bf....

There is nothing for me to do now.

Thanks a lot.



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It is a tough spot to be in espcially since you didnt want to make him choose. Next time you should really try to find a way to communicate if you end up in that position again. You could even come at him with a hypothetical in saying something like how would your family feel about my religion and would they ever try to convert me? That way if you ever ran into that situation you would know where your partner stands on the situation and you would be able to refer back to that conversation and feel confident that no one else's opinion would matter but his an you could respectfully say to the family that my boyfriend knows where I stand on my beliefs and still values me, I thank you for your flattery in wanting me to be a part of something you believe in but I stand by my beliefs.
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Yeah, most often it has been intense attraction at first sight. I'm not sure if it can be called love though.... I took my time because I needed time to be certain of his and my feelings. Guess I'm lucky in that way. And only one Taurus Big Grin I'm not friendly with the others.

I'm happy with his possessiveness because I'm kinda possessive too:-P. But he isn't the jealous type.... all he wants is for others to know I'm with him. He doesn't even mind the attention because he trusts me. Unlike my Scorpio ex, who drove me insane with his suspicions and insecurities Sad

Wow!You know Asian families -D. His family asked me to convert or to break up with him. It is extremely hard to have a healthy long term relationship against his family's wishes. And his mom took good care of me when I was very sick and needed urgent medical help. She was great to me all these months.There is nothing much for me to do here.

He loves me, you know... He loves me a lot and i love him a lot... but he is being so dense. He doesn't understand what's happening here and thinks I'm just being a brat... He doesnt understand these things at all.

He sounds like a great guy for you! Is he intellectual? Asking because I know Taurus who are smart but seemed dense.

One thing I notice about some Taurus is they might seem slow, but they actually do get it slowly. They don't show it, but they have a lot of ideas. Not sure whether yours is this type. There are some who really are just slow.

I feel you need to be more open than him. Communication is very important with these guys. They appreciate you being open and honest.

I read the book. I feel a piece of advice pretty good. Like training the guy. Actually I feel all guys can be trained. Gosh, guys are so careless about things that are important to women! I feel if we bring up certain issues that bother us with them gently but positively, overtime they will understand more and try to empathise.

I have my lesson too. Being too understanding towards men in general, it will become a habit to them. If you don't speak up, they feel you don't mind so their behaviour won't change. Guys are more focused on the big things. They won't notice the little things until we tell them. Like they don't have time and space in their life for these.

Being patient and straight is good.



It's over. We spoke last night.... He knows what happened. He askd me to answer his direct questions and made me give yes/no answers.

Did my family ask you to convert?

Did they ask you to break up?

Is that why you broke up?

He said I don't love him enough and that I broke up with him over nothing. He also said his Mon never wanted me to break up with him and it was all my decision because I was weak.

Right now he is extremely angry and stubborn...

Hey thanks a lot. I appreciate it. He is a great guy.... I am someone who is very good at messing up things.

You give very good advice... I didn't listen Sad

I say don't be yourself up too much, even if you feel like you jumped the gun on breaking up don't beg him back or wait around because he will put you through the ringer trying to win him back. If he keeps makeing accusations like you don't love me and you know that you do I would just calmly say I have to disagree and I'm sorry you feel that way but I'm not going to try to change your mind. I do love you but I was put in a position that I should have never been put in and for future reference you might want to talk to your family about involving themselves in your relationships. And Then I would be on my way because if he is really angry and being stubborn right now he is only going to hurt your feelings.


Thanks... I have seen that with certain relationships.

I know he is angry because I broke up with him over nothing(?! No way). He said religion never mattered to him. In all fairness, he visited Temple with me on New year's (that's the only time I seem to know the way to a temple) and that incident(and they seen a sext from me on his mobile) made his family insecure and it became a major issue for them.

I'm not going to call him.... I won't put myself through the ringer for anyone again and right now I'm just sooo angry. I expected him to find out and sort it. I never wanted to point fingers at his own family and make him choose. It is about his family's wishes and I'm not even engaged to him, for me to try and convince them from a certain position.

He never put me through any tests or anything... He made choices that made me happyy but I do understand why he would be hurt...Because I didn't pick him and he been extremely great as a bf....

There is nothing for me to do now.

Thanks a lot.



You should have spoken to him about the religion and his parents views on it and about them wanting you to convert.

if this is a man you are considering to spend the rest of your life together you should be as one unit and discuss EVERYTHING.

Then decisions can be made. If he decides to chose his family then you know where you stand...

It does not matter whether you were engaged to him officially or not...this kind of thing cannot be "left to chance" when dealing with a Taurus aa once we enter a relationship it is for life so we want smooth running of the marriage so previous to that all relationship issues such as religion, children, work,child care needs to be discussed and laid out on the table before the marriage and as a female who is marrying into his family it is important to have your say...

If he was clueless as to what his family was up to then it was upto you to enlighten him by letting him know what was going on.

Sorry but I agree with the bull. You made a big mistake...

I will consider everything you have said busy... I think right now I'm overwhelmed... and ldr sucks. It is not for me. I need him with me... i hate faking to be happy when i dont even get to see him. I'm a physical person.

I will wait for him to call me... but his family is adamant that i convert. They were. Now, Im not sure. They need to respect me and accept me for who I am. That is important to me. I can't be bullied to be different. That won't happen at all.

But where I live, gals aren't treated as an equal, so I'm not gonna risk my independence. Guys family tend to poke their nose into everything... from what the gal wears to who she gets to speak with. My family is very liberal... and you know I'm a Gemini. I can't be anybody's door may. Not happening.

I have to think hard on this.

Thanks a lot. I appreciate everything you said.. you give damn good advice here. Wish more people would consider your advice.

Thanks girl :-)

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ultimately you have to live the life you want. not for any guy, not for any ring, not for any honour/recognition. not for anything.

it's hard when there are familiar/money pressures involved but your family is liberal and you are strong enough to stand up for what is important to you.

sounds like you could have communicated better with your bull but you've stood your ground. we give and give and give to our bulls but at some point you reach a wall. you cannot and should not sacrifice or sell yourself, your happiness, your life's experience - i don't care if he walks on water. just no.
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Thanks jeane. I agree, I love him a lot and I know I can even out myself through shit to be with him. I can do it. But no. Not gonna do it. I didnt to through hell all these years to reach this point to be just someone isn't good enough because of my religion? No way. I never ever speak I'll of anyone's religion. I can't give up everything I have worked hard for these years. They want someone who isn't there in me. They won't even allow(?) me to participate in our rituals that we conduct for those elders who have passed on. It is a spiritual process and it means a lot to me. It is an act of gratitude for those who helped us to get here. I know i know, but i love my traditions and i can learn to love and be a part of their traditions. But that's not enough for them.

Your last para was very powerful and touched me. Thank you, jeane.

I know as a person I can live on my own... I'm not gonna give up being me because i found him. His family's behaviour shocked me. But it is a great lesson to learn.

Hug

Thank you so much

I think you'll work it out. in-laws are always going to be trouble for most people but as long as you know your line and what you want you will eventually get it - it just might take some time for people to get used to it. yes, bulls want loyalty but men want women they can respect.
I've had the version of the first Taurus in the book that went straight for it no hot/cold daily calls texts no guessing etc (because my family had status and money probably) it was awesome to date him I was courted pursued all the childhood photos came just as the book says within 2 weeks etc

But I have a friend/couple he is taurus - wow talk about the second version in the book - hot/cold, has a harem of women on the side ...she knows about it and has to deal with it or he will be out he has said (a supposed open relationship she hates it but pretends she is ok with it as she is so in love with him) - he made that very clear verbally he won't change. Took 5 years they just bought a place together etc so he has committed but he has put her through HELL. If she didn't have money i don't think he would be there but I can't say for sure as she is a great girl. He is very committed to her now - the way the taurus sort of moves into your life so that there is almost no way out after a few years. He also set himself up with security via her means.

Just a comment on the book as per the original title



Are you ladies on the net all the time now?

This is for NotSoInstant:

Not sure whether it's just me, but I don't feel your Taurus is angry with you with that line,'You could have told me......' I see it as him saying you should have said earlier because I thought you trust me like I trust you.

I agree with the rest of the ladies that both of you should stand your ground. In-laws are difficult, but they won't win over the couple provided that the guy is strong enough. He will fight for you and I feel you should fight together with him. Many people tend to give up fighting for what they believe in before even fighting for it. Fighting not as in being confrontational to his family, but slowly taking baby steps to come to terms.

How well do you know his family so far? I feel if you really are going ahead with marriage, best to find out a lot more things about his family. As you said, Asians are bonded within family. Good to know the history to avoid being surprised.

I reckon he's just in another country for work? And he will come back soon right? If it is just a short term ldr, Taurus are usually quite okay when they are settled with you. But like JohntheBaptist said, be prepared to relocate with your marriage plans. You cannot be far apart for too long (as in more than 1 year).
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My Taurus was also the first version. But we lock horns...
LOL....

Aren't you Taurus yourself too? I infer from the messages you post.

Surprised to see you lock horns. I thought first type is the nicer, not nasty version? Or you lock horns cos both of you are Tauruses and the horns are there because you're both stubborn?



It's over. We spoke last night.... He knows what happened. He askd me to answer his direct questions and made me give yes/no answers.

Did my family ask you to convert?

Did they ask you to break up?

Is that why you broke up?

He said I don't love him enough and that I broke up with him over nothing. He also said his Mon never wanted me to break up with him and it was all my decision because I was weak.

Right now he is extremely angry and stubborn...

Hey thanks a lot. I appreciate it. He is a great guy.... I am someone who is very good at messing up things.

You give very good advice... I didn't listen Sad

I actually missed your post on pg 3 when I replied earlier. So sorry about that.

For you, is it really over as in OVER? If your Taurus loves you, they are not going to give up that easily since you already got up to pre-marriage stage. I'm surprised your Taurus didn't consider his family wld have issues with the religion thing before he talks about marriage. He sounds like a great guy from your post, going with you to temples. Very open-minded.

But if you don't regret your decision, then I say it is for the best. Save yourself a lot of drama over in-laws and family matters. Those are unnecessary and counter-productive.



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My Taurus was also the first version. But we lock horns...
LOL....

Aren't you Taurus yourself too? I infer from the messages you post.

Surprised to see you lock horns. I thought first type is the nicer, not nasty version? Or you lock horns cos both of you are Tauruses and the horns are there because you're both stubborn?

I am also a Taurus but same like signs Do have all the answers especially when they are the different sexes who also work differently.. Issues of life also and day to day problems also get in the way....

So yes "locking horns with too bulls is inevitable" ...

I am on here as I have been ill for last couple of weeks so not been at work..

Although he is my Mr perfect. His mars in Pisces in the 8th house conjuncts my Venus in Pisces in the 8th house

he has a VIG in the 12th house and Saturn in cancer in the 12th house... And my Saturn is in Pisces!!

Weird right??
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I just dropped you a post on the other thread. Hope you are much better now! Coughing is it?

I have a Taurus friend whose sibling is a Taurus too. Always locking horns at home!

Now that I see your placements, that's quite complimentary and also has lots of chemistry! I thought you'd understand each other very well and do things at the same pace etc etc

I like your 12th house placements. Will make you a deep and insightful person.



Awww busy

Thanks a lot.... I didn't contact him. I mean I did after he said bye but he didn't pick up and I didn't call him after that.

How am I to be with him if he won't even get angry or shout at me? And avoids me when he is angry?

I won't call him at all.... I know how stubborn he can be. But he is making things worse, atleast I was there for him despite the way his family spoke. I never showed even a bit of how much I was hurt by them to him. Idk.... If he needs space from me, what is the point of me being there? I can understand someone walking away for an hour or two to de-stress. This looks like I'm not a part of him, that's how it feels to me.

I know, I have read your posts. I think your Gem ex must have loved you a lot. Worst thing a loved one can do to us is to ignore us. We won't care if someone else does it though.

I don't think you are the only one hurting. From your background situation, your Taurus must be also hurting a lot, that's why he said those things to you. I believe with the depth of your relationship, he does care deeply for you, or he'd never do the things he does. It takes a lot for Taurus to do something special for others.

I feel you did the right thing by ending it FOR NOW. If your Taurus is serious about you, he will sort it out with his family and get back to you. No use to trouble yourself with worries about converting and how you might look in front of his family. Those are issues on his side. He needs to stand up for you.

While I understand in Asia family bonds are tied, eventually it still comes down to both of you. We do make accommodations for family, but NOT to the extent that we should change ourselves or what we believe in. That is not how people work.

When it comes to religions and family objections, I find that when the guy is strong, usually the family will GIVE IN eventually cos they know it is not their lives to live and they can't change people who believe in themselves.

You stood up for your belief, that's great. At least in future, no one will make you change what you are not willing to.

Who knows, if you cater once, maybe they will ask for more in the future?



Happy Valentines' Day to you ladies! I have great joy listening and talking to you.

I just realize today I haven't really given my review for this book though I started with the intention of doing so. And now we're on page 5! lol

I'd just say I find it a good book, that's why I recommend it. I like it because it is short and sweet which makes it pretty easy to read. Found a lot of things to be quite concise. Sometimes I wish there'd be more stories or written as descriptively as Anna.

I read it after Anna Kovach's Taurus Man Secrets which I found to be good as well. The section on compatibility really takes up a lot of pages which can be used for more things on understanding Taurus. A bit expensive but comes with guarantee which is trustworthy. But if you take into the consultation service, then it's a fairly cheap price.

Taurus Man Decoded is very Taurus-focused and what I like is how Diana comes in from her insight, rather than just repeat how romantic, nice or what a great husband Taurus is. She tells you the shit. Even though I don't have big issues with my Taurus, I found a lot of small things which are quite helpful like what does it mean when a Taurus says blah blah blah and her views on Taurus man.

Sometimes when I think about it, I like how Taurus are steady the way they move in a relationship. The sad thing is I agree with Diana not all women have years to test out a potential relationship.

Why can't Taurus just be a bit faster?
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I think the book is pretty accurate and spot on. For anyone wanting advice or is confused with dating a Taurus, this is a great book to read. It gives better advice then you'll ever find on here
I feel the same way too, that's why I recommend it after reading.

With my experience, most things happen in the book happened to me. Luckily, mine don't have to deal with drugs and sex issues. But exes and harem can be quite an issue. I hope the author writes more on these though, like details.

Anyway, luckily romance is not the only important thing in life.

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Same. I wish I came across this book years ago. Would have saved me a lot of time and research lol

Thank you for agreeing that I made the right decision. Not sure whether it is permanent or not. But I believe there is a limit as to what we can put ourself through to sustain a relationship. I doubt I will ever forget the words his aunt used.

Or the fact he didn't bother to listen to me, when I asked him to.

Thank you so much

... Hope you will have a great Valentine's day with your Taurus Big Grin

Yes, you certainly did. Just let it be for the time being and see how things go. If he is serious about you, he will work things out on his side.

My Taurus when he is mad also does not listen to me. After some time, he will come back but usually not immediately.

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I'm moving on Sad

It's for the best, I think.

Thanks a lot!
No problem at all! You're such a friendly lady.



Finally found the old thread.

Can I ask you ladies whether it's okay if I use some of your comments for a book review that I planned to write? No mention of people or anything personal will be disclosed, only opinions.

My Taurus will be going away for work in another country for a short while. Think I can re-read the book and write something on it.

Thanks for keeping me company JohntheBaptist. When I first came up here, I thought you were a guy because of your username. Lol!
I posted the above few days ago asking your permission to include your comments, quotes and opinions on a review that I plan to write. Can I just take silence as consent if I don't hear objections in the next week? Asking because I respect the rights and copyrights of others. My boss said that to me once after I quoted him without getting his permission first. Learnt my lesson there.

Any constructive feedback, good or bad things anyone wishes to add on about the book?

Bashing is also okay. I follow the author's blog, so maybe I can relay that back to the author too.

My Taurus just left for work in another country. Won't be seeing him for quite a while. Quite happy for the break though. Life's busy.
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Posted by Nefertari
I posted the above few days ago asking your permission to include your comments, quotes and opinions on a review that I plan to write. Can I just take silence as consent if I don't hear objections in the next week? Asking because I respect the rights and copyrights of others. My boss said that to me once after I quoted him without getting his permission first. Learnt my lesson there.

Any constructive feedback, good or bad things anyone wishes to add on about the book?

Bashing is also okay. I follow the author's blog, so maybe I can relay that back to the author too.

My Taurus just left for work in another country. Won't be seeing him for quite a while. Quite happy for the break though. Life's busy.
Why can't tauruses stay in one country! Lol lol

Mine spends more time abroad than he does with me of late! It's like pulling teeth!

Yes sure i give you my consent if you think they would be of any use lol lol lol
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Thanks dear. It always seem like you are the most responsive on this Taurus forum! You are very generous with your time and feedback in helping out others. I find that admirable smile

I think Tauruses are pretty hardworking and also very workaholic, that's why they always get selected to go work in other countries for their company....... capable people.

I received an email from the author lately asking for feedback. Thinking of giving her helpful comments, rather than just good reviews so she can think about what changes she can make and help other ladies in the future. Came at an appropriate time cos my Taurus happens to go away leaving me with more 'space' to think about Taurus.

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Happy Valentines' Day to you ladies! I have great joy listening and talking to you.

I just realize today I haven't really given my review for this book though I started with the intention of doing so. And now we're on page 5! lol

I'd just say I find it a good book, that's why I recommend it. I like it because it is short and sweet which makes it pretty easy to read. Found a lot of things to be quite concise. Sometimes I wish there'd be more stories or written as descriptively as Anna.

I read it after Anna Kovach's Taurus Man Secrets which I found to be good as well. The section on compatibility really takes up a lot of pages which can be used for more things on understanding Taurus. A bit expensive but comes with guarantee which is trustworthy. But if you take into the consultation service, then it's a fairly cheap price.

Taurus Man Decoded is very Taurus-focused and what I like is how Diana comes in from her insight, rather than just repeat how romantic, nice or what a great husband Taurus is. She tells you the shit. Even though I don't have big issues with my Taurus, I found a lot of small things which are quite helpful like what does it mean when a Taurus says blah blah blah and her views on Taurus man.

Sometimes when I think about it, I like how Taurus are steady the way they move in a relationship. The sad thing is I agree with Diana not all women have years to test out a potential relationship.

Why can't Taurus just be a bit faster?
Baptist, my Taurus got back from overseas a few months ago. What have you been up to and where are you hiding? Christmas is just around the corner. Hope you are happy wherever you are.