Taurus man interested or not interested?
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by londonlibralady on Sunday, September 21, 2014 and has 8 replies.
So i went on a first date with this great Taurus guy last week, we really hit it off, talked loads, laughed loads over drinks, there was lots of smiling and eye contact, and i could tell he wanted to make a move, but it took him until the end of the night and several drinks to finally kiss me. It was really sensual and amazing!! Then he asked me a million questions about whether i liked him and wanted to see him again. I said yes. He texted me once a day everyday that week, (i think he's pretty bad at texting, so that seemed like a good sign to hear from him once every day), then he asked me for another date, which took place last night.
Date #2 was also very good, same thing happened, lots of laughing and talking and smiling, but he took a while to make a move, even though we had been smooching the week before. Date 2 seemed so successful he even said "we're definitely going on a 3rd date". Then it got quite late and i missed my last train home, i thought i would call a taxi but he pretty much begged me to stay at his, which was a short walk from the bar. I was really hesitant and told him i didnt want to sleep with him and he promised absolutely no sex, he just wanted to cuddle me, and that he'd make me a nice breakfast in the morning. We spent the whole night making out in his bed and it got pretty hot and heavy until i had to reiterate that i didnt want to have sex, and then he just cuddled me tightly all night instead. Woke up in the morning and we slept in until midday, which is REALLY unusual for him as he said he likes to get up really early and do housework. Then he suddenly just bolted out of bed and out of his room and i could hear him doing housework. He left me in his room for quite a while then came back and asked if i wanted breakfast then bolted out of the house, leaving me alone again. He didnt bother introducing me to his housemates, he just left me in his room feeling awkward, i was too shy to come out and introduce myself, especially because i'd be embarrassed that they'd think i was a one night stand or something.
Then he invited me into the kitchen for breakfast and we ate together and talked for a while. I felt pretty awkward in last nights clothes and makeup, and felt like maybe i looked pretty dishevelled, but then he was pretty scruffy and messy looking anyway, so i'm not sure he minded. Then he kept talking about how he wanted to spend the day doing housework, so i said "do you want me to leave?" and he laughed and said "of co
Date #2 was also very good, same thing happened, lots of laughing and talking and smiling, but he took a while to make a move, even though we had been smooching the week before. Date 2 seemed so successful he even said "we're definitely going on a 3rd date". Then it got quite late and i missed my last train home, i thought i would call a taxi but he pretty much begged me to stay at his, which was a short walk from the bar. I was really hesitant and told him i didnt want to sleep with him and he promised absolutely no sex, he just wanted to cuddle me, and that he'd make me a nice breakfast in the morning. We spent the whole night making out in his bed and it got pretty hot and heavy until i had to reiterate that i didnt want to have sex, and then he just cuddled me tightly all night instead. Woke up in the morning and we slept in until midday, which is REALLY unusual for him as he said he likes to get up really early and do housework. Then he suddenly just bolted out of bed and out of his room and i could hear him doing housework. He left me in his room for quite a while then came back and asked if i wanted breakfast then bolted out of the house, leaving me alone again. He didnt bother introducing me to his housemates, he just left me in his room feeling awkward, i was too shy to come out and introduce myself, especially because i'd be embarrassed that they'd think i was a one night stand or something.
Then he invited me into the kitchen for breakfast and we ate together and talked for a while. I felt pretty awkward in last nights clothes and makeup, and felt like maybe i looked pretty dishevelled, but then he was pretty scruffy and messy looking anyway, so i'm not sure he minded. Then he kept talking about how he wanted to spend the day doing housework, so i said "do you want me to leave?" and he laughed and said "of co
"of course not" and then instead offered to take me for a walk in the park but it felt like it was with a view to take me to the train station. We ended up on a 2 hour walk around a park, and his town, he showed me all the shops and markets, and then took me to the train station, which had no trains!! I said i'd figure out how to get home by myself and he could go home and do his housework and he said "no i'm not going to leave you stranded" then he waited another hour for me to wait for a bus home, and we sat in a coffee shop where he kept looking up all the bus information for me on his phone, and i kept saying "you dont have to wait, you can go home, its fine" and he said "no i'll wait" which was nice, but still the whole time it felt awkward because neither of us was being physically affectionate with each other, i know i wanted to, but i felt too shy to touch him because he was being so distant in the morning with all of his house work. I couldnt really tell if he was just being polite to me or if he actually wanted to stick around and spend time with me. To me it felt like he just didnt want to make a move on me, but that could easily be mistaken, as he could have been too nervous to do it in the sober light of day. But what made me feel worse was that my bus came abruptly and he quickly kissed me on the cheek as a goodbye. And it made me feel awful and that maybe that was deliberate to show that he didnt like me? We'd been kissing like crazy the night before, i dont understand why he couldnt give me a proper kiss goodbye.
But then i dont know if he just felt too uncomfortable to make another move?!
Would he have spent the whole day with me if he wasnt still interested?
How do Taurus men behave when they arent interested?!
I'm feeling pretty bummed out as we had two amazing dates and we get on so well and have loads to talk about and loads in common, i feel like we have a real potential!
But then i dont know if he just felt too uncomfortable to make another move?!
Would he have spent the whole day with me if he wasnt still interested?
How do Taurus men behave when they arent interested?!
I'm feeling pretty bummed out as we had two amazing dates and we get on so well and have loads to talk about and loads in common, i feel like we have a real potential!
Posted by Koniucha
Not a Taurus or a man, but perhaps he figured you guys would have sex anyways. He didn't get what he wanted? Spending a night with a guy that early never seems like a good idea.
Yeah, but i was pretty stern with him about it and said i absolutely dont want to before i agreed to go back. And he said it was fine and he sincerely said "i promise no sex" and when we were making out, it was becoming steamy but he was also making a very conscious effort not to hold himself back. He was very gentlemanly about it. So i dont know if that was really the issue. I also think he mainly wanted me to come back because he knew it would be more convenient for me, so i didnt have to pay for a cab, and because he also wanted to just generally spend more time with me i.e the next day. I also think if he only wanted sex, he would've tried to on the first date, but he didn't. He doesnt strike me as selfish or only interested in sex.
*making a conscious effort to hold himself back
Posted by Chael
don't read too much into it sounds like he was just being a gentleman. i'd do the same.
so do you mean he was just being polite and he's not that into me then? :/
@OP: you are reaaaaalllly pretty *-* libra rising?
as for dating a taurus guy, a few tips:
1)DO NOT stop living your life just cuz he is gone...they disappear into their lil world, give him space
2)Dont look into it too much, stop overthinking about every little detail
3)Keep it classy, dont throw yourself at him or any other guy...its a turn off for a bull
just my 2 cents :-)
1)DO NOT stop living your life just cuz he is gone...they disappear into their lil world, give him space
2)Dont look into it too much, stop overthinking about every little detail
3)Keep it classy, dont throw yourself at him or any other guy...its a turn off for a bull
just my 2 cents :-)
If you don??t want to have sex should not sleep with a man, feel like lemurs.
If you want magical moments happen once, I don??t understand why women underestimate themselves as women, their sexuality, trading, withholding sex pending better pay.
I will never understand this way of functioning stupid and fake. And yes, I can believe men have problems before sex and women after but if a man acts well with me so definitely I don??t care that man. If I wanted children would have one.
If you want magical moments happen once, I don??t understand why women underestimate themselves as women, their sexuality, trading, withholding sex pending better pay.
I will never understand this way of functioning stupid and fake. And yes, I can believe men have problems before sex and women after but if a man acts well with me so definitely I don??t care that man. If I wanted children would have one.
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