Taurus man is confusing?
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by ScorpioNov8 on Saturday, April 8, 2017 and has 8 replies.
This is a continuation of my first post.
After the big break up we didn't talk for four days. Then apparently my friend went behind my back and called him to ask him about some money he was supposed to give me for a doctors appointment. A few hours later he calls me while I'm at the gym and tells me about how she had called him. He says that he was actually getting ready to come to the gym and I was like OK and I asked him if he could give me a ride back to my car when he was done and he said he wouldn't mind. Also he still pays for my gym membership.
When he gets to the gym he comes over to me and he seems so excited to see me and he is giving me compliments left and right and… This next part is kind of gross… He says he misses me popping his pimples and asked me to pop a pimple on his face. So I ask him if he misses me so much why he hasn't called me or why didn't you reply to my text. He said he would call me more and his explanation was that he thought I wanted space so he was trying not to bother me. So I also take this time to ask him about the girl he says the girl was just a friend and she was short on money so he was helping her out. He says he's single he's not trying to date anyone he's literally just trying to focus on school. He also told me that he told his parents and other family that we broke up and I asked him if you wanted to get his clothes from my house and he's told me "no it'll give me an excuse to come back."
Enjoy the night at the gym goes on and on he tries to reach his hand out to help me get down all of the stairstepper and I said to him "no thanks I'm a big girl." We continue talking and then we finally leave the gym and while were in the car he turns on my favorite music and I began to laugh. He then told me that he purposely did that because he wanted to see me smile. Also he said he'll continue to pay for my membership until further notice. We talked about our relationship a little bit and he said he felt that it would be best if we didn't talk to each other AT ALL. Then he began to flirt again which lead to us having relations in his car and then I got in my car and went home.
The next day we were texting about him giving me the money. when he comes to get me the money he was dressed really nice in one of my favorite outfits and he smelled good and he was in a hurry because he had to meet with his lab group but he agreed to sit down for a second and talk with me and I give him a gift of his favorite snacks with a really nice apology card. He said that it was really nice and he wasn't expecting me to do that. So at this point he agreed that maybe we could talk once a month rather than not at all. I also told him that I didn't want to lose him when I gave them the gift and he replied "you're not going to lose me." I asked if it was OK for us to kiss he got a little angry and said no and then we just hugged and he left.
We didn't talk the next day at all and then the next following day I text him and asked him if he could call me when you get out of class and he called me. When he first answer it he sounded a little upset and he jokingly said "this is your one call a month" and then he said he was just kidding he would probably call me sometime later but I could tell he was just really eager to get to the point of why we were on the phone. We talked for a little bit you know catching up about little things he asked me about the doctor and we talked about my orthodontist appointment that he was supposed to take me to. He said he didn't really have much gas but he could go with me if I wasn't able to find anyone else to go with. Kind of like saying that he would be my last resort and also He said that he read my card and it was really sweet and it made him smile.
The next day I sent him a video just to verify something that we were talking about and you know he sent me a reply then I sent him a reply then nothing. So if you hours later I text him again and I say that I'm sorry but I just needed to correct the day of my orthodontist appointment because I had told him the wrong day.… still he did not reply. So then finally the next day which was actually today I text him and I'm like hey I'm just checking on you and still no reply.
So I'm just totally confused. He acts like he still wants to be with me but then if we talk about being together he gets angry and then he starts not replying to me but that could be because we agreed not to talk but I was just verifying the date.
After the big break up we didn't talk for four days. Then apparently my friend went behind my back and called him to ask him about some money he was supposed to give me for a doctors appointment. A few hours later he calls me while I'm at the gym and tells me about how she had called him. He says that he was actually getting ready to come to the gym and I was like OK and I asked him if he could give me a ride back to my car when he was done and he said he wouldn't mind. Also he still pays for my gym membership.
When he gets to the gym he comes over to me and he seems so excited to see me and he is giving me compliments left and right and… This next part is kind of gross… He says he misses me popping his pimples and asked me to pop a pimple on his face. So I ask him if he misses me so much why he hasn't called me or why didn't you reply to my text. He said he would call me more and his explanation was that he thought I wanted space so he was trying not to bother me. So I also take this time to ask him about the girl he says the girl was just a friend and she was short on money so he was helping her out. He says he's single he's not trying to date anyone he's literally just trying to focus on school. He also told me that he told his parents and other family that we broke up and I asked him if you wanted to get his clothes from my house and he's told me "no it'll give me an excuse to come back."
Enjoy the night at the gym goes on and on he tries to reach his hand out to help me get down all of the stairstepper and I said to him "no thanks I'm a big girl." We continue talking and then we finally leave the gym and while were in the car he turns on my favorite music and I began to laugh. He then told me that he purposely did that because he wanted to see me smile. Also he said he'll continue to pay for my membership until further notice. We talked about our relationship a little bit and he said he felt that it would be best if we didn't talk to each other AT ALL. Then he began to flirt again which lead to us having relations in his car and then I got in my car and went home.
The next day we were texting about him giving me the money. when he comes to get me the money he was dressed really nice in one of my favorite outfits and he smelled good and he was in a hurry because he had to meet with his lab group but he agreed to sit down for a second and talk with me and I give him a gift of his favorite snacks with a really nice apology card. He said that it was really nice and he wasn't expecting me to do that. So at this point he agreed that maybe we could talk once a month rather than not at all. I also told him that I didn't want to lose him when I gave them the gift and he replied "you're not going to lose me." I asked if it was OK for us to kiss he got a little angry and said no and then we just hugged and he left.
We didn't talk the next day at all and then the next following day I text him and asked him if he could call me when you get out of class and he called me. When he first answer it he sounded a little upset and he jokingly said "this is your one call a month" and then he said he was just kidding he would probably call me sometime later but I could tell he was just really eager to get to the point of why we were on the phone. We talked for a little bit you know catching up about little things he asked me about the doctor and we talked about my orthodontist appointment that he was supposed to take me to. He said he didn't really have much gas but he could go with me if I wasn't able to find anyone else to go with. Kind of like saying that he would be my last resort and also He said that he read my card and it was really sweet and it made him smile.
The next day I sent him a video just to verify something that we were talking about and you know he sent me a reply then I sent him a reply then nothing. So if you hours later I text him again and I say that I'm sorry but I just needed to correct the day of my orthodontist appointment because I had told him the wrong day.… still he did not reply. So then finally the next day which was actually today I text him and I'm like hey I'm just checking on you and still no reply.
So I'm just totally confused. He acts like he still wants to be with me but then if we talk about being together he gets angry and then he starts not replying to me but that could be because we agreed not to talk but I was just verifying the date.
Posted by ScorpioNov8
@TaurusBull1977
Yeah, I am VERY manipulative at times. I'm definitely going to focus on me for now. I did tell him it was too soon for me when we started dating but I guess we got caught up more in physical things which turned into the relationship. Yes, you are right though I have to find myself first. Thanks !
@jeane Right! I'm getting myself distracted AGAIN! I'm crazy I guess.
Posted by ScorpioNov8
@jeane Right! I'm getting myself distracted AGAIN! I'm crazy I guess.
Just remember to think the next time you are going down on him in the car "am I getting distracted?"
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Damn funny!Posted by jeaneLololololololol Lololololololol Lololololololol Lololololololol Lololololololol LolololololololPosted by ScorpioNov8
@jeane Right! I'm getting myself distracted AGAIN! I'm crazy I guess.
Just remember to think the next time you are going down on him in the car "am I getting distracted?"
That has got to be quote of the week!!
Lololololololol Lololololololol Lolololololololclick to expand
I feel for ScorpNov8. The attraction btw Scorp and Taurus make me very jealous!! And you know what, I like both signs.
How about printing a T-shirt with the words "Am I getting distracted?"
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100While I was with my Taurus, I used to be jealous of the Taurus-Scorp connection that I keep hearing about at forums. Most of the Scorps I know are pretty popular magnetic ladies with a killer charm of their own, so I was thinking this must be the type of women who land Taurus.
That's a good idea!
Taurus also like a challenge....
Taurus studies and read people's actions before they act... If the person becomes too obvious and too easy the challenge is gone... Unfortunately for the OP and many women like her, the Taurus knew what she was going to do before she did it!
There's no mystery....
My Taurus once asked me which sign does Taurus goes well with. He was soliciting me to answer Virgo, but I just couldn't since we are colleagues and that would be awkward, so I told him Scorpios. Said he tried but could never connect with Scorpio girls. His two best buddies are Scorps though. Then I said he also goes well with Caps and Virgos like I'm the second choice after Scorps. Sometimes I wonder what it'd be like if he does meet a Scorp woman he'd fall madly for one day. That'd be interesting.
Surprisingly, Scorps being the powerful dominant people would meet their nemesis in Taurus. Definitely agree with you on the reading actions before they act and since Taurus are so patient and never in a hurry, all the other signs ( not just Scorps) lose out to them.
Posted by jeanedickstractedPosted by ScorpioNov8
@jeane Right! I'm getting myself distracted AGAIN! I'm crazy I guess.
Just remember to think the next time you are going down on him in the car "am I getting distracted?"click to expand
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100you got it LOL !Posted by tctaLol I like that...Posted by jeanedickstractedPosted by ScorpioNov8
@jeane Right! I'm getting myself distracted AGAIN! I'm crazy I guess.
Just remember to think the next time you are going down on him in the car "am I getting distracted?"
Like "dickmatized".... Lol lolclick to expand
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