Taurus Man Leaves Me confused?

I'm back again....with trying to figure out my Taurus man..I am a scorpio and I have many suitors local..and have dated others in our Five months of dating...only because the never ending cycle..He calls all the time and texts in incessantly? He is svery spriritual and claims no one else can touch him but me! We have been intimate once and it was a little push pull...but never climaxed! It was good, but he left an old suit in my homE AND i WANT IT GONE! and its been another month with lost of excuses mainly the push and pull! I complain an nag why he takes so long to see me and the more express my concern the more he pulls away. One thinh that is constant the push and pull! We both have been tested, but I want to still use a condom! He thinks that means I have been with another man! BUt he is not stupid he thinks I am protecting him from me cheating! Which is partially true...but its bottom line its its five months And two dates and one jaunt in the sack and five hours between us and he likes his freedom!

We plan an event next weekend and he now in five months has a business trip and no he is not married...I know for a fact! I checked him out! Hee! Hee!

He is seems to run hot and cold and then when I expressed concern bout sudden business trip he throws up in my face that I always Im going on business potentially, but yet I never go and of course he wants to come the folowing weekend! But I will have a date that weekend! Question is this butter or is this typical for taurus male! Keep in mind many have been called but few chosen..This is the longest I have waited entertained anyone...I get bored quick with bull shit! He told me he would be devastated but I am tired and I a ready to bounce to a sexy libra and leo!

excuse my mispelled words..above but it loaded before I got a chance to proof!

Is that possible, maybe since you two are 5 hours apart, but I am a scorpio woman like yourself dating a taurus and both of us are very busy but he defintely makes time at least once a week to come a make love to me. I work and go to school plus I have children, he has no children but works a lot, and I mean a lot but once a week usually on Sundays we make time for each other to talk, make love or whatever and maybe the distance between you two is the problem. I also agree with you about the condoms thing my bull said that when we had sex that he hadn't been with anyone in like 3mths and i told him the same but i am a Scorpio so I lied but he didn't want to use a condom and I dont understand bulls men and condoms. also at first he did act a little distant and I like you continue to date other people but now since he is making improvements I am being faithful.

One last thing, I have learned with taurus men you can not be pushy like we scorpio tend to be youmust let him moved at his own pace and if you rush him you will never get what you want, they move at their own steady pace unfournately.

Thank you Mr. Bull! coming from you thats a compliment! Yes, I am attractive and not just my face and very sexual! and my point is I need sex with or without condom? as long as we have clean paper work of course! Hee! Hee! Well as you know I too have not been faithful cause Im not like him i need sex and lots of it! preferably with the same man, but hell I do have a lot to choose from---But i was smitten with this bull, but not the bullshit!

Anywho...he is on his way to a business trip in the morning...I think its the event that I told him about..aint that a kick in the but! Anyway he left no forwarding address (Hotel) and he just picked up new pajamas at the store to go on this trip..yeeesh? I asked myself whats wrong with the old pair he brought when he came up here to see me! Why new ones unless he plans to show them to someone! Anyway....he planned a event in DC for Valentines day..I broke up with him and we reconnected only to hear that he was going to surpise me with the event i ruined it. I said were you going to invite me, "he said, no!" just wanted to show you that I was here doing productive things. He sends me proof of the back of his head with 2 other guys in tuxedos with money on the table> I said, "Well can I see the pics from party", he said, "Why! so you can ask more questions? By the way he doesnt do Holidays it was just business! I have never seen a mature man behave like this before..I thought these Taurus were great guys? He is also over 50 you would think that.....

Anyway if it means anything his venus is gemini? When i try to communicate what I want or need he just tells me Im complaining or negative nor matter how hard I try to phrase it as sincere as possible. But, yet he loves me so much and if I stopped the drama he wld see me more often.. Disappeared last weekend had a little misunderstanding and he calls sunday to say he found a plane ticket and wants to fly up to take me to dinner. Needless to say it was too expensive and too late as usual! Anybody can shed some light on this bizarre behavoir...??

Last but not least his car is always in the shop! and I only saw it once, but always a rent a car? Talks about a jaq and a delorean, but always need to rent another car cause they never fix it right? Last but not least he meets his VP boss at Burger Haven for a business mtg cause the office is too distracting! Now Im getting sick...my grrls tell me Im patient, but I always had an ace in the hole...speaking of which t

Hi TRobin,

I'm a Cancer with a Taurus man, I read your posts, one question I do have is. What are you looking for with your T man, more of his time but your freedom to do what you want or a committed relationship?

Very true....I really thought he was exceptional....he was my first Taurus and maybe not my last?

I think this one has a lot of game..my fon broke on friday and he sends me 10 messages why are you> whats going on? why dont you pick up? mean time he is with male friends in the event that he told he couldn't make that weekend....and repeatedly told me that he had an off site business meeting that may lead into weekend....i am being cold but he chooses not to get it, but he will! what a liar??

Still trying to get use to this 'Quote' system here...

'I complain an nag why he takes so long to see me and the more express my concern the more he pulls away.'


I experienced this also with my T - I think this is typical Taurus, they don't like to feel they are being told what to do/how to behave - even if you don't mean it like that. This is Taurus digging his stubborn heels in.


One thinh that is constant the push and pull! We both have been tested, but I want to still use a condom! He thinks that means I have been with another man! BUt he is not stupid he thinks I am protecting him from me cheating! Which is partially true...but its bottom line its its five months And two dates and one jaunt in the sack and five hours between us and he likes his freedom!

Exactly, 5 months and only 2 dates - I would definitely stick with the condoms.

Trobin,
all I know is: when there is distance (e.g., mileage) between a couple, usually, one or both are always discreetly keeping their options open. This is self preservation.

Trobin,
all I know is:
until the relationship is established and both trust each other, when there is distance (e.g., mileage) between a couple, usually, one or both are always discreetly keeping their options open. This is self preservation.

una craig..thanks for feedback? Great point about the distance and time...He just has to deal with it? I am not going to waiver this point? You are definitely right about the push and pull of the taurus! I disappeared over the weekend and he went nuts! They can be very confusing?

to answer to you Trobin your Taurus man is not up and up if he disappears all the time like that, cause as an older Taurus man when i care deeply for a woman especially a scorpio woman i will drive two hours at 10pm just to get to her. I dote on her and do everything in my power to hold and kiss her. We too are not wishy washy, that's why we move slow but when i'm sure i can be very obsessive to win her over.