Taurus man left me... help understanding?

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by walexandra1221 on Tuesday, October 21, 2014 and has 11 replies.
I met my taurus man at work. He pursued me like no other. I was hesitant at first but we ended up together. We had both just gotten out of relationships. Our relationship started off hot and heavy. We fell in love. His possessiveness, anger issues, and depression were slowly rising to the surface. The past month or so he was slowly falling into a stage of depression that he said he occasionally would go through and that it was really bad and he couldn't get out of it. He stopped showing me affection. He couldn't handle the arguing anymore, he would get frustrated over anything and everything and that would start a fight. He told me he didn't want to bring me down with him anymore and that he needs to work on himself and be alone because he's never felt so distant from himself. So I forced him to telling me he wanted to break up because he was being so passive aggressive and I didn't want to be strung along. so he broke up with me. I said to he you know we're not going to get back together right? And he replied with why do you say that? Which gave me a sense that he was planning on getting back together with me even though he told me he hadn't thought that far ahead. I'm just trying to understand if this is a typical taurus action. Will he try to get me back? He hasn't initiated any conversation since I last saw him at work 3 days ago (and neither have I) how could he just drop everything if he truly loves me and treated me like I was his queen?
Thank you for your time to respond. I'm so heart broken and could use some help
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What are his placements? And what are yours?
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I'm a sag with Scorpio rising. I never found out enough info to do his chart
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First of all, you should be a little more sensitive to the fact that he struggles with depression, and respect the fact that he actually told you about the situation (Taurus usually keep their feelings inside), and didn't want to bring you down with him. I struggle with depression myself, and when it's bad it's BAD - I'm always angry, and irritable, and I just feel like shit. I hurt the people I love the most unintentionally. I can't help it, and I hate myself for doing that to everyone. Whenever I notice myself doing this, I just try to distance myself as well because it's not fair to bring people down for no reason. Depression is a serious issue, and you should be there to support him and give him time alone, not force him to break up with you.
I get a sense that you want him to chase after you. Taurus are NOT the go-getters of the zodiac, they like to be pursued. So if you're expecting him to kiss your ass after making him dump you in the state that he's in, you're just setting yourself up for failure.
And when you say that you're not getting back together, they take it to the heart and will walk away for good. When a Taurus is done, they're DONE.
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Another Sag & Taurus strike & fail yet again.... What is up with this pairing?!?! So weird. They fail each and every time.
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I told him all I want is to be there for him and support him but he just won't let me. He was telling me that he thought it was best to break up...but just wasn't actually doing it. I knew he wanted to but didn't have the ability to do it on his own. He knows I want to be with him and work things out so he shouldn't take that to heart. It just hurts more to know that he doesn't know if he'd want to get back together once he's worked on himself enough to where he could be in a relationship
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walex,
if he didn't contacted you for 3 days. then initiate the contact again until it hurts until it heals you.
hahaha. My bf taurus and I just had a *let go* option. I'm used to this.
I initiated. He just take it. so no problem.
Taurus just come and go. Do the same thing. Inject the dosage he want to taste.
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On 10/22 he texted me because he saw me on pof dating site. My cousin made the profile to try and boost my confidence. I wasn't actually using it. So we ended up talking about how I don't understand how he could just give up on us. And all he says is he can't hurt me anymore and I deserve better than him. On 10/24 we were talking and flirting at work and he said he had a moment of weakness and couldn't hang out with me(because we almost did) because he needs to figure himself out. Then 10/25 we were friendly again at work. He made a point to say bye to me because he got out before me. He was letting me know what he was doing that night and we just kind of stared into each others eyes. I can't tell through his eyes that he loves me. So I told him alright have a good time sincerely. And he went to hug me all dorky like not even touching and I was like really lol? So he pulled me in and hugged me and grabbed my butt. And I haven't talked to him since. I will see him tomorrow at work. I'm just trying to keep my strength up. All I can think of is that he doesn't think about me or miss me Sad
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I want nothing more than to fix our relationship. I love him will all of my heart
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He's got it in his mind that he's not good enough for me. I think I'll just give him more time to be by himself like he wants. I just don't want to push him away even more. He knows I want to be with him. But it's the convincing him that I love him for who he is and that I'll go through thick and thin with him is what's going to be hard
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5 months or so. But there was so much feeling and emotion and passion during that time
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