SweetLibraConfused
@SweetLibraConfused
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Taurus man playing me?
Guy your input would be really appreciated!
He sounds flighty .. what are his placements ?
The part that inituitively stuck out to me was when he suggested distance while you guys were hanging out with his friends. That should have been a red flag.
You moved to fast sexually but you know that already.
It’s a strong possibility he’s hiding things or he got what he wanted easier than he thought he would bc he’s pursued for so long.
You moved to fast sexually but you know that already.
It’s a strong possibility he’s hiding things or he got what he wanted easier than he thought he would bc he’s pursued for so long.
It sounds like he really likes you and has for a long time. Maybe you’re confusing him, so he’s acting hot and cold in your opinion, and is his mind, he’s scared to come on too strong.
Posted by SofiaV87
He sounds flighty .. what are his placements ?
Posted by SofiaV87Sorry Sofia, I'm new here so still working out on how to reply. I don't know much about astrology so I don't know about his placements. I only know his birthday and year.
He sounds flighty .. what are his placements ?
Posted by Aries_Luminary
The part that inituitively stuck out to me was when he suggested distance while you guys were hanging out with his friends. That should have been a red flag.
You moved to fast sexually but you know that already.
It’s a strong possibility he’s hiding things or he got what he wanted easier than he thought he would bc he’s pursued for so long.
Aries_Luminay he did ask me if I must go to the cocktail party or just spend the eve with him and his friends and stay the night but I chose not to be too available for him so I declined and went to the party instead.
Posted by HippieGemHippieGem he did text me when I was on my weekend holiday to ask me how it was. I got back on Monday and texted him a good morning and a lovely week. He just replied 'thanks. I'm traveling for the next 10 days'. I asked him where and how was his party on sat but he hasn't read it till now. 😢
It sounds like he really likes you and has for a long time. Maybe you’re confusing him, so he’s acting hot and cold in your opinion, and is his mind, he’s scared to come on too strong.
Posted by tizianiFingers crossed because I have liked him for 4 years too. I have looked for an opportunity to meet him again but it didn't happen until few weeks ago. Our mutual friend did mentioned once that he asked my number and I told him to give it him but I guess he didn't give him because he too had a crush on me. Lol
Sounds legit.
I advise caution.
Just don’t start or feed into any unhealthy patterns, trying to match his energy of not being available.
Take a moment to ask yourself what you want. And don’t get sucked into dating games or create any.
I haven’t dated in a long time, but ppl will give a million supporting reasons why it’s okay for a person to respond to a text or whatever 4 and 5 Days later. But that behavior is rude to me. I truly understand being busy. But within a week there is at least one moment of down time to acknowledge someone’s text and tell them that you saw it and you guys will speak more in depth when you get a moment.
Friends don’t behave that way. Co workers don’t act that way. So why is it okay for someone you’ve had sex with to move that way?!
Take a moment to ask yourself what you want. And don’t get sucked into dating games or create any.
I haven’t dated in a long time, but ppl will give a million supporting reasons why it’s okay for a person to respond to a text or whatever 4 and 5 Days later. But that behavior is rude to me. I truly understand being busy. But within a week there is at least one moment of down time to acknowledge someone’s text and tell them that you saw it and you guys will speak more in depth when you get a moment.
Friends don’t behave that way. Co workers don’t act that way. So why is it okay for someone you’ve had sex with to move that way?!
Posted by SweetLibraConfusedYou should speak to him about how the way you two are communicating isn’t working for you.Posted by HippieGemHippieGem he did text me when I was on my weekend holiday to ask me how it was. I got back on Monday and texted him a good morning and a lovely week. He just replied 'thanks. I'm traveling for the next 10 days'. I asked him where and how was his party on sat but he hasn't read it till now. 😢
It sounds like he really likes you and has for a long time. Maybe you’re confusing him, so he’s acting hot and cold in your opinion, and is his mind, he’s scared to come on too strong.click to expand
Never be afraid to speak your mind in a relationship. If they can’t deal with it or don’t want to, you have your answer. If they try to change it to compromise, you again have your answer. Either way you know where you stand with him.
Posted by Aries_LuminaryI find it rude too. He's never gone this long without being in touch.
Just don’t start or feed into any unhealthy patterns, trying to match his energy of not being available.
Take a moment to ask yourself what you want. And don’t get sucked into dating games or create any.
I haven’t dated in a long time, but ppl will give a million supporting reasons why it’s okay for a person to respond to a text or whatever 4 and 5 Days later. But that behavior is rude to me. I truly understand being busy. But within a week there is at least one moment of down time to acknowledge someone’s text and tell them that you saw it and you guys will speak more in depth when you get a moment.
Friends don’t behave that way. Co workers don’t act that way. So why is it okay for someone you’ve had sex with to move that way?!
Posted by HippieGemI need to have a talk with him when I see him again. He sometimes seems very unsure of me. It's like he wants to know if I'm dating other people because he will make these odd comments sometimes. For example, he was hell bent on seeing me before I left for my weekend holiday, I have a feeling that he thought I might be going with a guy. He moved everything around in 1 evening and spent 10hrs of travel to see me, and when we were out at dinner he remarks that he doesn't even know who I'm going with for the weekend. I told him we are a group of 15 and he is more than welcome to join us. He seemed to relax after that and he said that he wants to go to that place again but just the 2 of us.Posted by SweetLibraConfusedYou should speak to him about how the way you two are communicating isn’t working for you.Posted by HippieGemHippieGem he did text me when I was on my weekend holiday to ask me how it was. I got back on Monday and texted him a good morning and a lovely week. He just replied 'thanks. I'm traveling for the next 10 days'. I asked him where and how was his party on sat but he hasn't read it till now. 😢
It sounds like he really likes you and has for a long time. Maybe you’re confusing him, so he’s acting hot and cold in your opinion, and is his mind, he’s scared to come on too strong.
Never be afraid to speak your mind in a relationship. If they can’t deal with it or don’t want to, you have your answer. If they try to change it to compromise, you again have your answer. Either way you know where you stand with him.click to expand
Call this speculation, or an educated guess.
He's insecure and doesn't trust you.
I disagree with the others, there was nothing in his patterns of behavior to indicate 'unpredictability.'
He was quite consistent in the beginning.
He's attempting to build bridges and you 're appearing aloof on the surface as if he's not on your priority list.
He's not 'toying' with you 'testing' you, he's disconnecting from you.
This Bull doesn't want to compete with "party time' from an unavailable "party girl."
The text messages will become more sporadic.
He's insecure and doesn't trust you.
I disagree with the others, there was nothing in his patterns of behavior to indicate 'unpredictability.'
He was quite consistent in the beginning.
He's attempting to build bridges and you 're appearing aloof on the surface as if he's not on your priority list.
He's not 'toying' with you 'testing' you, he's disconnecting from you.
This Bull doesn't want to compete with "party time' from an unavailable "party girl."
The text messages will become more sporadic.
Not judging you, but this is how you appear on the surface.
Posted by TaurusBull1977Thanks for the input TaurusBull1977. I do think he's insecure a bit. But I didn't think he would mind about that party. He went out the previous night with his friends (I wasn't invited 😝) and I didn't mind because I had to go the next day for a sundowner cocktail and he knew I went home from the party by 10pm because I had a very early morning schedule the next day. Btw he owns bars, restaurants and nightclubs in different cities so he parties more than I do, comes with the job. He's opening a new one in first week of December in another city so I guess that's where he's at now. No idea.
Call this speculation, or an educated guess.
He's insecure and doesn't trust you.
I disagree with the others, there was nothing in his patterns of behavior to indicate 'unpredictability.'
He was quite consistent in the beginning.
He's attempting to build bridges and you 're appearing aloof on the surface as if he's not on your priority list.
He's not 'toying' with you 'testing' you, he's disconnecting from you.
This Bull doesn't want to compete with "party time' from an unavailable "party girl."
The text messages will become more sporadic.
Posted by SweetLibraConfused* I meant cocktail party lol not chickentailPosted by TaurusBull1977Thanks for the input TaurusBull1977. I do think he's insecure a bit. But I didn't think he would mind about that party. He went out the previous night with his friends (I wasn't invited 😝) and I didn't mind because I had to go the next day for a sundowner cocktail and he knew I went home from the party by 10pm because I had a very early morning schedule the next day. Btw he owns bars, restaurants and nightclubs in different cities so he parties more than I do, comes with the job. He's opening a new one in first week of December in another city so I guess that's where he's at now. No idea.
Call this speculation, or an educated guess.
He's insecure and doesn't trust you.
I disagree with the others, there was nothing in his patterns of behavior to indicate 'unpredictability.'
He was quite consistent in the beginning.
He's attempting to build bridges and you 're appearing aloof on the surface as if he's not on your priority list.
He's not 'toying' with you 'testing' you, he's disconnecting from you.
This Bull doesn't want to compete with "party time' from an unavailable "party girl."
The text messages will become more sporadic.click to expand
* Cocktail party
I typed the correct spelling to the word so Why is that word getting changed when I post? Sorry 😐
@SweetLibra,
Bulls can be multi-dimensional depending on the placements.
But the basic core of a Bull will always remain the same...'conservatism.'
On the surface, you may see a 'party-goer'' but if he's a stereotypical Bull..."He's thinking...NUMBERS...and dollars....As you stated earlier, this just comes with the job.
He's not an Air Sign.
He's an Earth Sign.
Tread carefully.
Bulls can be multi-dimensional depending on the placements.
But the basic core of a Bull will always remain the same...'conservatism.'
On the surface, you may see a 'party-goer'' but if he's a stereotypical Bull..."He's thinking...NUMBERS...and dollars....As you stated earlier, this just comes with the job.
He's not an Air Sign.
He's an Earth Sign.
Tread carefully.
Posted by TaurusBull1977
@SweetLibra,
Bulls can be multi-dimensional depending on the placements.
But the basic core of a Bull will always remain the same...'conservatism.'
On the surface, you may see a 'party-goer'' but if he's a stereotypical Bull..."He's thinking...NUMBERS...and dollars....As you stated earlier, this just comes with the job.
He's not an Air Sign.
He's an Earth Sign.
Tread carefully.
@TaurusBull1977 thanks again. I seriously don't know how I should approach this situation now. He is coming back on Thursday I assume. As I said earlier I'm not the type to text him unless he text me because I don't want to intrude if he's busy or wants some time alone. Can you please give me some advice? I'm planning to have a talk with him when he's back and I will tell him that I'm not the type of girl who dates multiple guys. And I would like to go with the flow and see where this goes. ( he knows very well I always hang out with my group of girls anyways so I don't know why this insecurity)
It's not what you tell him...It's what you show him.
When you see him, arouse his senses.
Not sexually, but in subtle ways.
Touch him.
Smell nice.
Cook something nice for him.
If you want to verbalize anything (you're a libra, I'm sure you can't help it 😉)
Whisper in his ear "I miss you."
Put that Venusian energy to work.
When you see him, arouse his senses.
Not sexually, but in subtle ways.
Touch him.
Smell nice.
Cook something nice for him.
If you want to verbalize anything (you're a libra, I'm sure you can't help it 😉)
Whisper in his ear "I miss you."
Put that Venusian energy to work.
The main objective here is to put his insecurities at ease.
With a Bull,
This can only be expressed through actions.
With a Bull,
This can only be expressed through actions.
Posted by TaurusBull1977Thanks so much! 😊 I just hope he won't disconnect totally from me until then. I would like to give this a better shot than I've been doing so far.
It's not what you tell him...It's what you show him.
When you see him, arouse his senses.
Not sexually, but in subtle ways.
Touch him.
Smell nice.
Cook something nice for him.
If you want to verbalize anything (you're a libra, I'm sure you can't help it 😉)
Whisper in his ear "I miss you."
Put that Venusian energy to work.
So here's the update guys. He got in touch just now saying sorry but he's been traveling nonstop and that he's just landed in a particular city just now. I do believe that it must be really hectic for him right now because he came online today after almost 24hrs.
Posted by TaurusBull1977@TaurusBull is ok if I send you a private message? I just wanted to ask a couple of questions.
The main objective here is to put his insecurities at ease.
With a Bull,
This can only be expressed through actions.
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Confused Libra,