Taurus men, if you have patience, please read/help
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by VirgAnne on Friday, August 9, 2013 and has 2 replies.
Please enlighten me if you have some time to read my story. I'm so sorry but it's long. I'm speaking from the heart and if you're anything like him, I need your input. I met him bc his wife was dumping him for another guy and he turned to me for help in hooking him up with a buyer for his home and some legal help. He couldn't even think straight and was devastated. I was his sound board and his "way out" with a level head. Instantly I fell for him and got extremely attached to trying to save him and give him a confidante he could trust, hoping he'd feel the same once his head cleared from the pain of all of it. I knew he was beaten down bad by her, lost his home, and pretty much all he had, and he had to move about 2 hrs away from his daughter (hard on him but best place to go was back to his home town), and I was really all he had to confide in other than his family. We spoke for literally hours by phone, sometimes a couple times a week. The rest was daily texting about how to deal with his situation legally (I have background in that) and we would joke around as well. I knew we were attaching and adored him. He KNEW I'd do anything for him. I knew everything about his finances, new living situation, past gf's, childhood, family and life in general, but mostly what she did to him to break him. She was brutal and I'm 100% sure of it. He drank a lot. I think he got addicted to my fixing his situation while having someone to vent to while in the tub with a glass of wine and me on the phone for hours.
Long story short, he visited my town ONE NIGHT and we ended up going for drinks, and went back to my home and... well... Played checkers, if you know what I mean. There was chemistry but I was so nervous and crazy about him that I rushed it ensuring it would be done quick because it was too surreal having my dream come true there, knowing it may just end up hurting me if he was using me. That was last year. He had stayed the night, I admitted all my feelings to him about a month later and he said he wasn't able to get into a relationship -and even said I "baited" him by looking the way I did that night and being so nice to him. He said I knew from the start he was hurt and not ready and we should've never "played checkers" (ahem..) because while the papers were signed, the divorce wasnt signed off on by a judge yet, so he felt guilty. I was devastated bc we'd been working on his situation for about 6 months, with ALLLLL those hrs and days and months of him s
Long story short, he visited my town ONE NIGHT and we ended up going for drinks, and went back to my home and... well... Played checkers, if you know what I mean. There was chemistry but I was so nervous and crazy about him that I rushed it ensuring it would be done quick because it was too surreal having my dream come true there, knowing it may just end up hurting me if he was using me. That was last year. He had stayed the night, I admitted all my feelings to him about a month later and he said he wasn't able to get into a relationship -and even said I "baited" him by looking the way I did that night and being so nice to him. He said I knew from the start he was hurt and not ready and we should've never "played checkers" (ahem..) because while the papers were signed, the divorce wasnt signed off on by a judge yet, so he felt guilty. I was devastated bc we'd been working on his situation for about 6 months, with ALLLLL those hrs and days and months of him s
Is there more to the story? Looks like you got cut off....
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