TAURUS: picky & lonely

We need love but can't settle with less than perfect. What is wrong with us? We leave ourselves a lonely breed.

Or you find perfect and it is not the right time. What IS wrong with us?? Nothing, we just do not settle, not in our nature. Yes, taurusgoddess, a lonely breed we are but we are happier when we are alone.
It is our pasture. Yet we do like to wonder into other patures, when it suits our fancy.
Do we really stick around? In my opinion, I think so as long as we can go for a walk back to our old pasture just to look around a bit, smell the air, have a seat then we will return. We are loyal creatures, through and through. Just sometimes, we need our space.

"We need love but can't settle with less than perfect. What is wrong with us? We leave ourselves a lonely breed."

something happen in ur love life?

your quote doesnt apply to just tauri, everyone does it. everyone scrutinizes, which leads to insecurites, which leads to break ups.

I see that as a good thing, as hard as you might find it to be. If you settle for less for a while, you'll probably miss what would be awesome. It will just pass you by.

..."can't settle" we can't, I see this very much with the bulls. Yet we are a breed that neeeeeeeed it. Or think about it lots. I don't know. Ya something happened in my love life & it's terrible & I don't wanna talk about it. I just feel ill. Just talk like you guys love to do & I'll read & maybe I'll feel better as time goes by.

gawd, do we get over people?

I think with time we get over them...but not fully....I"m not fully over my xhusband..and I don't think I ever will b...I will carry that torch forever!!!

Its a shame we are like that...but sh*t happens

My two cents:

I used to believe in the idea of perfect love...but now I know it's just a myth.It's dangerously misleading...if you wait for that you'll be waiting forever...then one day you'll wake up and realize you're on the wrong side of 40 and ALONE. So,you eventually settle for less b/c you're afraid of dying alone.

And whoever said timing is always wrong when you meet the perfect guy is also deluding herself, b/c if the timing is right then the guy would no longer be perfect.It's like you always want that one thing you can't have...b/c you want it so much it looks perfect. The moment you've got it though you find out it isn't so perfect afterall.

Sorry, if I sound bitter, I'm having a bad day.

Yes, we do seek to settle but yet it's so hard to. We don't necessarily seek out perfection it's just that we rarely seriously get interested in anyone, any little thing will set us running- man maybe we are picky — Even while in a relationship we're analyzing it all the time. I find taurus to be the sign who will go without a relationship for the longest periods of time than any other sign. But I personally rather be alone a million times more than be with the wrong person- why the trouble? so stressful. And then when we love we can't let go. Listen to my funny story- when I was in first grade I had a crush on this little kid 'fernando piche' (see still remember his name) and I never had a crush on anyone else for the rest of my elementary school career 🙂 I liked him until I went on to 6th grade when I never saw him again and still thought of him. Then when I was 14 I realllllly liked this guy who was older than me, a friend of the family. It was torture, I liked him soooo much - maybe love ?? Ofcourse he was 9 yrs older and so you think he'd pay attention to me? exactly. He had my same b-day and was practically the guy version of me, so all I ever looked forward to was our families getting together so we could sit outside and be together (neither of us liked the fuss of gatherings) Well I went through high school without being interested in anyone else, I did go out with one guy but didn't feel anything for him and I hated to even have him call me- it stressed me out- didn't last. Don't get me wrong, I had my fun and went out and partied but when it came to guys I wasn't interested- my heart was set on one guy and I couldn't help it. Eventually I got over him when I was 18. Then at 18 I met my current crab but things didn't go well, each day was heart aching and painful without him, however I met another crab who I was interested in but never completely got over my first crab and couldn't help compare them and think of him and so things ended with this one (although I do think of him too, he was awesome just that my heart was taken) I dated lots and meeting guys is no problem to me. Well about a year went by and me and my current crab ran into each other again and he just held onto my horns with his pinchers since then 🙂 I couldn't get over him in all that time and I know I wouldn't be able to. My crab my crab my crab, well gotta go, working on a surprise for my moody crab 🙂

p.s. When I felt lonely I always thought "I have myself and that's all I need" you're strong, self-sufficient bulls, go out and have fun that love will find YOU.

Funny, i must have some bull in me because i'm exactly like that, chic.

"But I personally rather be alone a million times more than be with the wrong person- why the trouble? so stressful"

haha, I always tell people single rocks anyways, look around. Just look. Look at all the fukkin' "happy couples". Ya, I don't see them either.

On a more positive note, my parents have been married 35 years & still treat each other like a young inlove strong couple. The thing about seeing that is that I wouldn't want anything less because I know it is possible. (he's a taurus & she's a Virgo)

I kinda contracted myself here, but u get the drift. Or if you don't I am once again misunderstood.

I got what you're saying, taurusgoddess. I'm kinda the same way. My folks are Pisces/Virgo and its so cute to see them together. And my moms is way too cool, so cool that I have yet to find a woman to compare to her---so I'm stuck towing the line between single and happy an single and lonely and wanting some action.

Right now--I have to say I'm on the prowl. Hopefully I get lucky in the next few weeks. Us Taureans have no trouble attracting attention, though. 😄

Impatient then bored. How shitty is that. I'm with you. Sag, babe, I don't feel good today, give me a hug. ugh, I think I had too much grape juice. I am going up starting today. 🙂 (l)

thanks babe. where are you?

Hey Taurusgoddess, I can soooo relate to you. I totally get what you mean. I always feel like fuk man where is he and then when I find someone I have a connection with the timing is off. Will I ever settle??
Maybe it has something to do with the fact that we both have Gemini in venus. Probablly why I can really relate to so many of your postings. I'm also a taurus, moon in virgo and venus in gemini!

Hi,
This is my first post to this forum, I have been having a good time reading and got some insight. I am a Libra female (with a lot of other influences, so I wouldn't say typical). I am currently smitten with a Taurus. My dad and brother are Taurus, so I think I have a pretty good sense of the Taurean nature. And I like it!

Venus in Gemini

"Gift of the gab", always finds the right expression. A good talker, refined, with a love of the Arts. Two-sided in emotional affairs, flirtatious. Superficial emotions. Countless and inconstant love affairs. Likes to play love games.

Weaknesses: Instability and fickleness in love. Often goes too far in love because of the desire to flirt and play on the other person, who will often suffer - but that is not her problem. Inconstant in love, which is ephemeral; she is unfaithful and can sometimes speak caustically.

Venis, hey thanks for the post, so um ya, I pretty much freaked out when I read the above. It hits home & makes me frustrated with a strong desire to fight the planets!