Posted by BabyVirbra
I’m a Libra sun, so nothing makes me feel more complete than when I’m in a relationship.
Posted by jeaneHahahaha thats so funny, its exactly what I was thinking!!Posted by BabyVirbra
I’m a Libra sun, so nothing makes me feel more complete than when I’m in a relationship.
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Posted by BabyVirbraYou cannot push but you can pull a taurus easily with the carrot. Thats your turf cause youre a libra. His ass is yours you just don know it yet.
I met my Taurus 2 months ago, and I LOVE everything about him! We text all day every day that we are apart. We have great chemistry, and our relationship is already very serious. I’m a Libra sun, so nothing makes me feel more complete than when I’m in a relationship.
I know that you can’t push a Taurus, you have to let them do things on their own time. I also understand that they’re slow with making decisions, so I was surprised at how quickly he’s committed to me.
So my question is, what sort of timeline might he take with next steps, such as moving in together?
Posted by aPiscesPrincess2Exactly. Hence why I don’t want to be the one to push that subject. I get that it’s difficult for them to adjust to (big) changes like that.
Be careful about moving in too fast though. I have a friend who's an Aqua and her Taurus bf moved in about a month or two after they met. And then a couple months later the Taurus decided things were moving too fast, moved out and decided to end the relationship all together.
Posted by Skeleton...no Aries Venus in this scenario.
That Aries venus though..
Posted by aquatar1Good feedback
Taurus are like a bull charging when they're into something/someone...but they do need to pace themselves otherwise they'll start to feel cornered if it all moves too quick too much. I say take it easy and enjoy your company, no need to talk about moving in yet....let him spend time at your place or you his casually but dont bring up the topic for now, let it unfold naturally.
Posted by AgentP911
OP,
I would agree with you that living together is a great way to see how two people function together. If you're looking for a life partner, let's say someone to be with long term over the next 20 to 40 years, perhaps someone to marry, have children with etc then yes, living together is a smart 'next step' to take after you have both taken the time to build a solid foundation through dating each other.
I do not think it wise to rush through or ignore other key milestones in order to jump to your preferred milestone just because you think all will be well when you arrive there. Bypassing this crucial 'get to know you' stage because you feel that your boxes have already been ticked over a 60 day period is a false pretense, and frankly, a little naive. Even if you had a ten year history of friendship prior to dating it would only go towards building the first layer or two. I don't know what your history is but from your first post you indicate you have both achieved, during the last two months, a level of intimacy, knowledge, and comfort with each other that can take some couples a good few years or even decades to reach. If this is the case then I take my hat off to you both. However, logic and reasoning override me here and I would say that although you may think and feel you have compounded the first few glorious years together into an eight week nutshell and that you're ready to fast forward yourselves to the moving in stage, I would have to completely disagree with where you think you're at in this relationship.
I do think it is good that you have these things in mind. If it is your goal to be in a serious relationship then there is no point in dating someone who is not also serious. Same goes for wanting to eventually live with someone, get married, kids etc. If, during you're initial dating stage (which you're still in) you are able to express these goals and desires easily and he expresses the same goals and desires then, hurrah, you have an initial match.
As for when this is to happen, well, I would ask you what is the rush?
Are you around 40 years old and worried about your ovaries becoming redundant? If so, then in all honesty this is the only scenario I would think of where it may be more prudent to slightly speed up the milestones of dating and relationships.
If not, then I would suggest the following timeline although much is dependent on what your goals are, your ages, your work, living, and financial situation etc.
The first three dates. At this point you will know enough about this person to know whether you would like to spend more time with them. Mutual attraction, common interests, is there enough between you to continue building on?
The first three months of dating. At this point you will know the intentions of this person. Do their goals match yours? Are you looking for the same things from life? Are their words and actions matching? Can you communicate successfully with each other? Are you dating each other exclusively? Are you happy with physical intimacy? Is he floating your boat? Are there any boxes that are not ticked? Is he a fussy eater? Can he wash and cook and look after himself? Are there differences in outlook, culture, religion, politics, background? How important are these things to you, are any issues or differences deal breakers? Can any be overcome? At three months you have both invested time into each other but nothing is guaranteed. At this point you will know if there is enough to continue dating each other. Sometimes there may be a few doubts or a few areas of concern. After all, for the last three months you have both been on your best behaviour. It has been a honeymoon period and lots may have gone on. This is the point where if there are any major concerns or bad behaviour that you can easily call it a day.
At six months you may have met each others friends and family, spent more quality time together, said 'I love you' and be definate that your goals match. There still may be a few things that need ironing out but at six months the honeymoon period would be over and you would now be in the swing of a committed relationship and enjoying your time together. This is when you really start to see the person.
At one year in you may be taking your first holiday or long break away together. This is ideal because you get to spend a longer period of time alone with each other, 24/7 and will give you a good idea of how you may function together. You may be spending more time at each others places, shopping together, cooking together, planning things together. Doing all the mundane things that you will be doing for the next 40 years. How does that work out? This is where you need to pay attention to the practical side of things. Do you both pull your weight? Do you both clean, tidy, cook, do DIY, laundry, do you leave things around, do you say you'll do something but need reminding? Do you piss each other off? How do you solve disputes? How do you fit with each others family? All these things are important to look at before moving in and making that commitment but this is around the time that would be good to start considering living together. Perhaps have a discussion about it.
18 months to two years is when moving in would be considered good timing. After all, if you have moved through the above stages, give or take the timing, then you will know if this is something you both want and it gives you a chance to discuss how to go about it. Plus, it will give you both the best possible opportunity of success.
Moving in after two months or within six months, in my opinion, is way too soon. My fella moved in with me after about 15 to 16 months. I was 37 and he was 45. He rents his place out. We have lived together for two years come this April.and been together for just over three years. He's a Taurus with Venus in Aries. He knew he liked me from the start and pursued me consistently. However, he wanted a serious relationship but was in no rush and frankly, neither was I as I wanted to move through the dating stages and take my time as I felt I was too old to fuck it up this time round by blindly jumping in because I thought I just 'knew' it felt right. How many times do you think you just 'know' only to later realise you didn't know at all! I couldn't imagine moving in with someone so quickly.
Hopefully this may help you with your perspective and answer your question.
Posted by AgentP911it's a very good answer agentp but i suspect at this stage of peak rose coloured glasses she might not be ready to hear logic at this point.
OP,
I would agree with you that living together is a great way to see how two people function together. If you're looking for a life partner, let's say someone to be with long term over the next 20 to 40 years, perhaps someone to marry, have children with etc then yes, living together is a smart 'next step' to take after you have both taken the time to build a solid foundation through dating each other.
I do not think it wise to rush through or ignore other key milestones in order to jump to your preferred milestone just because you think all will be well when you arrive there. Bypassing this crucial 'get to know you' stage because you feel that your boxes have already been ticked over a 60 day period is a false pretense, and frankly, a little naive. Even if you had a ten year history of friendship prior to dating it would only go towards building the first layer or two. I don't know what your history is but from your first post you indicate you have both achieved, during the last two months, a level of intimacy, knowledge, and comfort with each other that can take some couples a good few years or even decades to reach. If this is the case then I take my hat off to you both. However, logic and reasoning override me here and I would say that although you may think and feel you have compounded the first few glorious years together into an eight week nutshell and that you're ready to fast forward yourselves to the moving in stage, I would have to completely disagree with where you think you're at in this relationship.
I do think it is good that you have these things in mind. If it is your goal to be in a serious relationship then there is no point in dating someone who is not also serious. Same goes for wanting to eventually live with someone, get married, kids etc. If, during you're initial dating stage (which you're still in) you are able to express these goals and desires easily and he expresses the same goals and desires then, hurrah, you have an initial match.
As for when this is to happen, well, I would ask you what is the rush?
Are you around 40 years old and worried about your ovaries becoming redundant? If so, then in all honesty this is the only scenario I would think of where it may be more prudent to slightly speed up the milestones of dating and relationships.
If not, then I would suggest the following timeline although much is dependent on what your goals are, your ages, your work, living, and financial situation etc.
The first three dates. At this point you will know enough about this person to know whether you would like to spend more time with them. Mutual attraction, common interests, is there enough between you to continue building on?
The first three months of dating. At this point you will know the intentions of this person. Do their goals match yours? Are you looking for the same things from life? Are their words and actions matching? Can you communicate successfully with each other? Are you dating each other exclusively? Are you happy with physical intimacy? Is he floating your boat? Are there any boxes that are not ticked? Is he a fussy eater? Can he wash and cook and look after himself? Are there differences in outlook, culture, religion, politics, background? How important are these things to you, are any issues or differences deal breakers? Can any be overcome? At three months you have both invested time into each other but nothing is guaranteed. At this point you will know if there is enough to continue dating each other. Sometimes there may be a few doubts or a few areas of concern. After all, for the last three months you have both been on your best behaviour. It has been a honeymoon period and lots may have gone on. This is the point where if there are any major concerns or bad behaviour that you can easily call it a day.
At six months you may have met each others friends and family, spent more quality time together, said 'I love you' and be definate that your goals match. There still may be a few things that need ironing out but at six months the honeymoon period would be over and you would now be in the swing of a committed relationship and enjoying your time together. This is when you really start to see the person.
At one year in you may be taking your first holiday or long break away together. This is ideal because you get to spend a longer period of time alone with each other, 24/7 and will give you a good idea of how you may function together. You may be spending more time at each others places, shopping together, cooking together, planning things together. Doing all the mundane things that you will be doing for the next 40 years. How does that work out? This is where you need to pay attention to the practical side of things. Do you both pull your weight? Do you both clean, tidy, cook, do DIY, laundry, do you leave things around, do you say you'll do something but need reminding? Do you piss each other off? How do you solve disputes? How do you fit with each others family? All these things are important to look at before moving in and making that commitment but this is around the time that would be good to start considering living together. Perhaps have a discussion about it.
18 months to two years is when moving in would be considered good timing. After all, if you have moved through the above stages, give or take the timing, then you will know if this is something you both want and it gives you a chance to discuss how to go about it. Plus, it will give you both the best possible opportunity of success.
Moving in after two months or within six months, in my opinion, is way too soon. My fella moved in with me after about 15 to 16 months. I was 37 and he was 45. He rents his place out. We have lived together for two years come this April.and been together for just over three years. He's a Taurus with Venus in Aries. He knew he liked me from the start and pursued me consistently. However, he wanted a serious relationship but was in no rush and frankly, neither was I as I wanted to move through the dating stages and take my time as I felt I was too old to fuck it up this time round by blindly jumping in because I thought I just 'knew' it felt right. How many times do you think you just 'know' only to later realise you didn't know at all! I couldn't imagine moving in with someone so quickly.
Hopefully this may help you with your perspective and answer your question.
Posted by jeanePosted by AgentP911it's a very good answer agentp but i suspect at this stage of peak rose coloured glasses she might not be ready to hear logic at this point.
OP,
I would agree with you that living together is a great way to see how two people function together. If you're looking for a life partner, let's say someone to be with long term over the next 20 to 40 years, perhaps someone to marry, have children with etc then yes, living together is a smart 'next step' to take after you have both taken the time to build a solid foundation through dating each other.
I do not think it wise to rush through or ignore other key milestones in order to jump to your preferred milestone just because you think all will be well when you arrive there. Bypassing this crucial 'get to know you' stage because you feel that your boxes have already been ticked over a 60 day period is a false pretense, and frankly, a little naive. Even if you had a ten year history of friendship prior to dating it would only go towards building the first layer or two. I don't know what your history is but from your first post you indicate you have both achieved, during the last two months, a level of intimacy, knowledge, and comfort with each other that can take some couples a good few years or even decades to reach. If this is the case then I take my hat off to you both. However, logic and reasoning override me here and I would say that although you may think and feel you have compounded the first few glorious years together into an eight week nutshell and that you're ready to fast forward yourselves to the moving in stage, I would have to completely disagree with where you think you're at in this relationship.
I do think it is good that you have these things in mind. If it is your goal to be in a serious relationship then there is no point in dating someone who is not also serious. Same goes for wanting to eventually live with someone, get married, kids etc. If, during you're initial dating stage (which you're still in) you are able to express these goals and desires easily and he expresses the same goals and desires then, hurrah, you have an initial match.
As for when this is to happen, well, I would ask you what is the rush?
Are you around 40 years old and worried about your ovaries becoming redundant? If so, then in all honesty this is the only scenario I would think of where it may be more prudent to slightly speed up the milestones of dating and relationships.
If not, then I would suggest the following timeline although much is dependent on what your goals are, your ages, your work, living, and financial situation etc.
The first three dates. At this point you will know enough about this person to know whether you would like to spend more time with them. Mutual attraction, common interests, is there enough between you to continue building on?
The first three months of dating. At this point you will know the intentions of this person. Do their goals match yours? Are you looking for the same things from life? Are their words and actions matching? Can you communicate successfully with each other? Are you dating each other exclusively? Are you happy with physical intimacy? Is he floating your boat? Are there any boxes that are not ticked? Is he a fussy eater? Can he wash and cook and look after himself? Are there differences in outlook, culture, religion, politics, background? How important are these things to you, are any issues or differences deal breakers? Can any be overcome? At three months you have both invested time into each other but nothing is guaranteed. At this point you will know if there is enough to continue dating each other. Sometimes there may be a few doubts or a few areas of concern. After all, for the last three months you have both been on your best behaviour. It has been a honeymoon period and lots may have gone on. This is the point where if there are any major concerns or bad behaviour that you can easily call it a day.
At six months you may have met each others friends and family, spent more quality time together, said 'I love you' and be definate that your goals match. There still may be a few things that need ironing out but at six months the honeymoon period would be over and you would now be in the swing of a committed relationship and enjoying your time together. This is when you really start to see the person.
At one year in you may be taking your first holiday or long break away together. This is ideal because you get to spend a longer period of time alone with each other, 24/7 and will give you a good idea of how you may function together. You may be spending more time at each others places, shopping together, cooking together, planning things together. Doing all the mundane things that you will be doing for the next 40 years. How does that work out? This is where you need to pay attention to the practical side of things. Do you both pull your weight? Do you both clean, tidy, cook, do DIY, laundry, do you leave things around, do you say you'll do something but need reminding? Do you piss each other off? How do you solve disputes? How do you fit with each others family? All these things are important to look at before moving in and making that commitment but this is around the time that would be good to start considering living together. Perhaps have a discussion about it.
18 months to two years is when moving in would be considered good timing. After all, if you have moved through the above stages, give or take the timing, then you will know if this is something you both want and it gives you a chance to discuss how to go about it. Plus, it will give you both the best possible opportunity of success.
Moving in after two months or within six months, in my opinion, is way too soon. My fella moved in with me after about 15 to 16 months. I was 37 and he was 45. He rents his place out. We have lived together for two years come this April.and been together for just over three years. He's a Taurus with Venus in Aries. He knew he liked me from the start and pursued me consistently. However, he wanted a serious relationship but was in no rush and frankly, neither was I as I wanted to move through the dating stages and take my time as I felt I was too old to fuck it up this time round by blindly jumping in because I thought I just 'knew' it felt right. How many times do you think you just 'know' only to later realise you didn't know at all! I couldn't imagine moving in with someone so quickly.
Hopefully this may help you with your perspective and answer your question.
we've seen this before. a highly confident libra woman who will not and can not listen to reason. they are too busy telling themselves it's a love like most will never experience.click to expand
Posted by Boots1313i like that. that's very good.Posted by jeanePosted by AgentP911it's a very good answer agentp but i suspect at this stage of peak rose coloured glasses she might not be ready to hear logic at this point.
OP,
I would agree with you that living together is a great way to see how two people function together. If you're looking for a life partner, let's say someone to be with long term over the next 20 to 40 years, perhaps someone to marry, have children with etc then yes, living together is a smart 'next step' to take after you have both taken the time to build a solid foundation through dating each other.
I do not think it wise to rush through or ignore other key milestones in order to jump to your preferred milestone just because you think all will be well when you arrive there. Bypassing this crucial 'get to know you' stage because you feel that your boxes have already been ticked over a 60 day period is a false pretense, and frankly, a little naive. Even if you had a ten year history of friendship prior to dating it would only go towards building the first layer or two. I don't know what your history is but from your first post you indicate you have both achieved, during the last two months, a level of intimacy, knowledge, and comfort with each other that can take some couples a good few years or even decades to reach. If this is the case then I take my hat off to you both. However, logic and reasoning override me here and I would say that although you may think and feel you have compounded the first few glorious years together into an eight week nutshell and that you're ready to fast forward yourselves to the moving in stage, I would have to completely disagree with where you think you're at in this relationship.
I do think it is good that you have these things in mind. If it is your goal to be in a serious relationship then there is no point in dating someone who is not also serious. Same goes for wanting to eventually live with someone, get married, kids etc. If, during you're initial dating stage (which you're still in) you are able to express these goals and desires easily and he expresses the same goals and desires then, hurrah, you have an initial match.
As for when this is to happen, well, I would ask you what is the rush?
Are you around 40 years old and worried about your ovaries becoming redundant? If so, then in all honesty this is the only scenario I would think of where it may be more prudent to slightly speed up the milestones of dating and relationships.
If not, then I would suggest the following timeline although much is dependent on what your goals are, your ages, your work, living, and financial situation etc.
The first three dates. At this point you will know enough about this person to know whether you would like to spend more time with them. Mutual attraction, common interests, is there enough between you to continue building on?
The first three months of dating. At this point you will know the intentions of this person. Do their goals match yours? Are you looking for the same things from life? Are their words and actions matching? Can you communicate successfully with each other? Are you dating each other exclusively? Are you happy with physical intimacy? Is he floating your boat? Are there any boxes that are not ticked? Is he a fussy eater? Can he wash and cook and look after himself? Are there differences in outlook, culture, religion, politics, background? How important are these things to you, are any issues or differences deal breakers? Can any be overcome? At three months you have both invested time into each other but nothing is guaranteed. At this point you will know if there is enough to continue dating each other. Sometimes there may be a few doubts or a few areas of concern. After all, for the last three months you have both been on your best behaviour. It has been a honeymoon period and lots may have gone on. This is the point where if there are any major concerns or bad behaviour that you can easily call it a day.
At six months you may have met each others friends and family, spent more quality time together, said 'I love you' and be definate that your goals match. There still may be a few things that need ironing out but at six months the honeymoon period would be over and you would now be in the swing of a committed relationship and enjoying your time together. This is when you really start to see the person.
At one year in you may be taking your first holiday or long break away together. This is ideal because you get to spend a longer period of time alone with each other, 24/7 and will give you a good idea of how you may function together. You may be spending more time at each others places, shopping together, cooking together, planning things together. Doing all the mundane things that you will be doing for the next 40 years. How does that work out? This is where you need to pay attention to the practical side of things. Do you both pull your weight? Do you both clean, tidy, cook, do DIY, laundry, do you leave things around, do you say you'll do something but need reminding? Do you piss each other off? How do you solve disputes? How do you fit with each others family? All these things are important to look at before moving in and making that commitment but this is around the time that would be good to start considering living together. Perhaps have a discussion about it.
18 months to two years is when moving in would be considered good timing. After all, if you have moved through the above stages, give or take the timing, then you will know if this is something you both want and it gives you a chance to discuss how to go about it. Plus, it will give you both the best possible opportunity of success.
Moving in after two months or within six months, in my opinion, is way too soon. My fella moved in with me after about 15 to 16 months. I was 37 and he was 45. He rents his place out. We have lived together for two years come this April.and been together for just over three years. He's a Taurus with Venus in Aries. He knew he liked me from the start and pursued me consistently. However, he wanted a serious relationship but was in no rush and frankly, neither was I as I wanted to move through the dating stages and take my time as I felt I was too old to fuck it up this time round by blindly jumping in because I thought I just 'knew' it felt right. How many times do you think you just 'know' only to later realise you didn't know at all! I couldn't imagine moving in with someone so quickly.
Hopefully this may help you with your perspective and answer your question.
we've seen this before. a highly confident libra woman who will not and can not listen to reason. they are too busy telling themselves it's a love like most will never experience.
I heard a quote that said..."red flags are just flags when you wear rose colored glasses"click to expand
Posted by jeaneSay what you want about other Libra’s, Jeane. I am also on the Virgo cusp (hence Virbra), and therefore very logical in how I approach life. This is exactly the sort of answer I was looking for.Posted by AgentP911it's a very good answer agentp but i suspect at this stage of peak rose coloured glasses she might not be ready to hear logic at this point.
OP,
I would agree with you that living together is a great way to see how two people function together. If you're looking for a life partner, let's say someone to be with long term over the next 20 to 40 years, perhaps someone to marry, have children with etc then yes, living together is a smart 'next step' to take after you have both taken the time to build a solid foundation through dating each other.
I do not think it wise to rush through or ignore other key milestones in order to jump to your preferred milestone just because you think all will be well when you arrive there. Bypassing this crucial 'get to know you' stage because you feel that your boxes have already been ticked over a 60 day period is a false pretense, and frankly, a little naive. Even if you had a ten year history of friendship prior to dating it would only go towards building the first layer or two. I don't know what your history is but from your first post you indicate you have both achieved, during the last two months, a level of intimacy, knowledge, and comfort with each other that can take some couples a good few years or even decades to reach. If this is the case then I take my hat off to you both. However, logic and reasoning override me here and I would say that although you may think and feel you have compounded the first few glorious years together into an eight week nutshell and that you're ready to fast forward yourselves to the moving in stage, I would have to completely disagree with where you think you're at in this relationship.
I do think it is good that you have these things in mind. If it is your goal to be in a serious relationship then there is no point in dating someone who is not also serious. Same goes for wanting to eventually live with someone, get married, kids etc. If, during you're initial dating stage (which you're still in) you are able to express these goals and desires easily and he expresses the same goals and desires then, hurrah, you have an initial match.
As for when this is to happen, well, I would ask you what is the rush?
Are you around 40 years old and worried about your ovaries becoming redundant? If so, then in all honesty this is the only scenario I would think of where it may be more prudent to slightly speed up the milestones of dating and relationships.
If not, then I would suggest the following timeline although much is dependent on what your goals are, your ages, your work, living, and financial situation etc.
The first three dates. At this point you will know enough about this person to know whether you would like to spend more time with them. Mutual attraction, common interests, is there enough between you to continue building on?
The first three months of dating. At this point you will know the intentions of this person. Do their goals match yours? Are you looking for the same things from life? Are their words and actions matching? Can you communicate successfully with each other? Are you dating each other exclusively? Are you happy with physical intimacy? Is he floating your boat? Are there any boxes that are not ticked? Is he a fussy eater? Can he wash and cook and look after himself? Are there differences in outlook, culture, religion, politics, background? How important are these things to you, are any issues or differences deal breakers? Can any be overcome? At three months you have both invested time into each other but nothing is guaranteed. At this point you will know if there is enough to continue dating each other. Sometimes there may be a few doubts or a few areas of concern. After all, for the last three months you have both been on your best behaviour. It has been a honeymoon period and lots may have gone on. This is the point where if there are any major concerns or bad behaviour that you can easily call it a day.
At six months you may have met each others friends and family, spent more quality time together, said 'I love you' and be definate that your goals match. There still may be a few things that need ironing out but at six months the honeymoon period would be over and you would now be in the swing of a committed relationship and enjoying your time together. This is when you really start to see the person.
At one year in you may be taking your first holiday or long break away together. This is ideal because you get to spend a longer period of time alone with each other, 24/7 and will give you a good idea of how you may function together. You may be spending more time at each others places, shopping together, cooking together, planning things together. Doing all the mundane things that you will be doing for the next 40 years. How does that work out? This is where you need to pay attention to the practical side of things. Do you both pull your weight? Do you both clean, tidy, cook, do DIY, laundry, do you leave things around, do you say you'll do something but need reminding? Do you piss each other off? How do you solve disputes? How do you fit with each others family? All these things are important to look at before moving in and making that commitment but this is around the time that would be good to start considering living together. Perhaps have a discussion about it.
18 months to two years is when moving in would be considered good timing. After all, if you have moved through the above stages, give or take the timing, then you will know if this is something you both want and it gives you a chance to discuss how to go about it. Plus, it will give you both the best possible opportunity of success.
Moving in after two months or within six months, in my opinion, is way too soon. My fella moved in with me after about 15 to 16 months. I was 37 and he was 45. He rents his place out. We have lived together for two years come this April.and been together for just over three years. He's a Taurus with Venus in Aries. He knew he liked me from the start and pursued me consistently. However, he wanted a serious relationship but was in no rush and frankly, neither was I as I wanted to move through the dating stages and take my time as I felt I was too old to fuck it up this time round by blindly jumping in because I thought I just 'knew' it felt right. How many times do you think you just 'know' only to later realise you didn't know at all! I couldn't imagine moving in with someone so quickly.
Hopefully this may help you with your perspective and answer your question.
we've seen this before. a highly confident libra woman who will not and can not listen to reason. they are too busy telling themselves it's a love like most will never experience.click to expand
Posted by BabyVirbrathat's bullshit. you asked the question because you are ready to start counting down the days.
Say what you want about other Libra’s, Jeane. I am also on the Virgo cusp (hence Virbra), and therefore very logical in how I approach life. This is exactly the sort of answer I was looking for.
I never once said I was trying to rush things with my Taurus, or that I want to move in with him right now. I just wanted a straight up answer about what timeline I could logically be looking at to better prepare myself.
Posted by jeanePosted by BabyVirbrathat's bullshit. you asked the question because you are ready to start counting down the days.
Say what you want about other Libra’s, Jeane. I am also on the Virgo cusp (hence Virbra), and therefore very logical in how I approach life. This is exactly the sort of answer I was looking for.
I never once said I was trying to rush things with my Taurus, or that I want to move in with him right now. I just wanted a straight up answer about what timeline I could logically be looking at to better prepare myself.
you've already got it arranged it your mind.
- i LOVE everything about him!
- our relationship is already very serious
- nothing makes me feel complete than when i am in a relationship
- (preamble about how cautious taurus is but, this is different because) i was surprised at how quickly he has committed to me
- my Taurus guy didn’t waste any time at all in deciding he wanted to be in a relationship with me.
- I’m stable, reliable, loyal, dedicated, and he is open, honest, comfortable and trusts me.
- ...the next steps, such as moving in together
that you think the next step is to move in shows you don't know that the next step isn't to move together but to actually get to know each other. it's to hit some bumps in the road and see if you can work through them.
nothing in what you wrote is logical.
if you were being logical you wouldn't say you love everything about him. you don't know him yet.
if you were being logical you wouldn't ask strangers about a person's thinking that none of us know.
if you were being logical you would realise that 2 months in is a time of extreme feelings in a relationship and as such not to be relied upon.
if you were being logical you would realise that ticking off an internet checklist of zodiac compatibility is not enough to ensure a long lasting relationship.
if you were being logical you would be cautious about his actions as well.
instead you getting carried away and are picking out curtains already.
don't kid a kidder.click to expand
Posted by jeaneUm. Okay. You’re going to believe what you want regardless of what I say.Posted by BabyVirbrathat's bullshit. you asked the question because you are ready to start counting down the days.
Say what you want about other Libra’s, Jeane. I am also on the Virgo cusp (hence Virbra), and therefore very logical in how I approach life. This is exactly the sort of answer I was looking for.
I never once said I was trying to rush things with my Taurus, or that I want to move in with him right now. I just wanted a straight up answer about what timeline I could logically be looking at to better prepare myself.
you've already got it arranged it your mind.
- i LOVE everything about him!
- our relationship is already very serious
- nothing makes me feel complete than when i am in a relationship
- (preamble about how cautious taurus is but, this is different because) i was surprised at how quickly he has committed to me
- my Taurus guy didn’t waste any time at all in deciding he wanted to be in a relationship with me.
- I’m stable, reliable, loyal, dedicated, and he is open, honest, comfortable and trusts me.
- ...the next steps, such as moving in together
that you think the next step is to move in shows you don't know that the next step isn't to move together but to actually get to know each other. it's to hit some bumps in the road and see if you can work through them.
nothing in what you wrote is logical.
if you were being logical you wouldn't say you love everything about him. you don't know him yet.
if you were being logical you wouldn't ask strangers about a person's thinking that none of us know.
if you were being logical you would realise that 2 months in is a time of extreme feelings in a relationship and as such not to be relied upon.
if you were being logical you would realise that ticking off an internet checklist of zodiac compatibility is not enough to ensure a long lasting relationship.
if you were being logical you would be cautious about his actions as well.
instead you getting carried away and are picking out curtains already.
don't kid a kidder.click to expand
Posted by BabyVirbraI've not judged you nor am I fighting. I've called out factual inaccuracies in your posts.Posted by jeaneUm. Okay. You’re going to believe what you want regardless of what I say.Posted by BabyVirbrathat's bullshit. you asked the question because you are ready to start counting down the days.
Say what you want about other Libra’s, Jeane. I am also on the Virgo cusp (hence Virbra), and therefore very logical in how I approach life. This is exactly the sort of answer I was looking for.
I never once said I was trying to rush things with my Taurus, or that I want to move in with him right now. I just wanted a straight up answer about what timeline I could logically be looking at to better prepare myself.
you've already got it arranged it your mind.
- i LOVE everything about him!
- our relationship is already very serious
- nothing makes me feel complete than when i am in a relationship
- (preamble about how cautious taurus is but, this is different because) i was surprised at how quickly he has committed to me
- my Taurus guy didn’t waste any time at all in deciding he wanted to be in a relationship with me.
- I’m stable, reliable, loyal, dedicated, and he is open, honest, comfortable and trusts me.
- ...the next steps, such as moving in together
that you think the next step is to move in shows you don't know that the next step isn't to move together but to actually get to know each other. it's to hit some bumps in the road and see if you can work through them.
nothing in what you wrote is logical.
if you were being logical you wouldn't say you love everything about him. you don't know him yet.
if you were being logical you wouldn't ask strangers about a person's thinking that none of us know.
if you were being logical you would realise that 2 months in is a time of extreme feelings in a relationship and as such not to be relied upon.
if you were being logical you would realise that ticking off an internet checklist of zodiac compatibility is not enough to ensure a long lasting relationship.
if you were being logical you would be cautious about his actions as well.
instead you getting carried away and are picking out curtains already.
don't kid a kidder.
I didn’t come on here to fight with anyone, simply to ask for a typical dating/relationship/commitment timeline with a Taurus male, which AgentP provided without judgement.click to expand
Posted by jeaneYou don’t know me. You don’t know what I’ve been through in life. So it’s not your place to say how I am going to take AgentP’s and others helpful answers to my question.Posted by BabyVirbraI've not judged you nor am I fighting. I've called out factual inaccuracies in your posts.Posted by jeaneUm. Okay. You’re going to believe what you want regardless of what I say.Posted by BabyVirbrathat's bullshit. you asked the question because you are ready to start counting down the days.
Say what you want about other Libra’s, Jeane. I am also on the Virgo cusp (hence Virbra), and therefore very logical in how I approach life. This is exactly the sort of answer I was looking for.
I never once said I was trying to rush things with my Taurus, or that I want to move in with him right now. I just wanted a straight up answer about what timeline I could logically be looking at to better prepare myself.
you've already got it arranged it your mind.
- i LOVE everything about him!
- our relationship is already very serious
- nothing makes me feel complete than when i am in a relationship
- (preamble about how cautious taurus is but, this is different because) i was surprised at how quickly he has committed to me
- my Taurus guy didn’t waste any time at all in deciding he wanted to be in a relationship with me.
- I’m stable, reliable, loyal, dedicated, and he is open, honest, comfortable and trusts me.
- ...the next steps, such as moving in together
that you think the next step is to move in shows you don't know that the next step isn't to move together but to actually get to know each other. it's to hit some bumps in the road and see if you can work through them.
nothing in what you wrote is logical.
if you were being logical you wouldn't say you love everything about him. you don't know him yet.
if you were being logical you wouldn't ask strangers about a person's thinking that none of us know.
if you were being logical you would realise that 2 months in is a time of extreme feelings in a relationship and as such not to be relied upon.
if you were being logical you would realise that ticking off an internet checklist of zodiac compatibility is not enough to ensure a long lasting relationship.
if you were being logical you would be cautious about his actions as well.
instead you getting carried away and are picking out curtains already.
don't kid a kidder.
I didn’t come on here to fight with anyone, simply to ask for a typical dating/relationship/commitment timeline with a Taurus male, which AgentP provided without judgement.
You are not being honest.click to expand
Posted by BabyVirbraSigh. Yes we are all victims.Posted by jeaneYou don’t know me. You don’t know what I’ve been through in life. So it’s not your place to say how I am going to take AgentP’s and others helpful answers to my question.Posted by BabyVirbraI've not judged you nor am I fighting. I've called out factual inaccuracies in your posts.Posted by jeaneUm. Okay. You’re going to believe what you want regardless of what I say.Posted by BabyVirbrathat's bullshit. you asked the question because you are ready to start counting down the days.
Say what you want about other Libra’s, Jeane. I am also on the Virgo cusp (hence Virbra), and therefore very logical in how I approach life. This is exactly the sort of answer I was looking for.
I never once said I was trying to rush things with my Taurus, or that I want to move in with him right now. I just wanted a straight up answer about what timeline I could logically be looking at to better prepare myself.
you've already got it arranged it your mind.
- i LOVE everything about him!
- our relationship is already very serious
- nothing makes me feel complete than when i am in a relationship
- (preamble about how cautious taurus is but, this is different because) i was surprised at how quickly he has committed to me
- my Taurus guy didn’t waste any time at all in deciding he wanted to be in a relationship with me.
- I’m stable, reliable, loyal, dedicated, and he is open, honest, comfortable and trusts me.
- ...the next steps, such as moving in together
that you think the next step is to move in shows you don't know that the next step isn't to move together but to actually get to know each other. it's to hit some bumps in the road and see if you can work through them.
nothing in what you wrote is logical.
if you were being logical you wouldn't say you love everything about him. you don't know him yet.
if you were being logical you wouldn't ask strangers about a person's thinking that none of us know.
if you were being logical you would realise that 2 months in is a time of extreme feelings in a relationship and as such not to be relied upon.
if you were being logical you would realise that ticking off an internet checklist of zodiac compatibility is not enough to ensure a long lasting relationship.
if you were being logical you would be cautious about his actions as well.
instead you getting carried away and are picking out curtains already.
don't kid a kidder.
I didn’t come on here to fight with anyone, simply to ask for a typical dating/relationship/commitment timeline with a Taurus male, which AgentP provided without judgement.
You are not being honest.
You assumed that I will not and cannot listen to logic or reason in my state of “peak rose colored glasses”. I can be excited and optimistic about this relationship, while also being logical and realistic about how to proceed.
I asked a question to get an insightful answer and to take something from it. So, that’s what I’m going to do. Thanks.click to expand
Posted by Arielle83No. I’m realizing I should have worded my initial question differently. It was misconstrued that I’m in a hurry to move things along, when I really just wanted to know what I might expect from a Taurus (as opposed to, say, an Aries) in how they progress through stages of a relationship.
Is this timeline so you know how to speed through to getting some sort of life in order?
Posted by BabyVirbraPosted by Arielle83No. I’m realizing I should have worded my initial question differently. It was misconstrued that I’m in a hurry to move things along, when I really just wanted to know what I might expect from a Taurus (as opposed to, say, an Aries) in how they progress through stages of a relationship.
Is this timeline so you know how to speed through to getting some sort of life in order?
I’d read that Taurus are slow with everything they do, so I wasn’t sure what to expect if things were already getting serious with my Taurus guy. But I’ve gotten some great feedback on that already, and won’t be surprised if he really slows things down or distances himself a bit more soon. Either way, I’m letting him go at his own pace.click to expand