Taurus woman and Virgo man...
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by coaltal on Friday, June 28, 2013 and has 16 replies.
I'm a Virgo man and I have had great experiences with Taurus women! Including one really great relationship. Do any Taurus women out there actively seek Virgo men. I find myself doing this and sometimes even completely overlooking other signs. Its been really hard to find that comfortable silence, or communication without talking with anyone else. I think what I liked best was how we use to dote on each other...we really wanted to take care of one another. Any one have any experiences?
Well addiction issues were a big part of it. (on her part) We tried to deal with them for 3yrs but she fell back into the same rut over and over. Another thing was that she expected me to agree with her whether she was right or wrong, to her it seemed to be a loyalty thing...and me being me...Well I always try to see both sides of a situation, and I try to see what fair....or the truth if you will. There were other minor things, but these two were the biggest. Honestly if she was able to break the addiction thing we would still be together. You can only help someone help themselves...but you can't fix someone.
It really does suck that you can't edit a message here. Anyhow...Yellowsweater, I read your previous post about your Taurus breakup. Here's more of my breakup. When we were dating early in the relationship she was still seeing someone. She never admitted it, but I knew. It wasn't until gathered her things in box and dropped it off at her front door, that she straightened up. She knew I would do anything for her, but I had to remind her every now and again not to mistake my kindness for weakness. Oh and we did breakup a few times before the actual breakup. And yes, she would call me for what ever reason, so we could see each other again. I admit I fell for it, but I eventually learned to keep my ex as my ex.
I would never go near another Virg guy again. Wonderful intellectual connection with every single one I've encountered, but they can be cruel, vindictive, and hyper-critical so much so that it causes you to seriously doubt they have feelings. The only reason I know that they have feelings is because that all has to come from some deep seated insecurity. I love virgo women though -- best friends ever.
Im semi dealing with a taurus women currently, semi because the amount of ass they want you to kiss is ridiculous, even when they are clearly wrong. I got so annoyed with it I just didnt speak to her for a week and when I did initiate contact she blew up on me and in the same tirade says shes fine with us not talking ever.
@ Yellowsweater...I agree, we (Virgos) have plenty of emotions. Although, I don't believe we show them as easily as others do. I can only speak for myself, but I always felt like I didn't want to burden others with my problems. So maybe I expressed less emotion. I'm also looking forward to meeting another Taurus...but I still keep my options open 
Well who ever you see next, I hope it works out for you. I've been in your situation and it does take time. The best thing I can say is learn to have fun again...with friends, family, and it usually gets easier.
Well who ever you see next, I hope it works out for you. I've been in your situation and it does take time. The best thing I can say is learn to have fun again...with friends, family, and it usually gets easier.Posted by HungVirgo
Im semi dealing with a taurus women currently, semi because the amount of ass they want you to kiss is ridiculous, even when they are clearly wrong. I got so annoyed with it I just didnt speak to her for a week and when I did initiate contact she blew up on me and in the same tirade says shes fine with us not talking ever.
Yep this sounds very familiar. Not talking for a week with a Taurus is not a good thing...I know! LOL
I feel like Taurus people prefer honesty. I always told my ex the truth (whether she liked it or not) about how I felt. I would try to soften the blow...but I always made sure she understood that as much I cared for her, if she wanted someone to walk all over, then she needed to find someone else, because that wasn't me. My 1st example was when I gathered her stuff and dropped it off at her front door.
Taurus and Virgo relationship... (2.5 years)
Pros - consistency , loyalty, honesty , compatibility, speaking the same language, intellectual relationship, reliable
Cons- no deep intense hearts connection , virgo's indecisiveness, Virgo's critical and analytical self,Virgo's perfectionist but insecure, Taurus's possessiveness and stubbornness
This is all speaking from my one experience with a virgo man.
I find that virgo can be affection if they want to be but they still don't provide that intense touchy feelings i get from a scorpio man or taurus people themselves. I can connect with him through my soul only on a surface level. I seek and desire that connection in a life long partner. The relationship with a virgo is too practical , logical for me. Theres not enough passion from either side. My dad is a virgo and they are very much alike. He's perfectionist. He was a cheater but was a good dad.
Pros - consistency , loyalty, honesty , compatibility, speaking the same language, intellectual relationship, reliable
Cons- no deep intense hearts connection , virgo's indecisiveness, Virgo's critical and analytical self,Virgo's perfectionist but insecure, Taurus's possessiveness and stubbornness
This is all speaking from my one experience with a virgo man.
I find that virgo can be affection if they want to be but they still don't provide that intense touchy feelings i get from a scorpio man or taurus people themselves. I can connect with him through my soul only on a surface level. I seek and desire that connection in a life long partner. The relationship with a virgo is too practical , logical for me. Theres not enough passion from either side. My dad is a virgo and they are very much alike. He's perfectionist. He was a cheater but was a good dad.
i know the virgo calm and aloofness annoyed the taurus but I think ultimately the aries in my chart was too much for the taurus. we almost killed each other
I can only take Virgo men in small doses, too much nitpickyness & mood swings & I find them boring. I'll stick to my air & fire signs, thank-you-very-much!
I am a taurus gal, my ex bf is a virgo and everything was great. It just did not work out for external circumstances. It's a shame we got along really well. I am wondering if I'd be with a virgo in the future. I am hoping to meet one. But again the whole astrology thing is not true for all individuals. My father is the total opposite if what his astrological birth chart says (moon, rising, mars..etc) IT IS ALL WRONG! which really surprised me and maybe if I found a virgo, he won't be how he's supposed to be?! eh I'll just trust my instinct.
I am a Taurus and I dated a Virgo once, we were never an actual couple we just dated for like maybe 5 months. But we made a great match, we always had fun together and just connected really well in every aspect. One thing that might be bad about this match is both Taurus and Virgo like to be in charge so one person is going to have to take the lead and the other will have to just be submissive. I think that Virgos and Taurus' are both one of a kind so if you find a Taurus woman don't let her go! Our relationship did not work out because we were both not mentally ready for commitment and had a lot going on in our personal lives, and honestly he didn't seem like he would be a loyal companion. He was constantly talking to other woman, and was very sneaky. A lot of Virgo men I've met are like this they are womanizers and can get ANY woman they want.
Posted by xxbrittxxtay
I am a Taurus and I dated a Virgo once, we were never an actual couple we just dated for like maybe 5 months. But we made a great match, we always had fun together and just connected really well in every aspect. One thing that might be bad about this match is both Taurus and Virgo like to be in charge so one person is going to have to take the lead and the other will have to just be submissive. I think that Virgos and Taurus' are both one of a kind so if you find a Taurus woman don't let her go! Our relationship did not work out because we were both not mentally ready for commitment and had a lot going on in our personal lives, and honestly he didn't seem like he would be a loyal companion. He was constantly talking to other woman, and was very sneaky. A lot of Virgo men I've met are like this they are womanizers and can get ANY woman they want.
That was true with my ex as well. He knew alot of women and always shocked me with his stories and flirting around he used to do. But I was confident enough and I knew he is faithful.
Taurus & Virgo
Pros---->from this Taurus Perspective.
1. A telepathic way of communicating and understanding one another.
2. Humility, modesty, intelligence, earthiness and grounded personality.
3. Humor, sharpness, alertness.
4. Both conventional, love of home, love of tradition, admiration, respect, honesty and integrity, many shared values.
Cons
1. Changeable, unpredictable
2. Not very affectionate.
3. Too critical.
4. Too slow/overly cautious/Neurotic.
Pros---->from this Taurus Perspective.
1. A telepathic way of communicating and understanding one another.
2. Humility, modesty, intelligence, earthiness and grounded personality.
3. Humor, sharpness, alertness.
4. Both conventional, love of home, love of tradition, admiration, respect, honesty and integrity, many shared values.
Cons
1. Changeable, unpredictable
2. Not very affectionate.
3. Too critical.
4. Too slow/overly cautious/Neurotic.
I think the problem here is that people expect a relationship to be like a romance novel. There will be conflicts from time to time, no matter who you're with. We just have to learn the best ways to deal with them and to remember who and why we fell in love in the beginning. Life isn't a bed of roses. If we want true happiness, then we're going ti have to take the good with the bad and make the very best of it instead of throwing each other away like we're all disposable.
Posted by fingirl31
I would never go near another Virg guy again. Wonderful intellectual connection with every single one I've encountered, but they can be cruel, vindictive, and hyper-critical so much so that it causes you to seriously doubt they have feelings. The only reason I know that they have feelings is because that all has to come from some deep seated insecurity. I love virgo women though -- best friends ever.
Yup, my experience too. Cruel was an understatement. Same as knowing they must have some emotion due to being so very insecure. There were some good points but these were outweighed by the bad points unfortunately.
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