
SouthernLeo1970
@SouthernLeo1970
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Posted by TaurusBull1977Yeah thats the one..sorry typo.
The movie was called "She so Lovely'
Great film...![]()

Posted by TaurusBull1977Wow..so I'm just weak huh? Because I take care of my children when their mom doesn't care about them or me anymore? I've been looking at some of your posts TaurusBull1977 and I was really looking forward to your insight on this...now I'm just floored and disappointed.
Your thread is very similar to a thread created by a Virgo on this forum.
I can't stress this enough...
A Bullette linked to a weak man...is the worst type of Bullette you can attract.
Expect to be John Travolta's character twice in your lifetime.![]()



Posted by TaurusBull1977BAM!
Taking care of your children signifies strength...
Allowing a woman to walk all over you without you defending yourself signifies weakness
See the difference?
Any woman who embraces you should 'embrace' your children.
Any woman who plays the double standard card, "I can have male friends" but you can not have "female friends" needs to get over herself and kick rocks.
The saddest thing...because your Pisces ex was such a self-absorbed b&tch who put a loser before her own family, you would never learn to understand the sacrifice a woman will make for the man that she loves.
This is why you think this Bull is a step up.
But she's not. She's the same. Just packaged differently. Nice perfume, immaculate house, great sex, etc...
She is just as selfish.
I will give you the same advice I gave the Virgo.
Ignore her, she's not worth it.


Posted by TaurusBull1977this is interesting. i once read that many divorced people will find partners very similar to those they left. it's their pattern. it's the same person over and over that both attracts and repels them.
This is why you think this Bull is a step up.
But she's not. She's the same. Just packaged differently. Nice perfume, immaculate house, great sex, etc...
She is just as selfish.
I will give you the same advice I gave the Virgo.
Ignore her, she's not worth it.


Posted by TaurusBull1977
Taking care of your children signifies strength...
Allowing a woman to walk all over you without you defending yourself signifies weakness
See the difference?
Any woman who embraces you should 'embrace' your children.
Any woman who plays the double standard card, "I can have male friends" but you can not have "female friends" needs to get over herself and kick rocks.
The saddest thing...because your Pisces ex was such a self-absorbed b&tch who put a loser before her own family, you would never learn to understand the sacrifice a woman will make for the man that she loves.
This is why you think this Bull is a step up.
But she's not. She's the same. Just packaged differently. Nice perfume, immaculate house, great sex, etc...
She is just as selfish.
I will give you the same advice I gave the Virgo.
Ignore her, she's not worth it.

Posted by TaurusBull1977I wish I knew! 😢
Ask yourself this John Travolta,
Why do you attract selfish women?



Posted by TaurusBull1977It was perfect for me and my two brothers. She was the ideal homemaker. She passed away and I miss her dearly.
@SouthernLeo,
How was your Taurus' mom interaction with you growing up?

Posted by SouthernLeo1970I am sorry to hear that.
It was perfect for me and my two brothers. She was the ideal homemaker. She passed away and I miss her dearly.

Posted by TaurusBull1977You're right. I get glimpses of the positive..but mostly the negative as of late.Posted by SouthernLeo1970I am sorry to hear that.
It was perfect for me and my two brothers. She was the ideal homemaker. She passed away and I miss her dearly.
Perhaps, you may have mistook some of this Taurus' traits to be synonymous with your Mom's characteristics.
The difference?
This Taurus woman is trying to work that 'ring' (trying to persuade you to marry her despite her hidden motives) while exuding all the negative traits of a Bull... selfishness, greediness, self-centered, hypocritical
Your mother did this because she loved you all, and she embodied all the positive traits of a Bull...selflessness, maternal, protective, kind, and generous...strength
A Bull with 'strength' can pretty much handle and take on anything.
Just ask the other Bulls on this forum.
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Posted by TaurusBull1977Ok..that sounds like playing with fire but I will.
Her hidden motives?
She wants control.
Over you...
Your finances
Your friends
Your relationship with your ex
While offering you nothing in return.
The coldness disposition is who she really is....the lovey dovey charm she kicks out is a farce.
Try this...
Tell her that you have no intentions of remarrying.
Tell her that you're fine with the way things are. Her children are grown. Your children already have both parents, and she does not have to be factored into your children's lives.
Why get married?
See what she tells you.



Posted by TaurusBull1977Maybe I'm in shock but I strangely don't feel so bad about it. She told me that she needed someone that would listen to her and not cause her so much stress. She said she was unhappy and a Leo never wants to hear that. She said we should break up now and I said I agree and that was it. Single again..not sure another Taurus is in the cards...ever.........
What did I tell you....



Posted by SouthernLeo1970
she just sent me like 12 text messages saying that shes sorry..oh man.

Posted by SouthernLeo1970She is in the state of shock that you actually developed a backbone.
she just sent me like 12 text messages saying that shes sorry..oh man.

Posted by TaurusBull1977For the first time in my life I just actually BLOCKED someone from calling me or texting me again. I hope Sprint holds up. I don't know what I was thinking. I think may have mommy issues when it comes to Taurus women.Posted by SouthernLeo1970She is in the state of shock that you actually developed a backbone.
she just sent me like 12 text messages saying that shes sorry..oh man.
Stick to your guns
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Posted by AgentP911You're so right about her being a sociopath...I had to block her because she kept texting me. Now I don't get any texts and it goes straight to voicemail when she calls.Posted by SouthernLeo1970
she just sent me like 12 text messages saying that shes sorry..oh man.
Don’t be a fucking idiot and believe her. The ‘hard’ part of breaking up with her wasn’t so hard after all. You felt relief because you know it’s the right thing. Think of this ‘clean break’ from her as your Christmas present from Santa! If you were to get back involved with her then breaking it off next time will not be so easy. Imagine: the next 30 years with her... it doesn’t look good, does it?
The advice on here from all is spot on. I’ve only just read your post but from the first one I thought she was a sociopath. Certainly controlling, selfish, unaccepting. Are these qualities you actively look for in a partner? No. She may present herself in a nice package and you may think she’s perfect in every way except for... all the ways she’s not perfect and all the ways she’s basically just a bit of a nasty c*nt.
Eight BILLION people on the planet... she’s not the one... find another one...click to expand

Posted by halalbaeHeyyy..lol. You are correct for the most part as I do chase women but I don't like mean ones. This Taurus is being mean to me now so I'm backing away easily. The Pisces (my exwife) knows how to bat her eyelashes and keep me helping her I have to stop that. I'm still a little hurt by her too.Posted by TaurusBull1977Leos cant keep their ego in check so they chase people who dont want them, because they cant handle rejection
Ask yourself this John Travolta,
Why do you attract selfish women?
They stay pining for love from people who are mean to them 😁click to expand


Posted by SouthernLeo1970Stop
UPDATE: I gave in and called her. She asked me if something was wrong with my phone and I told her that I was working (which I am). She was cold at first but got all lovey dovey and asked me when I was coming over. Just don't know what to do. She has me hooked.

Posted by SouthernLeo1970Good riddancePosted by TaurusBull1977Maybe I'm in shock but I strangely don't feel so bad about it. She told me that she needed someone that would listen to her and not cause her so much stress. She said she was unhappy and a Leo never wants to hear that. She said we should break up now and I said I agree and that was it. Single again..not sure another Taurus is in the cards...ever.........
What did I tell you....click to expand

Posted by SouthernLeo1970Posted by halalbaeHeyyy..lol. You are correct for the most part as I do chase women but I don't like mean ones. This Taurus is being mean to me now so I'm backing away easily. The Pisces (my exwife) knows how to bat her eyelashes and keep me helping her I have to stop that. I'm still a little hurt by her too.Posted by TaurusBull1977Leos cant keep their ego in check so they chase people who dont want them, because they cant handle rejection
Ask yourself this John Travolta,
Why do you attract selfish women?
They stay pining for love from people who are mean to them 😁
UPDATE on the TAURUS: 84 text messages and 4 blocked phone calls. I could listen to her messages but I don't wanna. (too scared)
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Posted by sultrykittyYes. Suicide threats by her come to mind too, as a way to manipulate.
Watch your back and if you have any pets, keep them inside. This is beginning to sound like fatal attraction crap.

Posted by SouthernLeo1970Ok dear man. There are several things I see going on regardless of signs.
UPDATE: I gave in and called her. She asked me if something was wrong with my phone and I told her that I was working (which I am). She was cold at first but got all lovey dovey and asked me when I was coming over. Just don't know what to do. She has me hooked.

I hope to go over 5 figures next year..We get by ok me and the kids.
One more - I supposed you are financially well off...we should had started from it.

Posted by SouthernLeo1970The reason I’ve asked - she would never go for you if you weren’t well off financially.I hope to go over 5 figures next year..We get by ok me and the kids.
One more - I supposed you are financially well off...we should had started from it.
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Posted by SouthernLeo1970
Wow..didn't think of it that way with the children. She did ask me a lot about how I spend for their school supplies and football uniforms and things..she said that I could get them cheaper. I just thought she was helping but now I see it as you and others are pointing out.
She stopped calling me and tried to call my best friend instead who told her that I had blocked her and was not interested. Maybe I'm done with her and can move on to the New Year 🙂



Posted by SouthernLeo1970It's good happened this way, be happy for it. Later on with a kid with her together wouldn't be so easy to walk away. Some woman just like this. Nice presentation, you falling then they turn to psycho. Some of them have serious personality disorder from underlying genetics, others just simply nuts by definition. You re blessed I am telling you, it's still was in time.
Thanks guys..she scared me last night with a voice mail screaming to not "shut her out" among other things..I remember the person that mentioned her possibly being suicidal and I didn't want her to hurt herself so I send her a simple text just asking her if she is ok.
She responded with "why did you block me?" I said that she hurt me by calling me soft and I needed some space. After that I told her good night and she stopped responding and has been quiet ever since. Hopefully I cooled the fire and she is just mad now and not hysterical. She really scared me. 😢 Yes, Leos care.
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So I have been dating my Taurus woman for several months now and she is for the most part a dream come true. So feminine--beautiful--dresses to impress--smells so good and keeps her home immaculate clean! And our sex life is phenomenal! She is older than me but has young woman energy in bed!!! Amazing!!!
The problems are that my ex-wife (Pisces) left me to take care of my children (now 7 and 9) after her ex "got out". If you've seen that movie De Lovely with Sean Penn and his wife and John Travolta...well I'm John Travolta!! I was crushed and stayed single 2 years and didn't start dating until my Taurus now.
My Taurus woman knew that I have my children when we started dating and they adore her..but she is HIGHLY UPSET because she says that I am too soft on my ex-wife. She wants me to make her do more for the children and it is consuming her. She says that she shouldn't have started the relationship with someone that has children because she doesn't want to be a mother again as hers are grown (as I mentioned shes a little older than me).
Not only is that confusing to me now that we are in the relationship she keeps hinting on me marrying her and wants to give insight on how I spend my money. I thought Taurus women moved slow? She also asked me to add her on Facebook which I did..she went through all of my page down to the history and asked me about females in my friend list. I told her everything she wanted to know because she said "no secrets"..but when I tried to look at her Facebook and liked a picture of her and asked her if that was an ex of hers in a photo because it was nice -- SHE BLOCKED ME! I'm like? WHAT—!!!
She said I was getting nosey. I'm like you just went through my history and I answered every question and because when I ask.."I'm nosey". Ok so why I am really on her asking other Taurus women for advice...last night I was to meet my exwife for my children's Christmas presents (yes.I know its been days after the holiday..)..she did not buy what she was suppose to for the children. I didn't want to disappoint them further because they had already been waiting for their gifts so I bought them the gift she was suppose to have given. I told my Taurus lady and ALL HELL BROKE LOOSE!
You're weak..you're too soft. You let her get away with too much! I'm used to stronger men. I have to call someone. Call me later. Then she hung up on me. I didn't call her back last night and she called me and left a text message to call her and I haven't responded. I REALLY want to be with this woman because of what I wrote above but I'm not sure what to do. Someone said just ignore her and give her some space because I've been too nice to her and she is taking me for granted but that was a Virgo friend so I wanted advice from other Tauruses. Thanks all.