Taurus Woman Need Some Thoughts...
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Sagittarius89 on Wednesday, February 23, 2011 and has 20 replies.
Hey All.
I have a situation with a pisces friend of mine. One of her good friends is a taurus but lately she seems to be into her boyfriend who is an aries.
I don't really know anything of the taurus ways of flirting or signs of liking so I tell me what you think.
So the taurus seems to only want to be around when the aries boyfriend is around. Like I guess the other day she texted her saying " Do you want to hang out? Will the aries be there? "
My pisces friend said " I can't we are busy " but than the taurus showed up anyway.
Another time they we are a party and the taurus got drunk and went into the other room with the aries and said " I am so glad you are with her you make her happy and you understand her " and than hugged him and said I love you.
Than she started selling tickets to his shows at her shop she has. ( He is a DJ ) which was the pisces idea in the first place but the taurus said she couldn't do that when she brought it up but now I guess it's okay for her to do.
So what do you think? I told the pisces that she doesn't seem to have boundaries and I'd be wary of her.
I have a situation with a pisces friend of mine. One of her good friends is a taurus but lately she seems to be into her boyfriend who is an aries.
I don't really know anything of the taurus ways of flirting or signs of liking so I tell me what you think.
So the taurus seems to only want to be around when the aries boyfriend is around. Like I guess the other day she texted her saying " Do you want to hang out? Will the aries be there? "
My pisces friend said " I can't we are busy " but than the taurus showed up anyway.
Another time they we are a party and the taurus got drunk and went into the other room with the aries and said " I am so glad you are with her you make her happy and you understand her " and than hugged him and said I love you.
Than she started selling tickets to his shows at her shop she has. ( He is a DJ ) which was the pisces idea in the first place but the taurus said she couldn't do that when she brought it up but now I guess it's okay for her to do.
So what do you think? I told the pisces that she doesn't seem to have boundaries and I'd be wary of her.
I think you already have a lock on what is going on Sag.
Yeah sounds like she's passively sniffing in a very bullish way.
Are the Taurus and Pisces true friends? My BFF is a Pisces and I would never dream of hurting her! Ugh...we bulls are extremely loyal to our friends, but this bull's behavior is just horrid! You've heard of the bro rule? What what about the sistah rule?
And also..the Aries can open that gash under his nose and say it's unwelcome attention...juss sayin'.
Yeah, this isn't cool at all and kind of sh#@ty. This isn't a situation where a group of people hang out, or girlfriends go to the bar and think the same guy is cute; this Aries is actually DATING the Pisces, so I think that's just not cool at all.
My only word of caution is that this can get ugly very quickly. Multiple things could transpire in this situation:
a. You tell your Pisces friend of your concerns - she blows it off and says you are wrong, seemingly making it appear that she doesn't believe you and/or is taking the Taurus's side over yours, which in turn may hurt your feelings (or maybe not, I don't know you, so I can't speak to that)
b. You tell your Pisces friend of your concerns - she thanks you, and goes to rough up her Taurus friend, who in turn makes YOU to look like the bad guy and there is a big fall out, and again, this could get ugly
c. You tell your Pisces friend of your concerns - she confronts her Aries boyfriend and asks if he likes the Taurus; the Taurus gets wind of this and wants to know why she thinks she likes her boyfriend? She tells her what you said, to which the Taurus denies it and blows up at the Pisces. The Aries is also pissed off because he (probably clueless as some men can be) doesn't see it, and thinks his girlfriend is being a paranoid, jealous freak - again, the fallout could be ugly
You see where I am going with this? For me, if you have concerns, I'm not saying you shouldn't tell your friend, because in your heart of hearts if you feel something and you are one of those people that has to "clear the air" about situations, then you likely will tell her; however, be sure that you are ready to deal with all of the possible worst case scenarios of the fallout. Hopefully I am all wrong, and you chat with your friend, and she justs steps back and watches for herself to get a gauge and feeling and pursues it from there. In this case, you've forewarned her of your concerns and she is making the ultimate decisions based on her own observations. Good luck with whatever you decide to do.
My only word of caution is that this can get ugly very quickly. Multiple things could transpire in this situation:
a. You tell your Pisces friend of your concerns - she blows it off and says you are wrong, seemingly making it appear that she doesn't believe you and/or is taking the Taurus's side over yours, which in turn may hurt your feelings (or maybe not, I don't know you, so I can't speak to that)
b. You tell your Pisces friend of your concerns - she thanks you, and goes to rough up her Taurus friend, who in turn makes YOU to look like the bad guy and there is a big fall out, and again, this could get ugly
c. You tell your Pisces friend of your concerns - she confronts her Aries boyfriend and asks if he likes the Taurus; the Taurus gets wind of this and wants to know why she thinks she likes her boyfriend? She tells her what you said, to which the Taurus denies it and blows up at the Pisces. The Aries is also pissed off because he (probably clueless as some men can be) doesn't see it, and thinks his girlfriend is being a paranoid, jealous freak - again, the fallout could be ugly
You see where I am going with this? For me, if you have concerns, I'm not saying you shouldn't tell your friend, because in your heart of hearts if you feel something and you are one of those people that has to "clear the air" about situations, then you likely will tell her; however, be sure that you are ready to deal with all of the possible worst case scenarios of the fallout. Hopefully I am all wrong, and you chat with your friend, and she justs steps back and watches for herself to get a gauge and feeling and pursues it from there. In this case, you've forewarned her of your concerns and she is making the ultimate decisions based on her own observations. Good luck with whatever you decide to do.
LOL, I wasn't finished and accidentally hit enter before I was done, so I just hid that first one 
HEY, it's still early where I am
HEY, it's still early where I am
*smiling and sliding over a strong Mexican coffee* 
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I hardly ever drink coffee, but sometimes when it's really cold, it can taste so divine
I hardly ever drink coffee, but sometimes when it's really cold, it can taste so divine
When she starts pouting around the happy Pisces-Aries couple and starts getting mad at the Pisces for seemingly no reason at all....you know what's up.
Hey everyone!
Thanks for your responses.
Yeah the aries and pisces are engaged. And yes the pisces came to me with these concerns. They seem to keep building up everytime she talks to me about it to me. I feel terrible because no one wants to think their "friends" are like that. They are suppose to be someone you love and trust.
So do you think this taurus could really like him? Or could she just playing around like in a crush way? ( Still ya thats bad) but how bad do you think it could get? The pisces asked me to go to one of his shows with her so I could watch how they interact to get a second opinion on friday. I can't because I am working or I would be there.
Than she told me the taurus played some taylor swift song for her which was about " switching places " with a girl and being with her guy or something? I do not know it I don't listen to her music but I guess that concered her too.
Honestly I can smell peoples emotionally disfunction from a mile away but at the same time I like to not think it's all bad. I think the pisces gets it but she doesn't want to believe it?
Thanks for your responses.
Yeah the aries and pisces are engaged. And yes the pisces came to me with these concerns. They seem to keep building up everytime she talks to me about it to me. I feel terrible because no one wants to think their "friends" are like that. They are suppose to be someone you love and trust.
So do you think this taurus could really like him? Or could she just playing around like in a crush way? ( Still ya thats bad) but how bad do you think it could get? The pisces asked me to go to one of his shows with her so I could watch how they interact to get a second opinion on friday. I can't because I am working or I would be there.
Than she told me the taurus played some taylor swift song for her which was about " switching places " with a girl and being with her guy or something? I do not know it I don't listen to her music but I guess that concered her too.
Honestly I can smell peoples emotionally disfunction from a mile away but at the same time I like to not think it's all bad. I think the pisces gets it but she doesn't want to believe it?
She's crushing on him, and what man doesn't enjoy flattery? This is a sticky situation that I feel needs to be addressed. Pronto. If it is just friendship/mutual admiration, good. Nothing wrong with a friend with similar interests. However, I don't think so, and this is why:
1. Her coming over despite the Pisces saying "We're busy". That just reeks of her wanting to see him irregardless. She
should have thought "My friends are busy right now."
2. That she followed him to say words, hugged and said 'I love you.' Now, I have told friends I love them with no other
ties, however this smacks of "I've got your back if the shit hits the fan". In other words making it known she's
there for him. All is not well in Mudville with that situ.
3. With the tickets, etc. She's showing him they'd be a great *team*. Again, nothing she should be putting out there
for an engaged man. Engaged, entangled, etc. Hands off. No matter how badly you want, it's still NOT YOURS, yeh?
Shelve that.
4. The choice in music. For one such as I, music is a way to emote what is in my brain, on my heart without saying it.
"Listen to this..it's me." Some get it, some do not, but it's a shy way to say something, and usually it's important.
In all fairness to her, this may be subconscious, may not be. But it needs nipped. And properly done. If all are friends then a bit of diplomacy is in order, but honesty needs to be there too. Perhaps the Pisces needs to sit down with the Aries and mention it, so ( USC said he might be clueless..and he might be, just feeding off the positive attention.. )that he can handle his business as a taken man. He needs to lay down the gavel in other words. Because if it comes from anyone else and she is smitten, she'll not listen. Trust.
1. Her coming over despite the Pisces saying "We're busy". That just reeks of her wanting to see him irregardless. She
should have thought "My friends are busy right now."
2. That she followed him to say words, hugged and said 'I love you.' Now, I have told friends I love them with no other
ties, however this smacks of "I've got your back if the shit hits the fan". In other words making it known she's
there for him. All is not well in Mudville with that situ.
3. With the tickets, etc. She's showing him they'd be a great *team*. Again, nothing she should be putting out there
for an engaged man. Engaged, entangled, etc. Hands off. No matter how badly you want, it's still NOT YOURS, yeh?
Shelve that.
4. The choice in music. For one such as I, music is a way to emote what is in my brain, on my heart without saying it.
"Listen to this..it's me." Some get it, some do not, but it's a shy way to say something, and usually it's important.
In all fairness to her, this may be subconscious, may not be. But it needs nipped. And properly done. If all are friends then a bit of diplomacy is in order, but honesty needs to be there too. Perhaps the Pisces needs to sit down with the Aries and mention it, so ( USC said he might be clueless..and he might be, just feeding off the positive attention.. )that he can handle his business as a taken man. He needs to lay down the gavel in other words. Because if it comes from anyone else and she is smitten, she'll not listen. Trust.
Posted by venusianbull
She's crushing on him, and what man doesn't enjoy flattery? This is a sticky situation that I feel needs to be addressed. Pronto. If it is just friendship/mutual admiration, good. Nothing wrong with a friend with similar interests. However, I don't think so, and this is why:
1. Her coming over despite the Pisces saying "We're busy". That just reeks of her wanting to see him irregardless. She
should have thought "My friends are busy right now."
2. That she followed him to say words, hugged and said 'I love you.' Now, I have told friends I love them with no other
ties, however this smacks of "I've got your back if the shit hits the fan". In other words making it known she's
there for him. All is not well in Mudville with that situ.
3. With the tickets, etc. She's showing him they'd be a great *team*. Again, nothing she should be putting out there
for an engaged man. Engaged, entangled, etc. Hands off. No matter how badly you want, it's still NOT YOURS, yeh?
Shelve that.
4. The choice in music. For one such as I, music is a way to emote what is in my brain, on my heart without saying it.
"Listen to this..it's me." Some get it, some do not, but it's a shy way to say something, and usually it's important.
In all fairness to her, this may be subconscious, may not be. But it needs nipped. And properly done. If all are friends then a bit of diplomacy is in order, but honesty needs to be there too. Perhaps the Pisces needs to sit down with the Aries and mention it, so ( USC said he might be clueless..and he might be, just feeding off the positive attention.. )that he can handle his business as a taken man. He needs to lay down the gavel in other words. Because if it comes from anyone else and she is smitten, she'll not listen. Trust.
I see. Those are good points. Oh yea, I forgot to mention that the taurus is married.
And yea the pisces said she talked with the aries about it a "little" and he said I would never think of her like that sometimes she acts weird towards me. But he really isn't that kind of guy to be like that. He's pretty respectable so I think it's mostly her side. Oh and I guess now that he's moving up in the music business he likes him even more because I guess before he was only "so so"
* She
She's married to boot? FFS!
Well that wasn't a fabulous reaction, was it? Everything in me went UGH! When involved everyone else can keep their hands off meh! ( With exception of family and friends, let's not get crazy..I'm a touchy critter.. ) And I don't entertain anyone else either. Everything I am, belongs to that man, and I hold everything he is in my hands, right next to my heart.
*blowing bangs off of forehead* Okay, let's for arguments sake say all this is innocent. I'm really hoping so, as in reality I've only one side of things here and am walking a bit blind, yeh? If it is, then she is just being warm and helpful. If NOT though, everything I said stands firm and she needs to cut the crap. First off, she's wed. That's a promise, and any good Taurus never, EVER breaks them. You promise something, it happens. Simple as that and definitely set in stone. Secondly she's dipping her toe in the waters of another couples relationship. And if this is true, she needs taken out by the foxglove and flogged. Sticky, sticky.
*blowing bangs off of forehead* Okay, let's for arguments sake say all this is innocent. I'm really hoping so, as in reality I've only one side of things here and am walking a bit blind, yeh? If it is, then she is just being warm and helpful. If NOT though, everything I said stands firm and she needs to cut the crap. First off, she's wed. That's a promise, and any good Taurus never, EVER breaks them. You promise something, it happens. Simple as that and definitely set in stone. Secondly she's dipping her toe in the waters of another couples relationship. And if this is true, she needs taken out by the foxglove and flogged. Sticky, sticky.
In my experience with Taurus girls...they have a strong sense of "girl code."
They're not the type to sneak around behind your back and steal your man.
However, I have known them to crush on a taken man before...in which case they pout like no other when they see them together and act very obviously jealous.
I think Bling's right.
They're not the type to sneak around behind your back and steal your man.
However, I have known them to crush on a taken man before...in which case they pout like no other when they see them together and act very obviously jealous.
I think Bling's right.
Right. I agree with what your all saying. Oh yea and her and the pisces girl have had sex with eachother before.
And I mean hey I am all for bi sexuality. Girls are hot but the way pisces explained it, it seemed she pushed her into it.
And the taurus said to her " You can be my secret girlfriend "
So this taurus just seems to enjoy controling everything around her in fucked up ways and is very insecure along with not having healthy boundaries.
I just hope pisces can be strong enough to stand up to her.
And I mean hey I am all for bi sexuality. Girls are hot but the way pisces explained it, it seemed she pushed her into it.
And the taurus said to her " You can be my secret girlfriend "
So this taurus just seems to enjoy controling everything around her in fucked up ways and is very insecure along with not having healthy boundaries.
I just hope pisces can be strong enough to stand up to her.
LOL Good grief Sag, is there anything ELSE going on?
HAHAH thanks for all your replies aquagirl and everyone.
I don't know she still seems to be hanging with her all the time and I personally think it's just gonna get worse because I'm see the taurus getting closer and closer to him little by little but I don't know it doesn't seem to stop.
So I guess we'll just see till it blows up?
I don't know she still seems to be hanging with her all the time and I personally think it's just gonna get worse because I'm see the taurus getting closer and closer to him little by little but I don't know it doesn't seem to stop.
So I guess we'll just see till it blows up?
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