taurus women have you ever loved a scorpio

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Peny2016 on Monday, September 26, 2016 and has 23 replies.
Im not a taurus but i've been in a relationship with a scorpio for 10yrs and im an aquarius just like taurus and scorpio they say that aqua and scorp isnt comptible well it can work as long as you can compromise because scorpio can be hard headed as hell im telling you if they dont like going out or doing something they wont budge even if they know you really want too,scorpio is possessive they want all of your attention and very jealous they are also clingy but on the positive side scorpio is vry generous and once you have the heart of a scorpio You are their world,hope i helped in a way smile
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We're not in a relationship (yet), but so far its one of the best connections ive ever felt with anyone. Wasnt the easiest but above all we could understand each other on a soul level. Feels safe, nurturing and he is also very very supportive. I'd also like to hear other stories too!!
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it feels natural but intense. I'm very drawn to Scorpio men, only dated one and almost married him. my fault when it comes down to it but I don't give up hope that my scorpio is still out there. I feel like I'm meant to be with one...
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It was amazing. The connection is very strong, as long as the hate situation doesnt happen. Between scorpio and taurus there's always this either you two come to love each other or you hate each other so much. Just dont treat your taurus woman like she's nothing. Sometimes scorpios just becomes so quiet and unresponsive that we feel like we did something wrong and that you dont like us as much we like you.
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I have and it's been the greatest connection of my life so far and the sex is crazy good..... that'll haunt you forever
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Posted by Peny2016
How did it make you feel good and bad? Im noticing that this gets perceived as a toxic pairing alor - would you agree?


Best ever
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And another sign to add I don't meet either. Weird.

I probably have known two Scorpio females and my brother is Scorpio, but normally not a sign I talk to too much on here anyways. I saw alot on online dating sites though. Haha.

I lack the water though in my chart about % 1 percent.
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Last Scorpio I talked to when I was online lied big time and was drama attached to it. No thanks.

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It didn't work out for me. He had some good qualities, but the differences in our backgrounds and goals was too much to overcome.

Also, I had a Scorp male as a friend, and we're still friends though he has changed a lot and is less supportive of me now, but I still consider him a friend. He was funny as hell when he was younger, and would dare anything. But underneath he was very sweet and easy to figure out. He was giving and loyal and even kind. Not always a Scorp trait you hear about.
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
And another sign to add I don't meet either. Weird.

I probably have known two Scorpio females and my brother is Scorpio, but normally not a sign I talk to too much on here anyways. I saw alot on online dating sites though. Haha.

I lack the water though in my chart about % 1 percent.
I lack water too in my chart. Do you feel like you are drawn to water signs? I do. I feel balance once I meet one. I feel as though we crave water bc of the lack there of.


To answer the op: I am a huge fan of water signs. Scorpions are on top next to cancer. It's like a deep understanding we have between each other once we both get passed the thick walls we had up. I admire them a lot.

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Posted by Redoctober2000
No, I have not OP. I don't attract many water signs. I've only been on one date with a scorp and felt no attraction for him although he felt attention for me which lasted four years.
you only attract flies
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Completely backwards and not sure if this helps but my mom was Oct Scorpio and dad was Taurus. (Before I start, realize that there's a lot I question to this day.) He was always the strong manly figure who devoted himself to his family in a professional way. (Ie, breadwinner, extracurriculars, supporting dreams, etc) she was a depressed alcoholic who convinced herself he was cheating all my life. Maybe she was right. I have no way of knowing, but when I got older, he spent a lot of time away from home for "work". He even moved us to a not so great area (which she hated) for a year because of her fears. And we moved back home. Shortly after she passed and two years later, he moved in another woman who took over EVERYTHING. Sorry, depressing tangent. From what I know about scorps, depression comes easy, touchy creatures. And my Taurus father? WONDERFUL father. But HORRIBLE husband to scorp mama. It's like he didn't know how to comfort her and I almost got the feeling that she resented him for keeping her trapped in the "I take care of you" life style . Sorry if you were looking for more pleasant feedback.
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Posted by Skybluerose
Completely backwards and not sure if this helps but my mom was Oct Scorpio and dad was Taurus. (Before I start, realize that there's a lot I question to this day.) He was always the strong manly figure who devoted himself to his family in a professional way. (Ie, breadwinner, extracurriculars, supporting dreams, etc) she was a depressed alcoholic who convinced herself he was cheating all my life. Maybe she was right. I have no way of knowing, but when I got older, he spent a lot of time away from home for "work". He even moved us to a not so great area (which she hated) for a year because of her fears. And we moved back home. Shortly after she passed and two years later, he moved in another woman who took over EVERYTHING. Sorry, depressing tangent. From what I know about scorps, depression comes easy, touchy creatures. And my Taurus father? WONDERFUL father. But HORRIBLE husband to scorp mama. It's like he didn't know how to comfort her and I almost got the feeling that she resented him for keeping her trapped in the "I take care of you" life style . Sorry if you were looking for more pleasant feedback.


damn thats too real. i think that is what most taurus-scorp relationships build up to

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Posted by Skybluerose
Completely backwards and not sure if this helps but my mom was Oct Scorpio and dad was Taurus. (Before I start, realize that there's a lot I question to this day.) He was always the strong manly figure who devoted himself to his family in a professional way. (Ie, breadwinner, extracurriculars, supporting dreams, etc) she was a depressed alcoholic who convinced herself he was cheating all my life. Maybe she was right. I have no way of knowing, but when I got older, he spent a lot of time away from home for "work". He even moved us to a not so great area (which she hated) for a year because of her fears. And we moved back home. Shortly after she passed and two years later, he moved in another woman who took over EVERYTHING. Sorry, depressing tangent. From what I know about scorps, depression comes easy, touchy creatures. And my Taurus father? WONDERFUL father. But HORRIBLE husband to scorp mama. It's like he didn't know how to comfort her and I almost got the feeling that she resented him for keeping her trapped in the "I take care of you" life style . Sorry if you were looking for more pleasant feedback.
That's really sad. Thanks for sharing.
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Posted by Aquarius3189
Im not a taurus but i've been in a relationship with a scorpio for 10yrs and im an aquarius just like taurus and scorpio they say that aqua and scorp isnt comptible well it can work as long as you can compromise because scorpio can be hard headed as hell im telling you if they dont like going out or doing something they wont budge even if they know you really want too,scorpio is possessive they want all of your attention and very jealous they are also clingy but on the positive side scorpio is vry generous and once you have the heart of a scorpio You are their world,hope i helped in a way smile
You are not a Taurus, so you can't give it from a "Taurus" view point....

The OP specifically addresses Taurus women to answer. If the OP wanted the opinion from an aqua point of view, would the OP not have addressed the aqua board?


Yes it's true she is not a Taurus BUT Aquarius and Scorpio is a fixed square pairing just like Taurus and Scorpio meaning there will always be that intense connection only other fixed relationships would understand. So she believed giving her advice would help some, don't be rude it's very unwanted.

I am with a Scorpio and can also give some advice how he can be in the relationship. I can defer this to OP because it might help her in the long run.

Are you a Taurus?

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how a dominant Taurus chickie? Tongue

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Posted by Skybluerose
Completely backwards and not sure if this helps but my mom was Oct Scorpio and dad was Taurus. (Before I start, realize that there's a lot I question to this day.) He was always the strong manly figure who devoted himself to his family in a professional way. (Ie, breadwinner, extracurriculars, supporting dreams, etc) she was a depressed alcoholic who convinced herself he was cheating all my life. Maybe she was right. I have no way of knowing, but when I got older, he spent a lot of time away from home for "work". He even moved us to a not so great area (which she hated) for a year because of her fears. And we moved back home. Shortly after she passed and two years later, he moved in another woman who took over EVERYTHING. Sorry, depressing tangent. From what I know about scorps, depression comes easy, touchy creatures. And my Taurus father? WONDERFUL father. But HORRIBLE husband to scorp mama. It's like he didn't know how to comfort her and I almost got the feeling that she resented him for keeping her trapped in the "I take care of you" life style . Sorry if you were looking for more pleasant feedback.


damn thats too real. i think that is what most taurus-scorp relationships build up to

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yes to both @unisaid and @skybluerose - they seem to have that thing that says "I take care of you so be grateful and then that is all there is" ...
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Posted by Peny2016
Thanks for your comments... I feel defeated because despite initially being what each other wanted in a partner it went - tits up behind repair and far too early on which is probably the main problem. On the flip of what the last post shared.. I was the one who was insecure with the intensity and fell very hard and was afraid he would cheat (because I found out when he first met me he cheated on someone else). I broke privacy I acted immaturely I lied a lot - all to protect myself. When you feel so many intense emotions in love you cant see that if you calmly talk honestly about whats really happening under the surface you might stand a chance a fixing it. Instead it gets worse as you try to cling on and my scorp must of thought he was dating an emotional wreck. I was unreliable - not the classic emotionally stable taurus. He pulled and pulled slowly over 6 months to the point of no return. Only a year after that would I meet him and tell him what really happened me in our relationship - i found out he cheated on his previous partner, i read his messages to her and seen he was smitten and wrecked my brain with how he could treat her that way all while he was trying to start something new with me. Well at this stage he had already moved on happily in love with an easy breezy younger gemini (no offence gems) just seems like he went for the complete opposite of me after our intense encounter. Id say left us both scarred mostly because it felt so right then went so wrong and never spoke honestly when it mattered.

Do you Taurus women feel refrained from fighting for your scorpio man? Because when you hear of his past it seems he is never short of women? Does that make you feel insignificant? to the point where you deliberately refrain from ego boosts - like chasing him.. admitting insecurities around him? I think thats part of what happened me - I hated how I had huge gaps years between loves and he only ever had a matter of weeks..like how!!??
Yes I def felt this way...it made me feel crazy and emotionally out of control sometimes. It was strong!! I've never been insecure of anything but with him I was esp about the exes, other women. I began to analyze every word he said and look for the deeper meanings in my mind. It damn near broke me but at some point I realized we were not on the same page and I was wasting my time. It was hard for a few years though. I still to this day think of him all the time and feel that heartbreak feeling in my chest that takes my breath away sometimes and out of nowhere my eyes tear up. It was a very hard experience for me though and I'm not young. I loved him more than any other in my life. I don't hate him I just hate the way things that happened and that we couldn't seem to just communicate instead of all the negative bs. Emotions like that are crazy hard though. I'm still not completely over it, and I miss him sometimes, it def scarred me but I survived and I feel I have grown wiser from it all. Not a bad match just very, very deep and consuming.

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^^^ that must have all been rather exhausting. You'll heal. As a Scorp, I think we do better with stable partners. Trading off some of that passion/drama/intensity you have with someone for stability etc as that high level cannot be sustained for long.
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not toxic but the relationship did cause the major changes I chose for myself to cause me to be a more complete, happier person today.

it did come from a lot of pain in the end. most of my doing. in the end, I left for the best for both of us. he is now with a Pisces he worked with, engaged again I believe. I hope he's happy and he wished the same for me.
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Posted by Peny2016
Thanks for your comments... I feel defeated because despite initially being what each other wanted in a partner it went - tits up behind repair and far too early on which is probably the main problem. On the flip of what the last post shared.. I was the one who was insecure with the intensity and fell very hard and was afraid he would cheat (because I found out when he first met me he cheated on someone else). I broke privacy I acted immaturely I lied a lot - all to protect myself. When you feel so many intense emotions in love you cant see that if you calmly talk honestly about whats really happening under the surface you might stand a chance a fixing it. Instead it gets worse as you try to cling on and my scorp must of thought he was dating an emotional wreck. I was unreliable - not the classic emotionally stable taurus. He pulled and pulled slowly over 6 months to the point of no return. Only a year after that would I meet him and tell him what really happened me in our relationship - i found out he cheated on his previous partner, i read his messages to her and seen he was smitten and wrecked my brain with how he could treat her that way all while he was trying to start something new with me. Well at this stage he had already moved on happily in love with an easy breezy younger gemini (no offence gems) just seems like he went for the complete opposite of me after our intense encounter. Id say left us both scarred mostly because it felt so right then went so wrong and never spoke honestly when it mattered.

Do you Taurus women feel refrained from fighting for your scorpio man? Because when you hear of his past it seems he is never short of women? Does that make you feel insignificant? to the point where you deliberately refrain from ego boosts - like chasing him.. admitting insecurities around him? I think thats part of what happened me - I hated how I had huge gaps years between loves and he only ever had a matter of weeks..like how!!??
Yes I def felt this way...it made me feel crazy and emotionally out of control sometimes. It was strong!! I've never been insecure of anything but with him I was esp about the exes, other women. I began to analyze every word he said and look for the deeper meanings in my mind. It damn near broke me but at some point I realized we were not on the same page and I was wasting my time. It was hard for a few years though. I still to this day think of him all the time and feel that heartbreak feeling in my chest that takes my breath away sometimes and out of nowhere my eyes tear up. It was a very hard experience for me though and I'm not young. I loved him more than any other in my life. I don't hate him I just hate the way things that happened and that we couldn't seem to just communicate instead of all the negative bs. Emotions like that are crazy hard though. I'm still not completely over it, and I miss him sometimes, it def scarred me but I survived and I feel I have grown wiser from it all. Not a bad match just very, very deep and consuming.



I suppose its scary for me to hear that - it has been 18months since our break up and 2 years since I turned into someone that I'm not, insecure, always thinking of him etc- I still feel I'm not quite back to myself. Thats the hardest part this relationship made me feel more happiness in the world and then the worst pain were I cant seem to get the same joy and connection with anything from life like previous. Why is that? Why is the effect so strong? Why is it nearly always the Scorpio walking away and the Taurean woman never seems to have the strength to abandon him. CR19 like me you seem to have taken on a lot of the blame as to why it failed too - but is that right? Surely the most perceptive sign should know deep down whats happening - they just don't admit it - hence we all loss our minds.
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I do blame myself for certain things but mostly I blame him for not being honest. I just feel/felt that it was a long drawn out completely avoidable pain. I don't hate him but I do have a lot of unanswered questions and in my eyes knowing then what I know now, it didn't have to happen like it did. He could have just been open and honest about things. I felt used, betrayed and led on all bc I truly opened myself and lived. I wondered how that beautiful gift could turn into something so ugly and shattered. It was a complete mindfuck for me for a long time and like I said, it still hurts and haunts me but when I walked away a part of me died with that situation and as the days go by I feel better about my decision to let him be and find his own way. He needs time to grow and experience more in his life, and I just need my time to process, heal, learn from it and get on with life like it was before him. It takes time and it is extremely hard but I feel like it was just a lesson I had to go through in preparation for something bigger. That's what I tell myself anyway? It's ok to not be over it though, everyone takes their own amount of needed time, we're all human. Love def hurts sometimes. Hugs to you, it is rough.

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Posted by Peny2016
How did it make you feel good and bad? Im noticing that this gets perceived as a toxic pairing alor - would you agree?
Taurus men aren't that bad... a little pushy and impatient. I prefer friend level but hey.. toxic, no I wouldn't say that. Taurus ladies are chill, more so than the fellas. Maybe power struggles with the scorpio man though.
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Posted by Peny2016
Thanks for your comments... I feel defeated because despite initially being what each other wanted in a partner it went - tits up behind repair and far too early on which is probably the main problem. On the flip of what the last post shared.. I was the one who was insecure with the intensity and fell very hard and was afraid he would cheat (because I found out when he first met me he cheated on someone else). I broke privacy I acted immaturely I lied a lot - all to protect myself. When you feel so many intense emotions in love you cant see that if you calmly talk honestly about whats really happening under the surface you might stand a chance a fixing it. Instead it gets worse as you try to cling on and my scorp must of thought he was dating an emotional wreck. I was unreliable - not the classic emotionally stable taurus. He pulled and pulled slowly over 6 months to the point of no return. Only a year after that would I meet him and tell him what really happened me in our relationship - i found out he cheated on his previous partner, i read his messages to her and seen he was smitten and wrecked my brain with how he could treat her that way all while he was trying to start something new with me. Well at this stage he had already moved on happily in love with an easy breezy younger gemini (no offence gems) just seems like he went for the complete opposite of me after our intense encounter. Id say left us both scarred mostly because it felt so right then went so wrong and never spoke honestly when it mattered.

Do you Taurus women feel refrained from fighting for your scorpio man? Because when you hear of his past it seems he is never short of women? Does that make you feel insignificant? to the point where you deliberately refrain from ego boosts - like chasing him.. admitting insecurities around him? I think thats part of what happened me - I hated how I had huge gaps years between loves and he only ever had a matter of weeks..like how!!??
No, I never felt insignificant, he chose me, why would his past matter? I found this relationship to be my most honest. Here I am insecurities and all.

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Posted by Peny2016
Thanks for your comments... I feel defeated because despite initially being what each other wanted in a partner it went - tits up behind repair and far too early on which is probably the main problem. On the flip of what the last post shared.. I was the one who was insecure with the intensity and fell very hard and was afraid he would cheat (because I found out when he first met me he cheated on someone else). I broke privacy I acted immaturely I lied a lot - all to protect myself. When you feel so many intense emotions in love you cant see that if you calmly talk honestly about whats really happening under the surface you might stand a chance a fixing it. Instead it gets worse as you try to cling on and my scorp must of thought he was dating an emotional wreck. I was unreliable - not the classic emotionally stable taurus. He pulled and pulled slowly over 6 months to the point of no return. Only a year after that would I meet him and tell him what really happened me in our relationship - i found out he cheated on his previous partner, i read his messages to her and seen he was smitten and wrecked my brain with how he could treat her that way all while he was trying to start something new with me. Well at this stage he had already moved on happily in love with an easy breezy younger gemini (no offence gems) just seems like he went for the complete opposite of me after our intense encounter. Id say left us both scarred mostly because it felt so right then went so wrong and never spoke honestly when it mattered.

Do you Taurus women feel refrained from fighting for your scorpio man? Because when you hear of his past it seems he is never short of women? Does that make you feel insignificant? to the point where you deliberately refrain from ego boosts - like chasing him.. admitting insecurities around him? I think thats part of what happened me - I hated how I had huge gaps years between loves and he only ever had a matter of weeks..like how!!??
No, I never felt insignificant, he chose me, why would his past matter? I found this relationship to be my most honest. Here I am insecurities and all.

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reading from your posts you must be very sad to not be with him.

I remember you are with an aquarius venus, I thought it didn't sound too happy with your Taurus venus.


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