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Ive been seeing a Taurus since late April and we still aren't exclusive. I was going out on a date on Sunday and ran into him. When he asked where I was going I said lunch and he asked if it was with a male and I told him the truth. He even called a cab for me and did say he wasnt happy but he was really calm and it really didnt seem like a big deal.

Well he wanted to chill or so I thought Sunday night...he only set something up so he could stand me up and get me mad. Now for the whole week he has been trying to piss me off. Before the whole date thing he had lent me a DVD player and told me to hold on to it till he purchased one for me. He also told me he would give me money to pay a bill of mine...I never asked for these things at all but I was appreciative of him offering.

Now all week he has been harassing me to get his dvd player back. He told me im doing silly shit and that i need to bring him his dvd player. He also said Im being mixxy and he cant deal with that and he was trying to fall back so that the guys im dating can step up and do things like pay my bill and buy me things. He has been very passive aggresive....im going to return his shit this afternoon but wtf......I do like him and was enjoying our time but he wasnt trying to commit and I was starting to fall for him and I cant have that not knowing if he is serious or not. How does he think the way he acting is fair?

I'm mainly upset about him going back on his word and acting like a bitch about the whole situation. It seemed like I had to pull teeth to get this info out of him. I don't care that he isn't going to monetarily help me but that is was conditional and now he is reneging. He keeps dating you don't need me you made that very clear. But who knows what he is doing on the side and why he won't commit.

Saying*

Posted by MrWendall
This reminds me i need to get some yoga vhs tapes from a pisces... 😛

lol wtf

Posted by MrWendall
This reminds me i need to get some yoga vhs tapes from a pisces... 😛

no back sees

Posted by MrWendall
You give that dvd player back and ask for a blu ray gurl!!

lmao

Posted by MrWendall
Is he a venus in aries? They sensitive to being used.

nope we have the same Venus in taurus

he is Taurus sun
Cancer moon
Taurus mercury
Taurus mars and venus

that man is all bull

and you think im using him? nah b

LMAO!! OMG!!! I'm going through the same thing with my Taurus guy. Some of them can be such little bitches!! 🙂 And note I said SOME! 🙂 It's ok for him to do what he wants and to blow me out about nothing but the moment I call him out on his shit, he gets super pissed and ignores me for a week. Said he's "not happy" and "mad". WHATEVER!!

Posted by MrWendall
You 2 need some mr wendellz musak! 😛

What's the muzak track list? 😉

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Posted by bkbella86

Posted by MrWendall
Is he a venus in aries? They sensitive to being used.

nope we have the same Venus in taurus

he is Taurus sun
Cancer moon
Taurus mercury
Taurus mars and venus

that man is all bull

and you think im using him? nah b

Nah. Actually same goes for your combo. Sensitive too to being used. R u?

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yes vey sensitive to that

I am Aries sun
Pisces moon
Pisces mercury
Taurus venus
Cap mars

ive been used before or so I felt

but how can he feel im using him?

Posted by MrWendall
They just being bitches true.

Honestly i love leaving things with people so i can buy more.

he wasnt thinking about that damn dvd player till he caught wind of some other dude in my life

They can be very petty. My extaurus was petty just like this new taurus and your taurus, it seems.

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Posted by Scorpio72

Posted by MrWendall
You 2 need some mr wendellz musak! 😛

What's the muzak track list? 😉

Mr.wendellz on repeat! What else? Ima taurus yo. Dont ur buls listen to the same song over and over?

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lol I just realized who i was talking too

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Posted by Scorpio72
They can be very petty. My extaurus was petty just like this new taurus and your taurus, it seems.

thats what im getting from this situation

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Posted by MrWendall
Is he a venus in aries? They sensitive to being used.

nope we have the same Venus in taurus

he is Taurus sun
Cancer moon
Taurus mercury
Taurus mars and venus

that man is all bull

and you think im using him? nah b

Nah. Actually same goes for your combo. Sensitive too to being used. R u?

yes vey sensitive to that

I am Aries sun
Pisces moon
Pisces mercury
Taurus venus
Cap mars

ive been used before or so I felt

but how can he feel im using him?

Its the sun venus combo. They're odd like that.

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he said the way I was acting all week and sunday sent him a message...I asked him what message and the convo ended...he hasnt explained himself

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by Scorpio72
They can be very petty. My extaurus was petty just like this new taurus and your taurus, it seems.

thats what im getting from this situation

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Hypocritical petty bitches. I've found the best thing is to ignore them and leave them be. And don't reply to them until they pull their head out of their asses and know how to talk to someone.

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Posted by MrWendall
They just being bitches true.

Honestly i love leaving things with people so i can buy more.

he wasnt thinking about that damn dvd player till he caught wind of some other dude in my life

Id sit u down and ask you to choose. Sometimes we move so slow.

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he is being a lil kid about it tho so who knows if we will ever get there

I would obviously choose him...I dont even know the other dude like that

I was getting my feet wet again because in typical bull fashion he is moving slow as hell

its almost 6 months

Posted by MrWendall
I think his cancer moon is pulling dramz.

i figured

are we compatible tho?

i like his energy hes been cool so far very little bs besides this

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Posted by bkbella86

Posted by Scorpio72
They can be very petty. My extaurus was petty just like this new taurus and your taurus, it seems.

thats what im getting from this situation

Hypocritical petty bitches. I've found the best thing is to ignore them and leave them be. And don't reply to them until they pull their head out of their asses and know how to talk to someone.

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lol i was trying to ignore him and he started calling multiple times and sending a ton of text about this damn dvd player...so then he fianlly admitted it was about me and other dudes....he is obviously very pissed tho because he is going out of his way to mean spirited imo.

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Posted by bkbella86

Posted by MrWendall
I think his cancer moon is pulling dramz.

i figured

are we compatible tho?

i like his energy hes been cool so far very little bs besides this

I think so. Pretty much everything he has falls into your 2nd house right? My dad has that synastry with me. Ka ching! $ $ $

Moon in your 4th. Hed feel at home with you. Nurtured.

Your Moon in your partner??s 4th house:??

The 4th house is the natural house of the Moon. It represents our emotions and our domestic lives. When your Moon is in your partner??s 4th house, your partner feels immediately comfortable with you. You know how to make your partner feel safe and secure. Your partner might strongly desire living together and building a family with you. You also feel very comfortable with your partner. Spending time at home with one another brings you both a great sense of security and well-being. In fact, the two of you may shut yourselves out from the rest of the world in order to be alone together in a safe space. This aspect is highly binding, and it is very difficult for the two of you to separate. The two of you may even become completely emotionally dependent on one another. You tend to mirror each other??s emotions, and instinctively know how to soothe one another. The two of you may have had a very similar upbringing, which adds to the connection even more. You may even remind your partner of his/her mother. This aspect is especially strong if your Moon is close to your partner??s IC.

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this is true

although when I met him I had no feelings whatso ever...he was very aggresive at first and didnt take no for an answer then we chilled once and that was it....I was very comfy with him from day one

he feels protective to me

day one meaning the first time we chilled

but how do i proceed with this bull

got any ideas guys?

@ Mr Wendell

Also can you explain this a few weeks prior everytime we got together he would some how bring up that I love him...in person or text wed be talking and then all of a sudden he will be like you love me

im like whaaa?

Posted by bkbella86
@ Mr Wendell

Also can you explain this a few weeks prior everytime we got together he would some how bring up that I love him...in person or text wed be talking and then all of a sudden he will be like you love me

im like whaaa?

Sounds like he's really insecure. Needing constant confirmation. Mine doesn't verbally ask me how I feel but he constantly does things so that I will SHOW him how I feel.

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Posted by bkbella86
@ Mr Wendell

Also can you explain this a few weeks prior everytime we got together he would some how bring up that I love him...in person or text wed be talking and then all of a sudden he will be like you love me

im like whaaa?

Sounds like he's really insecure. Needing constant confirmation. Mine doesn't verbally ask me how I feel but he constantly does things so that I will SHOW him how I feel.

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well i havent said it and I wont until im sure and I know what were doing....and i cant even say its love but strong like and in love feelings but i dont think were at love yet

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Posted by bkbella86
@ Mr Wendell

Also can you explain this a few weeks prior everytime we got together he would some how bring up that I love him...in person or text wed be talking and then all of a sudden he will be like you love me

im like whaaa?

Sounds like he's really insecure. Needing constant confirmation. Mine doesn't verbally ask me how I feel but he constantly does things so that I will SHOW him how I feel.

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hes def test me and it seems that i have failed

shrugs

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Posted by bkbella86
@ Mr Wendell

Also can you explain this a few weeks prior everytime we got together he would some how bring up that I love him...in person or text wed be talking and then all of a sudden he will be like you love me

im like whaaa?

Jokingly? Or he just says it matter of fact lol.

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doesnt seem like he is joking....like he asked me about marriage and kids and I said i would consider it if i was in love...i told him I wanted a love child and he said well we already got the love part oout of the way. I told him I loved his D one time and he said you cant love just a part of my body you have to love the whole package. and hes been saying you love me for like 3 weeks everytime we chill. maybe im acting like it but i dont think so maybe a lil but i def held back

Posted by MrWendall
Do u aries hate that? I do kind of say that... like you love my dick. Chicks dont take it well tho. It "belittling".

nah im playful i dont mind in the right context....shoot i told him myself I love the D nd do whew

Posted by MrWendall
Maybe if u feel ur doing all the moves like always your affection for him instead of the other eay around... maybe that is what aries hate?

I think u just hafta pretend this whole dvd situation got you distraught. Then u corner em into commitment lol. Boy does seem sprung.

Hes probably testing about the backing off to make way for other dudes.

well yes I hate that but I dont feel thats the issue here...he is affectionate. im sprung too but i wont tell em

i think he is testing too because when I said do you really wanna fall back he said no I said do you want me to fall back he said no

its like he has a whole lot to say but I can only get it out of him in bits in pieces...he spoke alot last night about how he felt then when I asked him how i was acting and message i sent him on sunday and he went cold

he said ive been acting funny but I dont feel I have and when I sked how he stopped responding...im just waiting now

Posted by MrWendall
This reminds me i need to get some yoga vhs tapes from a pisces... 😛

LMAO! That is too funny.

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by MrWendall
Maybe if u feel ur doing all the moves like always your affection for him instead of the other eay around... maybe that is what aries hate?

I think u just hafta pretend this whole dvd situation got you distraught. Then u corner em into commitment lol. Boy does seem sprung.

Hes probably testing about the backing off to make way for other dudes.

well yes I hate that but I dont feel thats the issue here...he is affectionate. im sprung too but i wont tell em

i think he is testing too because when I said do you really wanna fall back he said no I said do you want me to fall back he said no

its like he has a whole lot to say but I can only get it out of him in bits in pieces...he spoke alot last night about how he felt then when I asked him how i was acting and message i sent him on sunday and he went cold

he said ive been acting funny but I dont feel I have and when I sked how he stopped responding...im just waiting now

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I totally can understand! My Taurus is not speaking now. But I think you should keep living. Go out, you shouldn't just wait. I think some Taurus' like to have control and yes I know so many Taurus men take their time and want to be sure of making the right decision but the back and forth is just too much for some women. I'm not waiting myself! Why should my life stop? So I told him when he's ready; you come back to me. Until then, it's about me and my happiness. 🙂

Posted by bkbella86
but how do i proceed with this bull

got any ideas guys?

He's testing you I think. Why not just be calm and reassure him maybe but don't chase him? Some women chase; some don't. Not sure where you fall in that category. Where are the Taurus men that can answer your question?

I'm not literally waiting....figuratively I am....that means no chasing he has to come to me now and explain himself....he is def tryna get some control

^^^^ let me get this straight .. You two dated since April and still not exclusive.. Is he seeing other women—? He may not brought the exclusive topic up yet but just because we have not discussed the topic that doesn't mean we r not into you or we r considering it. He's all bull considering his placements so he's not going to like to share. You are "his" woman regardless and that's how we feel. He wanted to buy you stuff and paying you bills... Why did he offer that if he wasn't into you—? We Taurus don't buy ppl gifts unless we r serious about you.. You being an Aries couldnt wait around so you go and date other men.. Now he thinks you were using him and not even serious about the relationship. . If you want him and want to make it work then you better let him know. I can't promise whether he will trust you again. We are strange like that..... Hope that helps...

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Posted by bkbella86
but how do i proceed with this bull

got any ideas guys?

He's testing you I think. Why not just be calm and reassure him maybe but don't chase him? Some women chase; some don't. Not sure where you fall in that category. Where are the Taurus men that can answer your question?

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you can call it a loyalty testing and she failed. Unless he was seeing other women, she shouldn't have seen other men .

Yes my taurus told me the first time we spent together "I dont share!". We hadnt dated or anything. And although he seems cool with seeing me talk to other men at work, just work related stuff, I know hes jealous! I dont do it on purpose at all.