The bottom of it...

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by AnnoyedCancer on Tuesday, May 20, 2008 and has 12 replies.
I wanted to know the deal with this Taurus.
Even though I do not feel anything for him, nor do I want him in any way, my cancer brain is reeling.
On saturday I went clubbing with friends and Taurus was there and its true, he would come up occasionally and hug me, but other than that it was cold turkey.
As the night progressed, he had said he wanted to dance, I had a couple of drinks and from an hour after we got there he would not leave my side.
I told him nothing would happen with me, I was not that type of girl but he keeped on coming back.
Even when I said, "Go dance and have fun Taurus, you won't even get a kiss, blah blah" he would come back.
Even when I said, "No matter what I do, you'll always come back" he would come back.
I wouldn't dance with anyone on the pretext that I wanted to dance alone, and he says "but only with me"
True, I was flattered by his affection and I let myself spend the time there with him, telling him he was "full of crap, and a s+lut", harsh words, but true.
He is truly a nice guy, but he is a frat boy.
So, he even went as far as to ask for my number, tell me if he would call me and ask me on a date would I say yes, and I said I didnt like him like that, and he said "but you will."
On the car ride back, he tried to hold my hand and I told him "I like my hands free" and he got extremely annoyed and went as far as to bash me till I told him "Taurus, you are being an ass, I suggest you leave me alone before I get mad"
He calmed down, and tried to hold me again.
We dropped him off (he was off to another little shing dig) he hugs me, and I tell him "have fun smile"
Haven't heard from him since then, and I am INTRIGUED.
I don't know if its him being a "player" but he seemed sincere.
Who knows?
What do you all think. He surely has me thinking, and I'm sure I'll see him another time, I just need to know how to react.
And if it matters any, I got a little comment that went, "Its not that I mind turned down, but it bothers me because I know you're into me."
Soo...yes I am lost.
I am lost with another Taurus too.
They are fascinating.


Either you like him or you don't.
Stop being a big baby.
I dont.
How does that remotely answer my question?
Dont mean to be snappy, but I am asking about his actions, not mine.
It's the way guys act........ If you had been falling all over him, he wouldn't have been the least interested BUT because you acted a bit cold toward him & not all that interested, you became his challenge. So if you really like him I suggest the next time your around each other, be cool like you were, a little flirtatious, If he asks for your # give it to him. Don't chase him. It's really the same thing for you.......if he had been falling all over you & begging, he would have seemed desperate which is a turn off, we ladies like those guys that seem to not care as much. Guys like the same thing. It's all a game really
ALSO.............
"Even though I do not feel anything for him, nor do I want him in any way,"
Really? are you being honest because, I know myself & I know that I wouldn't start a thread if I didn't care.
Yes, really I am not interested in that way. I know its hard to believe but this is just like one of those puzzles that you are missing a few pieces and you go find them.
Not really, I find it flattering.
I even told him I didn't see him that way and to go dance and have fun.
The reason I was curious is because I didn't know how to take it.
It is very amusing, and I wanted to have an outside opinion on his actions.
Not really, I find it flattering.
I even told him I didn't see him that way and to go dance and have fun.
The reason I was curious is because I didn't know how to take it.
It is very amusing, and I wanted to have an outside opinion on his actions.
You would have enjoyed it...all the time looking in the mirror and changing outfits 20 times... Giggling for hours... Hunting for oxen... Going duck shooting...shopping. You missed out on quite a lot merc. :]
Ac~
Awww the mysterious bull?lol! O.k. Please do not take this wrong. But if you don't have any interest in him at all why start a blog, or even want to figure out his actions? Why would it matter? You say its because you were flattered? Well then take it and enjoy it. But I tell you what they are the most difficult to figure out next to a Capricorn, but the most the most amazing people I know. Both girls and boys.
Good luck
p.s. it starts with not being able to keep them out of your head!! Lol and remember the old saying curiosity killed the cat. And in my terms it will suck you in!! he he smile
Oh No's!
Well, I know it looks weird but I was just impressed, what can I say?
I can see where it would lead to that, but I have no intention of letting it due to the fact that I met a taurus who is VERY mentally stimulating and that one I truly do like.
This one just stuck out at me and really, I analyze the actions of any guys. The other thing is, I would gladly admit if I like someone, but this one is a frat boy whom I think I would waste my time liking...if that makes any sense whatsoever :]
Thank you though :]
You too merc!

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