The Old Taurus Is Back

My old Taurus is back. Now Im sorry I deleted my old posts..

For those who dont remember we dated earlier this year for a few months (we have known each other for a little over a year). There were lots of miscommunications/misunderstandings between us and I evenutally walked to avoid getting my feelings hurt. He is very macho, yet sensitive, but I never knew which side of him would show up from one day to the next.

He called me out of the blue and said ''I am not comfortable discussing my feelings, but I wanted you to know that I think you are wonderful and amazing, I miss you and I love you and I think about you all the time''. The I love you part was strange, because he never told me he loved me before. And he kind of threw it in there with the other compliments so I dont think he meant IN love.

That was last month. He has called a few times in between and last nite we saw each other for the first time in months. Not a planned date; just stopped in his work to say hello we went out for a drink and talked. Discussed the past and what went wrong. He holds his feelings so close to the vest! But he let certain things slip that gave me a glimpse into who he really is underneath all that machismo and I understand him a lot better now. He is deathly afraid of being hurt. And boy is he jealous! I got a phone call and I answered and a few minutes later he remarked 'see right there, that made me so jealous'. Is this normal Taurean behavior?

LOL In the past everytime I didn't do exactly what he wanted (like come over) WHEN he wanted, he took it as a rejection and would ignore me. I thought it was because he didn't give a shit, but according to him it was the opposite.

Does this mean round two, I dont know, but the attraction was so palpable you could cut it w/ a knife! He wanted me to go home with him, but I didn't. I dont know how long I can resist this man.

Does this sound like typical Taurus male behavior?

'Does this sound like typical Taurus male behavior?'

yep

Keep being a challenge, you are not easy to get like so many women are these days and he love that kind of challenge, keeps him in touch with his masculinity, you are someone he can trust...He's falling in love and he'll keep falling as long as you are not doing anything to intentionally hurt him, he'll stick around longer.

Posted by DeadRingerr
Hi Dreamer!! Its me DoubleGem2🙂

Hey girl!! I was looking for you a few weeks back and someone said you had left. I took a hiatus; glad you're back!

Posted by tiki33
Keep being a challenge, you are not easy to get like so many women are these days and he love that kind of challenge, keeps him in touch with his masculinity, you are someone he can trust...He's falling in love and he'll keep falling as long as you are not doing anything to intentionally hurt him, he'll stick around longer.

Thing is, we have slept together before so its definitely going to be hard NOT going there w/ him right away. He drips sex too. He sent me a message today asking me to go out tomorrow. I made it clear that I was not going to go home with him. He said he was cool with that. He is used to women giving it up rather quickly; thats how most chicks are these days.

I told him "not to take it as a rejection, but an invitation to do things differently than you normally do." I told him that if that doesnt work for him I would not be upset AT ALL. He writes back about an hour later: "so does that mean drinks on you tomorrow?" 🙂

It's great that you are attracted to one another but to have an enduring relationship, you have to understand each other. Do you 'get him' at all?
The miscommunications/misunderstandings are red flags. What has changed except time since then? If no one is wiser, you're doomed to repeat history.

Posted by Mistery
It's great that you are attracted to one another but to have an enduring relationship, you have to understand each other. Do you 'get him' at all?
The miscommunications/misunderstandings are red flags. What has changed except time since then? If no one is wiser, you're doomed to repeat history.

Well, I am not necessarily considering entering in to a relationship with him. Im glad we talked though and cleared the air. I do get him now, alot more than I did before - because he explained himself. At the very least he and I can be cool w/ each other w/o any bad feelings toward each other about the past.

I've considered that as well 69. That's highly likely.

Haha..they are always tingling. LOL. Im great; and urself?

Posted by DeadRingerr
@DREAMER: You will never believe this but I am dating a Pisces with a Sag Moon😄

I was eating cereal as I read this and I almost fucking choked! LMAO, you have GOT to be kidding me! How is that working out? Is all that sensitivity mellowing you out, or are you ready to punch him in the face? LOL

Posted by 69virgo

Posted by Dreamer02
Haha..they are always tingling. LOL. Im great; and urself?

I'm good,..lmao @ always tingling..🙂 welcome back.

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Thanks dearest. And you never really left. 😉

Posted by DeadRingerr

Posted by Dreamer02

Posted by DeadRingerr
@DREAMER: You will never believe this but I am dating a Pisces with a Sag Moon😄

I was eating cereal as I read this and I almost fucking choked! LMAO, you have GOT to be kidding me! How is that working out? Is all that sensitivity mellowing you out, or are you ready to punch him in the face? LOL

Ask anyone on DXP how nice I have been....so nice its pathetic....I kind of like it though...forgot about my sensitive side...yes, there are times I would like to fucking choke him and him me. I think because we are both in our late forties we have learned a few things in life. I truly am his for life!

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OMG, I am so happy to hear that. Im kinda jealous. I want some shit like that. Believe it or not, I have never dated a Pisces man. Good for you DG! 🙂

After careful consideration, decided not to beat a dead horse.