This Taurus man has drove me insane...
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by cocoalice on Wednesday, November 20, 2013 and has 12 replies.
I need some insight on what I should do with this Taurus man. This is my first time here and I can't seem to answer my own question. Keep in mind that I am a Pisces, 24 and he's 31. We met about three years ago when I first moved into town. Things were great, we were friends and played lots of soccer together and afterwards would hang out with our soccer group, go out for drinks and just basically have a good time. I started dating someone from my school and so I became somewhat distant to my soccer group and him. From time to time we would run into each other in the weirdest places and each and every time we would he would always give me these flirtatious looks and comments, always. Things didn't go so well with the guy I was dating and so I began to hang out with the soccer group again and just have clean fun with them. Eventually these hangouts turned into just hangouts with this Taurus man. From time to time he would ask me to go to a movie or grab a bite, even hang out with his roommates and play a board game. It wasn't until this year, in the summer, that he asked me to go over his place and watch a movie. One thing led to another and we had sex. After that we just kept going out but we weren't sleeping with each other. He then left for about a month or so to Europe with all my soccer friends and I helped him move out. I even kept all his plants for him and watered them. Month and a half went by and he was back in town. He picked up his plants and asked me out again. We went out for dinner and a movie and hung out at his place. After weeks of this we starting sleeping with each other. He was so sensual and very touchy feeling with me and he would definitely turn me on. There's just this certain vibe he gives off that he just gets me hooked on him, I feel I can't say no to this guy. And I say no to everyone! Well it's been four months of these hang outs and sleepless nights with him and basically I could not see where this was headed to anymore. So I asked him, "are you just having fun with me?.." and he answered, "I don't want anything serious right now, not with anyone. There are a few things I would like to get done. Are you not liking how we are?" and I basically answered him, "I never said that." Then I said goodnight to him and just drove off. I only saw him once since then in one of our soccer matches for indoor. He didn't acknowledge me there, no 'Hi'. On the field it was different, we passed the ball to one another and played like we would al
I only saw him once since then in one of our soccer matches for indoor. He didn't acknowledge me there, no 'Hi'. On the field it was different, we passed the ball to one another and played like we would always play together.....It just doesn't make sense to me how someone could show so much affection and not feel anything. I did so much for this guy. I would plan every trip to my hometown accordingly so him and I could still hang out with him.. Should I just not try to be his friend anymore? He's been a huge part of my life already. We know so much about one another and he knows so much about me.. I miss him like hell!
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naaaa...after so much time, after all u know bout each other...he s definetely a jerk. there is nothing wrong with u, the problem is with him. n it does nt matter which sign is he...treat him the same inspite of ur feelings and keep in mind that ur not a doormat for him. see what happens 
Don't waste your energy forget him, I'm telling you. Theres a lot out there who deserved your effort.
I only saw him once since then in one of our soccer matches for indoor. He didn't acknowledge me there, no 'Hi'. On the field it was different, we passed the ball to one another and played like we would always play together.....It just doesn't make sense to me how someone could show so much affection and not feel anything. I did so much for this guy.
-------- that's enough evidence, and he will gonna contact u again like nothing happened to charm u again because he already know how u feel, but he doesn't feel the same, and u'll gonna give in again like u've never hurt by him, as if he didn't ignore u. Don't make it too easy with that kind of guy. Thats not normal and just eeeeewwwwwwwwww I hate Taurus who acting like this to get women, They won't get any respect from me again.
-------- that's enough evidence, and he will gonna contact u again like nothing happened to charm u again because he already know how u feel, but he doesn't feel the same, and u'll gonna give in again like u've never hurt by him, as if he didn't ignore u. Don't make it too easy with that kind of guy. Thats not normal and just eeeeewwwwwwwwww I hate Taurus who acting like this to get women, They won't get any respect from me again.
I only saw him once since then in one of our soccer matches for indoor. He didn't acknowledge me there, no 'Hi'
-----I've seen a lot of similar situation like this with a Taurus men, They are too disrespectful with women and v selfish. And they know how to get you "There's just this certain vibe he gives off that he just gets me hooked on him, I feel I can't say no to this guy. And I say no to everyone!" see?
okay til tomorow... gudmornyt
-----I've seen a lot of similar situation like this with a Taurus men, They are too disrespectful with women and v selfish. And they know how to get you "There's just this certain vibe he gives off that he just gets me hooked on him, I feel I can't say no to this guy. And I say no to everyone!" see?
okay til tomorow... gudmornyt
Posted by djbuck1
Driven.
" . . . has driven me insane."
See, I even lost my grammar
Posted by scorpionoooooo
naaaa...after so much time, after all u know bout each other...he s definetely a jerk. there is nothing wrong with u, the problem is with him. n it does nt matter which sign is he...treat him the same inspite of ur feelings and keep in mind that ur not a doormat for him. see what happens
Thanks, just wish I hadn't left all this stuff at his place... Have to pick it up eventually and see him.
You should've asked him what he was looking for in the beginning when you 1st started dating him. He would've probably told you THEN that he wasn't looking for anything serious, but you didn't ask him, so you just wasted 4 months of your time.
I say "wasted" b/c it's clear that had he told you up front that things would never go beyond sex, you would've probably never given so much of yourself (time, feelings, body, etc.) & would've probably done your part to keep yourself in line/check to prevent you from liking him more as a friend if he's already told/hinted to you that you shouldn't
And of course he wasn't gonna say a damn word b/c most men aren't gonna stop wanting the benefits. And the 1st way to get a woman to wanna cling tight to her panties is when a guy says, "oh yeah, by the way, you know sex is all this will ever be right?!" lol That approach might work on women who only want him for sex & knew that coming in, but it'll piss off & scare away the rest! He knows that which is why he left the responsibility of you asking & finding out what he's all about, up to YOU.
So here we are 4 months later. He's acting funny towards you b/c he's assuming that you've finally realized that he just got alllllll those benefits scott free w/o ever having the intention to commit to you. And look at you...you're mad! Any woman would be! He figured that & would rather run & avoid you vs. facing you like a man
Little does he know, you're not mad enough like some women in the world would've been. All you care about is his friendship & he'd know that if he wasn't being a p***sy & avoiding you. But he doesn't know that b/c he won't give you the chance to tell him
So just move on. Next time, make sure you ask these kinds of questions BEFORE you start giving your body/time away. It's called making sure that 2 people are on the "same page." Unfortunately, so many women are afraid to ask these questions b/c they fear coming off as rushy or demanding. But hey if being that way means you knowing what you're getting into & being spared your time, then it's worth it & so be it!
I say "wasted" b/c it's clear that had he told you up front that things would never go beyond sex, you would've probably never given so much of yourself (time, feelings, body, etc.) & would've probably done your part to keep yourself in line/check to prevent you from liking him more as a friend if he's already told/hinted to you that you shouldn't
And of course he wasn't gonna say a damn word b/c most men aren't gonna stop wanting the benefits. And the 1st way to get a woman to wanna cling tight to her panties is when a guy says, "oh yeah, by the way, you know sex is all this will ever be right?!" lol That approach might work on women who only want him for sex & knew that coming in, but it'll piss off & scare away the rest! He knows that which is why he left the responsibility of you asking & finding out what he's all about, up to YOU.
So here we are 4 months later. He's acting funny towards you b/c he's assuming that you've finally realized that he just got alllllll those benefits scott free w/o ever having the intention to commit to you. And look at you...you're mad! Any woman would be! He figured that & would rather run & avoid you vs. facing you like a man
Little does he know, you're not mad enough like some women in the world would've been. All you care about is his friendship & he'd know that if he wasn't being a p***sy & avoiding you. But he doesn't know that b/c he won't give you the chance to tell him
So just move on. Next time, make sure you ask these kinds of questions BEFORE you start giving your body/time away. It's called making sure that 2 people are on the "same page." Unfortunately, so many women are afraid to ask these questions b/c they fear coming off as rushy or demanding. But hey if being that way means you knowing what you're getting into & being spared your time, then it's worth it & so be it!
Yea, Taurus will work ya if you let them. They want everything on a silver platter, this is of course, not what they should have, or will value.
He sounds like a tool. I wouldn't give him the time of day. He gave you one impression, then went a different direction. Not cool...
He sounds like a tool. I wouldn't give him the time of day. He gave you one impression, then went a different direction. Not cool...
But also, u slept with him from the get go, so you shot yourself in the foot there!
^agreed.
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