This Taurus man I'd met online said directly "I don't care anymore". Apologised in the morning.
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by SeeMeNot on Friday, November 9, 2018 and has 12 replies.
We didn't meet on a dating site, just casually around a month ago. We haven't met in person and were just texting. He's 9 years older to me and we talked about all the things. He told me earlier that he didn't wish to get married, is nihilistic and said many times that he's "poor" and doesn't have money. Last night we were debating on our country's government policies and he got really angry. I'd like to mention that he's many a times asked me "to leave the discussion" because "I don't have common sense and understanding". Again he said last night that I should focus on just memes and I can only do that, I don't get anything else. I called him egoist, explained my argument and asked him if he remembered how many times he's put me down? He said "I don't care anymore". I replied "I'm sorry this happened" to this statement, explained my argument further and that's it. He texted at 4:15 AM that he was sorry. Neither of us have exchanged texts after that. I won't text him again unless he texts me first. I want to ask if he's done "using me for conversations" and if it'd be respectful for me to ignore him from now onwards?
Posted by SeeMeNot
We didn't meet on a dating site, just casually around a month ago. We haven't met in person and were just texting. He's 9 years older to me and we talked about all the things. He told me earlier that he didn't wish to get married, is nihilistic and said many times that he's "poor" and doesn't have money. Last night we were debating on our country's government policies and he got really angry. I'd like to mention that he's many a times asked me "to leave the discussion" because "I don't have common sense and understanding". Again he said last night that I should focus on just memes and I can only do that, I don't get anything else. I called him egoist, explained my argument and asked him if he remembered how many times he's put me down? He said "I don't care anymore". I replied "I'm sorry this happened" to this statement, explained my argument further and that's it. He texted at 4:15 AM that he was sorry. Neither of us have exchanged texts after that. I won't text him again unless he texts me first. I want to ask if he's done "using me for conversations" and if it'd be respectful for me to ignore him from now onwards?
Okay, what are you asking about?
Guy sounds like a jerk.
Is this a romantic thing? I can'y tell...if it is...yikes. I dont think hes interested.
So to recap he’s old broke and mean.
Daddy cakes
Posted by DrinkWaterAlso owns a feather boa.Posted by LadyNeptune
So to recap he’s old broke and mean.
. And doesn't like memes.click to expand
Posted by -MadHatter-In his imaginationPosted by CoochiecoochiecooNo, he cant afford one.... poorPosted by DrinkWaterAlso owns a feather boa.Posted by LadyNeptune
So to recap he’s old broke and mean.
. And doesn't like memes.click to expand
ok I think we're done here
Taurus men always seem to have the biggest outbursts. Maybe it’s just a Taurus thing?
So basically he’s rude and he hurt your feelings?
His lack of relationships should be a warning. Let him go.
So basically he’s rude and he hurt your feelings?
His lack of relationships should be a warning. Let him go.
marry him
Posted by Boots1313Posted by SeeMeNot
We didn't meet on a dating site, just casually around a month ago. We haven't met in person and were just texting. He's 9 years older to me and we talked about all the things. He told me earlier that he didn't wish to get married, is nihilistic and said many times that he's "poor" and doesn't have money. Last night we were debating on our country's government policies and he got really angry. I'd like to mention that he's many a times asked me "to leave the discussion" because "I don't have common sense and understanding". Again he said last night that I should focus on just memes and I can only do that, I don't get anything else. I called him egoist, explained my argument and asked him if he remembered how many times he's put me down? He said "I don't care anymore". I replied "I'm sorry this happened" to this statement, explained my argument further and that's it. He texted at 4:15 AM that he was sorry. Neither of us have exchanged texts after that. I won't text him again unless he texts me first. I want to ask if he's done "using me for conversations" and if it'd be respectful for me to ignore him from now onwards?
Okay, what are you asking about?
Guy sounds like a jerk.
Is this a romantic thing? I can'y tell...if it is...yikes. I dont think hes interested.click to expand
I can't tell if it's romantic because we've just met and have talked about all the things, including relationships. He's quite older than me and I thought of that as a reason for him, and me, to not pursue anything romantic. But I was so angry because he's pushy in arguments and just cuts me down instead of listening to me side. He'll just say "oh, you don't get this" instead of hearing my argument. He's been quite blunt since the beginning; questioning my faith and beliefs, etc, said I was wasting my time in religion. I'm not pushy and don't force myself on anyone. I was so furious that he doesn't listen to my side and after finishing my argument, I said I was sorry that he "doesn't care anymore". He texted later saying he was sorry, he shouldn't have said some things. It's been 3 days and we haven't exchanged texts. I just want to know if it'll be respectful to move on from here? Or should I give him one more chance, text him again? (Have read that Taurus men want you to take the lead).
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsHe said "I'm sorry I got rude with you. I shouldn't have said some things". I didn't reply after that.
Were you talking to me?
What exactly did his apology say? That makes all the difference. Did he just say ‘sorry’ to keep you talking or did he acknowledge that he was being a douche by belittling your opinion?
people show you who they are. this guy has shown you. he's not going to change. you have to decide if you want to continue having these kind of interactions with him.
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