Useful reads for ladies new to Mr Taurus
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To new ladies coming on board and trying to get answers, maybe check these articles or websites out first:
8 Revealing Traits of Taurus
http://thetauruslife.com/taurus-man-traits/
10 signs if a Taurus Man Likes You
http://taurusmansecrets.com/blog/signs-taurus-man-likes-you/
Confessions of a Taurus Man
https://taurusmandecoded.com/confesssions-of-a-taurus/
Disclaimer:
I don't receive commissions for the any sales of books/services by the authors. These are just the more useful reads that are quite spot-on I found on the internet.
8 Revealing Traits of Taurus
http://thetauruslife.com/taurus-man-traits/
10 signs if a Taurus Man Likes You
http://taurusmansecrets.com/blog/signs-taurus-man-likes-you/
Confessions of a Taurus Man
https://taurusmandecoded.com/confesssions-of-a-taurus/
Disclaimer:
I don't receive commissions for the any sales of books/services by the authors. These are just the more useful reads that are quite spot-on I found on the internet.
The third link sums up everything
They're really gross
They're really gross
Gross? I think he's just being honest.
I have very loyal, sweet and reliable Taurus friends.
I guess it also depends on the character of the Taurus itself. And I heard about Taurus who are quite abusive or plain manipulative.
I have very loyal, sweet and reliable Taurus friends.
I guess it also depends on the character of the Taurus itself. And I heard about Taurus who are quite abusive or plain manipulative.
Posted by MrEmptyBackpackPosted by SassyKiwiI thought number 3 was a bit twatty
The third link sums up everything
They're really grossclick to expand
Are we going to argue how you all are not the biggest twats. Like the amount of cockiness that bled from the last article...
???
This was a very interesting read...
This is very accurate, I can't stress this enough...
" So many people have misunderstood that we Taurus only love money, hold not importance for love, afraid of commitment and are cold,, ruthless to women we care about. That is such a big fallacy. We feel a lot for the ones we love and we place a lot of attention to these feelings. We make money because we understand the importance of money too much for a successful, fulfilling relationship. We want to shower our loved ones with the best things in life. We are too responsible to allow our relationships to fail or let our loved ones down. We feel most people talk about love and marriage too easily, then end up in the poorhouse or divorce due to lack of planning. We do not want that in our lives because our lady love and love itself are too important to us".---from Taurus Guy
https://url.dxpnet.com/?f=https://taurusmandecoded.com/confesssions-of-a-taurus/
My brother is also a Taurus.
And this describes him to a 'tee.'
Nothing but the best for his family and the people he loves.
He works hard so that they would not want for anything.
When he was much younger, and in his 'financially struggling' phase, he avoided relationships like the plague. Women thought that he was cold and distant....when in fact, he was just focused on getting his money up. Nothing personal.
This is very accurate, I can't stress this enough...
" So many people have misunderstood that we Taurus only love money, hold not importance for love, afraid of commitment and are cold,, ruthless to women we care about. That is such a big fallacy. We feel a lot for the ones we love and we place a lot of attention to these feelings. We make money because we understand the importance of money too much for a successful, fulfilling relationship. We want to shower our loved ones with the best things in life. We are too responsible to allow our relationships to fail or let our loved ones down. We feel most people talk about love and marriage too easily, then end up in the poorhouse or divorce due to lack of planning. We do not want that in our lives because our lady love and love itself are too important to us".---from Taurus Guy
https://url.dxpnet.com/?f=https://taurusmandecoded.com/confesssions-of-a-taurus/
My brother is also a Taurus.
And this describes him to a 'tee.'
Nothing but the best for his family and the people he loves.
He works hard so that they would not want for anything.
When he was much younger, and in his 'financially struggling' phase, he avoided relationships like the plague. Women thought that he was cold and distant....when in fact, he was just focused on getting his money up. Nothing personal.
Posted by SassyKiwiI didn't see it as arrogance.
Are we going to argue how you all are not the biggest twats. Like the amount of cockiness that bled from the last article...
The Bull wasn't seeking perfection.
Just the promise of love and longevity.
@Shadowcat....
"Perhaps for a long time, he will not care for you, or even dislike you, but please remember that as long as some of your shortcomings are in his acceptable range and you are a good person, he will choose to be friends with you. If I become very naggy and pick on you………”Remember, next time must be more careful with blah blah blah” “Can you dress more feminine and pls don’t try to talk too loudly in public” “Your chicken wings taste very bland, must use a bit more BBQ sauce.”……….. It means I care about you and might consider you as a potential." ----Taurus Man
Passive aggressiveness only indicates the above statement was never mentioned.
What you mentioned was how a Bull reacts AFTER his needs and requirements for the relationship has gone unnoticed or unanswered.
For Bulls, love is a beautiful emotion, but unfortunately this love needs to stand on a more structured foundation.
If not, you will lose him.
He will state it. If you ignore it, he will stop communicating....and then start emotionally disassociating.
"Perhaps for a long time, he will not care for you, or even dislike you, but please remember that as long as some of your shortcomings are in his acceptable range and you are a good person, he will choose to be friends with you. If I become very naggy and pick on you………”Remember, next time must be more careful with blah blah blah” “Can you dress more feminine and pls don’t try to talk too loudly in public” “Your chicken wings taste very bland, must use a bit more BBQ sauce.”……….. It means I care about you and might consider you as a potential." ----Taurus Man
Passive aggressiveness only indicates the above statement was never mentioned.
What you mentioned was how a Bull reacts AFTER his needs and requirements for the relationship has gone unnoticed or unanswered.
For Bulls, love is a beautiful emotion, but unfortunately this love needs to stand on a more structured foundation.
If not, you will lose him.
He will state it. If you ignore it, he will stop communicating....and then start emotionally disassociating.
@Shadowcat,
I don't find his needs...needy or demanding.
No one loves space more than a Bull. You would think we were Air Signs, lol.
What you described are 'conventional needs.'
Personally, I find nothing wrong with cooking for my man and doing his laundry.
I would want him to think I am the greatest cook on the planet.
....and the sexiest woman on the planet.
Nothing wrong here....
I don't find his needs...needy or demanding.
No one loves space more than a Bull. You would think we were Air Signs, lol.
What you described are 'conventional needs.'
Personally, I find nothing wrong with cooking for my man and doing his laundry.
I would want him to think I am the greatest cook on the planet.
....and the sexiest woman on the planet.
Nothing wrong here....
@JohntheBaptist....
To be honest, I believe the biggest challenge women face with Bulls are adhering to the Bull's conventional needs and ways.
I consider myself a feminist, which means I support equal rights and opportunities for all women.
However, I strongly believe some, not all women have a distorted process of what feminism is.
There is nothing wrong with embracing your femininity, and wanting to cook and take care of your man.
Some women I know refuse to cook or clean or simply embrace their femininity, but in the same token, they're chasing a Cinderella dream, waiting for a conventional Knight and Shining Armor (much like a Taurus) to whisk them off their feet.
They meet him...
And then the questions persist....
Why doesn't he see a future with me?
Answer: He wants a wife...who is going to conduct herself like a wife. A girlfriend gets treated like a current girlfriend. Which means you assume a temporary role as any other girlfriend.
Why should I have to cook or clean....He should love me simply because....love should be enough
Answer: You can love many people. You can only love and marry ONE person. What's the difference? You can live without a girlfriend. You can't live without a wife. This is how a Bull chooses.
To be honest, I believe the biggest challenge women face with Bulls are adhering to the Bull's conventional needs and ways.
I consider myself a feminist, which means I support equal rights and opportunities for all women.
However, I strongly believe some, not all women have a distorted process of what feminism is.
There is nothing wrong with embracing your femininity, and wanting to cook and take care of your man.
Some women I know refuse to cook or clean or simply embrace their femininity, but in the same token, they're chasing a Cinderella dream, waiting for a conventional Knight and Shining Armor (much like a Taurus) to whisk them off their feet.
They meet him...
And then the questions persist....
Why doesn't he see a future with me?
Answer: He wants a wife...who is going to conduct herself like a wife. A girlfriend gets treated like a current girlfriend. Which means you assume a temporary role as any other girlfriend.
Why should I have to cook or clean....He should love me simply because....love should be enough
Answer: You can love many people. You can only love and marry ONE person. What's the difference? You can live without a girlfriend. You can't live without a wife. This is how a Bull chooses.
Even when a Bull states EXACTLY what he's looking for in laments terms....
It's still debated.
Why should I do this, or that...or this...or that...?
It's still debated.
Why should I do this, or that...or this...or that...?
What a Taurus wants.
"It’s hard to change ourselves, so we prefer if our ladies can change their ways to suit us. We know we can be quite difficult that way, but it’s our nature and WE CAN”T BE CHANGED AND HATE CHANGES."
Very, very true.
Very, very true.
@Inana,
If she wanted a career outside of his 'shadow' she should have voiced her opinion during the early stages of their relationship.
I saw the other videos.
"Being an at home Betty Crocker is not for her"
Did he get this memo when he married her?
Why did she continue to have more children if she knew she wasn't the domesticated type?
He clearly supports her, despite the 'caveman' light she wants to paint for him.
Mr. Smith just wants to make sure she's taking care of the homefront as well.
No disrespect to this woman, but I work, travel, go to museums, hang out with friends, and my man is still taken care of. No meal complaining from him.
I really don't understand her point. Apparently she works nowhere, and he gets NO dinners, LOL!
If she wanted a career outside of his 'shadow' she should have voiced her opinion during the early stages of their relationship.
I saw the other videos.
"Being an at home Betty Crocker is not for her"
Did he get this memo when he married her?
Why did she continue to have more children if she knew she wasn't the domesticated type?
He clearly supports her, despite the 'caveman' light she wants to paint for him.
Mr. Smith just wants to make sure she's taking care of the homefront as well.
No disrespect to this woman, but I work, travel, go to museums, hang out with friends, and my man is still taken care of. No meal complaining from him.
I really don't understand her point. Apparently she works nowhere, and he gets NO dinners, LOL!
She talks about it starting at 1:24. It seems she was pursuing things before they got married.
I knew it's bull without opening...
He never prevented her from anything.
She chose to have more children, therefore came more domestic responsibilities.
Thats obvious.
He's not stopping her now.
It was HER idea to do the show.
She said everything is about him.
He corrected her, everything he's doing is for his family.
Life gets in the way, she can't blame him for that.
Her dilemma, she's jealous. She admiited it.
Aint no way in the world I am having 5 kids....and I am actually domesticated.
I love my man, but I love my career too.
She chose to have more children, therefore came more domestic responsibilities.
Thats obvious.
He's not stopping her now.
It was HER idea to do the show.
She said everything is about him.
He corrected her, everything he's doing is for his family.
Life gets in the way, she can't blame him for that.
Her dilemma, she's jealous. She admiited it.
Aint no way in the world I am having 5 kids....and I am actually domesticated.
I love my man, but I love my career too.
They're a sweet couple though.
They will be OK
They will be OK
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by SassyKiwiWhat's gross about it????
The third link sums up everything
They're really gross
He is telling the truth!
Obviously you don't fit the "Taurus" check list and you are BITTER about that... Get over it!
It hurts I know, but you just dont make the graded requirements for a Taurus, we are PICKY...
Move on....click to expand
First of all, I trash all the signs, not just Tauruses.
2nd of all, I don't fit the Taurus checklist because I refuse to have sex with them within the first few weeks of knowing them. I was actually taken advantage of.
3rd of all both my best friends are Taurus women and they're not nearly as nauseating and disturbing as you are. You're horrifying.
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by SassyKiwiI didn't see it as arrogance.
Are we going to argue how you all are not the biggest twats. Like the amount of cockiness that bled from the last article...
The Bull wasn't seeking perfection.
Just the promise of love and longevity.click to expand
"Overtime, I may even develop a relationship with you if I could not find a better choice (sorry ladies, but that is quite true, we always have back up plans and is always waiting for someone better who comes along until we realise we could not have someone better.)"
Wasting peoples' times. That is very disturbing to me and I've seen it hold true with Taurus men.
But hey, to each their own. Some people don't mind giving their time to people who are simultaneously keeping their options open for someone better.
Posted by TaurusBull1977I'm not sure if she had all five kids. I think he may have had one or two from a previous relationship, and she had one. Idk.
He never prevented her from anything.
She chose to have more children, therefore came more domestic responsibilities.
Thats obvious.
He's not stopping her now.
It was HER idea to do the show.
She said everything is about him.
He corrected her, everything he's doing is for his family.
Life gets in the way, she can't blame him for that.
Her dilemma, she's jealous. She admiited it.
Aint no way in the world I am having 5 kids....and I am actually domesticated.
I love my man, but I love my career too.
She mentioned she was jealous but she also mentioned in another interview how she wore a mask and was depressed while he was on Dancing With The Stars. He had great chemistry with his dance partner Cheryl, also a Taurus, and it made his wife feel insecure to the point of depression. I remember my mother even wondering how his wife was handling that at the time, so when she says she was jealous it could be of his chemistry with Cheryl.
I hope they do make it. She sometimes seem unfulfilled.
She is gorgeous. I personally felt if she is given the chance to chase her dreams, she would definitely be more fulfilled, recognised and accomplished. For talented, capable woman, I feel that domestic success alone is not enough to keep them happy. They have to be both accomplished at home and in their own career.
Both of them look so different at home and at work! Like all the make up and office clothes made a BIG difference.
I feel busyeyes and JohntheBaptist are both being honest, just like the man in the article. Personally, I think the world of Taurus have a few variations. Those sweet and loyal will bend over backs, go extra miles for friends, that's where we have the nice, always encouraging, popular, charming, loved by every friend/colleague Taurus comes from.
Those who make a splash and are very successful in life will be dissatisfied with just being nice. To them, telling the truth and being practical are what gets life going. Personally, I like this type of person. The truth hurts a lot at times, but better than hearing all sweet things then get your dreams broken because you're living in self-denial and self delusion.
I posted that article because it simply illustrates why so many women are having issues. Women come to this board seeking answers, and when JohntheBaptist, busyeyes and the guy in the article give it to you, what do you do?
You REFUTE them and say they are horrifying etc etc
Excuse me, I haven't heard you thank them for their free Taurus consultation. These two ladies did not come up here seeking help. They come up here helping ladies who have issues with fellow Taurus, spend time reading through the threads and forum and answered everyone with issues. They spent time analysing the background stories and gave their honest reviews, and I have to say they are pretty accurate in their analysis.
Ladies who come on, ask for their advice, thank them and hop off. At the end of the day, they are still with us. We should thank them for their free service.
That is what true Taurus do. They still provide help even though not everyone is grateful. Their help is practical. They don't tell you things like "You are doing great! Everything will turn out fine." then get your dreams broken and waster your time.
If you want honest advice, don't ask a Bull and don't come to this Taurus forum.
Can't take the truth? Don't get into relationships with Taurus then. Period.
Both of them look so different at home and at work! Like all the make up and office clothes made a BIG difference.
I feel busyeyes and JohntheBaptist are both being honest, just like the man in the article. Personally, I think the world of Taurus have a few variations. Those sweet and loyal will bend over backs, go extra miles for friends, that's where we have the nice, always encouraging, popular, charming, loved by every friend/colleague Taurus comes from.
Those who make a splash and are very successful in life will be dissatisfied with just being nice. To them, telling the truth and being practical are what gets life going. Personally, I like this type of person. The truth hurts a lot at times, but better than hearing all sweet things then get your dreams broken because you're living in self-denial and self delusion.
I posted that article because it simply illustrates why so many women are having issues. Women come to this board seeking answers, and when JohntheBaptist, busyeyes and the guy in the article give it to you, what do you do?
You REFUTE them and say they are horrifying etc etc
Excuse me, I haven't heard you thank them for their free Taurus consultation. These two ladies did not come up here seeking help. They come up here helping ladies who have issues with fellow Taurus, spend time reading through the threads and forum and answered everyone with issues. They spent time analysing the background stories and gave their honest reviews, and I have to say they are pretty accurate in their analysis.
Ladies who come on, ask for their advice, thank them and hop off. At the end of the day, they are still with us. We should thank them for their free service.
That is what true Taurus do. They still provide help even though not everyone is grateful. Their help is practical. They don't tell you things like "You are doing great! Everything will turn out fine." then get your dreams broken and waster your time.
If you want honest advice, don't ask a Bull and don't come to this Taurus forum.
Can't take the truth? Don't get into relationships with Taurus then. Period.
Posted by TaurusBull1977You are amazing!
@Inana,
If she wanted a career outside of his 'shadow' she should have voiced her opinion during the early stages of their relationship.
I saw the other videos.
"Being an at home Betty Crocker is not for her"
Did he get this memo when he married her?
Why did she continue to have more children if she knew she wasn't the domesticated type?
He clearly supports her, despite the 'caveman' light she wants to paint for him.
Mr. Smith just wants to make sure she's taking care of the homefront as well.
No disrespect to this woman, but I work, travel, go to museums, hang out with friends, and my man is still taken care of. No meal complaining from him.
I really don't understand her point. Apparently she works nowhere, and he gets NO dinners, LOL!
I feel Bulls tend to marry very strong women, those who can take care of themselves AND the family well. Women who fall short of this expectation will have a lot of issues, like Mrs Smith (who is gorgeous and attractive).
I hope things work out for her. She has five kids. I wonder why she wants that many kids if she has things to pursue. 5 kids is hectic!
@Shadowcat,
My man attends museums, and operas with me.
Not his cup of tea.
I love him more for it.
He has certain (*coughs,lol) fetishes....
Not my cup of tea.
He loves me more it.
Relationship IS Compromise.
You're not losing yourself or identity when this happens.
It only becomes a dealbreaker when you're the only one who is compromising.
Bulls can be unyeilding at times, but we always bend for the right person.
My man attends museums, and operas with me.
Not his cup of tea.
I love him more for it.
He has certain (*coughs,lol) fetishes....
Not my cup of tea.
He loves me more it.
Relationship IS Compromise.
You're not losing yourself or identity when this happens.
It only becomes a dealbreaker when you're the only one who is compromising.
Bulls can be unyeilding at times, but we always bend for the right person.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Very well stated.
You need a thick skin to be with a Taurus. We are not easy people. The reason why we are not easy and it takes time to get to know us is because once we let you in, we would give you the clothes off our back. We would even sacrifice our own lives for you. You become a part of us our soul our being... This is not joke. If a Taurus does not do their homework and thorough investigation and we fall deep in love with the WRONG person we are easy to manipulate and malable if in the wrongs hands. We would sacrifice everything. We have a lot of Pisces and cancer in our charts..
We are not here to harm anyone. We need to protect ourselves when we are in relationships. Life's lessons has thought me this.. Another reason why the Taurus finds it sooooo hard to trust. We cannot be with just anybody. There are plenty of manipulative people out there and we have to be discerning as to whom we give our love to..
Our love goes soul DEEP. Sincerely, this is SERIOUS. If we take a bullet for you we NEED to know you will take a bullet for us. You need to have a strong and sweet personality ie multifaceted. Don't forget scorpio is our opposite so we will have some scorp /8th house placements in our charts too. Mine is heavy.
Nothing more to add.
Posted by ShadowcatLived with/was with/married to that kind of mindset for 15 years..so I agree with you. And it's difficult to deal with.Posted by jane84You can't expect change from a partner if you yourself are unwilling to change. It's not because you can't change.....you just don't want to.
"It’s hard to change ourselves, so we prefer if our ladies can change their ways to suit us. We know we can be quite difficult that way, but it’s our nature and WE CAN”T BE CHANGED AND HATE CHANGES."
Very, very true.click to expand
I agree, I think it takes a VERY strong woman to be with a Taurus man.
I just started watching a show called Married to medicine and there's a Taurus/Taurus couple on there. What I find interesting, is that from the few episodes I've seen...the Taurus woman is VERY independent. On her instagram it seems she cooks a lot, but other than that, she seems to have her own life, and is hesitant to give him a baby because of it. Even a cast member told her she lives like she is a single woman.
I find that interesting because besides the cooking, it seems she's the opposite of what a typical Taurus man wants. It's like she must know that a part of wanting that domesticated life is control from the Taurus man, so she's not budging...from what it seems. Meanwhile, Jeannie Mai(Cap) is in a similar predicament with her Taurus husband. They agreed when they first met that they didn't want any kids, and it seems to me that now that her career is blooming he has had a change of heart and they are in counseling because of it. I feel he is manipulating her and she feels incredibly guilty, whereas I don't get even an ounce of guilt in feelings from the Taurus woman. She is VERY strong. The Cap is headstrong too, but she's getting beaten down in the guilt department in the process. They HAD an agreement beforehand. Kristin Cavallari is another one in counseling with her Taurus because he didn't want her to work and she wanted to work.
I like Taurus guys but its a LOT of pressure...team too much. It definitely takes a certain kind of woman to handle the men.
I just started watching a show called Married to medicine and there's a Taurus/Taurus couple on there. What I find interesting, is that from the few episodes I've seen...the Taurus woman is VERY independent. On her instagram it seems she cooks a lot, but other than that, she seems to have her own life, and is hesitant to give him a baby because of it. Even a cast member told her she lives like she is a single woman.
I find that interesting because besides the cooking, it seems she's the opposite of what a typical Taurus man wants. It's like she must know that a part of wanting that domesticated life is control from the Taurus man, so she's not budging...from what it seems. Meanwhile, Jeannie Mai(Cap) is in a similar predicament with her Taurus husband. They agreed when they first met that they didn't want any kids, and it seems to me that now that her career is blooming he has had a change of heart and they are in counseling because of it. I feel he is manipulating her and she feels incredibly guilty, whereas I don't get even an ounce of guilt in feelings from the Taurus woman. She is VERY strong. The Cap is headstrong too, but she's getting beaten down in the guilt department in the process. They HAD an agreement beforehand. Kristin Cavallari is another one in counseling with her Taurus because he didn't want her to work and she wanted to work.
I like Taurus guys but its a LOT of pressure...team too much. It definitely takes a certain kind of woman to handle the men.
correction, she didn't say lives like she is a single woman, but she said she acts like she'll be a single mother.
@Inana,
I find Cap women to be VERY strong.
I think that they're GREAT partners for Bulls.
Both strong and domestic.
Taurus' strength (mainly the women) comes from our 'fixed' disposition.
Nothing breaks us.
We love you unconditionally, but we're the least likely to change, compromise yes, change no.
What's the difference between 'change' and 'compromise?'
With compromise, you're fighting for the relationship
With change, you're fighting to protect your identity, beliefs, etc.
Cap women actually have a lot more power than they think they do, especially in a relationship with Bulls.
The Cap is the TOTAL package.
The Bull is left with two choices. Lose the total package or let the Cap go back to work.
Caps, stick to your guns!
Chances are the Bull isn't going to lose the total package.
The Cap is just going to have to sweeten the deal.
You catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar.
I find Cap women to be VERY strong.
I think that they're GREAT partners for Bulls.
Both strong and domestic.
Taurus' strength (mainly the women) comes from our 'fixed' disposition.
Nothing breaks us.
We love you unconditionally, but we're the least likely to change, compromise yes, change no.
What's the difference between 'change' and 'compromise?'
With compromise, you're fighting for the relationship
With change, you're fighting to protect your identity, beliefs, etc.
Cap women actually have a lot more power than they think they do, especially in a relationship with Bulls.
The Cap is the TOTAL package.
The Bull is left with two choices. Lose the total package or let the Cap go back to work.
Caps, stick to your guns!
Chances are the Bull isn't going to lose the total package.
The Cap is just going to have to sweeten the deal.
You catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar.
Posted by DickButtWell a Taurus wrote it apparently and my ex husband was like this. He had such amazing qualities as well, but the hardest one was always wanting me to change something or to do something his way, but was never willing to change those same things about himself. I did feel it was selfish. Or that we just needed two very different people in our lives.Posted by jane84I feel that quoted statement in itself is extremely selfish. If you want your partner change, in essence you're devaluing their self-worth. You're saying because you cannot overcome your barrier to adapt the other person must adapt to you. And to that i ask why? If you like this person, if you love this person, you should be able to culminate adaptability. If you merely want someone to change to fit you like a puzzle then really you're not fit to be in a relationship. It's not in my nature to stay stagnant. I hate being the same and in routine. I love change, and to me change brings levity to life. If i have to adapt to a situation i see it as growth. So whoever wrote that jargon up top lol. Come on now.
"It’s hard to change ourselves, so we prefer if our ladies can change their ways to suit us. We know we can be quite difficult that way, but it’s our nature and WE CAN”T BE CHANGED AND HATE CHANGES."
Very, very true.click to expand
I am however a firm believer that generalizing is ridiculous and to say all Taurus (or ANY sign) is only one thing is just really crazy. I know many examples who are not like that guy as well. Good thing you are not! ?
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Lol, but I never realise you are busyeyes. You mean others on this forum already know that? I rmb busyeyes used to have an avatar.Posted by NefertariHey hon, I have a confession (I thought the word was out) but I am busyeyes
She is gorgeous. I personally felt if she is given the chance to chase her dreams, she would definitely be more fulfilled, recognised and accomplished. For talented, capable woman, I feel that domestic success alone is not enough to keep them happy. They have to be both accomplished at home and in their own career.
Both of them look so different at home and at work! Like all the make up and office clothes made a BIG difference.
I feel busyeyes and JohntheBaptist are both being honest, just like the man in the article. Personally, I think the world of Taurus have a few variations. Those sweet and loyal will bend over backs, go extra miles for friends, that's where we have the nice, always encouraging, popular, charming, loved by every friend/colleague Taurus comes from.
Those who make a splash and are very successful in life will be dissatisfied with just being nice. To them, telling the truth and being practical are what gets life going. Personally, I like this type of person. The truth hurts a lot at times, but better than hearing all sweet things then get your dreams broken because you're living in self-denial and self delusion.
I posted that article because it simply illustrates why so many women are having issues. Women come to this board seeking answers, and when JohntheBaptist, busyeyes and the guy in the article give it to you, what do you do?
You REFUTE them and say they are horrifying etc etc
Excuse me, I haven't heard you thank them for their free Taurus consultation. These two ladies did not come up here seeking help. They come up here helping ladies who have issues with fellow Taurus, spend time reading through the threads and forum and answered everyone with issues. They spent time analysing the background stories and gave their honest reviews, and I have to say they are pretty accurate in their analysis.
Ladies who come on, ask for their advice, thank them and hop off. At the end of the day, they are still with us. We should thank them for their free service.
That is what true Taurus do. They still provide help even though not everyone is grateful. Their help is practical. They don't tell you things like "You are doing great! Everything will turn out fine." then get your dreams broken and waster your time.
If you want honest advice, don't ask a Bull and don't come to this Taurus forum.
Can't take the truth? Don't get into relationships with Taurus then. Period.
I am both those people that you talk about in the first two paragraphs of your comments. The things is, I am multifaceted, as human beings, I think we all are... So when you break down a person the astrological way, you can see the "multifacetedness" of a person.
Ie, if you follow some of my Posts, depending on the subject matter, you may see "fierceness /harsh Brashness " which we could easily put down to the traits of my merc in aries or my Leo moon and rising. then on softer topics you may see my Venus in Pisces on display...
That's what I do as a Taurus, for me I study people. We are different "personalities" at different times with different people at least this s how the sign of Pisces works and I have a lot of Pisces in my chart.
You need a thick skin to be with a Taurus. We are not easy people. The reason why we are not easy and it takes time to get to know us is because once we let you in, we would give you the clothes off our back. We would even sacrifice our own lives for you. You become a part of us our soul our being... This is not joke. If a Taurus does not do their homework and thorough investigation and we fall deep in love with the WRONG person we are easy to manipulate and malable if in the wrongs hands. We would sacrifice everything. We have a lot of Pisces and cancer in our charts..
We are not here to harm anyone. We need to protect ourselves when we are in relationships. Life's lessons has thought me this.. Another reason why the Taurus finds it sooooo hard to trust. We cannot be with just anybody. There are plenty of manipulative people out there and we have to be discerning as to whom we give our love to..
Our love goes soul DEEP. Sincerely, this is SERIOUS. If we take a bullet for you we NEED to know you will take a bullet for us. You need to have a strong and sweet personality ie multifaceted. Don't forget scorpio is our opposite so we will have some scorp /8th house placements in our charts too. Mine is heavy.
The reason why we are so blunt is because we don't want to harm anyone long term or waste another person's time especially if we feel they will not be the person long term for us.
I think it is because Tauruses can experience love and feel love on a deep soul level. When I hug my taurus it feels like our souls are connected.. Like we are merged in one. Not because of how tight we are holding each other but it's as if we have morphed into one and it's a feeling. Not many people can feel that. That's feeling on a soul level. I have always searched for this "feeling" and I believe I have found it with my bull. It's deep like you have reached the depths of an ocean... It's hard to explain... In a world of fakeness and superficiality, connecting this way with another human being is hard to find...
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You and TaurusBull1977 are like the resident consultants on this forum. Usually ladies with good relationships won't come to forums to give advice, but you ladies are very helpful in this department and very spot on with your advice.
I remember there used to be TaurusLovesScorpio from a few years back? Didn't see him at all now.
If you and TaurusBull1977 put all your posts together, it already becomes a book, so just need to do a little bit of cut and paste and proofreading. It will become the Bible of dating Taurus men!
Posted by NevermoreI think it's because for some signs and placements, they know they cannot change so they look for an easier deal.Posted by DickButtThis. 1+ fuck someone who want to change other person whereas you won't change yourself.Posted by jane84I feel that quoted statement in itself is extremely selfish. If you want your partner change, in essence you're devaluing their self-worth. You're saying because you cannot overcome your barrier to adapt the other person must adapt to you. And to that i ask why? If you like this person, if you love this person, you should be able to culminate adaptability. If you merely want someone to change to fit you like a puzzle then really you're not fit to be in a relationship. It's not in my nature to stay stagnant. I hate being the same and in routine. I love change, and to me change brings levity to life. If i have to adapt to a situation i see it as growth. So whoever wrote that jargon up top lol. Come on now.
"It’s hard to change ourselves, so we prefer if our ladies can change their ways to suit us. We know we can be quite difficult that way, but it’s our nature and WE CAN”T BE CHANGED AND HATE CHANGES."
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Let's say I know I have this weakness, so I find someone to complement me, rather than being harsh on myself to force changes. Certain weaknesses are biological. In this case, mental and spiritually, it's hard for his nature to change, that's why the statement.
I definitely prefer signs who are more adaptable and flexible to situations.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Sorry for the late reply, I did not realise you have replied this post back then!Posted by NefertariBut that is why there are fixed, mutable and cardinal signs of the zodiac. If you want changes, don't go for a fixed sign! Simple...Posted by NevermoreI think it's because for some signs and placements, they know they cannot change so they look for an easier deal.Posted by DickButtThis. 1+ fuck someone who want to change other person whereas you won't change yourself.Posted by jane84I feel that quoted statement in itself is extremely selfish. If you want your partner change, in essence you're devaluing their self-worth. You're saying because you cannot overcome your barrier to adapt the other person must adapt to you. And to that i ask why? If you like this person, if you love this person, you should be able to culminate adaptability. If you merely want someone to change to fit you like a puzzle then really you're not fit to be in a relationship. It's not in my nature to stay stagnant. I hate being the same and in routine. I love change, and to me change brings levity to life. If i have to adapt to a situation i see it as growth. So whoever wrote that jargon up top lol. Come on now.
"It’s hard to change ourselves, so we prefer if our ladies can change their ways to suit us. We know we can be quite difficult that way, but it’s our nature and WE CAN”T BE CHANGED AND HATE CHANGES."
Very, very true.
Let's say I know I have this weakness, so I find someone to complement me, rather than being harsh on myself to force changes. Certain weaknesses are biological. In this case, mental and spiritually, it's hard for his nature to change, that's why the statement.
I definitely prefer signs who are more adaptable and flexible to situations.
Plus it is also to do with placements AND houses that they sit in... I have just as much mutable placements as I do fixed.
Im a bull and my bf is also a bull.. Do you think our relationship would work if we were not mutable somehow? No! We are very similar! His mutability in sag moon, Neptune and north node sit in my 5th house of sag... Plus I also have 4 placements in the 9th house of sag including sun and mars... Also my Jupiter in Gemini is in the 11th house..
So its not so "cut and dry" is it...
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Yes, I definitely agree with you there. That is why I study astrology and use it to understand those around me. I can't say I understand about placements or aspects and houses as well as you do, but astrology definitely works for me as well as numerology. My descriptions of me fits 90% accurate.
I do hope I find someone astrologically compatible. My Taurus does not study astrology though he thinks it works cos he feels family background, upbringing and character plays an even more impt part in a relationship. That is where I find him lacking. He is totally Taurus and all his actions are so Taurean. If he could read up on my zodiac or do some more homework on me, things would have worked more, but it is me who is working more for us. His work is more to the financial side, so spending time and understanding me is not that impt.
I am busy with work as well but I always have enough time for his business, but for him, any extra time away from work, he chooses his harem over me.
I went into retreat mode cos it is better to stay friends than go deeper on my side. Could not sense his commitment at all. His loyalty/commitment to his ex Leo gf and harem turned me off because she pulled him back while I advanced him. He is not being fair to me with his actions.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100So he wrote a book? I must have missed that somehow in the events of this board.
TLS will never make a comeback after that "book" he wrote.. its the joke of all jokes because it was lived out in his head.. Not one ounce of it was real.. just lived out in his "imaginary head"...
Its ok if the person is giving advice through real circumstances but to create a book based on imagination... well that "joke book" went down in history!!
And to top it, he "gave up" his "dream girl" and stayed with his sag!
How do you know it wasn't based on real circumstances? You don't have GPS on him to validate his relationship history.
Posted by Capri__unicornI feel the Earth signs go really well with Taurus which was surprising to me at first cos as Virgo, I relate best with Water sign, but for Taurus the same element seems to work magic.Posted by TaurusBull1977I think caps and bulls do make great partners. I'm hoping my bull and I will eventually Come back together again. I find that my best relationships have been with Taurus men. However, I think that they can get way too comfortable with us because we're so independent and strong or we can end up unknowingly keeping the relationship afloat as he relaxes. I guess because they trust us? I've always liked that even when I would demand a compromise from one, they would put up a fight and eventually say "you're right that makes sense". Didn't change who they were but they would bend for me occasionally
@Inana,
I find Cap women to be VERY strong.
I think that they're GREAT partners for Bulls.
Both strong and domestic.
Taurus' strength (mainly the women) comes from our 'fixed' disposition.
Nothing breaks us.
We love you unconditionally, but we're the least likely to change, compromise yes, change no.
What's the difference between 'change' and 'compromise?'
With compromise, you're fighting for the relationship
With change, you're fighting to protect your identity, beliefs, etc.
Cap women actually have a lot more power than they think they do, especially in a relationship with Bulls.
The Cap is the TOTAL package.
The Bull is left with two choices. Lose the total package or let the Cap go back to work.
Caps, stick to your guns!
Chances are the Bull isn't going to lose the total package.
The Cap is just going to have to sweeten the deal.
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With Virgo, Taurus and Cap, it's hard to say which is best. It also comes down to the individual's other traits and how mature they are in their interaction.
Let's say a Taurus guy meet a Cap and a Virgo at the same time, how would he decide whom he likes better consider he has mutual attraction for both? It's really hard to say which one is the best of all.
Cap who have nailed a Taurus would say Cap are the best match for Bulls and vice versa.
On many forums though and from Taurus guys' mouth, I have seen them admit Virgo are their best match. It is the Virgos who will always have a special place in their heart cos Virgos are the femme fatale and workaholics of the zodiacs but I have also see that the proportion of ladies who say Caps are the best is higher. Caps seemed to be the most mentioned best partner for Bulls in all the forums.
And then there's the Scorpio ladies who say they are the match in heaven for Taurus as their Opp. But really, I see a lot of conflicts with this pairing, so it is difficult without any stats to back up here.
Posted by Capri__unicornTouche!! I'd say that if I give an analysis. Taurus feel very satisfied and peaceful around us Virgos, and they like our femininity within a tough career women exterior but with Caps, they got attracted by the ambitious side.
I agree. I think Taurus men love virgos more and caps love Taurus more. I find that Virgo women are their ideal partners in that they're very feminine and beautiful. Caps are more natural beauties. I am not very feminine and/or girly. We are also very ambitious. I think they find that attractive about us...our strength and independence.
With all these astrology talks though, I feel in the end it depends on the person's character, external factors and choices we all make.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I see, so he wrote a book on Scorps, not Taurus guys. I gather if he writes a book on Taurus guy, it'd become a best-seller cos he's one himself.
He confessed. It was all in his head... He never even had a date with this scorp. Just all imagination in the head... Lol lol
Lol......if Taurus and Scorp works well, it's like a power couple.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100It makes me wonder is it because other than you yourself, all the Taurus-Taurus couple are happily married and hiding somewhere, so we never hear of them. I do know this two are very very stable and understanding of each other.
Astrology would and always does put a lot of emphasis on cap fem/taurus male and Virgo fem /taurus male and the Taurus /Taurus partnership never gets a mention.
But I know quite a few Taurus/ Taurus relationships.
I guess they say cap and Virgo because one is cardinal and the other is mutable which probably makes them more pliable whereas fixed sign is fixed so less flexibility...
But perhaps, Taurus goes well with any of the Earth signs.
A couple years ago, I have a younger Cap interested in me, but I didn't accept his hint, so he got together with another girl in his age group who turns out to have the same Sun sign (Virgo) as me. Not surprised at all. The funny thing is despite him being 5 years younger, I look more compatible with him in terms of looks. His gf is his age, but she looks way older like his mother. Cap guy and I have a see-stars-in-all-things-new-look.
Dear Mered1th, here's the info on Mars in Scorpio from my own birth chart reading:
Mars in Scorpio
Mars in Scorpio natives love to challenge themselves to do the impossible. They throw themselves into what they decide to do with concentrated energy and awesome willpower. These people make formidable opponents, although often quietly so. They keep their cool and their equilibrium on the surface. Below the surface may be another story, and they are unlikely to easily let you in. Mars in Scorpio has the potential to exploit others--these people see through others, and rely heavily on their gut feelings. The sexual stamina of this position is thought to be the strongest of all the positions of Mars. Sometimes, Mars in Scorpio people are attracted to taboos, and their fantasies may involve blowing the taboos to smithereens! They enjoy scenarios in which the "other" is giving in to them, wants them completely, and will do absolutely anything for them. And, their sexual appeal is strong enough that they generally do get what they want.
They find it difficult to share their partners, though they will likely never admit this. In stark contrast to Mars in Libra, who is most comfortable with the middle ground, Mars in Scorpio has a black-or-white philosophy of life. These are the people who say, "Just choose!" They really are not comfortable with compromise--what kind of satisfaction could you possibly get from compromise? Real living, to Mars in Scorpio, is all about accepting challenges and making changes. These people constantly test themselves, and, often, others. They make all kinds of rules and goals, just for the personal satisfaction that comes from achieving or mastering them. Their survival instincts are strong, and they embrace their own animal nature when they are all alone with themselves, without guilt.
These people have a provocative quality to them. This quality is usually most evident in youth, though it is often carried over into adulthood in more subtle, controlled ways. Mars in Scorpio natives who have low self-esteem can become mighty twisted. Instead of beating themselves up, they turn self-loathing outward, and end up manipulating others and feeling resentful. While Mars in Libra is constantly striving to bring fairness to the world, Mars in Scorpio knows that life simply isn't fair.
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For myself, it is quite true, I love to challenge the impossible. I tend to help people most times, but if some loser or jealous person comes along and wants to compete with me, I'd call on my energy and do everything to win cos I shall nvr lose to this loser person!!! When the energy is called forth, it is awesome like you have the energy to do great battles. I enjoy reading about Art of War, 48 Laws of Power, The Strategy of War etc cos Mars in Scorpio gives me a warrior mentality.
To illustrate, when I was young, there was a very difficult history test, so I spent a week memorizing chapters word for word and I ended up the top scorer in the whole level: 39/40. A lot of people failed that test with my closest competitor with 36/40.
In Uni, I did badly in my first quiz and was slighted by a classmate, so I stayed up for hours for the next quiz and got a full mark for it. That classmate nvr dared say anything after that. I simply hate to lose.
If you are a Taurus with Mars in Scorpio, ýou should be very very strong and perhaps successful. Mars in Scorpios have no weaklings. It is the top two strongest Mars together with Mars in Capricorn which confers more endurance at work.
Mars in Scorpio
Mars in Scorpio natives love to challenge themselves to do the impossible. They throw themselves into what they decide to do with concentrated energy and awesome willpower. These people make formidable opponents, although often quietly so. They keep their cool and their equilibrium on the surface. Below the surface may be another story, and they are unlikely to easily let you in. Mars in Scorpio has the potential to exploit others--these people see through others, and rely heavily on their gut feelings. The sexual stamina of this position is thought to be the strongest of all the positions of Mars. Sometimes, Mars in Scorpio people are attracted to taboos, and their fantasies may involve blowing the taboos to smithereens! They enjoy scenarios in which the "other" is giving in to them, wants them completely, and will do absolutely anything for them. And, their sexual appeal is strong enough that they generally do get what they want.
They find it difficult to share their partners, though they will likely never admit this. In stark contrast to Mars in Libra, who is most comfortable with the middle ground, Mars in Scorpio has a black-or-white philosophy of life. These are the people who say, "Just choose!" They really are not comfortable with compromise--what kind of satisfaction could you possibly get from compromise? Real living, to Mars in Scorpio, is all about accepting challenges and making changes. These people constantly test themselves, and, often, others. They make all kinds of rules and goals, just for the personal satisfaction that comes from achieving or mastering them. Their survival instincts are strong, and they embrace their own animal nature when they are all alone with themselves, without guilt.
These people have a provocative quality to them. This quality is usually most evident in youth, though it is often carried over into adulthood in more subtle, controlled ways. Mars in Scorpio natives who have low self-esteem can become mighty twisted. Instead of beating themselves up, they turn self-loathing outward, and end up manipulating others and feeling resentful. While Mars in Libra is constantly striving to bring fairness to the world, Mars in Scorpio knows that life simply isn't fair.
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For myself, it is quite true, I love to challenge the impossible. I tend to help people most times, but if some loser or jealous person comes along and wants to compete with me, I'd call on my energy and do everything to win cos I shall nvr lose to this loser person!!! When the energy is called forth, it is awesome like you have the energy to do great battles. I enjoy reading about Art of War, 48 Laws of Power, The Strategy of War etc cos Mars in Scorpio gives me a warrior mentality.
To illustrate, when I was young, there was a very difficult history test, so I spent a week memorizing chapters word for word and I ended up the top scorer in the whole level: 39/40. A lot of people failed that test with my closest competitor with 36/40.
In Uni, I did badly in my first quiz and was slighted by a classmate, so I stayed up for hours for the next quiz and got a full mark for it. That classmate nvr dared say anything after that. I simply hate to lose.
If you are a Taurus with Mars in Scorpio, ýou should be very very strong and perhaps successful. Mars in Scorpios have no weaklings. It is the top two strongest Mars together with Mars in Capricorn which confers more endurance at work.
I'm a libra who has dated a few Tauruses. The third article seemed to be accurate. It just put reasons behind the actions I had noticed...
I think Taurus are the bees-knees. Why would anyone want love from a man who gave love to everybody?? Who cares if they are picky? It's their right! And dating a Taurus is usually so nice, even if it never becomes anything. They listen to you and take care of you... and if they don't care about you, they let you go gently, unless you've made them really mad..
I think Taurus are the bees-knees. Why would anyone want love from a man who gave love to everybody?? Who cares if they are picky? It's their right! And dating a Taurus is usually so nice, even if it never becomes anything. They listen to you and take care of you... and if they don't care about you, they let you go gently, unless you've made them really mad..
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Dear Baptist, answering you here cos I don't wish to keep hijacking seekingcancer's thread.Posted by NefertariAhhh! Sag placements...... childish nature... It's MY fifth house and I also have 4 placements including conjunct sun and mars in 9th. My Taurus also has Neptune, moon and North node in sag and Jupiter in aries in 8th house.Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Yep exactly!!!
Oh dear! It's his age.... If you are 10 years old than him already then you have an extremely long wait ahead for a family life with him.
I don't think it's much to do with his astrological placement but more to do with his age. He would be like any youngster of that age... It feels like almost a parent /child relationship... You sound like a parent to be honest...
It all makes sense now.. I have my own problems with my Taurus and he is 42 this month! I am not at all mature for my age either.. Because the world revolves around Taurus... We stay "childlike" for a very very long time...
It's difficult but I wish you all the best with that... I am not sure if you are both on an exclusive relationship but you may want to start being with someone your own age.... He will be "childlike" for a very long time... Especially if he has fire placements...
I'm actually very child-like myself cos my Ascendant/Moon is in Sag. Some people thought I'm younger than him cos I have a very young look. We got together cos we are fun-loving, but it died down cos we only go out for dinners which dulls cos he talks more serious stuff with me. I am independent, but I prefer to have a man who pampers me. With him, he doesn't take care of me much.
He wants to see me when he gets back and wants me to visit him in UK to stay in his place........ in his own words 'it saves budget.' Definitely no. I don't live together with a man unless he's my husband.
Emotionally, he opened up but still did careless things. Once, he wrote me a card to express his feelings and did a cut-out of us from a group pic. My gf told me he took the trouble to collect the pic from her. We had about 4 group pics together, so I read that action as he deleted away all our pics.
Exclusive in things we talk about and I'm the only one he sees outside work and he uses a lot of romantic emoticons but not exclusive to the point of proclaiming official relationship cos we started out as colleagues and both of us are not people who would stand office scandal. We are very professional and career-focused people.
When he asked me, he did not use the word gf but asked me to give chance. Before that, he was interviewing me and checking me out from a lot of sources, so I know he is interested and he tried asking me to concert twice before that which I did not accept.
A lot of history in a year but cut long story short, I gave him enough notice about not wanting to be in his life after he comes back. So NC and retreat mode now.
Thanks for lending me your ear so many times, hun. I'm guilty of hijacking OP's thread too, so sorry OP
So we are very very child like also with my Leo rising and moon, merc and juno in aries. And aries placements is also like the child of the zodiac. I LOVE to play! He loves to play also.. We have very energetic energies when we are together.
On what you have told me above, give him a chance... He sounds like my Taurus who is also abroad and working so I don't see or hear from him much when this happens.
You sound very virtuous. My mother is a Virgo and my Taurus mother is also a Virgo. He often says I remind him of his mother! My pluto and Uranus is also in Virgo..
I think, as a Virgo, you will be / and are very good for him. If the love is still there for him, give it a shot when he returns. Just let him know that you want and his "harem" have to go..
At least he is open with you about his harem... If he was hiding it, then that would be a different story. He is open and honest and does not hide from you.
Taurus likes a beautiful woman, with a hint of drama (I say "hint" as Taurus create enough drama for both parties!) and one who is sensible and keep him grounded. Virgos are very "money savvy which Taurus men love.
You are very mutable which helps with the inflexibility of a fixed natured person. This helps alot in relationships especially where both are fixed in ego ie two sun people like taurus v Taurus. I guess the reason my Taurus and I are still together is I have had to adapt to the spontaneity of his sag and gem placements but is made easier for me to adapt to this because of my mutable Pisces, Virgo and gem placements.
Humans are complicated.. It's not the end Nef. Where there is hope there is life... And as George Benson would say" Never Give Up On a Good Thing; Remember what makes you happy"!click to expand
Thks for letting me in on your birth chart. No wonder you're so easy to talk to! I have my Moon, Asc, Neptune and Uranus in Sag, Moon conjunct Uranus, Neptune/Jupiter, Venus in Leo and 5th cusp in Aries. Also very child-like at play and fiery around signs with Fire placements. A lot of people thought I'm still in Uni cos I look young and I still get identity checks sometimes. TBH, I look too young for my own good. Blessed but not proud of it.
You are exactly right with your analysis! My Taurus and I share a very good relationship with each other. Despite his superficial side which he is letting everyone on to believe, we are pretty mature together when talking about the important things in life and goals we want. He has a mature and very advanced thinking side which is more like 30 plus. I don't think his harem friends see that side often. He has a Midas touch with investing and knows how to flow cash btw his portfolios.
He is very open about his weekend clubbing life. Even when he is going to a club with all the hot girls making passes at him, he tells me about them but he doesn't even let them touch him. He says it's because he doesn't give them any money, but I know it is also because he rejected their advances. He has a model figure -trains hard at the gym for the perfect abs and body shape, also considered by most as good-looking, so I'm sure the girls there would have want to kiss him.
He likes looking at pretty girls, but he said to me he doesn't usually observe women physically. He's lying okay!! I am 100% sure he is assessing women all the time.
Great to hear about your Virgo mum
I'm virtuous because on top of being Virgo, also on Life Path number 9 and Maturity Number 8 in numerology. Has a lot of 8 and 9 there. I'm also born at a lucky time and blessed with a good birth chart on the overall, but in truth, not really making the most out of my life with what I have yet. He doesn't see my maturity and compassion as a strength though, while people are drawn to me because of my good qualities. Average Joes don't like me much while wise, intelligent people welcome me. I checked his astrology before, he doesn't like wise, intelligent people and is drawn to silly, fun people who would appreciate him.......all adds up. I guess he likes me because I'm the best he could find in the environment we were in. One of our mutual acquaintance would be in his nearby Uni in UK and told me they could help each other introduce partners. There's more guys in his faculty while there's more women in hers. I relayed the msg to him. He said she just wants to take advantage of him to help her find a guy, see what calibre she can offer first before he returns the favour.
Well, the acquaintance is not wrong. By cutting him now, I am merely giving him the chance to look for a younger girl who could be more suitable for him. Who knows, maybe he'd come across another Cap or Virgo with beautiful face/gorgeous figure and more talented than me? The younger generation are more talented and better groomed. Easy to find a quality chick there.
I won't die pulling out at this point, but if we continue further and he found someone better after making government scholar, it'd be a lot harder to break for us both. While he has shown signs that he is sure, I don't feel he is fixed on me yet. And with the possibility he can find someone better, I don't want to be his fill-in girl to only develop him for another lady. Not that noble.
He wants to buy a car when he gets back. For that, he'd have to work even more shfits during weekends. His weekends are already saturated with his gym, clubbing, harem etc and his new posting will be very challenging cos he's competing among scholars. He wants to top the dept, so other than wanting me to back him up at work, he won't have time for me in his other parts of life...... I am not in his weekend routine yet.
His astrology says he will suffer fools at work. So far, I have facilitated his work with good advice. By giving him the golden ticket, he will be on the fast track. He can rise through the ranks in a few years compared to 20 years by average people. Let him live alone without me for a while and sees how he gets by. That will clear his head on what and who he really wants.
Thank you for your patience Baptist. I know I write very long recently about my Taurus.
Posted by Capri__unicornYou sound like me as well. We have time for others because we are generous and fair with our time, treating everyone with sincerity. For us, we don't need a harem to feel secure.
I was reading one of your posts the other day and your Taurus sounds JUST like mine. He values his friends and valued his harem very much but I felt like he liked the support and comfort I provided. I'm the one that pushes him to go after his dreams. The one that encourages him to pursue suitable jobs and advance his life, but he would not be as invested in reciprocating. We are broken up now and he is much more invested but he still isn't as mature as I'd like him to be. There's a part of him that still likes the "fast life".i like my fun, but I don't allow it to infringe upon my goals or how I express my love for others. There's enough to go around. How are u two doing
My Taurus is in another country now. I dropped contact cos he's younger, but he has never wanted to drop contact with me. In fact, as we move along, he opened up more and more and starts to invest more time but in comparison to his harem, they still get more. He can call on 50 to 60 friends at the snap of his fingers easily. Agree with the 'fast' life.
He used to club everyday five years ago. Now, cut down to 3 days a week which is still pretty decent. To me, he is very sincere, supportive and loyal, but I'm not sure we can fall in love. Not really sure what that'd be like or what prerequisites/circumstances will build up for that. I myself am not sure what constitutes to falling in love. We feel for each other, but not in love.
He doesn't really give me reason to doubt him, but I wasn't sure I am The One cos we have almost a 10 year age gap. My mum isn't quite supportive cos she thinks I'd age faster than him once I hit 40. But astrology predicts I will look young all my life. I am a young Corn Spirit in Aztec astrology.
See how things unfold.
Posted by Nefertari
Dear Mered1th, here's the info on Mars in Scorpio from my own birth chart reading:
Mars in Scorpio
Mars in Scorpio natives love to challenge themselves to do the impossible. They throw themselves into what they decide to do with concentrated energy and awesome willpower. These people make formidable opponents, although often quietly so. They keep their cool and their equilibrium on the surface. Below the surface may be another story, and they are unlikely to easily let you in. Mars in Scorpio has the potential to exploit others--these people see through others, and rely heavily on their gut feelings. The sexual stamina of this position is thought to be the strongest of all the positions of Mars. Sometimes, Mars in Scorpio people are attracted to taboos, and their fantasies may involve blowing the taboos to smithereens! They enjoy scenarios in which the "other" is giving in to them, wants them completely, and will do absolutely anything for them. And, their sexual appeal is strong enough that they generally do get what they want.
They find it difficult to share their partners, though they will likely never admit this. In stark contrast to Mars in Libra, who is most comfortable with the middle ground, Mars in Scorpio has a black-or-white philosophy of life. These are the people who say, "Just choose!" They really are not comfortable with compromise--what kind of satisfaction could you possibly get from compromise? Real living, to Mars in Scorpio, is all about accepting challenges and making changes. These people constantly test themselves, and, often, others. They make all kinds of rules and goals, just for the personal satisfaction that comes from achieving or mastering them. Their survival instincts are strong, and they embrace their own animal nature when they are all alone with themselves, without guilt.
These people have a provocative quality to them. This quality is usually most evident in youth, though it is often carried over into adulthood in more subtle, controlled ways. Mars in Scorpio natives who have low self-esteem can become mighty twisted. Instead of beating themselves up, they turn self-loathing outward, and end up manipulating others and feeling resentful. While Mars in Libra is constantly striving to bring fairness to the world, Mars in Scorpio knows that life simply isn't fair.
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For myself, it is quite true, I love to challenge the impossible. I tend to help people most times, but if some loser or jealous person comes along and wants to compete with me, I'd call on my energy and do everything to win cos I shall nvr lose to this loser person!!! When the energy is called forth, it is awesome like you have the energy to do great battles. I enjoy reading about Art of War, 48 Laws of Power, The Strategy of War etc cos Mars in Scorpio gives me a warrior mentality.
To illustrate, when I was young, there was a very difficult history test, so I spent a week memorizing chapters word for word and I ended up the top scorer in the whole level: 39/40. A lot of people failed that test with my closest competitor with 36/40.
In Uni, I did badly in my first quiz and was slighted by a classmate, so I stayed up for hours for the next quiz and got a full mark for it. That classmate nvr dared say anything after that. I simply hate to lose.
If you are a Taurus with Mars in Scorpio, ýou should be very very strong and perhaps successful. Mars in Scorpios have no weaklings. It is the top two strongest Mars together with Mars in Capricorn which confers more endurance at work.
Thank you so much for the very elaborate answer, Nefertari. Sorry for replying so late.
Also: most thank you for sharing what Mars in Scorpio means for you as I was actually specifically interested in that and not the generalization I could easily google up myself on the internet
Btw, can I kindly ask you where is yur Mars in Scorpio? Mine is in the 3d house of communication (I also have in my third house Pluto and Saturn).
Also thank you so much for the book recs
I already ordered Art of War from what you recommended because you spiked my interest (and I also LOVE to read and learn new things). I also want to add that I most definitely understand the competitive part. I've always been a competitive person since I was a little girl. I always blamed my Venus in Aries in the first house for that (because seriously, sometimes one could easily confuse me with an Aries easily - minus the temper lol which is definitely under control), but now I see there's also a relation to Mars in Scorpio. Also, I had no idea Mars was originally a ruler of Scorpio and hat's why the placement here is at home and so powerful! Yay for that!
Posted by Nefertari
To new ladies coming on board and trying to get answers, maybe check these articles or websites out first:
8 Revealing Traits of Taurus
http://thetauruslife.com/taurus-man-traits/
10 signs if a Taurus Man Likes You
http://taurusmansecrets.com/blog/signs-taurus-man-likes-you/
Confessions of a Taurus Man
https://taurusmandecoded.com/confesssions-of-a-taurus/
Disclaimer:
I don't receive commissions for the any sales of books/services by the authors. These are just the more useful reads that are quite spot-on I found on the internet.
Very informative but there is no such word as 'learnt'.
" So many people have misunderstood that we Taurus only love money, hold not importance for love, afraid of commitment and are cold,, ruthless to women we care about. That is such a big fallacy. We feel a lot for the ones we love and we place a lot of attention to these feelings. We make money because we understand the importance of money too much for a successful, fulfilling relationship. We want to shower our loved ones with the best things in life. We are too responsible to allow our relationships to fail or let our loved ones down. We feel most people talk about love and marriage too easily, then end up in the poorhouse or divorce due to lack of planning. We do not want that in our lives because our lady love and love itself are too important to us".---from Taurus Guy [Edit: I got the wrong quote on my first post 
THIS is the one I relate to]
@TaurusBull1977 hm..I can really relate to this and I'm a Leo.
Maybe this can be a fixed sign thing?
Even Scorpios (another fixed sign), are known for being patient and not giving up for the things they want.
I've noticed that fixed signs are called out for being "distant" in the threads lol.
It just depends on the stage they are in in their life and not to be nagging someone for the sake of "not being alone". (That is very annoying. I want someone who wants to be with me, not needs to be with me. In that case, they can get anyone who gives them attention.)
I've been called "cold and distant" by needy guys (not my boyfriends), in the times that I have been gathering information about myself, and how me getting to know myself will change my next relationship for the better.
I've also been called "amazingly loving" when I am willing to be in a relationship.
THIS is the one I relate to] @TaurusBull1977 hm..I can really relate to this and I'm a Leo.
Maybe this can be a fixed sign thing?
Even Scorpios (another fixed sign), are known for being patient and not giving up for the things they want.
I've noticed that fixed signs are called out for being "distant" in the threads lol.
It just depends on the stage they are in in their life and not to be nagging someone for the sake of "not being alone". (That is very annoying. I want someone who wants to be with me, not needs to be with me. In that case, they can get anyone who gives them attention.)
I've been called "cold and distant" by needy guys (not my boyfriends), in the times that I have been gathering information about myself, and how me getting to know myself will change my next relationship for the better.
I've also been called "amazingly loving" when I am willing to be in a relationship.
Posted by lilyofthevalleyThe third article is an extreme case of the pickier Taurus that most find difficulties to understand. I was talking to a Leo guy friend about astrology recently and he told me most Taurus he came across are quite sweet and loyal which I agree. I noticed that as well...... very good-hearted, sweet people who are understanding and good to everyone. My Taurus has some of the traits in the third article too. He tends to attract flocks of women he keeps as friends, but they can't understand why he is so hard to get closer to beyond a certain point. What the ladies don't know is he is very good at assessing people and where to place them in his life. Very picky with whom he wants to have long-term.
I'm a libra who has dated a few Tauruses. The third article seemed to be accurate. It just put reasons behind the actions I had noticed...
I think Taurus are the bees-knees. Why would anyone want love from a man who gave love to everybody?? Who cares if they are picky? It's their right! And dating a Taurus is usually so nice, even if it never becomes anything. They listen to you and take care of you... and if they don't care about you, they let you go gently, unless you've made them really mad..I'm picky myself, but I really like people who are selective with their wants in life. I have a social critic within me when I meet new people. I get along with most, but the selective people are the ones who stand out. People who are selective have a distinct character and they are go after what they want, so I'm attracted to this trait.click to expand
But you're right, it's cool to know a Taurus. At heart, they are gentle beings.
Posted by TaurusBull1977totally!
@Shadowcat,
I don't find his needs...needy or demanding.
No one loves space more than a Bull. You would think we were Air Signs, lol.
What you described are 'conventional needs.'
Personally, I find nothing wrong with cooking for my man and doing his laundry.
I would want him to think I am the greatest cook on the planet.
....and the sexiest woman on the planet.
Nothing wrong here....
Posted by Mered1thYou are welcome
Thank you so much for the very elaborate answer, Nefertari. Sorry for replying so late.
Also: most thank you for sharing what Mars in Scorpio means for you as I was actually specifically interested in that and not the generalization I could easily google up myself on the internet
Btw, can I kindly ask you where is yur Mars in Scorpio? Mine is in the 3d house of communication (I also have in my third house Pluto and Saturn).
Also thank you so much for the book recs
I also want to add that I most definitely understand the competitive part. I've always been a competitive person since I was a little girl. I always blamed my Venus in Aries in the first house for that (because seriously, sometimes one could easily confuse me with an Aries easily - minus the temper lol which is definitely under control), but now I see there's also a relation to Mars in Scorpio. Also, I had no idea Mars was originally a ruler of Scorpio and hat's why the placement here is at home and so powerful! Yay for that!
My Mars is in eleventh and I have my twelfth house in Mars which means I like depth psychology and investigations which is quite true. I'd check up everything if I have an interest in someone or something.
I like reading up on smart military strategies and stories, so stories on great conquerors such as Alexander the Great, Genghis Khan and Napoleon fascinate me. I don't advocate war, but I certainly have a warrior and competitive streak within me.
Yes, Mars and Pluto are rulers of Scorpio, so definitely right at home there which makes the placement really powerful. The willpower part is really not a joke for people who has not seen it. I feel it makes us understand power, influence and more penetrating as people too, but maybe also because I have quite a few placements in the 12th House.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100You are really simply amazing AMAZING!! So lucky to meet your Bull too and he is in such awe of you.
@Nef..
But bulls like older women and he will tell anyone and everyone he meets when we are together that we were rejected from a nightclub because I had no ID on me and I could not convince them that I was 50! Lol He stood there in awe... That has never happened to him in his life! He was so proud!
Bulls love an older woman who looks young!
I know my Taurus adores me. There are times that I can't understand why he adores me to the extent because I see the flaws and imperfections in myself. I know he has high standards in life and he is harsh on others at work, but he doesn't place those same harshness on me.
I was rereading one of your earlier post on how you feel the connection when you are holding your Bull's hand. For me, a soul connection with Water sign feels natural. I'm skeptical of my connection with my Bull cos while there are moments where I thought I could feel him, it wasn't as encompassing as I thought it'd be, but perhaps because we could not get physical with each other since we were colleagues.
Posted by ShrewdsharpTitle says for ladies NEW to Bulls. To each his own.Posted by Nefertari
To new ladies coming on board and trying to get answers, maybe check these articles or websites out first:
8 Revealing Traits of Taurus
http://thetauruslife.com/taurus-man-traits/
10 signs if a Taurus Man Likes You
http://taurusmansecrets.com/blog/signs-taurus-man-likes-you/
Confessions of a Taurus Man
https://taurusmandecoded.com/confesssions-of-a-taurus/
Disclaimer:
I don't receive commissions for the any sales of books/services by the authors. These are just the more useful reads that are quite spot-on I found on the internet.
Very informative but there is no such word as 'learnt'.click to expand
Personally I thought the second article is pretty good too. taurusmansecrets have quite a few informative blog posts on Taurus.
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