What gains a Taurus girl's trust?

What gains a Taurus girl's trust?

BE HONEST about EVERYTHING from day ONE!

Trust is gained, when you know the difference the TRUTH and ANY sort of lie: Bold face lie, White lie, and Omitted information.
Trust is gained, when she confides in you and your closest friends, boys, homies, family..Don't know.
Trust is gained, when you don't Kiss & Tell. SO Keep your mouth SHUT about boudoir affairs, that only pertain to the BOTH of you.

BE HONEST even if you THINK the truth it too dirty to reveal from the BEGINNING.. do not... -I repeat!!-..DO NOT LIE or try to "cover up" anything about yourself in an effort to "impress" her or to "Save face or feelings"...
NO one knows the smell of BULLSHIT better than that BULL...You'll only be doing yourself a DIS-service and lose a GREAT one.

NOTHING annoys a Taurus more than a Cheap scent of desperation and Lies.

Be consistent, persistent and express your feelings both in words and actions.
(but this is my personal opinion as a Taurus girl)
Depends a lot on what 'kind of trust' you want to gain......

I understand, thank you for the responses. How could I be "honest" if I am not asked when I can see the very possibility of her forming opinions and assumptions of me. It would be awkward if I start explaining EVERYTHING out of nowhere and out of the blue.

By the way, are there any options besides "hiding" posts to fix grammatic errors...?

Taurpeeps; I'm curious why don't Taureans ask questions? My bull does this; he rarely asks me any question but he seems to know everything without me telling him. I sometimes wonder if he has me bugged. He tells me everything but rarely comes out and asks me anything. I'm a withholding Virgo and I have a mental block about offering up info, so if I'm not asked a direct question I won't just offer up info about myself. When he does break down and ask a question I find myself overjoyed. He says it's because he doesn't like to treat starting a relationship like an interview, the only way to get to know someone is grow with them and that's how he gets to know who a person REALLY is not who they portray themselves to be. Any truth to this?

hello...to gain our trust be real and only make promises you can keep...be a wo/man of your word and be sensitive on your conduct with the opposite sex around us...pretty simple 🙂

Posted by TAURUSbelle



NOTHING annoys a Taurus more than a Cheap scent of desperation and Lies.

A cheap scent of desperation and lies equates to smelling bad breath on an individual.

It hits your nose unexpectedly.
You remain silent.
Hoping this person would simply just stop talking.
And somehow...
Despite everything else that fell into place...
You just couldn't overlook the bad breath.

Telling lies to a Taurus is like smelling bad breath on an individual.

Posted by neuroticvirgo
He says it's because he doesn't like to treat starting a relationship like an interview, the only way to get to know someone is grow with them and that's how he gets to know who a person REALLY is not who they portray themselves to be. Any truth to this?

There is a great deal of truth to this.
We're active listeners and very observant.
We're very well aware of our surroundings.
Don't let our silence, or 'standoffish' behavior confuse you.
We always no more than you think we do...
And we're just waiting for you to either tell us the truth or simply hang yourself out to dry.
We can often surprise most people.

Appearances are appearances.
It's simply just that.
We're not easily drawn in through smoking mirrors.
Instead...
We make our assessment when the smoke clears,
And we gathered everything we need to know about you.

We prefer to see the REAL you...not a carbon copy of what you think we want to see.

Humility goes a long way.

If we invited you in our inner circle.
It's not because you're the most attractive, intelligent, wealthy individual to grace our presence...
It's because we feel safe with you,
We feel that we can trust you,
.....and will be willing to accept you with all your imperfections.

Thank you @robyn808 & @TaurusBull1977; I just wanted to confirm it's not an underlying sign of disinterest. As a Virgo I'm not one to tell lies either although I will withhold information in the beginning if I thinks it's none of your business. But with this guy it's like I cannot tell a lie of any sort. Deep down I know he already knows the answers when he does ask a question and I can sense that he's testing my truthfulness so I've been my most honest since meeting him. But since I don't offer up info I often wonder how does he know some of this stuff.

Posted by TranquilizedCerberus
I understand, thank you for the responses. How could I be "honest" if I am not asked when I can see the very possibility of her forming opinions and assumptions of me. It would be awkward if I start explaining EVERYTHING out of nowhere and out of the blue.

Just be yourself.
Show her the REAL you.

Let her observe you, and make that determination for herself.

If you're not a phony, liar or a dishonest individual.
Then you have nothing to fear.

@NeuroticVirgo


You're welcome. 🙂

Posted by robyn808


Its not only only looking for consistency in what you say, but also the consistency in this energy, consistency in the smallest detail that is too hard to fake. The more time we have to experience these things, the better we know you. The better we understand what makes you tick, the better we can predict and rely on your behavior.

THIS

Very well stated.

I couldn't have stated it better myself....

I'm awkward when there are others, it's hard to be the real me because I'm not comfortable with the other people standing around...as in I really don't care what they think but I would be embarrassing her if I completely ignore others and just talk to her as if there was no one is around, she considers it rude. With that, I become this awkward person that cannot be myself and see myself being misinterpreted and then I become weirder and kind of angry with the uncomfortableness and become "unreal" to her....