What is the problem with this Tarus Man

Hi I have a question for all you bulls maybe you can give me some input i am a Scropio and in mId Nov I met a sexy tarus and like they say opposite attract we are opposite signs so the chemistry was crazy but anyway when we first met he approach me and he was very interested calling me that day the next and so on for about a week and the conversation was great and we learn a lot about eachother and on our first date the chemistry was there and we had sex and now its january and we have had sex more than an few time and it was sensual and everything i thought it would be and i am defintely falling for him now the problem is I know he works 2 jobs and he has a busy life but i like attention and a lot of it so i have been coming on strong like you need to make more time for me and sending him texts saying i want you now and I dont wanna wait and I know that tarus men like to take thing slow and I think I am kinda putting pressure on him and now he is backing up a little but I am trying to learn to be patience and give him time is this the best thing to do.

the problem is your relationship is backwards, if you wanted a real relationship that should have been something you made him aware of before getting intimately involved, now that he has his sex, he's unyielding to give you a relationship, no excuses because a man smittened over a woman will go out of his way to make sure she understands how important she is, if he's not doing that then you may want to evaluate the relationship. Your asking for something he's clearly unable to give which is a red flag that your about to give your heart to an emotionally unavailable man which equals heartache for you...

You all have made good points and I will take them all into consideration and as for me I will give him his time being I do have other things to keep me busy as well and I know he will come around its just a matter of time the only problem is will I be there and available since I do have many options. But either way I will give you all an update and asked questions as needed.

Just to give you all an update everything is actually going good with my bull we really didnt have any problems he just seem kinda distant for a minute but we have been talking and he told me he has just been busy with work and family and I do understand so that is not a problem and yesterday we hung out and had a really long talk and I ask him probably too many question but he was nice enough to answer and I learn he has a really good memory he knew things about me I thought he didnt remember

yeah I will try to be good last night I had to catch myself I have a smart mouth and I didn't want to say any smart comments but he has a great personality also.

Absolutely,very good memories and will not forget anything you say or do bad or good..But uh don't do anything bad if you can help it..

im surrounded with taurus men and women & i've noticed that taurean girls do...but not guys, taruean guys have pretty horrible memory. lol. maybe for the one exception.

"and I learn he has a really good memory he knew things about me I thought he didnt remember"

well.. i can say for me, i have a really bad memory but i tend to remember all the stuff about the special person in my life.. good and bad!

expect a thoughtful gift in ur b-day Scropio1114 😉

Well first off, there could be 2 problems here.

1. Your Taurus loves that you have a high sex drive & that you can sexually crave him as much as he sexually craves you. But if your Taurus supsects that your sex drive is alot higher than his, he might withdrawl from you or won't make an effort to "keep up" with you. They love sex & and good at what they do, but if he assumes that you cannot be tamed (sexually) then it will disappoint him b/c he will start to feel that no matter how much he puts into the sex (even if it's 100% ) you will never completely be satisfied or get enough. And it is very important to your Taurus that you are okay with the boundaries & limits he has in his relationships (sexually).

2. Taurus are very hard workers & will never feel bad or try to change their own work habits for their partners. Money & finances are very important to a Taurus & they expect for their partners to understand that money doesn't grow on trees. He wants your attention to but he will never let you come in the way of his work. He expects for you to appreciate & respect him 10 times more b/c of his hard worth ethics, even if that means he can't spend as much time with you. He likes being labled among the financially stable & secure. But not being satisfied with the attention you're getting from him because of his work ethics is not a debatable topic for him. If it were anything else (that didn't involve money) he'd compromise in a heartbeat but when it comes to his job, his career or the way he makes money, he expects for you to understand this, not be annoyed or slightly turned off or unsatisfied by this. And you're a Scorp so you know how it is when others demand something from you that you consider non-debatable. You as a Scorp. expect for that person to either jump on board or get lost & when it comes to his job/career, he has that same type of mindset

I agree Krysreene7 I can tell that is work ethic and money is important to him as well as myself and I have very good taking things slow at his pace making him reach out to me then I know its genuine and with the sexual thing I have been very good and let him make all the moves so it moving slow but steady and I love the fact that he is starting to open up to me more he becoming more his self (if that makes sense) around me and I like that you know us Scorp we want to know everything about a person as far as him he ask me a lot at first and I think he got all the information he needed becuase he doesnt ask to many question anymore but maybe that's a men thing. and also Krysreene I read something about tarus men and musica and this is so true about him he loves music and he can sing and I think he relates to different songs that touch him like the last time we seen each other he played a song that really touch me and I felt a bond with him at the moment its crazy or its probably me I don't know but we will see.