What just happened here?

Posted by jeane
He'll tell you when he is ready. Until then be patient, don't jump to any conclusions and go on as you normally would.

Posted by Supergyrl
So... I met this Taurus guy in 2015. Our relationship didn't really start changing towards a more romantic one until January 2016. When we met, he had been separated for three years, but not yet divorced. I was in the process of dissolving my own marriage, but it still hasn't happened. Long story short, we've been carrying on as if we're in a relationship, even though we're not. Since 1/16, I have separated and he has apparently divorced. There has been no conversation about our status and I'm not really sure what the deal is. Long story short, I have made the visit to the attorney's office and have gotten the ball rolling in my divorce proceedings. It's not a reconcilable situation. Just didn't work out. Nonetheless, my Taurus guy has been going through something for the past week or so. He basically blew up at me for being insensitive about something that I didn't know existed. I didn't know what it is then, and I still don't know. Regardless, I have advised him that I would give him his space. He thinks I'm pushing him to open up. I'm not. He will talk to me when he gets ready I suppose. What in the world is going on here?! Btw, I'm Capricorn, if that matters. I know that we're supposed to be one of the best matches that exists. Still, I'm concerned. I am not divorcing my husband because of Mr. T. (Taurus guy), nor am I with Mr. T. because of my soon-to-be ex husband. They are two totally separate entities. Does anyone have any helpful insight? Please don't be rude. Thanks so much.

Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by Supergyrl
So... I met this Taurus guy in 2015. Our relationship didn't really start changing towards a more romantic one until January 2016. When we met, he had been separated for three years, but not yet divorced. I was in the process of dissolving my own marriage, but it still hasn't happened. Long story short, we've been carrying on as if we're in a relationship, even though we're not. Since 1/16, I have separated and he has apparently divorced. There has been no conversation about our status and I'm not really sure what the deal is. Long story short, I have made the visit to the attorney's office and have gotten the ball rolling in my divorce proceedings. It's not a reconcilable situation. Just didn't work out. Nonetheless, my Taurus guy has been going through something for the past week or so. He basically blew up at me for being insensitive about something that I didn't know existed. I didn't know what it is then, and I still don't know. Regardless, I have advised him that I would give him his space. He thinks I'm pushing him to open up. I'm not. He will talk to me when he gets ready I suppose. What in the world is going on here?! Btw, I'm Capricorn, if that matters. I know that we're supposed to be one of the best matches that exists. Still, I'm concerned. I am not divorcing my husband because of Mr. T. (Taurus guy), nor am I with Mr. T. because of my soon-to-be ex husband. They are two totally separate entities. Does anyone have any helpful insight? Please don't be rude. Thanks so much.

Girl, coming from someone that was separated in 2014; divorce was FINALIZED in 2015; this is a FRESH divorce year for him. He's thinking about things; looking at his other options in this huge universe, thinking, "I'm free outta my cage" (at least this is what I THOUGHT when the judge granted my divorce). He's on the divorce (rebound). Yeah, you'll write back and say, "But we were seeing each other, I don't think it's a rebound". I am Piscean and I can already sense (with my STRONG 6th sense this is what you will be thinking). He loves his freedom. What do I mean by that? You ask. Well, he doesn't have anyone telling him what to do, when to come home (what time), where are you going? etc., etc. You didn't mention if he has children; so of course, they come FIRST, then his JOB (2nd), then his RESPONSIBILITIES (3rd); and well, you'll be 4th. He's sensitive right now (how, you ask?), well, anything for right now (smaller than a grain of salt) is going to trigger him...his nerves, his temperament, his patience ______, __________,__________ (you fill in the blanks). As advice from another, leave him alone.

Good luck on YOUR divorce...it's no "piece of cake!". And I will welcome you to the "single world" (It's a JUNGLE out there!) when your divorce is finalized.

cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: I could have SWORN I read your story before back in 2016 (Oct or Nov). As this OP (story) kept stringing him along because she wasn't' sure if she wanted to get divorced because "Of the kids". I may have erred, but who knows!?

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