What makes you melt?

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by UntamedLeo on Tuesday, January 27, 2015 and has 35 replies.
What's someone done for you or given you that made your heart melt and your toes curl?
Big or small, friendly or familial or romantic, open interpretation is welcome. Would love to hear what makes the lovely Tauruses turn to mush on the inside Winking
When someone manages to comfort me..
I get all warm on the inside ???~
Or when someone goes out of their way to make something really special.
Or when someone listens to me and also shares their own stories.??_3
Would it be interesting if we mentioned our Venuses as well? x)
Posted by UntamedLeo
What's someone done for you or given you that made your heart melt and your toes curl?
Big or small, friendly or familial or romantic, open interpretation is welcome. Would love to hear what makes the lovely Tauruses turn to mush on the inside Winking


Being their for me when I'm feeling down. Being consistent in the small gestures, that makes my heart melt smile
@ UntamedLeo, I just noticed you got a scorpio moon like me! maybe I'll message you about something concerning the Leo guy lol
Posted by SalamanderCandy
When someone manages to comfort me..
I get all warm on the inside ???~
Or when someone goes out of their way to make something really special.
Or when someone listens to me and also shares their own stories.??_3
Would it be interesting if we mentioned our Venuses as well? x)


Yeah that would actually be really interesting, glad you suggested it Big Grin
Posted by TxOgal
@ UntamedLeo, I just noticed you got a scorpio moon like me! maybe I'll message you about something concerning the Leo guy lol
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Sure, you're more than welcome to smile
:3 glad you are glad ^___^
Venus in cancer here xD
Do you know your Mars as well? The two combined can give you a better overview smile
Posted by UntamedLeo
Do you know your Mars as well? The two combined can give you a better overview smile

YesLaughing Mars in libra Big Grin tehehehe~
showing a deep understanding of me but in a subtle way, taking care of me by knowing how i am feeling without me telling you, consistency & fierce loyalty.
Posted by UntamedLeo
Posted by SalamanderCandy
When someone manages to comfort me..
I get all warm on the inside ???~
Or when someone goes out of their way to make something really special.
Or when someone listens to me and also shares their own stories.??_3
Would it be interesting if we mentioned our Venuses as well? x)


Yeah that would actually be really interesting, glad you suggested it Big Grin
Posted by TxOgal
@ UntamedLeo, I just noticed you got a scorpio moon like me! maybe I'll message you about something concerning the Leo guy lol


Sure, you're more than welcome to smile
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Just did. By the way I got Aries Venus and Picses Mars
- when we are really engaged in learning something that we're both excited about, reading the same book, watching documentaries on a subject we're both into, even being into a TV series that we're both really excited about....I love those times.
- when we're getting it on (candles lit, slow music), and its not just about sex - when there is real connection there, eye contact, lots of kissing, hands all over one another, real slow and sensual and we are both really putting in a lot of effort to please one another - neither is overly passive.
- when we have leftover food from a good restaurant we just ate at, and she is full and uninterested, and she just lets me have it. This is really exciting.
- anytime she cooks and/or cleans/organizes things, demonstrates good taste in decor. Sorry! This is a bit old-fashioned I know. I like a woman who knows how to keep a home. My Capricorn sister-in-law set the bar really high and I saw early on how her household is a thing of beauty in every way, and I value this so much. Learning to make sophisticated food and drinks - even introducing me to new things in this area I haven't tried. Huge turn-on. Adding value to the Taurus world....
- when she is generous to others. I love to see my SO taking care of her friends when they are down and out. Giving them money, being there for them to talk to, to give advice, help out with things around their home. She has several friends that are single moms and have hit some very hard times. They are not leeches at all, but people genuinely in need, and I love to see her take care of them.


Posted by vevitier
showing a deep understanding of me but in a subtle way, taking care of me by knowing how i am feeling without me telling you, consistency & fierce loyalty.


I feel the same way about this; having someone know how I feel without me having to say anything is SO so nice
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
- when we are really engaged in learning something that we're both excited about, reading the same book, watching documentaries on a subject we're both into, even being into a TV series that we're both really excited about....I love those times.
- when we're getting it on (candles lit, slow music), and its not just about sex - when there is real connection there, eye contact, lots of kissing, hands all over one another, real slow and sensual and we are both really putting in a lot of effort to please one another - neither is overly passive.
- when we have leftover food from a good restaurant we just ate at, and she is full and uninterested, and she just lets me have it. This is really exciting.
- anytime she cooks and/or cleans/organizes things, demonstrates good taste in decor. Sorry! This is a bit old-fashioned I know. I like a woman who knows how to keep a home. My Capricorn sister-in-law set the bar really high and I saw early on how her household is a thing of beauty in every way, and I value this so much. Learning to make sophisticated food and drinks - even introducing me to new things in this area I haven't tried. Huge turn-on. Adding value to the Taurus world....
- when she is generous to others. I love to see my SO taking care of her friends when they are down and out. Giving them money, being there for them to talk to, to give advice, help out with things around their home. She has several friends that are single moms and have hit some very hard times. They are not leeches at all, but people genuinely in need, and I love to see her take care of them.


Hmm... actions, attentiveness (to you and others), spoiling with food and care and consideration, yes I can understand that smile
Don't apologize for being old-fashioned though! What makes you happy is what makes you happy, nothing wrong with that. Then again I've been telling myself the same thing when I realized that I'm happier the more domesticated I let myself be. Never thought I was a house cat, but apparently I am. It's probably my Venus in Virgo/Mars in CancerLaughing
hahaha...house cat
Posted by UntamedLeo
What's someone done for you or given you that made your heart melt and your toes curl?


This guy I dated many years ago was an engineer. But his special hobby was comic books and drawing.
He seemed more passionate about comic books than engineering.
His eyes would light up, and he would get this sparkle in his eyes.
I encouraged him to show off his artwork (drawings).
We had a discussion one day about my views on Valentines Day. I told him I didn't care for it. I felt that it was coerced, predictable, and obligatory. Not to mention, not very creative.
He actually surprised me on Valentines Day.
He made a card with a female superhero (which was me) on the cover.
Inside the card listed all my political views, everything I hated about Valentines Day, and my love for the show, The Golden Girls.
This gift was priceless.
They say Bulls are always materialistic and prefer the finer things in life.
When it comes to romantic relationships, I believe that many of us are on the search for something 'real.' Someone who has taken a genuine interest in us, that's not coerced, superficial or fake.
Feeling safe with someone and having a genuine connection with the individual makes my heart melt.
@TaurusBull1977
... okay that story made ME melt, WOW, that's such an amazingly thoughtful gift
Hm.. I had a friend or should I say long-distance relationship type person who once told me that my friendship was "addictive." I didn't understand those words but I understood that he truly appreciated whenever he had to something to say and I'd always listen. Like, always. And I'd probably ask about his day, his career or whichever every time we talked.
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
watching documentaries on a subject we're both into



..documentary on themes like..food..
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
even being into a TV series that we're both really excited about



...like..masterchef.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
(candles lit, slow music), and its not just about sex



..it is also about food.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
when we have leftover food



Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
anytime she cooks



Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
when she is generous to others



...giving food to everybody but more to me.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I just love everything about food.

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Posted by TaurusBull1977
and my love for the show, The Golden Girls.


That show premiered on a Virgo day and ended on a Taurus day. I see you. Winking
Posted by TaurusBull1977
Posted by UntamedLeo
What's someone done for you or given you that made your heart melt and your toes curl?


This guy I dated many years ago was an engineer. But his special hobby was comic books and drawing.
He seemed more passionate about comic books than engineering.
His eyes would light up, and he would get this sparkle in his eyes.
I encouraged him to show off his artwork (drawings).
We had a discussion one day about my views on Valentines Day. I told him I didn't care for it. I felt that it was coerced, predictable, and obligatory. Not to mention, not very creative.
He actually surprised me on Valentines Day.
He made a card with a female superhero (which was me) on the cover.
Inside the card listed all my political views, everything I hated about Valentines Day, and my love for the show, The Golden Girls.
This gift was priceless.
They say Bulls are always materialistic and prefer the finer things in life.
When it comes to romantic relationships, I believe that many of us are on the search for something 'real.' Someone who has taken a genuine interest in us, that's not coerced, superficial or fake.
Feeling safe with someone and having a genuine connection with the individual makes my heart melt.

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+1000 Yes, exactly this! Material gifts alone might keep a Taurus happy on a superficial level, but I believe what we truly want is a real connection.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I just love everything about food.




LOL! Get out!
Taurusloves- Is right on the money, took the words right out.. If I can add, I really don't care if you get me something or not. I'll spoil the shit out of you if your respectful and honest with me...yeah it's just not about sex.
Taurusbull-I actually have Venus in Taurus, if I am not careful I will over spend. Even things I don't really need just want to have it.
The only gift I got was Tommy's H perfume on the first date.
I have received the teddy bear gift before.
I am old fashioned
Feed me some grapes with the cool whip.. please!
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I just love everything about food.



LOL! Get out!
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No.
+ I like food too.
Family men are a big turn on for me. Guys good with children. Guys that want to settle and start a family. Someone stable with a job, doesn't have to be something you get a lot of money for, just has to be enough for your own living. But I also love broken guys that have had their hearts broken, something about that that makes me was the take care of them, show them the love I have to offer and smother them with it. But most of all Taurus girls need security, someone that'll protect us, stand up for us, take charge and wear the pants in the relationship.
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio

- when we have leftover food from a good restaurant we just ate at, and she is full and uninterested, and she just lets me have it. This is really exciting.





oh ok. so it was really exciting. well, my ex kept on eating my leftovers. But the left overs in the fridge
he kept on throwing... ah hahaha.
Just being there for me when I need you the most without me asking.someone going out of their way to lend a hand even for something small doesn't have to be a big thing.because even though we taureans are like a rock doesn't mean we're made of stone like some people think we are.thats just one thing that makes my heart palpitate Mars Venus cancer.
Posted by M143
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio

- when we have leftover food from a good restaurant we just ate at, and she is full and uninterested, and she just lets me have it. This is really exciting.





oh ok. so it was really exciting. well, my ex kept on eating my leftovers. But the left overs in the fridge
he kept on throwing... ah hahaha.
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He liked your restaurant leftovers, but not the ones at home in your fridge? Sounds like he didn't like your cooking, M143. Not good.
when i havent had sex in a long time i looove it when a woman touches me ooooh...
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Posted by M143
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio

- when we have leftover food from a good restaurant we just ate at, and she is full and uninterested, and she just lets me have it. This is really exciting.





oh ok. so it was really exciting. well, my ex kept on eating my leftovers. But the left overs in the fridge
he kept on throwing... ah hahaha.


He liked your restaurant leftovers, but not the ones at home in your fridge? Sounds like he didn't like your cooking, M143. Not good.
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You made me smile. He cooked for me. He washed my clothes. He gave me a good ride in his car - back & forth.
He doesn't like when I put few left overs in the fridge. I don't throw foods even it's just few.
Remember, He was the one at home waiting for me..and do all the cooking. I do all the cleaning and organizing
his clothes. Yes it was good to know that Taurus man is somebody what I am looking for in a man.
Having someone who has absolutely gained your trust and loyalty tell you something from the heart. No material gift in the world can top this in my book. I crave assurance and secure relationships.
Posted by Gil
Having someone who has absolutely gained your trust and loyalty tell you something from the heart. No material gift in the world can top this in my book. I crave assurance and secure relationships.


This ^^^^^
Small things like kisses on the forehead, hugs, and showing me that u pay attention to the little details about me and reassurance plus being protective...
Posted by Honeybunniie
Small things like kisses on the forehead, hugs, and showing me that u pay attention to the little details about me and reassurance plus being protective...


Same here. In romantic relationships. Physical affection. I'll also add admiration. But protectiveness has to be the biggest one for me, almost parently type of protectiveness. It makes me feel vulnerable in a good way and above all, so loved. Probably triggers my Cancerian side.
Posted by deelia
Family men are a big turn on for me. Guys good with children. Guys that want to settle and start a family. Someone stable with a job, doesn't have to be something you get a lot of money for, just has to be enough for your own living. But I also love broken guys that have had their hearts broken, something about that that makes me was the take care of them, show them the love I have to offer and smother them with it. But most of all Taurus girls need security, someone that'll protect us, stand up for us, take charge and wear the pants in the relationship.

Is your scorp currently working towards it? Can he pay the bills in 3-4-5 years?