What was your experience with Virgo guy?

To my Bulletts, how was your experience with the Virguy? What were some of the things that turned you off about them? What did you love most about them? What is the reason you are not with them today? And finally can you describe his worst and best traits?

Thank you in advance🙂

I really like Virgo guys but it just doesnt seem to click.I can almost look at a man and tell he is a virgo. They have a "look".I love the boyish smiles and most of them are built a tad thick, which I like. I like them for their logic, practicality, cleanliness, and their tendency to work hard for what they want. I really hate that some of them are very insecure and skittish if they feel that they havent lived up to their impossibly high standards. The ones Ive dealt with have always been the type that want you to go really hard to express your feelings while they play it extremely safe. As a Taurus I find it hard to step out there first to get him on board. I was only intimate with one and it was very sensual and thus amazing. Ive always gotten along well with Virgo men but unless I find myself with one who is more open about his feelings I dont see it working.

"The ones Ive dealt with have always been the type that want you to go really hard to express your feelings while they play it extremely safe."


Omg this is so true..even though my Virgo does express his feelings alot with me but they do expect more than what they are willing to give...

Until he gives it to someone else. 😛

Mmmm well in my case I'd say his reasons for doing so were not good ones. If "the one" for him is someone his step-daughters age, a cheater and a mother of 3 kids by 3 different dads before age 21..so be it. 🙂

Yuck indeed. I'll be the first to admit he was one of the wormy in the lot. UNfortunately I didn't smell the piquant downwind aroma for over a decade. Live and learn.

Posted by Let*It*Be
"Omg this is so true..even though my Virgo does express his feelings alot with me but they do expect more than what they are willing to give..."


...however, if you are patient enough to stick it out (you're a bullette..I have no doubt about your capability of patience), the reward is threefold. When Virgo is ready to cave and give himself ALL to you, the end result is beautiful. He gives...and he gives...and he gives..(the typical Virgo that is)

Im sure of that LIB..he is amazing already so i can't wait for the rest.😉

Posted by venusianbull
Until he gives it to someone else. 😛

LMAO Damn you came rained on my parade!!! :p Ill do a Lorena Bobbit on him...ja,ja,ja,ja NOT..

LOL No scissors, shears or knives need apply. I'm a shit head. LMAO *skipping along the path swinging my basket of flowers*

HAHAHAHAHAHA! And fix her and fix and fix her. He got SO angry with me not long ago, he says via text that he's a lucky man. I dryly sent back: "Oh aye, the luckiest in all the world." Needless to say the convo about our son all went downhill from there.

🙂 Tis part of the joy of a healthy 'Bon Voyage'...you get to grin while they shovel a nice deep hole of their own making.

Here LIB, to satisfy curiosity:

Sun Virgo 4.30
Moon Capricorn 14.01
Mercury Virgo 14.40
Venus Leo 16.09
Mars Virgo 19.58
Jupiter Pisces 14.01 R
Saturn Cancer 15.23
Uranus Libra 25.01
Neptune Sagittarius 6.52
Pluto Libra 5.29
Lilith Aquarius 12.03
Asc node Sagittarius 15.44

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Posted by venusianbull
HAHAHAHAHAHA! And fix her and fix and fix her. He got SO angry with me not long ago, he says via text that he's a lucky man. I dryly sent back: "Oh aye, the luckiest in all the world." Needless to say the convo about our son all went downhill from there.

lol.. he'd be lucky to be alive if he talked to me like that. I can only imagine, is he an idiot or was he trying to rub his shit in your face.

He's lucky because...

....she brings him home extra 20's when she blow's a dude at the club?
....he found out his STD's aren't fatal?

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He feels it's some sort of contest. I on the other hand have nothing to compete for. The girl got the booby prize and I got the most wonderful thing of all. My children.

I think the 'luck' he speaks of is that he has someone while I do not. Ironic that one really. I know exactly why he got angry at me, because he knows he's full of something warm, wet and very smelly.

I'll be long in my grave before that happens.

OH YEH. Most definitely agreed Sir Dec. 🙂 Wanna play chess? Well, alright then, checkers...Connect 4..I'll go put on the tea.

I holds your hand and walks you frou it. Just no blowing trombone spittle onto my feet.

Posted by 25thDecan
Don't let snot rags make you sniffle...of any sign. Throw them in the trash where they belong. I've had good and bad experiences with the bullettes. Still my fave women though. The one I truly loved I LOVED. She didn't have to step "forward" with me. Like an idiot, I knighted myself and did everything...even what wasn't asked. I won't go into the pain I felt/experienced and the warping of myself that I allowed but needless to say I am ROCK SOLID now. I guess I have her to thank for never allowing myself or anyone to destroy me or my psyche ever again. I look back on who I was then and after her I'm proud of the ugly but new me. All up in the mud and sewer...but it shines and feels good. 🙂

Do you consider yourself jaded now? Do you find yourself wanting to give more but hold back for fear of being rejected or hurt?

And there it is.

lol Im still making baby steps with this guy. I dont remember feeling so torn about someone ever. When I get too close to him I almost find myself pulling him to me with one hand and pushing him away with the other. He knows I like him, I feel embarrased by this in a way, although he's told me that he likes me too. I met his cousin who's been visiting with him for a couple weeks. His cousin, who was very entertaining, expressed that he was happy to meet me and he was glad I was there because he had began to wonder about Virguys orientation being that I was the only woman he saw him with since he's been here. lol I took that with a grain of salt. I guess Im still swayed by a lot of my male friends saying men dont/cant go without sex. Any virguy input?

Posted by Let*It*Be
"Omg this is so true..even though my Virgo does express his feelings alot with me but they do expect more than what they are willing to give..."


...however, if you are patient enough to stick it out (you're a bullette..I have no doubt about your capability of patience), the reward is threefold. When Virgo is ready to cave and give himself ALL to you, the end result is beautiful. He gives...and he gives...and he gives..(the typical Virgo that is)

Oh yes Im sure of that LIB, thank you for your words...I love to hear how you express about Virgos..Virgo is so refreshing. I will be patiant for him and God knows I have been 🙂

Sorry its taken my long to get back. I kind of felt a power struggle between him and his cousin...I didnt even ask about that I just enjoyed my time with Virguy. I know he wasn't going to introduce me to him and just told me we could hang out at his spot when his cousin left...Im not sure what changed his mind. I know he practically had to push him out the door so we could get some QT in lol. As far as me not being myself....where do I begin!I hold back ALOT with this guy because of one specific instance wherein I expressed my excitement about seeing him and he told me I had issues. We talked about it because it was really a hand on the burner moment. He said he was just playing, but it really pulled the rug from under me because as a Cap moon it took a lot for me to even express it. I was ready to stop dealing with him and took a break but we randomly ran into one another in the grocery store and I had to admit I missed him. I want to be expressive but when I am he looks overwhelmed or skeptical. I recieved a lot of guidance to keep my intentions pure and they are, I just dont know if that translates to his "language".

Mine was wierd... I think he was getting feelings... Or he just wasnt as experienced in relationships and realized he was way in over his head with me... He's 3 years younger than I and let me tell you he was very childish, selfish, and immature. Never dating younger again. He broke up with me because he scared himelf with assumptions and I was left in a state of what-the-fuckery. I though realized it was a blesssing in disguise cus he was a total social retard, lacked communication skills (I offered to try to help soothe his doubts but he was just too far up his ass... I mean.. "too in his head"). So I happily let go and now he's back... sending me texts saying he's sorrry, that he was an immature asshole, and taht you know it just happens... LMFAO. I wasnt goin to respond BUT realized he wouldnt stfu n laeve me alont until I did, so I simply replied with "Its cool, water under the bridge"

Hope that brings closure to him because Im really not interested.

I feel sorry for him actually. He blew it by being insecure.. All his friends give him shit for being a dumbass haha. Im still cool with his friends so I cant complain cus I made some cool friendships 😛!

I'm a virgo male, and I've always wanted to date a Taurus female 😉 My family is filled with Taurus'. I always find them funny, great to talk too, intelligent, and of course stubborn at times. Lately I've been seeing this Leo, just as friends, but I probably won't go any further.

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You're intense experiences with Virgos has piqued my curiosity.lol Do you remember the charts of these Virgos?

My experience with Virgos has been mixed. One of my best female friends is a Virgo and she is awesome. I love working with Virgos as well - amazing eye for detail and work ethic, if a little bit literal (even for a straight forward Taurus' tastes). I had a romantic relationship with a male Virgo for 5 or 6 years. I thought I was going to marry him but in hindsight i really dodged a bullet on that one. He was unaffectionate, highly critical of my body and life style , expected me to divulge all of my secrets while holding onto his own, and was also very distrustful. The sex was good though and the conversation was fantastic. He was highly intelligent and we could talk for hours about everything under the sun - current events, politics, novels, spirituality. But, I craved the affection and cuddles and kisses and no matter how many times I told him I needed that to be happy, he was highly uncomfortable with physical affection outside of sex. Plus gaining 10 pounds was like the worst sin imaginable to him. I'm not talking about a wholly transformed body here. I was focused on progressing my career and worked really long hours so there wasn't as much time for gym. I loved him though and I'm not sure whether I would ever try to make it work with a Virgo guy again because I think there are some fundamental incompatibilities between us, even though Taurus' and Virgos are supposed to be a match made in heaven. Plus my happy go lucky and carefree Sagittarius moon really irked him. He thought I was irresponsible and sure let me know it! In the end I was unhappy with him trying to "fix" me all the time - it made me feel unworthy in some way and insecure.

My experience with Virgos....

I made a quick description to my sister about Virgo men.

It's like having someone wrap a warm blanket around you while handing you a hot cup of cocoa.

The ability to make me feel safe without feeling threatened.

I can spot a Virgo, instantly.
Whenever I feel this way, I ask...while already knowing anyway.

They're very honest and direct about everything but their emotions.
They can be quite shy, reserved, observant, self-critical and notorious for putting on poker faces.
Sex and chemistry is addictive.
Whew!
They are methodical.
Very Methodical.
If he won you over.
He was planning to win you over.
But once he's one you over....
He will give himself a mental headache pointing out all your imperfections...
Instead of highlighting your positive attributes.
Very sensual.
Playful.
Boyish, innocent charm which makes us Bullettes melt.
Yes, every time! 🙂

However, the ending is never written between these two signs.

When I see my Virgo ex...I see potential corruption, those boyish innocent eyes...I have this urge to pull him into a nearby back alley, have my way with him, and show him who's boss.

Stop your nitpicking....

Over-analyzing...

Drop the pants.

And shut it up!

Excuse the typos one= won

Posted by TaurusBadGirl
"The ones Ive dealt with have always been the type that want you to go really hard to express your feelings while they play it extremely safe."


Omg this is so true..even though my Virgo does express his feelings alot with me but they do expect more than what they are willing to give...

+3

This is VERY true!

I'm divorcing a Virgo as we speak. 16 years of "me first" selfishness is enuff for me. Lie when the truth is better...in fact..he'd come home and tell me some lie about losing his job, watch me freak out, then casually say...naw,I didnt. and that's not the only thing...I began to realize he would choose what lie to come clean about and what lies not too. Got so sick of never believing him.

The biggest exagerater I've ever known.If it cost $ 100, he said $ 200. Obnoxious...even his friends told me he was too damn obnoxious. Rude and proud of it. Manipulative...told me how manipulative his young daughter was toward his ex wife (not her mom) and he was proud of it. His family were the BEST, my family was the LOWEST. Even told his daughter and her friend that I was from the wrong side of the tracks. So many hurtful comments and insults to me and to my kids that I endured for the sake of "having a home life for my kids".

But, then...the oh woe is me routine, pity party from hell if he thought I wasn't agreeing to everything he liked or wanted. I worked right along beside him to make his dreams come true...boy toys...Les Paul Gibson guitar he never learned to play but had to have. Two brand new motorcycles....last one a 105th edition Harley. Never any money for the things I wanted...all I ever wanted was to put some remodeling into the house we bought (his family home btw) but we never had money for that. So selfish!

Drug addict for many years..the bad stuff. I helped him thru that but I couldnt help his additude about so many other things. I left him a few months back....don't you know I tore his heart out and fed it to the dogs...so he says. I haven't cried yet...but then again...I cried for the last 10 years of our marriage...

Posted by TaurusBadGirl
To my Bulletts, how was your experience with the Virguy? What were some of the things that turned you off about them? What did you love most about them? What is the reason you are not with them today? And finally can you describe his worst and best traits?

Thank you in advance🙂

I'm not a Taurus but I can tell you that when I dated a Virgo man, they were absolutely in love with how they looked, how they looked to others was a BIG deal. Waaay to egotistical for me. He had to make it very clear he was the most mature one. Kinda selfish (He would take for himself before offering to another) Worried sooo much about financial matters, and never organized with it.

I'm new here, but I would say that I have mixed feelings about Virguys... I think a lot of stuff depends on their age or how emotionally mature they are. My father is a Virgo and he's the greatest man that I know. He works hard every day (and he's 64) he loves my mother a Pisces his crazy opposite, and he's amazingly enciteful and expressive when he's with me, and gives the best advice. However, my younger friends and ex (around the age of 25-30) were emotional hot messes. They were dark in a way that was humorous, always wanting to exact revenge for a perceived wrong but never doing it. They had anger issues, and were manipulative in a way that made them seem innocent, and they could justify just about anything. The logic of a Virgo, I have learned, is based on the theory of The Ends Must Justify the Means, which we all know not to be true in all circumstances. I do believe that Virgos have everything incorporated in their sign to be the best in this world, but they just need to grow into their sign, learn how to relax without just crashing, and for goodness sakes stop worrying about being Perfect. If a Taurus can teach a Virgo anything it's to just play sometimes.

This thread is very interesting ! ok i'll try to make it quick ! Taurusbull 1977 has said it VERY WELL !

PROS:

SEX IS AMAZING ! he knows how to work u in bed
He reads me like no other
He's persistence
He's consistence
He likes the chase !
We are very compatible so we hardly fight ever except for his commitment phobia

Cons:

SLOW
Indecisiveness
Commitment issues
Perfectionist

He's my ex of 2.5 years. Best relationship ever the only thing is he's got a bit of commitment phobia so there was never US ..it was usually about him...so it was a matual break up and i put my foot down and walked away. He's still chasing me.. even though he still can't make up his mind whether he wants 2 marry me or not ! weighing up my pros and cons i think.
he went out of his way to make me feel special on my birthday 2 days ago ! made me feel very special !! i know I got him ...he's just...slow... he keeps telling me i'm the most amazing person... they like you if u r

FUN ..Makes him laugh ..Loyal...Warm..Sweet...Care for others.. and..naughty in bed 🙂 doesn't make him bored.