What's going on here?
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by sweethearts on Wednesday, January 1, 2014 and has 13 replies.
Taurus guy I met 5 months ago has befriended me. Nothings happened between us and he has never asked me out but sometimes texts or PM's or calls me for various reasons but always talks about himself personally. What he is doing with his life and also asks for financial advice, he's looking at buying an apartment and I have Real Estate knowledge. We have met through a group of mutual friends who I spend a lot of time with but he doesn't get the invites as much. I figured out after about 6-8 weeks into this new friendship that he wasn't interested in me other than he's lonely and wanting to get into my circle of friends more, so I don't ever text or call him but always answer to his.
Anyway, last night NYE he texted me an early Happy New Year before the text lines were jammed up. I was already in the swing of partying and didn't text back, plus I don't send those wishes until after it does become New Year. An hour and a half later and at 11.00pm he texts "Obviously not cool enough for you to text back." I'm like WTF?? Showed my bbf and she couldn't believe it either. I mean the guy hasn't shown any interest in me but rather wants an in to my circle of friends through me...he even confirmed that he wants this in one conversation we were having. I don't see him hardly at all, only talk or message through FB and mobile. Then around 2.00am after my bff puts up on FB where we were drinking he shows up!!! Comes straight up to me, I say Happy New Year and give him a kiss on the cheek. I'm pretty wasted by this time and he says something about not being cool and walks up to the bar. He offers to buy me a drink and I say no but he insists so I have another champagne. We decide to go across the road to the casino with my gf and a guy she has met and while we are walking there he says he needs to go to the toilet and then goes home. I ring him once we are inside and he doesn't answer and I haven't heard from him at all....
What the hell was that all about??
Anyway, last night NYE he texted me an early Happy New Year before the text lines were jammed up. I was already in the swing of partying and didn't text back, plus I don't send those wishes until after it does become New Year. An hour and a half later and at 11.00pm he texts "Obviously not cool enough for you to text back." I'm like WTF?? Showed my bbf and she couldn't believe it either. I mean the guy hasn't shown any interest in me but rather wants an in to my circle of friends through me...he even confirmed that he wants this in one conversation we were having. I don't see him hardly at all, only talk or message through FB and mobile. Then around 2.00am after my bff puts up on FB where we were drinking he shows up!!! Comes straight up to me, I say Happy New Year and give him a kiss on the cheek. I'm pretty wasted by this time and he says something about not being cool and walks up to the bar. He offers to buy me a drink and I say no but he insists so I have another champagne. We decide to go across the road to the casino with my gf and a guy she has met and while we are walking there he says he needs to go to the toilet and then goes home. I ring him once we are inside and he doesn't answer and I haven't heard from him at all....
What the hell was that all about??
I would say that he likes you and I don't know anything about Taurus guys but if I (Gemini) did all that especially coming to where you are it's probably because I'm mad your out and too see if your with someone. guys are funny creatures lol.
as for being in your circle of friends, I doubt that's why he's talking to you. He could want to be in your circle of friends but not without you. Some guys tend to talk in circles. Maybe it's the attention you give or in this case didn't' give him (answering the text.
I would say he wanted to see you and spend time with you not go across the street with your friend and party. idk good luck :-)
tell him how you feel!
as for being in your circle of friends, I doubt that's why he's talking to you. He could want to be in your circle of friends but not without you. Some guys tend to talk in circles. Maybe it's the attention you give or in this case didn't' give him (answering the text.
I would say he wanted to see you and spend time with you not go across the street with your friend and party. idk good luck :-)
tell him how you feel!
Ok, let me try to help you out a little here :-)
I'm Taurus so is my man - Your Taurus male does like you!! He is sussing you out, seeing what your world is all about, the chances are if he talks to you, mostly he is looking away! That's a sure sign he likes you.
They need their space, need to feel comfy that you can cope with this, the key to understanding male bulls is to be there when they want you to be... sounds selfish yes! but it's their way of getting to know you and your ways, the second you stop contact or don't reply is the time he comes running back to you. The fact he turned up where you were last night is he is making his presence known and his little dig at you is to show you he has a denting ego lol
If you really like this guy, tell him! Dont get to heavy, just slip it into a conversation, if he makes you laugh, say to him... That's one of the things I like a about you....Then back off. let him digest it, I'm afraid with Bulls, its normally their way or no way, you have to fit in their routine and if you find him slowly fitting you in his life your on the right track
male bulls are slow, they plod along at their pace and their pace only :-)
Good luck
I'm Taurus so is my man - Your Taurus male does like you!! He is sussing you out, seeing what your world is all about, the chances are if he talks to you, mostly he is looking away! That's a sure sign he likes you.
They need their space, need to feel comfy that you can cope with this, the key to understanding male bulls is to be there when they want you to be... sounds selfish yes! but it's their way of getting to know you and your ways, the second you stop contact or don't reply is the time he comes running back to you. The fact he turned up where you were last night is he is making his presence known and his little dig at you is to show you he has a denting ego lol
If you really like this guy, tell him! Dont get to heavy, just slip it into a conversation, if he makes you laugh, say to him... That's one of the things I like a about you....Then back off. let him digest it, I'm afraid with Bulls, its normally their way or no way, you have to fit in their routine and if you find him slowly fitting you in his life your on the right track
male bulls are slow, they plod along at their pace and their pace only :-)
Good luck
If he does he seriously has me fooled. I'm the type that if I want something I go and get it but when it comes to dating then it's in the mans court and he needs to come after me. In the beginning, there was interest on my part but after all this time, he's now been friend zoned. I've learned a fair bit about the guy and things he does and says annoy me. Like the 2nd text, all I thought was wtf? What a cheek, as if he has any reason to get shitty with me!! Trying to F*** up my New Years like a jealous insecure Bf!!
As a friend, I'm happy with that but I can't deal with the pace...that tells me a lot about him and I'm a runner in everything I do.
As a friend, I'm happy with that but I can't deal with the pace...that tells me a lot about him and I'm a runner in everything I do.
Then I'm afraid to say Sweethearts, he is not the man for you 
male bulls do most stuff fast, here they and everywhere doing 6 things at once, but when it comes to love and relationships they they plod along at snails pace lol
male bulls do most stuff fast, here they and everywhere doing 6 things at once, but when it comes to love and relationships they they plod along at snails pace lolThanks HB, I know he isn't the man for me. That was my decision after the first month. I just don't understand where he thinks he is coming from with his actions last night. I mean, I haven't given him any impression whatsoever that I am romantically interested, I reply to his messages but I don't ask him to out anywhere. I have only seen him face to face 3 times in the 5 months but it seems he has built up a relationship in his head that is more than friendship!
Then I'm afraid his star sign has nothing to do with this behavior, he is clearly deluded lol if you have no interest in him a plain and simple ... go forth and multiply maybe needed haha
@ GLL, in my circle of friends my gf is engaged to an up and coming sports man and we spend a fair bit of time hanging out bbqing, partying and watching this sport. I picked it a few months ago when I was analyzing why he never asked me out but continually kept in contact. He confirmed it in a convo we had saying that he noticed that he doesn't get invites like he use to because his friend had fallen out with his brother (the sportsman)
Posted by HappyBull
Then I'm afraid his star sign has nothing to do with this behavior, he is clearly deluded lol if you have no interest in him a plain and simple ... go forth and multiply maybe needed haha
I don't feel I need to have the talk, I'm a Libra don't like any form of confrontation. I just won't be so quick to answer his texts and PM's from now, he'll figure it out.
I think earth signs...well I know caps for sure, and I believe Taurus too are actually shy when really interested. I know personally I look away and somewhat ignore whoever I like. When my Taurus friend had that weird behaviour towards this Cancer I knew he was interested lol. Yeah, some are weird like that.
Posted by lnana04
I think earth signs...well I know caps for sure, and I believe Taurus too are actually shy when really interested. I know personally I look away and somewhat ignore whoever I like. When my Taurus friend had that weird behaviour towards this Cancer I knew he was interested lol. Yeah, some are weird like that.
yep yep.
The more I thought about it the more I got annoyed, so I PM'd him this morning and said "care to explain what that was all about the other night?"
Haven't heard anything back and tbh not expecting to but he won't be pulling that shit on me again~!
Haven't heard anything back and tbh not expecting to but he won't be pulling that shit on me again~!
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by lnana04
I think earth signs...well I know caps for sure, and I believe Taurus too are actually shy when really interested. I know personally I look away and somewhat ignore whoever I like. When my Taurus friend had that weird behaviour towards this Cancer I knew he was interested lol. Yeah, some are weird like that.
yep yep.click to expand
im a Taurus female and i get shy and show lack of interest even though on the inside my heart is beating out of my chest. Dont let the myth of "the man should take the lead" exploring what could be. Ps ive had a guy do the same weird bullbutter to me and he is a libra.
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