What's up with this Taurus
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Ariesgirlellen09876 on Wednesday, March 18, 2015 and has 13 replies.
Could really do with some advice!
I have known this taurus for years, and a few months ago we just got talking again on social media. He was very flirty to begin with, texting pretty much everyday, we met up quite a few times too. Then a couple of months after he brought up the topic of us, and that he didn't know what he wanted, but still wanted to keep seeing me, but thought he should just let me know where he stood, which is fair enough! I had just come out of a very long relationship myself and wasn't looking to jump right into another, but was fairly happy with how things were with this Taurus. I saw him a few days after valentines day ( we didn't spend it together) but since then have barely heard from him? He takes ages to reply back to a text, if he remembers to at all...
Is this a thing taurus do? Does he still like me but just distancing himself? I completely understand he has been busy at work, but really how busy are you to reply to a text??
I thought things were going good? He was very touchy feely and affectionate, and generally acted in a way i wouldn't expect someone to if they just wanted to put their end away if you get my drift!
Any input would be awesome
I have known this taurus for years, and a few months ago we just got talking again on social media. He was very flirty to begin with, texting pretty much everyday, we met up quite a few times too. Then a couple of months after he brought up the topic of us, and that he didn't know what he wanted, but still wanted to keep seeing me, but thought he should just let me know where he stood, which is fair enough! I had just come out of a very long relationship myself and wasn't looking to jump right into another, but was fairly happy with how things were with this Taurus. I saw him a few days after valentines day ( we didn't spend it together) but since then have barely heard from him? He takes ages to reply back to a text, if he remembers to at all...
Is this a thing taurus do? Does he still like me but just distancing himself? I completely understand he has been busy at work, but really how busy are you to reply to a text??
I thought things were going good? He was very touchy feely and affectionate, and generally acted in a way i wouldn't expect someone to if they just wanted to put their end away if you get my drift!
Any input would be awesome
If a Taurus stops texting you and isn't even replying at all I am going to say he is uninterested. If it happened maybe twice and you initiated conversation in those times and he was instantly replying then maybe he was busy or had something else going on. But normally if a Taurus guy is interested he wants to see you all the time, text you all the time, you will KNOW he is interested. I would move on honestly.
This is the thing he is replying, just a couple of days later.. ( and usually always apologising for having taken so long), was just such a change from how he was at the beginning!
Maybe you've fallen off his priority list or something. Coupled with being focused on other things. Maybe your text doesn't require a response or is kinda mundane. Text him a sexy pic, like one of those kinda innocent not on purpose poses or something that might gain his attention (nothing sordid or porn style). Maybe it will make him smile and think of you or something. I dunno. I'm not a Taurus dude.
If it were me I'd probably just go quiet and see if he notices. If he notices and initiates then take it from there. If he doesn't notice then you have your answer.
Or I'd do the sexy pic thing
If it were me I'd probably just go quiet and see if he notices. If he notices and initiates then take it from there. If he doesn't notice then you have your answer.
Or I'd do the sexy pic thing
sounds like this ship has sailed.
If it is this much work to get his attention imagine the effort it is going to take to maintain that attention.
Everything does not have to end in happily ever after. It can end happily...after.
Hold your head high and proceed to the nearest exit.
Everything does not have to end in happily ever after. It can end happily...after.
Hold your head high and proceed to the nearest exit.
Yeeah I think I am just going to play it a bit cool from now on, just go off the radar a bit and see what happens! I've read so many posts on here that this is what taurus do.. Kind of pull back a bit...is this true?
Tbh if he's not interested I would rather he just come out and tell me!
Tbh if he's not interested I would rather he just come out and tell me!
Posted by Ariesgirlellen09876
Yeeah I think I am just going to play it a bit cool from now on, just go off the radar a bit and see what happens! I've read so many posts on here that this is what taurus do.. Kind of pull back a bit...is this true?
Tbh if he's not interested I would rather he just come out and tell me!
imo, once they know they are interested they don't pull back. they might be hesitant at first but once they are sure you've given them the green light they will make themselves very apparent and very clear in their intentions. if you have to guess then it's likely they are not so keen. they leave no room for confusion.
Who said sending pictures accidentally?
How on earth do you send a picture accidently?
I was referring to the type of picture.
How on earth do you send a picture accidently?
I was referring to the type of picture.
Nope.
@AriesGirlEllen,
1. When he's affectionate with you, do you reciprocate it?
2. How often do you text? How often do you call? Do you text more than you call?
3. When you do communicate, is it consistent, or sporadic?
4. You mentioned that he's busy @ work, did his hours at work change since you met him? Has he opened up about any financial difficulties he's having? Is he on his money hustle?
1. When he's affectionate with you, do you reciprocate it?
2. How often do you text? How often do you call? Do you text more than you call?
3. When you do communicate, is it consistent, or sporadic?
4. You mentioned that he's busy @ work, did his hours at work change since you met him? Has he opened up about any financial difficulties he's having? Is he on his money hustle?
@taurusbull1977 yes definitely, hes playful, either holding my hand, or rubbing my neck, or cuddling in bed. Even after seeing him after Valentine's day. We text more than we call, since mid feb it's been a couple of texts a week? Hes always busy on weekends, and I know his boss is being an arse at work to him.. Never opens up about anything like that!
@evalani05 very true words! Don't get me wrong I'm not losing sleep over this, I just feel like I've done something wrong for him to suddenly distance himself! I have demanded so little of him time for him to think in suffocating him
@evalani05 very true words! Don't get me wrong I'm not losing sleep over this, I just feel like I've done something wrong for him to suddenly distance himself! I have demanded so little of him time for him to think in suffocating him
Thankyou @evalani05! Just going to retreat a bit and see what's happens, he's text me today so going to just wait a while and see! I agree, I'm not one for playing games either! Any other taurus man traits I should be aware
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