When Taurus women cry, are they serious?

My(ex)girlfriend (Taurus sun and moon) pulled some weird stunt on me (Aqua sun and moon) weeks back, which I was not happy with... Of course she also disappeared and decided not to contact me. *Sigh* I'll never get that.

I was, of course super sad by this because I love her... So about 2 hours ago I decided I had enough of her weird stunts and called her on her crap, even though we are not together anymore, I just need to know why this happened. I told her that if she was going to do this for longer I'm out forever because I can't deal with it no matter how much I love her. Our relationship was always different, her Taurus pov and my Aqua pov made it hard for us sometimes, we're so different yet so attracted to each other. I don't understand her and she doesn't understand me. We tried making it work by letting the other do as wanted and not push things on each other which we were not able to understand, But when I started doing just that she snapped and took everything back because I'm hers and no one else's.

So, on the phone she started crying and telling me everything, I've known her for 5 years and maybe saw her cry 2 times before... So, I was taken aback by this to say the least.

Anyway... Can I trust her that she means it? I'm okay with her making mistakes which I find hard to deal with because when we started dating I knew exactly how she was in her behavior and most of the time I just give her the space that she needs. But the disappearing... Ouch! She just needs to tell me she needs space and I'm fine with it! More than fine because I love some space now and then too!

Why is she making this so hard on herself? I've been okay with whatever weird things she is going through as long as she tells me she's fine and that I don't need to worry about her.

What would you do? Give her another chance? Or do they just keep on disappearing without a word forever? I can deal with our weird and opposite pov's but not with her doing that.

Thanks so much! You're a Taurus too? Could you always talk about your feelings, or did you have to learn too?

Posted by robyn808
huh? this doesn't even make sense.. is it just me?

you know she needs space but you need her to tell you she needs space?

your ok with whatever weird things she is going through as long as she tells you she's fine and that I don't need to worry about her. but what if she's not fine? are you ok with that?

if she's not talking to you she's not fine. she's getting to fine, you can't make her fine... she has to find fine all on her own.

this is just confusing me.

I get that it is kinda confusing, sorry about that! What I mean is: I know she needs space from time to time but she just needs to tell me so I don't worry, and that if there is something I can do for het to make her feel better, she can tell me and I will do it! She can do whatever she wants, I just need to know why and if she's feeling okay. And no, of course I don't want her to tell me she's fine when she's not... That is not what I meant. But she is kind of a wild child and goes out a lot so sometimes I worry she gets into trouble, last week she lost her drivers license and all so I can't sleep when I know she's out.

Posted by MilkySoft
We don't put on emotional shows for people, so you can count on it being sincere. She felt guilty after the "stunt" but couldn't communicate her feelings so she disappeared. It built up and once you demanded an explanation that's why the tears were there.

Whether or not she deserves another chance, I don't know. She needs to learn how to communicate her feelings instead of shutting down in face of them. A lot of Taureans have to learn this lesson.

+1000

Very well stated.
I, too, had to learn this lesson.

Ok. I can understand that, she can be very aggressive when pushed so I wouldn't even dare 😛
I'm mostly very open about things so I'm trying to learn her way, but Taurus and Aqua haha damn...
I know that I need to move on if this doesn't work, but I'd like to try one more time.

If she texts me she needs space I'll just answer "Okay, but please let me know if I can do something to help and let me know when you're ready again" But with a little more sweet lovey words and all... so that she knows I'm not mad or anything.

Would that be an ok reaction?

MilkySoft and Robyn (both Bulls) offered very good advice.

Bulls (no shaded areas, just two extremes)...

Depending on the Mercury aspect of a Taurus, communication with a Bull can often be quite challenging.

The main objective/challenge for a Taurus is to find a middle ground.

Some of us can shut down communication completely (just to avoid confrontation, maintaining a level peace and happiness).

=Or=

Some of us can just explode, chaaaarge at you, lose our tempers uncontrollably, or possibly suffer from a diahhrea of the mouth if pushed too far (saying or doing things we may regret later).

Posted by Helena88


If she texts me she needs space I'll just answer "Okay, but please let me know if I can do something to help and let me know when you're ready again" But with a little more sweet lovey words and all... so that she knows I'm not mad or anything.

"Okay, but please let me know if I can do something to help and let me know when you're ready again" 🙂

This^^^^^

With a happy-faced emoticon. With Bulls it's all about sincerity and simplicity. Less is best.

This was real. Taurus are VERY sensitive. Which is why they can come off cold, protective mode. My big strong Warrior like Taurus teared up bc I kissed him so sweetly. That was real.

She's being vulnerable. Be really careful with her. It's hard for them.