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Why are you guys so confusing ?!
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@OP-Well how do you know each other? Just say like hey I heard Star Wars is great would you like to see it with me or any other movie you've been wanting to see or get some pie at a local restaurant/bakery.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428We are in the same university.
@OP-Well how do you know each other? Just say like hey I heard Star Wars is great would you like to see it with me or any other movie you've been wanting to see or get some pie at a local restaurant/bakery.
Take initiative for the moment and guage his reaction when asking him out then. We can be shy though.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428But, what about ignoring ? I've noticed this so much. He starts ignoring out of nowhere.
Take initiative for the moment and guage his reaction when asking him out then. We can be shy though.
He might have a gff or not and maybe you are intimidating towards him, maybe it's your actions when you're around him.
I did say that just not too detailed like @wicked mentions. She always seems to add to what I don't or do mention in way not so intense. As intense I get. From now on @wicked knows Taurus better than most people. Lol
@wicked it was a complimentary comments about you. Lol. I mean you know a thing or two. Haha.
Sometimes I would be the first one on a new thread on Taurus and I think okay where's @wicked and @ idk..
how to be more detailed or uplifting in my response.
how to be more detailed or uplifting in my response.
Merry Christmas to you and happy new years!
Posted by KoniuchaThis is the sketchiest pairing of opposites along with Aquas and Leos.
Oh come one. Of course it can work. Just because you don't like, doesn't men it won't for at all. Goodness.
Posted by busyeyes88It matters the degrees of a square or opposite. If it is exact it will be ugly unless the two are mature. Virgo Pisces are OK the are both selfless signs that like helping people. As long as the Pisces kinda has it's shit together and the Virgo isn't too critcal cool.Posted by frostey91Thanks. Another person who can see that polar opposite don't work...Posted by KoniuchaThis is the sketchiest pairing of opposites along with Aquas and Leos.
Oh come one. Of course it can work. Just because you don't like, doesn't men it won't for at all. Goodness.
Also you mention aqua and leo. Well leo is my rising and m y descendant is aqua.. My ex hubby was indeed an aqua!! Pure hell!!!
So.why these two opposite keep going at it is beyond me!'click to expand
Scorp Vs. Taurus ugly and Leo Aqua ugly typically.
Posted by wickedWhat if he tried to approach but I acted unapproachable (by accident). Do you think he will try again?
It's called panic attack lol
They are called bulls for many reasons. Bull headed,meek,receptive, slow, slow to anger.... If he stares at you a lot, his body language says he is into you but ignores you when u approach him? Maybe he feels way too much? Or he has a gf and doesn't want to rock the boat?
Why don't u encourage him to approach you? Shy smiles, eye contacts loads and loads of eye contacts should do it.
If he believes you are not going to chew him off, he will trust you enough to approach you 😉
I have tried several times saying hello and did say it but like I said in my previous posts, he seemed scared to talk to me and one time I heard him say Hi back 5sec AFTER I had walked away. I'm the one who feels rejected at this point but his body language reads different. So how do I make him feel manly without actually wearing tight clothes and stilettos because I can't walk in them. Knowing me I would make a fool of myself! LOL!!
Btw, I did that slow sensual walk with eye contact many months ago not with intention but feeling drawn to him at the moment. Time froze at that moment. His eyes were glued to me too..then when I got close, he turned around real fast and looked at the ground with a huge smile on his face!
i think you just need to give this boy some time. bear in mind though, it could take years! so just do your thing, try to grasp an opportunity if it presents itself, and if it doesn't, hopefully one day, he will have caught up.
in the meantime be your usual sexy self, be friendly and be as open to approach as you can be.
in the meantime be your usual sexy self, be friendly and be as open to approach as you can be.
Posted by wickedThere's a lot of truth in this, but a lot of it is context-dependent. Firstly, there's the matter of comfort that you suggest. If I'm already feeling uncomfortable around a person just off the energy, sexing things up isn't the way to make me feel more comfortable; it'll do the opposite so be careful there. Getting to know me organically, as a friend, is the best route to go in that case. With the Scorp I had a crush on, she started getting more and more sexual with the seduction, and it just made it so that there was so much tension and awkwardness there, and we're already heading off in a physical direction too quickly, it just made it less likely that I'd ever initiate. Sometimes that physical chemistry is so strong between two people that they can't *help* but start seducing each other. Those situations can be REALLY awkward though, and I've often found that I wind up in a stalemate situation like this aqua is with her bull. Best way to go with a shy bull is not try to seduce them into approaching IMO, but to initiate convo in a more natural/friendly manner, help them to feel comfortable. The attraction is already there and causes *shyness*, so increasing his physical attraction will probably only increase shyness.
When you say you accidentally ignored him, did you cut him off in front of other people? Now that would be considered disrespectful. A bull is all about the respect. For us air signs, it is the need to prove our intelluctual abilities. For them it is all about their ego. Pride. They are very proud. Yes even they ones who seem meek.
So its impossible for you to walk up to him in a slow sensual manner, while maintaining eye contacts, look all feminine and sultry, smile and RUN away? Lol? Walk up to him and say hello. That difficult huh?
Then keep up with the eye contacts, long prolonged eye contacts, arch your body a bit, stretch your legs(wear stilettos)touch your neck slowly with your fingers, turn and look at him, hold his eye contact for a few seconds, look away and get on with your work.
This actually used worked for me when I was in my early twenties and I wanted a guy to approach me. Lol
Seriously, he may not approach you. Unless you make him feel "safe". He should feel you wont be rude to him. A bull struggles with rejection. They take it too personally.
U can keep up with the eye contacts. Smile. BLUSH. MAKE HIM FEEL ALL MANLY - with your body language.When a bull knows he makes you feel all feminine and warm, thats when they charge. You will be surprised.
If I were you, I would tske advantage of this season and wish him Merry Christmas! That should be an ice breaker.
Posted by aqualady0118I've experienced this exact thing so many times. Our behavior can often really invite women to seduce us. That's actually what the Sextrology entry on bulls says (which I think is really uncanny in its accuracy in some areas) - we have "seduce me" written all over us, in the way we carry ourselves. Our sensual nature is conveyed somehow, so this seems like the path to approach from. I have actually seen women act sexually seductive in ways towards me, to where they seem to go much further than they normally would, making themselves seem much more sexually-focused than they actually are, and then are a bit ashamed later. When this kind of seduction has happened to me though, especially if its a person that naturally intimidates me or makes me shy, it actually makes it harder to approach. It feels like there is now a lot of pressure and expectation - and now maybe for the wrong thing. Obviously, I'm getting the signal loud and clear that this person is really turned on, obviously I'm also really turned on - its a HUGE ego boost as well. But at the same time, it almost like overloads my senses. It is hard to put into words, but it is like it triggers the physical so much that the animalistic side wants to take things to the physical *immediately*, but that's not really what I'm all about when it comes to women, or how I ever approach things, so it creates an internal conflict; I now have to suppress how aroused I am physically. I get even more awkward/shy/uncomfortable. What can happen here, is I just completely back off due to these feelings, and remain content with the consolation prize of the fantasy.
Btw, I did that slow sensual walk with eye contact many months ago not with intention but feeling drawn to him at the moment. Time froze at that moment. His eyes were glued to me too..then when I got close, he turned around real fast and looked at the ground with a huge smile on his face!
Posted by aqualady0118Each time this happens, it makes it extremely less likely that he will try again. Sometimes all it takes is one time. As wicked said, we (especially the shy ones) HATE rejection. For me, its my worst fear. I will take almost no risk regarding rejection. I usually will try to not even give off *anything* but a friend vibe until I am 100% sure the other person REALLY likes me (not just that they are curious). It seems unfair because I actually do what you did, all the time. But its just the way it is I guess....Posted by wickedWhat if he tried to approach but I acted unapproachable (by accident). Do you think he will try again?
It's called panic attack lol
They are called bulls for many reasons. Bull headed,meek,receptive, slow, slow to anger.... If he stares at you a lot, his body language says he is into you but ignores you when u approach him? Maybe he feels way too much? Or he has a gf and doesn't want to rock the boat?
Why don't u encourage him to approach you? Shy smiles, eye contacts loads and loads of eye contacts should do it.
If he believes you are not going to chew him off, he will trust you enough to approach you 😉click to expand
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioWell damn! Had I known you tauruses were this complicated I would've never laid eyes on him!! 😢Posted by aqualady0118I've experienced this exact thing so many times. Our behavior can often really invite women to seduce us. That's actually what the Sextrology entry on bulls says (which I think is really uncanny in its accuracy in some areas) - we have "seduce me" written all over us, in the way we carry ourselves. Our sensual nature is conveyed somehow, so this seems like the path to approach from. I have actually seen women act sexually seductive in ways towards me, to where they seem to go much further than they normally would, making themselves seem much more sexually-focused than they actually are, and then are a bit ashamed later. When this kind of seduction has happened to me though, especially if its a person that naturally intimidates me or makes me shy, it actually makes it harder to approach. It feels like there is now a lot of pressure and expectation - and now maybe for the wrong thing. Obviously, I'm getting the signal loud and clear that this person is really turned on, obviously I'm also really turned on - its a HUGE ego boost as well. But at the same time, it almost like overloads my senses. It is hard to put into words, but it is like it triggers the physical so much that the animalistic side wants to take things to the physical *immediately*, but that's not really what I'm all about when it comes to women, or how I ever approach things, so it creates an internal conflict; I now have to suppress how aroused I am physically. I get even more awkward/shy/uncomfortable. What can happen here, is I just completely back off due to these feelings, and remain content with the consolation prize of the fantasy.
Btw, I did that slow sensual walk with eye contact many months ago not with intention but feeling drawn to him at the moment. Time froze at that moment. His eyes were glued to me too..then when I got close, he turned around real fast and looked at the ground with a huge smile on his face!click to expand
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio@TLS, so aside from all these women throwing themselves at you lol, have you ever just gone after what you wanted without much hesitation? Was there one special lady in your life who you had to have? I'm very curious to know!Posted by aqualady0118I've experienced this exact thing so many times. Our behavior can often really invite women to seduce us. That's actually what the Sextrology entry on bulls says (which I think is really uncanny in its accuracy in some areas) - we have "seduce me" written all over us, in the way we carry ourselves. Our sensual nature is conveyed somehow, so this seems like the path to approach from. I have actually seen women act sexually seductive in ways towards me, to where they seem to go much further than they normally would, making themselves seem much more sexually-focused than they actually are, and then are a bit ashamed later. When this kind of seduction has happened to me though, especially if its a person that naturally intimidates me or makes me shy, it actually makes it harder to approach. It feels like there is now a lot of pressure and expectation - and now maybe for the wrong thing. Obviously, I'm getting the signal loud and clear that this person is really turned on, obviously I'm also really turned on - its a HUGE ego boost as well. But at the same time, it almost like overloads my senses. It is hard to put into words, but it is like it triggers the physical so much that the animalistic side wants to take things to the physical *immediately*, but that's not really what I'm all about when it comes to women, or how I ever approach things, so it creates an internal conflict; I now have to suppress how aroused I am physically. I get even more awkward/shy/uncomfortable. What can happen here, is I just completely back off due to these feelings, and remain content with the consolation prize of the fantasy.
Btw, I did that slow sensual walk with eye contact many months ago not with intention but feeling drawn to him at the moment. Time froze at that moment. His eyes were glued to me too..then when I got close, he turned around real fast and looked at the ground with a huge smile on his face!click to expand
He ignored me in plain view today and kept walking. No eye contact like before. What does this mean? He's over me?
Posted by aqualady0118Oh God... Don't get him started... Again!! ‰Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio@TLS, so aside from all these women throwing themselves at you lol, have you ever just gone after what you wanted without much hesitation? Was there one special lady in your life who you had to have? I'm very curious to know!Posted by aqualady0118I've experienced this exact thing so many times. Our behavior can often really invite women to seduce us. That's actually what the Sextrology entry on bulls says (which I think is really uncanny in its accuracy in some areas) - we have "seduce me" written all over us, in the way we carry ourselves. Our sensual nature is conveyed somehow, so this seems like the path to approach from. I have actually seen women act sexually seductive in ways towards me, to where they seem to go much further than they normally would, making themselves seem much more sexually-focused than they actually are, and then are a bit ashamed later. When this kind of seduction has happened to me though, especially if its a person that naturally intimidates me or makes me shy, it actually makes it harder to approach. It feels like there is now a lot of pressure and expectation - and now maybe for the wrong thing. Obviously, I'm getting the signal loud and clear that this person is really turned on, obviously I'm also really turned on - its a HUGE ego boost as well. But at the same time, it almost like overloads my senses. It is hard to put into words, but it is like it triggers the physical so much that the animalistic side wants to take things to the physical *immediately*, but that's not really what I'm all about when it comes to women, or how I ever approach things, so it creates an internal conflict; I now have to suppress how aroused I am physically. I get even more awkward/shy/uncomfortable. What can happen here, is I just completely back off due to these feelings, and remain content with the consolation prize of the fantasy.
Btw, I did that slow sensual walk with eye contact many months ago not with intention but feeling drawn to him at the moment. Time froze at that moment. His eyes were glued to me too..then when I got close, he turned around real fast and looked at the ground with a huge smile on his face!click to expand
Posted by aqualady0118Yeah, it means he's so over you. Fuck! Your world has just ended!
He ignored me in plain view today and kept walking. No eye contact like before. What does this mean? He's over me?
You question reads a bit like:
I tried on a pair of shoes today and they were a little big, does this mean they don't fit me? Do I need a smaller size? Should I change the style of the shoe? What a dilemma??!!
I don't know what it means. It probably means he ignored you in plain view and didn't make eye contact like before. You probably encounter this with many people you pass each day but you're placing significance on this one bloke as you like him. Do you notice if your teacher or work colleague walked passed you without making eye contact? Would it worry you so much? Probably not.
Have you said hello to him yet or what?
Posted by asc_scorp1991I don't know. I haven't ever communicated with him yet.Posted by thescorpiowomanIs his moon sign scorpio?
Is it a typical behaviour of a Taurus to suddenly ignore a person completely and then start taking notice of the person, another day ? I'm so confused by this one Taurus guy. It's been three months that I've observed him noticing me and he hasn't made a move yet. And every time I decide to make a move, he starts ignoring me, and his hard looks and weird behaviour turns me off.
I ddon't even know if I should wait or just move on.click to expand
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioBut, well, I haven't tried anything sensual yet. It's plain eye contact or well, it was. He started ignoring me and it has been two days since that. He probably knows that I like him too, because whenever he's around, my friend tells me so and I look around for him. And I've seen him noticing this a million times. So, when he knows that I like him too, why would he even start ignoring me like it never happened ?Posted by aqualady0118I've experienced this exact thing so many times. Our behavior can often really invite women to seduce us. That's actually what the Sextrology entry on bulls says (which I think is really uncanny in its accuracy in some areas) - we have "seduce me" written all over us, in the way we carry ourselves. Our sensual nature is conveyed somehow, so this seems like the path to approach from. I have actually seen women act sexually seductive in ways towards me, to where they seem to go much further than they normally would, making themselves seem much more sexually-focused than they actually are, and then are a bit ashamed later. When this kind of seduction has happened to me though, especially if its a person that naturally intimidates me or makes me shy, it actually makes it harder to approach. It feels like there is now a lot of pressure and expectation - and now maybe for the wrong thing. Obviously, I'm getting the signal loud and clear that this person is really turned on, obviously I'm also really turned on - its a HUGE ego boost as well. But at the same time, it almost like overloads my senses. It is hard to put into words, but it is like it triggers the physical so much that the animalistic side wants to take things to the physical *immediately*, but that's not really what I'm all about when it comes to women, or how I ever approach things, so it creates an internal conflict; I now have to suppress how aroused I am physically. I get even more awkward/shy/uncomfortable. What can happen here, is I just completely back off due to these feelings, and remain content with the consolation prize of the fantasy.
Btw, I did that slow sensual walk with eye contact many months ago not with intention but feeling drawn to him at the moment. Time froze at that moment. His eyes were glued to me too..then when I got close, he turned around real fast and looked at the ground with a huge smile on his face!click to expand
Posted by Rambunctious76A Scorpio.
Da hell is going on here??
I'm confused - is OP a Scorpio or an Aqua?
Posted by thescorpiowomanAnd also, he started ignoring me completely, just after he maybe, sensed that I have a liking towards him too.Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioBut, well, I haven't tried anything sensual yet. It's plain eye contact or well, it was. He started ignoring me and it has been two days since that. He probably knows that I like him too, because whenever he's around, my friend tells me so and I look around for him. And I've seen him noticing this a million times. So, when he knows that I like him too, why would he even start ignoring me like it never happened ?Posted by aqualady0118I've experienced this exact thing so many times. Our behavior can often really invite women to seduce us. That's actually what the Sextrology entry on bulls says (which I think is really uncanny in its accuracy in some areas) - we have "seduce me" written all over us, in the way we carry ourselves. Our sensual nature is conveyed somehow, so this seems like the path to approach from. I have actually seen women act sexually seductive in ways towards me, to where they seem to go much further than they normally would, making themselves seem much more sexually-focused than they actually are, and then are a bit ashamed later. When this kind of seduction has happened to me though, especially if its a person that naturally intimidates me or makes me shy, it actually makes it harder to approach. It feels like there is now a lot of pressure and expectation - and now maybe for the wrong thing. Obviously, I'm getting the signal loud and clear that this person is really turned on, obviously I'm also really turned on - its a HUGE ego boost as well. But at the same time, it almost like overloads my senses. It is hard to put into words, but it is like it triggers the physical so much that the animalistic side wants to take things to the physical *immediately*, but that's not really what I'm all about when it comes to women, or how I ever approach things, so it creates an internal conflict; I now have to suppress how aroused I am physically. I get even more awkward/shy/uncomfortable. What can happen here, is I just completely back off due to these feelings, and remain content with the consolation prize of the fantasy.
Btw, I did that slow sensual walk with eye contact many months ago not with intention but feeling drawn to him at the moment. Time froze at that moment. His eyes were glued to me too..then when I got close, he turned around real fast and looked at the ground with a huge smile on his face!click to expand
this thread makes me want to blow my brains out.
Posted by wickedRight. Right again. Ahhhh!!! You make perfect sense to me. You're a Gemini right? I love Geminis.
If a guy were to ignore me deliberately, I wld ignore him back. I wld make him work hard to even fall within my vision.. And if and when he does, he would thank his favourite God.
Never ever chase someone who chooses to ignore you. Let them know they cant get away with bad behaviour. There is a major difference btwn being shy and ignoring someone.
Hate these mind games btwn "fixed" signs.
Posted by wickedisn't ignoring someone because you felt they ignored you, a mind game?
If a guy were to ignore me deliberately, I wld ignore him back. I wld make him work hard to even fall within my vision.. And if and when he does, he would thank his favourite God.
Never ever chase someone who chooses to ignore you. Let them know they cant get away with bad behaviour. There is a major difference btwn being shy and ignoring someone.
Hate these mind games btwn "fixed" signs.
I think he's ignoring me because I accidently ignored him out of nervousness
I dont want to play mind games!!!!
Posted by wickedi don''t know, if someone ignores me. i shrug it off. i got bigger fish to fry than engaging in a bit of tit for tat.Posted by jeane@jeane:Posted by wickedisn't ignoring someone because you felt they ignored you, a mind game?
If a guy were to ignore me deliberately, I wld ignore him back. I wld make him work hard to even fall within my vision.. And if and when he does, he would thank his favourite God.
Never ever chase someone who chooses to ignore you. Let them know they cant get away with bad behaviour. There is a major difference btwn being shy and ignoring someone.
Hate these mind games btwn "fixed" signs.
I would never ever ignore someone I want to have in my life. Whether they are going to have a major or a minor part is secondary. If someone ignores me and if it is obvious to me it was out of shyness and not because of deliberate rudeness I would never ignore them back.
Ignoring because I want to hurt them, make them feel insecure, to get the upper hand so I can get a hold on them— Thats sick.
Fixed signs have this problem. Have seen it. Any unintended slights are taken personally. And it kills the warmth you feel for the person.
Im a simple woman jeane, with simple needs. I like it when people are easy going :-)click to expand
as for "letting them know they can't get away with bad behaviour". oh god, so boring! they are not a puppy you are toilet training. if he continues to ignore her then he has shown himself to not be the person for her. keep moving, keep looking, the end. it's not a big deal.
it may be the way fixed signs deal with thing but what a massive waste of time on a guy you haven't even had a conversation with.
Posted by wickedit depends who it is. if it is a friend or loved one, i will ask them if they are ignoring me and why and we'll work it out.
If someone deliberately ignores you? What do u do?
I walk away. But I do take them back if they dont drag it on for days..otherwise I tend to disappear.
If their behaviour hurt me badly? I never react. Even when they r right infront of me, I wont see them. I move on.
Problem with aqualady is without having a conversation, she has invested loads of hours into this guy. Love happens.
if it is some guy i have a crush on? i shrug, consider him a bit of a dick and then i will think no more of it. i might be disappointed but that would last for about 5 minutes. if and when he talks to me again i'll say "hey, i got the feeling you were ignoring me the other day?" that's it.
the only people who hurt me are my loved ones. the rest i couldn't give two shits. i don't get hurt by them. that's there issue they have to contend with. i won't take it upon myself to deal with their bullshit.
she is not in love with him. they've not even had a conversation! she has invested a lot in the fantasy. ironically that's the reality of this situation.
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Posted by wickedI will sit and relax alright. And while I do that I will be moving on with my life. No more games. I just want to stop thinking about him altogether. 😢Posted by aqualady0118Oh the games begin.
He ignored me in plain view today and kept walking. No eye contact like before. What does this mean? He's over me?
He wants a reaction from you.
Now its upto.
Do u wanna 'play?'
Once a sweet taurean guy who was into me tried to play hard to get.(I'm repeating this story on this board)
He ignored me at work. Chatted up a hot gal who sits next to me. I wasnt worried because I know I was considered a bombshell. Modest me lol.
Didnt cal me that day.
I didnt bother to call him.
Called me the next day and said he has a major crush on a hot doctor who he met the day before.
So I encouraged him to date her and not waste my time. I was super blunt.
He apologised! And changed the topic to me.
So dont fall for their games.
Be smart. Dont run after him. Sit and relax.Dont lift a finger.click to expand
Posted by aqualady0118I ignored my Scorp crush a lot - wasn't always a game or mirroring though. When you truly know what its like to be obsessed with someone before really being familiar with them on a personal level, you will understand why ignoring is a necessity. When you are obsessed, the person is in your mind, all day every day. If you were to look at them and acknowledge them as often as you would like to, you have to worry about violating their personal space. If I am attracted that strongly, I want to stare all the time but that is majorly inappropriate, especially at work. You also are forced to ignore or avoid sometimes because of the sheer intensity of feelings overwhelming you, causing extreme anxiety, sometimes sweating, etc. That kind of energy causes such a strong
I think he's ignoring me because I accidently ignored him out of nervousness
phsyical response. You have experienced it your self. If its mutual bc of the synastry between you two, you can easily get caught in this mutual ignoring. You ignore him, he is super sensitive to this bc of his attraction, and you have already caught him staring at you, so he takes it as a rejection of his expressed interest, or negative message of some sort...then he retreats to give you your space, and wait to see if you will seek him out in some way...The Scorp and I went back and forth with the ignoring, sometimes ignoring for almost 2 weeks, then there would be a sort of truce - a reunion and the staring would start up again even worse than before....
There can be many reasons to ignore, especially when the only communication is through body language and hence such great opportunity for miscommunication. You feel ignored now, though you dont know the reason, so maybe you will ignore next time out of personal pride, which I see you have a lot of. Then you are sending him another signal thatbhe has to interpret....on and on it goes until you approach your shy bull. The shy bull wont chase though...If you are still waiting for that, it is gonna be a while....
Posted by aqualady0118Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by aqualady0118I have never had to pursue, no. My first love was a Cancer. I remember passing her in the hallway for literally a YEAR and just staring at her. lol. She was obviously also attracted and it just became something that we would both bever miss, same time, same place, every day...walking by each othet, unbroken eye contact. Then one day she, out of what seemed like frusteation, approaches a friend of a friend of mine and says 'So...does he like me or what?'....lol, and that was my first LTR...Since then its all been just about equally retarded onmy end. The women have gotten more bold though. All my subsequent LTRs, the woman initiated convo, asked me out, etc. and fairly quickly. The one that would not initiate verbally was the Scorp and personally I have never felt that another woman has signaled as much attraction to me as she did, and I have also never been even close to as attracted to any other woman. So that went nowhere...Just a long drawn out 2 yr period of exactly what you are going through.
@TLS, so aside from all these women throwing themselves at you lol, have you ever just gone after what you wanted without much hesitation? Was there one special lady in your life who you had to have? I'm very curious to know!click to expand
excuse the typos...on my phone and I suck at typing on this thing...
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioThank you for always taking the time out to help me into the mind of a Taurus. I really appreciate it. I've tried saying hellos, initating convos, even wrote a short note once...but nothing. I have to keep some bit of pride now! Every time he disappears I move on a little..but when he comes back the feelings rush back and Im gaga all over again!!!!! I do not want to have a 2yr obsession like you TLS. Sorry to say. I dont have THAT much patience.Posted by aqualady0118I ignored my Scorp crush a lot - wasn't always a game or mirroring though. When you truly know what its like to be obsessed with someone before really being familiar with them on a personal level, you will understand why ignoring is a necessity. When you are obsessed, the person is in your mind, all day every day. If you were to look at them and acknowledge them as often as you would like to, you have to worry about violating their personal space. If I am attracted that strongly, I want to stare all the time but that is majorly inappropriate, especially at work. You also are forced to ignore or avoid sometimes because of the sheer intensity of feelings overwhelming you, causing extreme anxiety, sometimes sweating, etc. That kind of energy causes such a strong
I think he's ignoring me because I accidently ignored him out of nervousness
phsyical response. You have experienced it your self. If its mutual bc of the synastry between you two, you can easily get caught in this mutual ignoring. You ignore him, he is super sensitive to this bc of his attraction, and you have already caught him staring at you, so he takes it as a rejection of his expressed interest, or negative message of some sort...then he retreats to give you your space, and wait to see if you will seek him out in some way...The Scorp and I went back and forth with the ignoring, sometimes ignoring for almost 2 weeks, then there would be a sort of truce - a reunion and the staring would start up again even worse than before....
There can be many reasons to ignore, especially when the only communication is through body language and hence such great opportunity for miscommunication. You feel ignored now, though you dont know the reason, so maybe you will ignore next time out of personal pride, which I see you have a lot of. Then you are sending him another signal thatbhe has to interpret....on and on it goes until you approach your shy bull. The shy bull wont chase though...If you are still waiting for that, it is gonna be a while....click to expand
Posted by wickedWAIT, whaaaat? What is Venus-pluto opposition and how do I find out?
I hope for your own sake you dont have Venus -pluto opposition. Anything but the opposition. And lets pray its not an exact one at that. Nothing could equal it. Once you are caught there is no looking back. Will take you years to get over it.
Im a Gemini sun, took me a while to get over him. And he is a Taurus sun, mercury and mars. After almost eleven YEARS still stuck on me. I feel extremely bad for him. He quit his job and all because of me. This makes me feel extremely sad.
^Yes, @ TaurusLovesScorpio is also telling the the truth here.
Posted by wickedTaurus and Scorpio being opposites, and Taurus being Venus-ruled while Scorp is Pluto-ruled, I think the Venus-Pluto opposition of synastry has to be relevant to the Taurus/Scorp connection. The planets themselves may not be in opposition, but obviously you're dealing with the planetary energies through those sign's respective rulerships, so in some sense those same energies are in opposition. This is the main reason that I think Taurus/Scorpio seems to be the most obsessive, magnetic, and potentially devastating of the opposites pairings.
I hope for your own sake you dont have Venus -pluto opposition. Anything but the opposition. And lets pray its not an exact one at that. Nothing could equal it. Once you are caught there is no looking back. Will take you years to get over it.
Im a Gemini sun, took me a while to get over him. And he is a Taurus sun, mercury and mars. After almost eleven YEARS still stuck on me. I feel extremely bad for him. He quit his job and all because of me. This makes me feel extremely sad.
Posted by ImpulsvI actually responded to this in that thread.
" a Taurus sun/ leo moon and he always fell hard for scorpio women but never allowed himself to get close to them, he even admitted they are his Achilles heel in regards to hard attraction but the energy was always too much somehow and he ended up burning a lot of scorpio ladies as he would get close and then retract as soon as he began to feel to much passion/love etc. Taurus men have that hard attraction to scorpios for sure, but usually are too level headed to follow their feelings and end up with other earth/water signs or oddly enough "
Someone posted this earlier
I think Tls n t-Virgo can explain if true
Taurus I dated I saw it the struggle in him.
Posted by aqualady0118Its possible. I usually have to be strongly attached to someone to be jealous, but I was jealous of my crush at work when other guys would visit her. Not at first, but there was this one dude who popped up and I just noticed a difference in his body language towards her. He was very confident with her, and his body language told me he was possessive of her in a way. I could sense a definite mutual attraction between them; she was very responsive towards him. Later I found out that they had dated.
One time my guy friend came to visit me at work and Taurus guy randomly appeared out of nowhere fuming...I was so happy at the time just to see Taurus guy's face so I was going to say Hi but he was...fuming...so I choked on..my..hello. Maybe he was jealous?
Posted by wickedI have the Venus-Pluto opp (2 degrees) with the Taurus I am dealing with...Not only that, but Venus-Neptune trine, and both of these also hit the angles (tight too). We also have:
I hope for your own sake you dont have Venus -pluto opposition. Anything but the opposition. And lets pray its not an exact one at that. Nothing could equal it. Once you are caught there is no looking back. Will take you years to get over it.
Im a Gemini sun, took me a while to get over him. And he is a Taurus sun, mercury and mars. After almost eleven YEARS still stuck on me. I feel extremely bad for him. He quit his job and all because of me. This makes me feel extremely sad.
Sun-Sun conj. (3 degrees)
Moon-Moon conj.
Sun-Moon trine (exact)
My Mars is the apex of a yod (quincunx) his Venus and Mars (0 and 2 degrees)
Sun-Mercury-Venus
Venus-jupiter-Ceres
Ceres on the DC
Lilith and Pallas hit Sun and Moon both ways
Eros-Psyche trine both ways
just to name a few.
It's most certainly felt.
I can't even be in the same room with him at times...Today was one of those days, but I did still waive at him, and made eye contact.
*wave
Posted by wickedWhat language are you speaking? Lol! I bet its the synastry if my feelings are this intense.Posted by TaureanVirgoAwwwPosted by wickedI have the Venus-Pluto opp (2 degrees) with the Taurus I am dealing with...Not only that, but Venus-Neptune trine, and both of these also hit the angles (tight too). We also have:
I hope for your own sake you dont have Venus -pluto opposition. Anything but the opposition. And lets pray its not an exact one at that. Nothing could equal it. Once you are caught there is no looking back. Will take you years to get over it.
Im a Gemini sun, took me a while to get over him. And he is a Taurus sun, mercury and mars. After almost eleven YEARS still stuck on me. I feel extremely bad for him. He quit his job and all because of me. This makes me feel extremely sad.
Sun-Sun conj. (3 degrees)
Moon-Moon conj.
Sun-Moon trine (exact)
My Mars is the apex of a yod (quincunx) his Venus and Mars (0 and 2 degrees)
Sun-Mercury-Venus
Venus-jupiter-Ceres
Ceres on the DC
Lilith and Pallas hit Sun and Moon both ways
Eros-Psyche trine both ways
just to name a few.
It's most certainly felt.
Thats lovely.
Do you have any personal planets to Saturn?
With the taurus guy, we have pluto venus opposition exact and the tightest aspect in our chart. Moon-pluto dw, sun pluto and somebody mentioned about his lilith on my moon (?) Dont really remember.I dont remember. Plus his pluto hits my IC. Pluto on my IC and vertex. And I have venus on mc on my natals. And pluto on my IC. It was life changing. With my husband also I share this aspect. I felt as if some volcano erupted inside me.
Are you with him?click to expand
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