Why do you hate people that treats you nice?
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by mrbowie on Thursday, December 12, 2013 and has 23 replies.
Hate someone who is nice to me? 
Agreed. People don't appreciate kind hearted people.
That's why next year i'm going to be mean. It'll make my life easier.
I don't.
Posted by VenusStar
That's why next year i'm going to be mean. It'll make my life easier.
LOL!
Please don't though.
Posted by VenusStar
That's why next year i'm going to be mean. It'll make my life easier.
NO it won't! = ( screw mean people I rather be nice and kind any day, plus KARMA is a vicious bitch... don't like being on the other end of that spectrum.
Ye, I have to agree with Carlikins. Plus, kindness will leave anyone who treats you like crap confused like nothing else. It's can be such a beautiful weapon.
well... for the last few years it seems like my good karma has been dormant. Karma does not know my name or street address.
@ Theatrum... I love seeing the confusion on their face
that's all I need and what lil anger I have subsides...
Plus some people just never received kindness, you shouldn't have to compromise yourself on their behalf. Treat others as you wish to be treated is how I was raised... Does that mean we get taken advantage of? YES! Does that mean we will accept being treated as so? NO! just don't give those people the time of day...
@VenusStar... Karma takes it time it's like nicely aged wine or beer, the longer it takes the better/sweeter it'll be. Even if it doesn't come for those who hurt you, you will be taken care of in other ways. At the end of the day don't sweat those bums who took advantage of you, they had no idea what they had.
that's all I need and what lil anger I have subsides... Plus some people just never received kindness, you shouldn't have to compromise yourself on their behalf. Treat others as you wish to be treated is how I was raised... Does that mean we get taken advantage of? YES! Does that mean we will accept being treated as so? NO! just don't give those people the time of day...
@VenusStar... Karma takes it time it's like nicely aged wine or beer, the longer it takes the better/sweeter it'll be. Even if it doesn't come for those who hurt you, you will be taken care of in other ways. At the end of the day don't sweat those bums who took advantage of you, they had no idea what they had.
Posted by VenusScorp
'Cause we don't believe all that "niceness" actually exists...we think it's just a facade
i was just talking to some of my close relatives about this.... they love their partners to be really nice, not be sarcastic and mean. But the dilemma is that they don't want 'em to be a pushover either. (they have libra mars but different moons/suns ect) so maybe the libra mars enjoys the balance.
but in the end, ultimately, they would prefer really nice and not sarcastic. They were just mentioning this when they had met my ex's and the men i choose. They tell me, why do you like 'em kind of mean and sarcastic and brutal?
Then i tell 'em, there you go! you like 'em sweet for your sensitive soul. Cause why would you be questioning what i like and why i like 'em like that? I like 'em like i do, (just as is a sing-song lyrical tune) however mean or sarcastic they may appear to others. what others don't appreciate, i do very much appreciate something about the men i have chosen & love. They're special to me, and that's the law of the attraction. Not for them, for they like 'em something else. But for me, i like 'em different.
and the niceness can be in actuality REAL, at least to them, and the partners they choose are being real, as is their nature to be that way. Different strokes for different folks.
Posted by Theatrum
Ye, I have to agree with Carlikins. Plus, kindness will leave anyone who treats you like crap confused like nothing else. It's can be such a beautiful weapon.
that's true. In a social setting, and to others, being nice is good, and for diplomatic purposes, it is the best way to achieve overall wonderful results, such in a job, career, workplace, anywhere you go. It will open doors for you everywhere. And also, many people need kindness, it's a good trait to have, if you are naturally kind and a lovely person.
Posted by PVAFPosted by lisabethur8Posted by VenusScorp
'Cause we don't believe all that "niceness" actually exists...we think it's just a facade
i was just talking to some of my close relatives about this.... they love their partners to be really nice, not be sarcastic and mean. But the dilemma is that they don't want 'em to be a pushover either. (they have libra mars but different moons/suns ect) so maybe the libra mars enjoys the balance.
but in the end, ultimately, they would prefer really nice and not sarcastic. They were just mentioning this when they had met my ex's and the men i choose. They tell me, why do you like 'em kind of mean and sarcastic and brutal?
Then i tell 'em, there you go! you like 'em sweet for your sensitive soul. Cause why would you be questioning what i like and why i like 'em like that? I like 'em like i do, (just as is a sing-song lyrical tune) however mean or sarcastic they may appear to others. what others don't appreciate, i do very much appreciate something about the men i have chosen & love. They're special to me, and that's the law of the attraction. Not for them, for they like 'em something else. But for me, i like 'em different.
and the niceness can be in actuality REAL, at least to them, and the partners they choose are being real, as is their nature to be that way. Different strokes for different folks.
Yeah I'm libra mars I'm pretty similar, I hate mean people.
I don't mind a bit of sarcasm though, as long as its not intended to be mean spirited.click to expand
=) oh i get ya. My relatives just couldnt "wrap" it around their head, because they're trying to see why i'm comfortably happy when they're trying to analyze the situation by their pov and their likes.
Posted by VenusScorp
I agree with lisbethurl...I find myself getting suspicious when I find someone being overly nice to me...I just don't buy into it lol...maybe I am generally distrusting of others. And I have always been drawn to "bad boys"...you know, the ones with jagged edges, not too refined and well-mannered...with a devil may care attitude...I find that to be REAL for me...because there is no pretence involved, no need to validate themselves against what ppl perceive of them...and that is sexy to me. The confidence and the guts to be who you are, irrespective of what others think of you. In fact, I love the quote on your profile page by Kurt Cobain - I'd rather be hated for who I am than loved for whom I'm not...makes soo much sense to me. And I have always held true to that belief - that way you weed out the fakers early in your life and you only let in ppl who will be worth your time
i like the bad boy edge, that's true. wouldnt want it any other way either. Finesse and devil may care attitude. yeah that kind, lucious and dangerous. but cuddly-wuddly too.
Posted by VenusScorp
Aww..cuddly-wuddly...yes me want
the best kind!did you know they actually have the astrology of Bad boys? And they warn certain placements to stay away from them? Lol
I was kind of shocked, but not really.
http://lovology.tumblr.com/post/28974527746/the-bad-boys-of-the-zodiac-are-usually-the-ones
The 'Bad Boys' of the Zodiac are usually the ones that are mixed with quite a bit of air or fire. They??re the Sagittariuses and Geminis?? with ridiculous sex drives, wandering eyes and always end up being the most attractive.
I??m going to be very blunt. Unless you have an Air or Fire moon (gemini, aquarius, libra, aries, leo, sag) and have mars and venus placements that LOVE variety, loathe monogamy and don??t have jealousy brewing beneath your skin - You WILL have your heart broken, your dreams destroyed and your pride accidentally demolished.
If you have any of the following signs in your planets, do NOT think you can handle a guy that??s super flirtatious, overly friendly and commitment or intimacy-phobic :
Cancer, Virgo, Taurus, Capricorn, Scorpio
Sun Signs don??t count. If you have your MOON or VENUS in ANY of those signs, you can??t handle it and I suggest that you leave them to women who can. If you think this is a challenge, prepare to limp off the battle field with your ego slaughtered.
so interesting!! O_O
I think he just has to be well balanced... being himself, but nothing wrong with a lil sweetness. The good guys are always the under dog (and I mean the genuinely good kind hearted men out there who treat their ladies like queens) Side note: why do they always fall to the serpent like women? I guess opposites attract... I don't want a "bad boy" (dated one close to that, don't need another in my life, def don't have the placements or the patience.) and I wouldn't like a guy who is a dick to others... maybe if he had the exterior, but an equally good heart and a complete teddy bear to me, that's hot, but I'm rooting for the "good guy".
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by VenusScorp
Aww..cuddly-wuddly...yes me want
did you know they actually have the astrology of Bad boys? And they warn certain placements to stay away from them? Lol
I was kind of shocked, but not really.
http://lovology.tumblr.com/post/28974527746/the-bad-boys-of-the-zodiac-are-usually-the-ones
The 'Bad Boys' of the Zodiac are usually the ones that are mixed with quite a bit of air or fire. They??re the Sagittariuses and Geminis?? with ridiculous sex drives, wandering eyes and always end up being the most attractive.
I??m going to be very blunt. Unless you have an Air or Fire moon (gemini, aquarius, libra, aries, leo, sag) and have mars and venus placements that LOVE variety, loathe monogamy and don??t have jealousy brewing beneath your skin - You WILL have your heart broken, your dreams destroyed and your pride accidentally demolished.
If you have any of the following signs in your planets, do NOT think you can handle a guy that??s super flirtatious, overly friendly and commitment or intimacy-phobic :
Cancer, Virgo, Taurus, Capricorn, Scorpio
Sun Signs don??t count. If you have your MOON or VENUS in ANY of those signs, you can??t handle it and I suggest that you leave them to women who can. If you think this is a challenge, prepare to limp off the battle field with your ego slaughtered.
so interesting!! O_Oclick to expand
I am someone with a venus in Taurus but I can't stand "bad boys" or bad people for that matter. I'm not looking for an edge in a relationship, i'm not michelle Pfeiffer in the Grease 2 looking for a "cool rider". Bad Boys are overrated. I'm looking for a guy who is responsible, treats me well and he has to be a productive citizen of the human race. I want to be loved not tease or put on a leash ready to jump when he wants. That's disgusting. no offense.
Posted by Carlikins
I think he just has to be well balanced... being himself, but nothing wrong with a lil sweetness. The good guys are always the under dog (and I mean the genuinely good kind hearted men out there who treat their ladies like queens) Side note: why do they always fall to the serpent like women? I guess opposites attract... I don't want a "bad boy" (dated one close to that, don't need another in my life, def don't have the placements or the patience.) and I wouldn't like a guy who is a dick to others... maybe if he had the exterior, but an equally good heart and a complete teddy bear to me, that's hot, but I'm rooting for the "good guy".
+1, As for the serpent like women, they are experts at weeding out their kind and looking for generous men that they can squeeze dry.
Posted by VenusStarPosted by lisabethur8Posted by VenusScorp
Aww..cuddly-wuddly...yes me want
did you know they actually have the astrology of Bad boys? And they warn certain placements to stay away from them? Lol
I was kind of shocked, but not really.
http://lovology.tumblr.com/post/28974527746/the-bad-boys-of-the-zodiac-are-usually-the-ones
The 'Bad Boys' of the Zodiac are usually the ones that are mixed with quite a bit of air or fire. They??re the Sagittariuses and Geminis?? with ridiculous sex drives, wandering eyes and always end up being the most attractive.
I??m going to be very blunt. Unless you have an Air or Fire moon (gemini, aquarius, libra, aries, leo, sag) and have mars and venus placements that LOVE variety, loathe monogamy and don??t have jealousy brewing beneath your skin - You WILL have your heart broken, your dreams destroyed and your pride accidentally demolished.
If you have any of the following signs in your planets, do NOT think you can handle a guy that??s super flirtatious, overly friendly and commitment or intimacy-phobic :
Cancer, Virgo, Taurus, Capricorn, Scorpio
Sun Signs don??t count. If you have your MOON or VENUS in ANY of those signs, you can??t handle it and I suggest that you leave them to women who can. If you think this is a challenge, prepare to limp off the battle field with your ego slaughtered.
so interesting!! O_O
I am someone with a venus in Taurus but I can't stand "bad boys" or bad people for that matter. I'm not looking for an edge in a relationship, i'm not michelle Pfeiffer in the Grease 2 looking for a "cool rider". Bad Boys are overrated. I'm looking for a guy who is responsible, treats me well and he has to be a productive citizen of the human race. I want to be loved not tease or put on a leash ready to jump when he wants. That's disgusting. no offense.click to expand
I like a mix. I like a little bad boy thrown in there, the devil may care but he has to be LOYAL and committed and not a commitment phobe.
which i'm guessing the "mix" of energies in the chart by going on astrology, he has the mix in there, the bad boy in him, but he has to commit! No commitment phobes and no running away crap. Loyalty and devotion, faithfulness and some cray-cray in there. Intelligent and a good man. I'm allright with Michelle Pfeiffer and her cool rider. =D I like that. Besides, the cool rider in question ended up in reality as the good boy who had a "darker edge" about him that he didnt know..But hot damn did he have devotion to whatever he wanted to get to. And she inspired that. MMm mmmm
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lmao, I suspected that someone would look it up.
I can't even be polite with some taurus, it's weird. You do nothing and they give you an evil stare
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