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I invited my Taurus over for dinner, which he stated that he would show up at 6. I went shopping earlier that day and spent the rest of the day cooking. I made a really nice meal for him as a friendly gesture. I called at 2:30 to confirm and he claimed that he was still coming, but waiting on his kid's mother to come get them. By 7:30 he was a no call no show so I called him to see what was happening. He claimed that he still had his son, but I felt that a call or text would have been nice to either cancel or apologize. Hearing my irritation in my voice, the only thing he said was, now you know how I feel...ummmm huh? Are Taurus men always this rude?
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I would look at his Mercury and Venus to figure out how he communicates and deals with people. This seems a bit out of character for an earth sign dominate person, in my opinion -- they're pretty reliable. Maybe some air in Merc and Venus?
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No. This was our first dinner at my place. He did make the comment prior to that saying, "I'm really trying to get to you." I want to feel like he means that I know his frustration. I did send him a text telling him that he was rude by not calling to cancel or at least apologizing.
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Posted by karebear Hearing my irritation in my voice, the only thing he said was, now you know how I feel...ummmm huh? Are Taurus men always this rude?
What did he mean by this statement?
Was this comment stemming from a previous disagreement or occurrence?
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Posted by karebear No. This was our first dinner at my place. He did make the comment prior to that saying, "I'm really trying to get to you." I want to feel like he means that I know his frustration. I did send him a text telling him that he was rude by not calling to cancel or at least apologizing.
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He could have been frustrated himself because he was still waiting for his kid's mother to come. Meaning he was irritated himself about it.. hence the "now you know how I feel" as in we are both irritated about the situation.
He couldn't leave until she came... they aren't very vocal.. they kind of just deal with things as they come. It can be frustrating...
But yeah that could have been what he meant..
My ex was late for everything... especially when it had to do with work or family. Even if we had plans that were super special, if something was going on at work or with family, I would just have to wait. After a while, I expected to not get an updated call about it and just wait.. it was frustrating to say the least.. but it never changed.. and if I ever pushed or got overly irritated, it just pissed him off.. because he wouldn't understand why I was upset when "he was the one having to deal with it." So yeah like I said.. you just have to deal with it.
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I think you need to consider if these things are deal breakers for you or not.
We have little back story here but clearly it has made you unhappy.
We don't know how long you have known each other or how long you have been dating.
We don't know if this was a one off or a regular occurrence.
We don't know anything about him or his situation other than he has a child, the child's mother was late to fetch the kid, and it's not clear if he did or did not tell you he was running incredibly late (first post contradicts the second post with 'I'm really trying to get to you'). It's just not clear.
Based on what I have read, I think his behaviour and how he handled this was exceptionally rude and disrespectful. At what point at 6pm did he know he wasn't going to be on your doorstep at 6pm? He would have known at 5:30pm or whatever time he needed to leave that he was still at home with his kid waiting for its mother. He would have called its mother, I'm sure. We don't know what happened at her end or how often this happens in general. He may have wanted to get to you but was unable to which pissed him off more but he should have called. Bearing in mind you were making dinner. He may not have thought the dinner was a big deal and that he could have it later on. He possibly felt his focus and priorities were elsewhere on his kid and not on you.
Ultimately, this comes down to communication and what you are or are not happy to accept.
If this was a one off then let him know you would have appreciated a call to keep you in the picture, and then get him to make it up to you.
If this is a regular occurrence then you both need to address what the issue is. He has a kid. That's not going to change but he does need to give his kid AND you priority. You need to think about the type of relationship you want to have in general and with this man. If coming second best constantly and being put on hold for the next decade isn't going to work for you then perhaps move on to find someone different who doesn't have a kid or who has a more established and reliable partner.
If the mother of the child makes things difficult or is always late then your man needs to put a better plan in place to combat that such as dropping his kid to the mother instead or seeing you on a different day to his kid so if there is an issue it doesn't affect the time you have together or you going to his place so a late mother isn't spoiling so much.
If it cannot change or be worked out then you need to rethink things but hopefully an honest and open conversation with him will highlight how you feel, and if he cares then he will be open to making things better but you need to talk to each other. You can't sit sulking and banish him to the naughty step! Contact him and ask him to make it up to you with a dinner and then you can bring it up. Without good communication, you have nothing.
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Posted by karebear I invited my Taurus over for dinner, which he stated that he would show up at 6. I went shopping earlier that day and spent the rest of the day cooking. I made a really nice meal for him as a friendly gesture. I called at 2:30 to confirm and he claimed that he was still coming, but waiting on his kid's mother to come get them. By 7:30 he was a no call no show so I called him to see what was happening. He claimed that he still had his son, but I felt that a call or text would have been nice to either cancel or apologize. Hearing my irritation in my voice, the only thing he said was, now you know how I feel...ummmm huh? Are Taurus men always this rude?
One either he told you there were problems with his ex and kids, before dating and sometimes plan on not doing something as planned with kids involved with single parents or divorced parents. You have to have patience with this type. Move on if you cant handle scheduales changing consistently.
His kids before you though
Also maybe you mirroring you cause he said now you know how i feel you did something too.
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Taurus men can be quite selfish and quite self-centred as in they see everything from their point of view. They hate being inconvenienced, but when they do it to someone else, they don't feel the extend and particularly in your case, the delay is caused by his ex-wife.
'So you know how I feel' statement could be aiming at his ex-wife who delayed him for your appointment.....the endless wait, and somehow you rushing him also adds to his misery.
He might feel sorry inside that you are making him dinner and he has to make you wait, but self-centred Taurus won't see that as a big deal. While they dislike waiting people's time too, it is their own time they hate being wasted the most.
They are not good at verbal apologies. See if he tries to make up to you in action.
You need to highlight the right course of action to him, so he won't take things for granted. Do it positively. Taurus wants long haul relationship, so talk to him from a long term pov.
Posted by karebear I invited my Taurus over for dinner, which he stated that he would show up at 6. I went shopping earlier that day and spent the rest of the day cooking. I made a really nice meal for him as a friendly gesture. I called at 2:30 to confirm and he claimed that he was still coming, but waiting on his kid's mother to come get them. By 7:30 he was a no call no show so I called him to see what was happening. He claimed that he still had his son, but I felt that a call or text would have been nice to either cancel or apologize. Hearing my irritation in my voice, the only thing he said was, now you know how I feel...ummmm huh? Are Taurus men always this rude?
One either he told you there were problems with his ex and kids, before dating and sometimes plan on not doing something as planned with kids involved with single parents or divorced parents. You have to have patience with this type. Move on if you cant handle scheduales changing consistently.
His kids before you though
Also maybe you mirroring you cause he said now you know how i feel you did something too.
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I don't think someone putting their kids before their new partner is 100% the right thing to do. To expect someone to take second place or to accept second place is not healthy. You need to be on an equal or balanced footing otherwise it's likely to be creating issues somewhere down the line.
It might obviously work for some people or some couples but again, this depends on what is and is not a deal breaker for people.
Posted by karebear I invited my Taurus over for dinner, which he stated that he would show up at 6. I went shopping earlier that day and spent the rest of the day cooking. I made a really nice meal for him as a friendly gesture. I called at 2:30 to confirm and he claimed that he was still coming, but waiting on his kid's mother to come get them. By 7:30 he was a no call no show so I called him to see what was happening. He claimed that he still had his son, but I felt that a call or text would have been nice to either cancel or apologize. Hearing my irritation in my voice, the only thing he said was, now you know how I feel...ummmm huh? Are Taurus men always this rude?
One either he told you there were problems with his ex and kids, before dating and sometimes plan on not doing something as planned with kids involved with single parents or divorced parents. You have to have patience with this type. Move on if you cant handle scheduales changing consistently.
His kids before you though
Also maybe you mirroring you cause he said now you know how i feel you did something too.
I don't think someone putting their kids before their new partner is 100% the right thing to do. To expect someone to take second place or to accept second place is not healthy. You need to be on an equal or balanced footing otherwise it's likely to be creating issues somewhere down the line.
It might obviously work for some people or some couples but again, this depends on what is and is not a deal breaker for people.
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Yeah most people like myself tried this. And you either can balance it and work it out for another shiny day. But thats not the case here.
Posted by karebear I invited my Taurus over for dinner, which he stated that he would show up at 6. I went shopping earlier that day and spent the rest of the day cooking. I made a really nice meal for him as a friendly gesture. I called at 2:30 to confirm and he claimed that he was still coming, but waiting on his kid's mother to come get them. By 7:30 he was a no call no show so I called him to see what was happening. He claimed that he still had his son, but I felt that a call or text would have been nice to either cancel or apologize. Hearing my irritation in my voice, the only thing he said was, now you know how I feel...ummmm huh? Are Taurus men always this rude?
One either he told you there were problems with his ex and kids, before dating and sometimes plan on not doing something as planned with kids involved with single parents or divorced parents. You have to have patience with this type. Move on if you cant handle scheduales changing consistently.
His kids before you though
Also maybe you mirroring you cause he said now you know how i feel you did something too.
I don't think someone putting their kids before their new partner is 100% the right thing to do. To expect someone to take second place or to accept second place is not healthy. You need to be on an equal or balanced footing otherwise it's likely to be creating issues somewhere down the line.
It might obviously work for some people or some couples but again, this depends on what is and is not a deal breaker for people.
Yeah most people like myself tried this. And you either can balance it and work it out for another shiny day. But thats not the case here.
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Well it would be interesting to have more back story so we can see what the case is.
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How long have you been with him? Has he done anything similar before? Doesn't sound like any Taurus men I've known, but maybe there's more to the story?
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Is your Taurus the successful, workaholic kind? They hate last minute changes. I feel he didn't drop you the message because he felt he could make it over. There should be more communication if such scenarios come up.
If you want to understand Taurus man more, can get a free download from here. I posted on Taurus Man Decoded thread:
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Okay guys sorry but I'm new to this site. It's taking me awhile to get back to everyone this wanted to know the backstory. Here's the deal. He sent me a message on Facebook back in March of 2016 and I completely ignored the message. I did not want to have someone be in my inbox asking me for nude pictures or trying to see if all I wanted was sex. Fast forward to the month of August and I'm cleaning out my in-box and I come across his message. I decided to take a look at his page to get a better understanding of who he was. My friends had told me that sometimes I can be a bit harsh and I can reject people from the very beginning without taking the time to get to know anyone. I don't know how it happened but we becoming friends on Facebook. Maybe I accepted a request from him or I sent a request by accident. That I am not sure how it happened. Anyhow, we have a small conversation and he continue to tell me how beautiful I was and started sending me pictures of my own pictures off of my Facebook page, which I thought was a little creepy. None the less I figured I would just continue to talk to him until he became just respectful and then I would cut them off. The conversation we had was very brief and nothing was really discuss as far as us getting to know each other, but it was more of him just saying that he found me to be attractive. I did not speak to him the next day however the following day he did send me a message in the morning saying good morning. I found his message to be sweet and I decided to keep talking to him. He asked if he could push up on me. I'm too old to think that that meant anything else besides trying to get to know me. I told him that he could as long as he was serious about getting to know me. We started having conversations that were leading us into the right path. I discovered that he is really a great father to his children and is a very hard-working man. He told me that there was some mistakes that he made in his past that led him to prison, but that he changed his life around so that he could be there for his children. We discussed his home life how he was raised by his father and how his mother was absent in the home. We also discussed him being a homeowner being very strong-willed what he likes to do when he relaxes. I told him about myself and being adopted. We discussed that I didn't have children and that it may be a possibility. In other words, General conversation that you do when you're trying to get to know somebody.
We decided one night that we would go out to dinner. This took place about a couple of weeks after our initial conversation. The attraction was very strong at this point and I have slept with him. Now don't go judging me, it's not the most politically correct thing to do, but it happens. Immediately afterwards I felt bad and I explain to him that I felt like I had made a mistake. Wrong move. He took it very personal that something he did was wrong. His response to me was to tell him what was wrong so he could fix it and to open up to him and explain what was going on. I gave him the response that I was not looking for sex that I wanted more. He stated that he wasn't just looking for sex either. We went on to dinner afterwards and it was really awkward. I ordered a dessert because I had went out with my mother earlier that day. I was not hungry and he seemed upset because I didn't order a meal. I explained to him what happened and I could tell that he was even more upset. I told him that is my mother and that I really have a real good relationship with my mother and I take that very seriously. There was nothing I could do to make him understand where I was coming from, and in reality, I was trying to make both him and my mother happy. After talking to my mom about the situation she explained to me that I should have just went out with him and went out with her earlier that day. I knew immediately what I had done was wrong. I called him back the next day to explain to him that I was sorry and he was already turned off at this point and just rejected me. I was hurt but I felt like his decision was genuine and I chose to move on.
Sometime around Thanksgiving I found out that his mother had passed away. I wanted to talk to him to give him my condolences but I knew that he would question how I knew since we weren't talking. A few weeks after she had passed I did call him but I was so angry about the way that he just rejected me that I just told him how I felt. He explained that he couldn't talk about it that he was going through too much and that that wasn't on his mind. He told me he would get back with me and he never did. Fast-forward a couple of weeks from that date and I sent him a text message letting him know exactly how I felt and that I was hurt that he had walked away so quickly and that I felt like he was playing mind games. He then went on to say that he had a conversation with a mutual friend of ours and that she let him know that a conversation took place between her and I about him. Now let me say this, this friends is a client of mine that we both know. The extent of the conversation about him was that he was a really great guy and that he was hard-working. When he said that she gave details about a conversation that I had about him I immediately knew that he was fishing for information. I know that to be typical of Taurus. He then flipped the conversation around as if to ask me what it was that I wanted to do and I knew that it wasn't over at that moment between us. I know that he plays some mind games, but I don't think that they are Mind Games to hurt people. I think he plays Mind Games to see exactly what's going on with the other person. I apologize to him a few weeks later going into detail about how I should have said that I made a mistake with sleeping with him. I told him that I should have put on my big-girl panties that night and accepted it for what it was. I told him that my relationship with my mother is very important to me. He shocked me when he responded back that you only get one mother and that she's important. I knew that he has softened up about me eating out with my mother because of the loss of his mother. I told him that I wanted to make it up to him and that I wanted to start all over and forget what happened in the past so I offered to make him dinner. And this is where my other portion of the Story begins
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First off, I am NOT selfish. What I DON'T like is anyone judging me without knowing me. I clearly stated that I didn't want him to know that I knew of his mother passing because that would lead to questioning. I have that right. Secondly, I don't have to explain in FULL detail to him about anything since we are getting to know each other. Once he heard that I was with my mom that with my mom that should have ended any ill feelings he had. I didn't go on another date with another man...IT WAS MY MOM! Secondly, yes! We needed to have that conversation regardless of what was going on in his life. He acted a hot mess over a dessert, and I apologized. Most of of miss me with your judgmental attitude. Keep it moving. You do not know me or anything that I have been through. He doesn't either, and the last time I checked, my feelings are just as valid as his.
Posted by karebear First off, I am NOT selfish. What I DON'T like is anyone judging me without knowing me. I clearly stated that I didn't want him to know that I knew of his mother passing because that would lead to questioning. I have that right. Secondly, I don't have to explain in FULL detail to him about anything since we are getting to know each other. Once he heard that I was with my mom that with my mom that should have ended any ill feelings he had. I didn't go on another date with another man...IT WAS MY MOM! Secondly, yes! We needed to have that conversation regardless of what was going on in his life. He acted a hot mess over a dessert, and I apologized. Most of of miss me with your judgmental attitude. Keep it moving. You do not know me or anything that I have been through. He doesn't either, and the last time I checked, my feelings are just as valid as his.
Well he has you "sussed" and my is "inconsiderate" nature reign.. He's more than likely getting his revenge by teaching you a lesson but you are none the wiser.... Nice one! I wish him luck...
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I read earlier that she believes she should not come second to his child, that is selfish. I have twins girls and my taurus has one boy. I do not believe any parent should put the kids second. I would literally kick that person to the curb immediately and I know my taurus guy would too. Clearly she is not a mother and does not have the natural motherly instincts or she would never say that. That is sad in itself.
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Posted by karebear I invited my Taurus over for dinner, which he stated that he would show up at 6. I went shopping earlier that day and spent the rest of the day cooking. I made a really nice meal for him as a friendly gesture. I called at 2:30 to confirm and he claimed that he was still coming, but waiting on his kid's mother to come get them. By 7:30 he was a no call no show so I called him to see what was happening. He claimed that he still had his son, but I felt that a call or text would have been nice to either cancel or apologize. Hearing my irritation in my voice, the only thing he said was, now you know how I feel...ummmm huh? Are Taurus men always this rude?
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Posted by karebear I invited my Taurus over for dinner, which he stated that he would show up at 6. I went shopping earlier that day and spent the rest of the day cooking. I made a really nice meal for him as a friendly gesture. I called at 2:30 to confirm and he claimed that he was still coming, but waiting on his kid's mother to come get them. By 7:30 he was a no call no show so I called him to see what was happening. He claimed that he still had his son, but I felt that a call or text would have been nice to either cancel or apologize. Hearing my irritation in my voice, the only thing he said was, now you know how I feel...ummmm huh? Are Taurus men always this rude?
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I did NOT SAY I SHOULDN'T COME SECOND TO HIS CHILD. Someone else stated that I shouldn't. I stated that a call would have been nice if he wasn't going to show up.
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Posted by AgentP911 I think you need to consider if these things are deal breakers for you or not.
We have little back story here but clearly it has made you unhappy.
We don't know how long you have known each other or how long you have been dating.
We don't know if this was a one off or a regular occurrence.
We don't know anything about him or his situation other than he has a child, the child's mother was late to fetch the kid, and it's not clear if he did or did not tell you he was running incredibly late (first post contradicts the second post with 'I'm really trying to get to you'). It's just not clear.
Based on what I have read, I think his behaviour and how he handled this was exceptionally rude and disrespectful. At what point at 6pm did he know he wasn't going to be on your doorstep at 6pm? He would have known at 5:30pm or whatever time he needed to leave that he was still at home with his kid waiting for its mother. He would have called its mother, I'm sure. We don't know what happened at her end or how often this happens in general. He may have wanted to get to you but was unable to which pissed him off more but he should have called. Bearing in mind you were making dinner. He may not have thought the dinner was a big deal and that he could have it later on. He possibly felt his focus and priorities were elsewhere on his kid and not on you.
Ultimately, this comes down to communication and what you are or are not happy to accept.
If this was a one off then let him know you would have appreciated a call to keep you in the picture, and then get him to make it up to you.
If this is a regular occurrence then you both need to address what the issue is. He has a kid. That's not going to change but he does need to give his kid AND you priority. You need to think about the type of relationship you want to have in general and with this man. If coming second best constantly and being put on hold for the next decade isn't going to work for you then perhaps move on to find someone different who doesn't have a kid or who has a more established and reliable partner.
If the mother of the child makes things difficult or is always late then your man needs to put a better plan in place to combat that such as dropping his kid to the mother instead or seeing you on a different day to his kid so if there is an issue it doesn't affect the time you have together or you going to his place so a late mother isn't spoiling so much.
If it cannot change or be worked out then you need to rethink things but hopefully an honest and open conversation with him will highlight how you feel, and if he cares then he will be open to making things better but you need to talk to each other. You can't sit sulking and banish him to the naughty step! Contact him and ask him to make it up to you with a dinner and then you can bring it up. Without good communication, you have nothing.
Someone else stated what you both are blaming me for. Both of you can exit if your not going to give constructive criticism
1) don't ever go to a restaurant with a Taurus and have only pudding. If you have eaten beforehand come clean... Tell the truth and let the Taurus know that you have eaten and be smart enough to get some other activity in place ie a movie that way a Taurus can still eat....
When a Taurus books a restaurant to go and eat they want at least a proper meal starter, main and pudding with some wine etc... The full works... Just a "pudding" is an insult... I'm not joking
2) his mother DIES and all you can think about is your image. Instead of contacting him (regardless as to how you got the information) to give your condolences and to let him know you are there for him and this extremely painful time, you are thinking about your ego (he will find out that you got information from someone else) - the taurus does not give a fuck how you got the info. I straight up told my Taurus that I check his fb page big deal. At least if you were upfront the Taurus would know that you are an honest person.
3) even after his mother dying you yell him YOU are hurt because of the way he "rejected" you when he has BIGGER emotional issues like his mother's death....
4) you had sex with him a few days in... Who cares..
I hope he does not get with you and I will not give you advice on how to get him.
You are SELFISH.. One of the most self absorbed persons I have seen on dxp to date. All I got from your post was "me me me syndrome"....
Leave him alone.. So he can get use to the idea of his mother's passing and see how he can put the pieces of his life together now she is gone... Smh
How is SHE the selfish one?! He has manipulated her at every turn. She is apologizing to him for having lunch with her own mother, how ridiculous!!
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Posted by karebear I did NOT SAY I SHOULDN'T COME SECOND TO HIS CHILD. Someone else stated that I shouldn't. I stated that a call would have been nice if he wasn't going to show up.
He's treating you like a doormat. All it took was a few compliments on facebook and your wrapped around his finger. Ditch this loser. His behavior smarts of a manipulative abuser.
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Posted by karebear I did NOT SAY I SHOULDN'T COME SECOND TO HIS CHILD. Someone else stated that I shouldn't. I stated that a call would have been nice if he wasn't going to show up.
Certainly not, his kids are the priority. But at the very least you deserved a text message from him saying he couldn't make it. It's obvious that he doesn't care about your feelings, your time, or you in general. Sheeet for all you know his kid was just an excuse so he could kick it with another female he values over you. His behavior towards you makes it seem like you are his fall back option. If you continue on with him you are sending the message he can treat you as badly as he wants and you'll come back for more abuse.
Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't value you? Don't waste any more of your thoughts on him. Onward and upward!
Posted by karebear I did NOT SAY I SHOULDN'T COME SECOND TO HIS CHILD. Someone else stated that I shouldn't. I stated that a call would have been nice if he wasn't going to show up.
He's treating you like a doormat. All it took was a few compliments on facebook and your wrapped around his finger. Ditch this loser. His behavior smarts of a manipulative abuser.
I agree with you here.... But I will add... And she deserves it....
Revenge is best served cold, but tastes better when the fool being played doesn't know it is....
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Still reading the thread... How/why does she deserve it?
1) don't ever go to a restaurant with a Taurus and have only pudding. If you have eaten beforehand come clean... Tell the truth and let the Taurus know that you have eaten and be smart enough to get some other activity in place ie a movie that way a Taurus can still eat....
When a Taurus books a restaurant to go and eat they want at least a proper meal starter, main and pudding with some wine etc... The full works... Just a "pudding" is an insult... I'm not joking
2) his mother DIES and all you can think about is your image. Instead of contacting him (regardless as to how you got the information) to give your condolences and to let him know you are there for him and this extremely painful time, you are thinking about your ego (he will find out that you got information from someone else) - the taurus does not give a fuck how you got the info. I straight up told my Taurus that I check his fb page big deal. At least if you were upfront the Taurus would know that you are an honest person.
3) even after his mother dying you yell him YOU are hurt because of the way he "rejected" you when he has BIGGER emotional issues like his mother's death....
4) you had sex with him a few days in... Who cares..
I hope he does not get with you and I will not give you advice on how to get him.
You are SELFISH.. One of the most self absorbed persons I have seen on dxp to date. All I got from your post was "me me me syndrome"....
Leave him alone.. So he can get use to the idea of his mother's passing and see how he can put the pieces of his life together now she is gone... Smh
How is SHE the selfish one?! He has manipulated her at every turn. She is apologizing to him for having lunch with her own mother, how ridiculous!!
He lost his MOTHER... Ok! Her damn ego should have been set aside... END OF
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And...? Until he chooses to open up to her about his mom passing it is inappropriate for her to bring it up. What does her ego have to do with not forcing him into an emotional conversation he didn't initiate??
1) don't ever go to a restaurant with a Taurus and have only pudding. If you have eaten beforehand come clean... Tell the truth and let the Taurus know that you have eaten and be smart enough to get some other activity in place ie a movie that way a Taurus can still eat....
When a Taurus books a restaurant to go and eat they want at least a proper meal starter, main and pudding with some wine etc... The full works... Just a "pudding" is an insult... I'm not joking
2) his mother DIES and all you can think about is your image. Instead of contacting him (regardless as to how you got the information) to give your condolences and to let him know you are there for him and this extremely painful time, you are thinking about your ego (he will find out that you got information from someone else) - the taurus does not give a fuck how you got the info. I straight up told my Taurus that I check his fb page big deal. At least if you were upfront the Taurus would know that you are an honest person.
3) even after his mother dying you yell him YOU are hurt because of the way he "rejected" you when he has BIGGER emotional issues like his mother's death....
4) you had sex with him a few days in... Who cares..
I hope he does not get with you and I will not give you advice on how to get him.
You are SELFISH.. One of the most self absorbed persons I have seen on dxp to date. All I got from your post was "me me me syndrome"....
Leave him alone.. So he can get use to the idea of his mother's passing and see how he can put the pieces of his life together now she is gone... Smh
How is SHE the selfish one?! He has manipulated her at every turn. She is apologizing to him for having lunch with her own mother, how ridiculous!!
He lost his MOTHER... Ok! Her damn ego should have been set aside... END OF
And...? Until he chooses to open up to her about his mom passing it is inappropriate for her to bring it up. What does her ego have to do with not forcing him into an emotional conversation he didn't initiate??
Another reason why Pisces is not good for Taurus.... Next.....!!!
1) don't ever go to a restaurant with a Taurus and have only pudding. If you have eaten beforehand come clean... Tell the truth and let the Taurus know that you have eaten and be smart enough to get some other activity in place ie a movie that way a Taurus can still eat....
When a Taurus books a restaurant to go and eat they want at least a proper meal starter, main and pudding with some wine etc... The full works... Just a "pudding" is an insult... I'm not joking
2) his mother DIES and all you can think about is your image. Instead of contacting him (regardless as to how you got the information) to give your condolences and to let him know you are there for him and this extremely painful time, you are thinking about your ego (he will find out that you got information from someone else) - the taurus does not give a fuck how you got the info. I straight up told my Taurus that I check his fb page big deal. At least if you were upfront the Taurus would know that you are an honest person.
3) even after his mother dying you yell him YOU are hurt because of the way he "rejected" you when he has BIGGER emotional issues like his mother's death....
4) you had sex with him a few days in... Who cares..
I hope he does not get with you and I will not give you advice on how to get him.
You are SELFISH.. One of the most self absorbed persons I have seen on dxp to date. All I got from your post was "me me me syndrome"....
Leave him alone.. So he can get use to the idea of his mother's passing and see how he can put the pieces of his life together now she is gone... Smh
How is SHE the selfish one?! He has manipulated her at every turn. She is apologizing to him for having lunch with her own mother, how ridiculous!!
He lost his MOTHER... Ok! Her damn ego should have been set aside... END OF
And...? Until he chooses to open up to her about his mom passing it is inappropriate for her to bring it up. What does her ego have to do with not forcing him into an emotional conversation he didn't initiate??
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Sheet they've only hung out once I think. From the Taurus men I know, especially observing my brother, they don't like to be emotionally ambushed. They prefer to address those things internally and only share when they are ready. That's safe to say for ALL men.
If she had brought up his mother without him to initiate the conversation THEN that would have been her making it all about HER ego.
1) don't ever go to a restaurant with a Taurus and have only pudding. If you have eaten beforehand come clean... Tell the truth and let the Taurus know that you have eaten and be smart enough to get some other activity in place ie a movie that way a Taurus can still eat....
When a Taurus books a restaurant to go and eat they want at least a proper meal starter, main and pudding with some wine etc... The full works... Just a "pudding" is an insult... I'm not joking
2) his mother DIES and all you can think about is your image. Instead of contacting him (regardless as to how you got the information) to give your condolences and to let him know you are there for him and this extremely painful time, you are thinking about your ego (he will find out that you got information from someone else) - the taurus does not give a fuck how you got the info. I straight up told my Taurus that I check his fb page big deal. At least if you were upfront the Taurus would know that you are an honest person.
3) even after his mother dying you yell him YOU are hurt because of the way he "rejected" you when he has BIGGER emotional issues like his mother's death....
4) you had sex with him a few days in... Who cares..
I hope he does not get with you and I will not give you advice on how to get him.
You are SELFISH.. One of the most self absorbed persons I have seen on dxp to date. All I got from your post was "me me me syndrome"....
Leave him alone.. So he can get use to the idea of his mother's passing and see how he can put the pieces of his life together now she is gone... Smh
How is SHE the selfish one?! He has manipulated her at every turn. She is apologizing to him for having lunch with her own mother, how ridiculous!!
He lost his MOTHER... Ok! Her damn ego should have been set aside... END OF
And...? Until he chooses to open up to her about his mom passing it is inappropriate for her to bring it up. What does her ego have to do with not forcing him into an emotional conversation he didn't initiate??
Another reason why Pisces is not good for Taurus.... Next.....!!!
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Lol are you referring to me? If so your 'insult' is kinda funny. I'm not trying to get with a Taurus, she is.
Also Taurus/Pisces pairings have a high compatibility rating, certainly higher compatibility than Taurus/Taurus. So lol @ your logic there.
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I am a Gemini...not a Pisces. I never said my sign. Someone posted an e book and I did read it. It did state that Taurus men run hot and cold for women they do like. The author also stated that they pay attention to how you respond to certain issues to see if you will tough it out and Everything I have read seems to contradict what is being said. The book also says that I am to speak up for myself, which I did via text. I'm supposed to go on living my life because he is. According to the book he will come around if I just fo me. I am not his doormat, but I can see how it can turn into me being one. Apparently I am still im the testing phase, which seems odd.
Good grief. I ate with my mom. That is not a crime. No, he needs to bring up his mom. I don't need to let him know how I know. I'm sure he has camw to the conclusion that me having dinner with mine is something special that he will never have again. Just the fact that he said you only get one lets me know he is over that part.
Like I said, you don't know me or what I have been through, so don't judge.
1) don't ever go to a restaurant with a Taurus and have only pudding. If you have eaten beforehand come clean... Tell the truth and let the Taurus know that you have eaten and be smart enough to get some other activity in place ie a movie that way a Taurus can still eat....
When a Taurus books a restaurant to go and eat they want at least a proper meal starter, main and pudding with some wine etc... The full works... Just a "pudding" is an insult... I'm not joking
2) his mother DIES and all you can think about is your image. Instead of contacting him (regardless as to how you got the information) to give your condolences and to let him know you are there for him and this extremely painful time, you are thinking about your ego (he will find out that you got information from someone else) - the taurus does not give a fuck how you got the info. I straight up told my Taurus that I check his fb page big deal. At least if you were upfront the Taurus would know that you are an honest person.
3) even after his mother dying you yell him YOU are hurt because of the way he "rejected" you when he has BIGGER emotional issues like his mother's death....
4) you had sex with him a few days in... Who cares..
I hope he does not get with you and I will not give you advice on how to get him.
You are SELFISH.. One of the most self absorbed persons I have seen on dxp to date. All I got from your post was "me me me syndrome"....
Leave him alone.. So he can get use to the idea of his mother's passing and see how he can put the pieces of his life together now she is gone... Smh
How is SHE the selfish one?! He has manipulated her at every turn. She is apologizing to him for having lunch with her own mother, how ridiculous!!
He lost his MOTHER... Ok! Her damn ego should have been set aside... END OF
And...? Until he chooses to open up to her about his mom passing it is inappropriate for her to bring it up. What does her ego have to do with not forcing him into an emotional conversation he didn't initiate??
Another reason why Pisces is not good for Taurus.... Next.....!!!
Lol are you referring to me? If so your 'insult' is kinda funny. I'm not trying to get with a Taurus, she is.
Also Taurus/Pisces pairings have a high compatibility rating, certainly higher compatibility than Taurus/Taurus. So lol @ your logic there.
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I am convinced you can't read or don't pay attention to detail. Smh
1) don't ever go to a restaurant with a Taurus and have only pudding. If you have eaten beforehand come clean... Tell the truth and let the Taurus know that you have eaten and be smart enough to get some other activity in place ie a movie that way a Taurus can still eat....
When a Taurus books a restaurant to go and eat they want at least a proper meal starter, main and pudding with some wine etc... The full works... Just a "pudding" is an insult... I'm not joking
2) his mother DIES and all you can think about is your image. Instead of contacting him (regardless as to how you got the information) to give your condolences and to let him know you are there for him and this extremely painful time, you are thinking about your ego (he will find out that you got information from someone else) - the taurus does not give a fuck how you got the info. I straight up told my Taurus that I check his fb page big deal. At least if you were upfront the Taurus would know that you are an honest person.
3) even after his mother dying you yell him YOU are hurt because of the way he "rejected" you when he has BIGGER emotional issues like his mother's death....
4) you had sex with him a few days in... Who cares..
I hope he does not get with you and I will not give you advice on how to get him.
You are SELFISH.. One of the most self absorbed persons I have seen on dxp to date. All I got from your post was "me me me syndrome"....
Leave him alone.. So he can get use to the idea of his mother's passing and see how he can put the pieces of his life together now she is gone... Smh
How is SHE the selfish one?! He has manipulated her at every turn. She is apologizing to him for having lunch with her own mother, how ridiculous!!
He lost his MOTHER... Ok! Her damn ego should have been set aside... END OF
And...? Until he chooses to open up to her about his mom passing it is inappropriate for her to bring it up. What does her ego have to do with not forcing him into an emotional conversation he didn't initiate??
Another reason why Pisces is not good for Taurus.... Next.....!!!
Lol are you referring to me? If so your 'insult' is kinda funny. I'm not trying to get with a Taurus, she is.
Also Taurus/Pisces pairings have a high compatibility rating, certainly higher compatibility than Taurus/Taurus. So lol @ your logic there.
I am convinced you can't read or don't pay attention to detail. Smh
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Gurl I'm the only one here defending you! But cool, burn this bridge too. Good luck with your misery. I'll let the Taurus's here continue to tear you a new one.
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No, I'm sorry. I copied the wrong text. I know you are supporting me. It's the other person being rude. I meant to copy his text going on about me being a Pisces. My apologies.
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Posted by karebear No, I'm sorry. I copied the wrong text. I know you are supporting me. It's the other person being rude. I meant to copy his text going on about me being a Pisces. My apologies.
Just ignore her ranting. She tends to come off as strong and aggressive with her Leo moon.
Posted by AgentP911 I think you need to consider if these things are deal breakers for you or not.
We have little back story here but clearly it has made you unhappy.
We don't know how long you have known each other or how long you have been dating.
We don't know if this was a one off or a regular occurrence.
We don't know anything about him or his situation other than he has a child, the child's mother was late to fetch the kid, and it's not clear if he did or did not tell you he was running incredibly late (first post contradicts the second post with 'I'm really trying to get to you'). It's just not clear.
Based on what I have read, I think his behaviour and how he handled this was exceptionally rude and disrespectful. At what point at 6pm did he know he wasn't going to be on your doorstep at 6pm? He would have known at 5:30pm or whatever time he needed to leave that he was still at home with his kid waiting for its mother. He would have called its mother, I'm sure. We don't know what happened at her end or how often this happens in general. He may have wanted to get to you but was unable to which pissed him off more but he should have called. Bearing in mind you were making dinner. He may not have thought the dinner was a big deal and that he could have it later on. He possibly felt his focus and priorities were elsewhere on his kid and not on you.
Ultimately, this comes down to communication and what you are or are not happy to accept.
If this was a one off then let him know you would have appreciated a call to keep you in the picture, and then get him to make it up to you.
If this is a regular occurrence then you both need to address what the issue is. He has a kid. That's not going to change but he does need to give his kid AND you priority. You need to think about the type of relationship you want to have in general and with this man. If coming second best constantly and being put on hold for the next decade isn't going to work for you then perhaps move on to find someone different who doesn't have a kid or who has a more established and reliable partner.
If the mother of the child makes things difficult or is always late then your man needs to put a better plan in place to combat that such as dropping his kid to the mother instead or seeing you on a different day to his kid so if there is an issue it doesn't affect the time you have together or you going to his place so a late mother isn't spoiling so much.
If it cannot change or be worked out then you need to rethink things but hopefully an honest and open conversation with him will highlight how you feel, and if he cares then he will be open to making things better but you need to talk to each other. You can't sit sulking and banish him to the naughty step! Contact him and ask him to make it up to you with a dinner and then you can bring it up. Without good communication, you have nothing.
Someone else stated what you both are blaming me for. Both of you can exit if your not going to give constructive criticism
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I think you should return to my post and actually read it. Then read it again. Then read it again. At no point was I blaming you for anything or criticising you. Constructively or otherwise.
Perhaps if you take your head out of your arsehole and put your drama away you'll actually be able to see your situation far more clearly because right now, you're completely clueless.
Posted by karebear I did NOT SAY I SHOULDN'T COME SECOND TO HIS CHILD. Someone else stated that I shouldn't. I stated that a call would have been nice if he wasn't going to show up.
Certainly not, his kids are the priority. But at the very least you deserved a text message from him saying he couldn't make it. It's obvious that he doesn't care about your feelings, your time, or you in general. Sheeet for all you know his kid was just an excuse so he could kick it with another female he values over you. His behavior towards you makes it seem like you are his fall back option. If you continue on with him you are sending the message he can treat you as badly as he wants and you'll come back for more abuse.
Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't value you? Don't waste any more of your thoughts on him. Onward and upward!
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I agree with this that he should have made contact regarding not making it over for dinner.
This is why OP needs to consider if this behaviour from this man thus far is acceptable to her or if it's a deal breaker.
OP needs to consider if the personal circumstances of this man is what she wants and signed up for or if she's be better off not being with this guy.
Everything else is quite irrelevant.
If you can't get a bit of dating off the ground and talk to each other then it doesn't sound promising. It doesn't matter how wonderful the guy might appear to be as it's what is happening in front of you that counts. He doesn't sound particularly into the OP but that could be for a number of reasons.
I agree about the meal situation though. My Taurus is currently on a course for work and he's just eaten the biggest starter of a meat platter, followed by steak and a side of chips, followed by a huge slice of cheesecake, washed down with a pint of cider... food is important to a Taurus... never just settle for a dessert!
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No, I quoted you because you said that he needs to give his child and myself priority. I was quoted by another user that basically said I was being selfish because I felt I came first. He took what you said out of context. I reposted to show I never said that.
My goodness. It's like going to battle on here for absolutely no reason. First, I'm told that I'm selfish for eating a dessert and having dinner with my mom. Then someone else claims that I placed myself over his child...and then
lastly, I made an honest mistake...apologized and still gets ripped.
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Posted by karebear No, I quoted you because you said that he needs to give his child and myself priority. I was quoted by another user that basically said I was being selfish because I felt I came first. He took what you said out of context. I reposted to show I never said that.
My goodness. It's like going to battle on here for absolutely no reason. First, I'm told that I'm selfish for eating a dessert and having dinner with my mom. Then someone else claims that I placed myself over his child...and then
lastly, I made an honest mistake...apologized and still gets ripped.
No. You quoted my first post and underneath it you said if I (along with someone else) was not not going to provide you with constructive criticism then we could exit.
No reference to what you felt was criticism. Just a blanket statement.
If you read my post you'll see it's well thought out and well written. It addresses points you need to think about. If this guy has a kid and he's unable to manage his situation with the kids mother thus resulting in his behaviour where he doesn't pitch up for a date with you and doesn't even bother to tell you because he doesn't think your dinner date at yours is important enough then don't you think that is a concern? Therefore, you need to consider if this man, with his kid and kids mother in tow are actually what you want.
I'm not focusing on what you did or did not have for dinner or who you went to dinner with. They are small, irrelevant details. The bigger picture needs to be considered.
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Posted by karebear Okay guys sorry but I'm new to this site. It's taking me awhile to get back to everyone this wanted to know the backstory. Here's the deal. He sent me a message on Facebook back in March of 2016 and I completely ignored the message. I did not want to have someone be in my inbox asking me for nude pictures or trying to see if all I wanted was sex. Fast forward to the month of August and I'm cleaning out my in-box and I come across his message. I decided to take a look at his page to get a better understanding of who he was. My friends had told me that sometimes I can be a bit harsh and I can reject people from the very beginning without taking the time to get to know anyone. I don't know how it happened but we becoming friends on Facebook. Maybe I accepted a request from him or I sent a request by accident. That I am not sure how it happened. Anyhow, we have a small conversation and he continue to tell me how beautiful I was and started sending me pictures of my own pictures off of my Facebook page, which I thought was a little creepy. None the less I figured I would just continue to talk to him until he became just respectful and then I would cut them off. The conversation we had was very brief and nothing was really discuss as far as us getting to know each other, but it was more of him just saying that he found me to be attractive. I did not speak to him the next day however the following day he did send me a message in the morning saying good morning. I found his message to be sweet and I decided to keep talking to him. He asked if he could push up on me. I'm too old to think that that meant anything else besides trying to get to know me. I told him that he could as long as he was serious about getting to know me. We started having conversations that were leading us into the right path. I discovered that he is really a great father to his children and is a very hard-working man. He told me that there was some mistakes that he made in his past that led him to prison, but that he changed his life around so that he could be there for his children. We discussed his home life how he was raised by his father and how his mother was absent in the home. We also discussed him being a homeowner being very strong-willed what he likes to do when he relaxes. I told him about myself and being adopted. We discussed that I didn't have children and that it may be a possibility. In other words, General conversation that you do when you're trying to get to know somebody.
We decided one night that we would go out to dinner. This took place about a couple of weeks after our initial conversation. The attraction was very strong at this point and I have slept with him. Now don't go judging me, it's not the most politically correct thing to do, but it happens. Immediately afterwards I felt bad and I explain to him that I felt like I had made a mistake. Wrong move. He took it very personal that something he did was wrong. His response to me was to tell him what was wrong so he could fix it and to open up to him and explain what was going on. I gave him the response that I was not looking for sex that I wanted more. He stated that he wasn't just looking for sex either. We went on to dinner afterwards and it was really awkward. I ordered a dessert because I had went out with my mother earlier that day. I was not hungry and he seemed upset because I didn't order a meal. I explained to him what happened and I could tell that he was even more upset. I told him that is my mother and that I really have a real good relationship with my mother and I take that very seriously. There was nothing I could do to make him understand where I was coming from, and in reality, I was trying to make both him and my mother happy. After talking to my mom about the situation she explained to me that I should have just went out with him and went out with her earlier that day. I knew immediately what I had done was wrong. I called him back the next day to explain to him that I was sorry and he was already turned off at this point and just rejected me. I was hurt but I felt like his decision was genuine and I chose to move on.
Sometime around Thanksgiving I found out that his mother had passed away. I wanted to talk to him to give him my condolences but I knew that he would question how I knew since we weren't talking. A few weeks after she had passed I did call him but I was so angry about the way that he just rejected me that I just told him how I felt. He explained that he couldn't talk about it that he was going through too much and that that wasn't on his mind. He told me he would get back with me and he never did. Fast-forward a couple of weeks from that date and I sent him a text message letting him know exactly how I felt and that I was hurt that he had walked away so quickly and that I felt like he was playing mind games. He then went on to say that he had a conversation with a mutual friend of ours and that she let him know that a conversation took place between her and I about him. Now let me say this, this friends is a client of mine that we both know. The extent of the conversation about him was that he was a really great guy and that he was hard-working. When he said that she gave details about a conversation that I had about him I immediately knew that he was fishing for information. I know that to be typical of Taurus. He then flipped the conversation around as if to ask me what it was that I wanted to do and I knew that it wasn't over at that moment between us. I know that he plays some mind games, but I don't think that they are Mind Games to hurt people. I think he plays Mind Games to see exactly what's going on with the other person. I apologize to him a few weeks later going into detail about how I should have said that I made a mistake with sleeping with him. I told him that I should have put on my big-girl panties that night and accepted it for what it was. I told him that my relationship with my mother is very important to me. He shocked me when he responded back that you only get one mother and that she's important. I knew that he has softened up about me eating out with my mother because of the loss of his mother. I told him that I wanted to make it up to him and that I wanted to start all over and forget what happened in the past so I offered to make him dinner. And this is where my other portion of the Story begins
I see the back story now. Quite a bit of drama there over small things.
Somehow I don't feel optimistic about this.
Doesn't his actions make you feel insecure? He seems interested but not sure on you. That's my feel here.
Knowing his manner, don't get yourself disappointed by having high expectations.
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You know what. Get off my post. You are a nasty individual. DO YOU NOT HAVE A LIFE OF YOUR OWN? I don't need you to continue to show how ugly you are. Find something to do besides coming on my post being disrespectful.
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To be honest, yes. He did eat a huge meal. My own mom told me that I should have cancelled with her so I could have ate more with him. The lesson was learned.
1) don't ever go to a restaurant with a Taurus and have only pudding. If you have eaten beforehand come clean... Tell the truth and let the Taurus know that you have eaten and be smart enough to get some other activity in place ie a movie that way a Taurus can still eat....
When a Taurus books a restaurant to go and eat they want at least a proper meal starter, main and pudding with some wine etc... The full works... Just a "pudding" is an insult... I'm not joking
2) his mother DIES and all you can think about is your image. Instead of contacting him (regardless as to how you got the information) to give your condolences and to let him know you are there for him and this extremely painful time, you are thinking about your ego (he will find out that you got information from someone else) - the taurus does not give a fuck how you got the info. I straight up told my Taurus that I check his fb page big deal. At least if you were upfront the Taurus would know that you are an honest person.
3) even after his mother dying you yell him YOU are hurt because of the way he "rejected" you when he has BIGGER emotional issues like his mother's death....
4) you had sex with him a few days in... Who cares..
I hope he does not get with you and I will not give you advice on how to get him.
You are SELFISH.. One of the most self absorbed persons I have seen on dxp to date. All I got from your post was "me me me syndrome"....
Leave him alone.. So he can get use to the idea of his mother's passing and see how he can put the pieces of his life together now she is gone... Smh
How is SHE the selfish one?! He has manipulated her at every turn. She is apologizing to him for having lunch with her own mother, how ridiculous!!
He lost his MOTHER... Ok! Her damn ego should have been set aside... END OF
And...? Until he chooses to open up to her about his mom passing it is inappropriate for her to bring it up. What does her ego have to do with not forcing him into an emotional conversation he didn't initiate??
Another reason why Pisces is not good for Taurus.... Next.....!!!
Lol are you referring to me? If so your 'insult' is kinda funny. I'm not trying to get with a Taurus, she is.
Also Taurus/Pisces pairings have a high compatibility rating, certainly higher compatibility than Taurus/Taurus. So lol @ your logic there.
Wow! Finally, a "light bulb moment"...
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What can I say...it takes quite the effort to follow your faulty line of logic.
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So I'm in this situation it's like my virgo is really comfortable with me so he really puts effort into text /calls. I always fall back than pop back up than we're back to normal again. My plan is to completely stop no text no calls. Anyone has experience