Posted by sandynads
YES..
Posted by M143
lovepiscesrising,
so now be cautious with that bull. My Bull is different. He gave me everything I need.
Posted by MilkySoft
So, he's wanted to be with you for over a decade, but now that he asks for a measly $ 20 bucks the assumption is he's trying to use you?
I guess this person isn't a friend of yours.
Doesn't sound like he's in a position to be beginning a relationship anyway, and you're obviously turned off by his behavior. I'd just do him the favor as a kind act and then distance myself.
Posted by sandynadsPosted by lovepiscesrisingPosted by sandynads
YES..
Have/Would you personally do this?
NOT REALLY. I THINK I TAKE MORE THAN I GIVE IN RELATIONSHIPS. MATERIALLY PERHAPS.
WOULD I PERSONALLY DO IT? IT'S A PLUS IF SHE WAS WEALTHY BUT MONEY ALONE AND FUG FACE I MUST RLY BE IN THE DUMPS.
ARE YOU AN ARIES?/ VENUS IN TAURUS?click to expand
Posted by robyn808
There are a few lessons people can learn from Taurus, in cases like this is trust and faith. Its a lesson because it can often be challenging.
If you let this moment define your perception of him, then you might not be able to rise above your own retardedness.
Even at my lowest point never count me out, never lose faith. If you underestimate me, if you can't believe in me, I'll never trust you enough to show you my best. I will leave you with the burden of your own perception, showing you little more than what your expectations can fathom. You will be shut out, because you are not worthy enough to set foot in my world, and you will never dance in my riches.
or some shit.
Posted by Springmood
runnnnn. Otherwise this materialistic taurus eates his cake! and you finally lose your 20 dollars. Sorry for sarcasm. But you should be able to know/feel the answer for this question after knowing him for a decade.
i would say its more about you than him. I guess your sun is in 7th house? i suppose this position indicates some tendency to give to people more than you rreceive and feeling not that comfortable about it...like you said feeling used. There's nothing wrong about giving smth to people. Its our perception to feel blessed about it or to feel used...
Posted by robyn808Posted by lovepiscesrisingPosted by robyn808
There are a few lessons people can learn from Taurus, in cases like this is trust and faith. Its a lesson because it can often be challenging.
If you let this moment define your perception of him, then you might not be able to rise above your own retardedness.
Even at my lowest point never count me out, never lose faith. If you underestimate me, if you can't believe in me, I'll never trust you enough to show you my best. I will leave you with the burden of your own perception, showing you little more than what your expectations can fathom. You will be shut out, because you are not worthy enough to set foot in my world, and you will never dance in my riches.
or some shit.
my own retardedness ?
are you a male Taurus?
I kinda dig this post you do think he is sincerely asking for help and not trying to use me
I think your missing the point, and I also think your worried about the wrong things.click to expand
Posted by sandynads
THEY SAY VENUS IN 7TH ISN'T IDEAL COZ IT GIVES SO MUCH. (IT'S IN 7TH RYT?)
Posted by lovepiscesrising
This bull has chased me aggressively for over a decade, but we've never actually gotten together.
Posted by lovepiscesrising
He's offered to buy me things before, which I've declined because I didn't want him to feel like I owed him something. Especially since we weren't in a relationship.
Posted by lovepiscesrisingclick to expand
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by lovepiscesrising
This bull has chased me aggressively for over a decade, but we've never actually gotten together.
He chased you. You played hard to get. Is this correct?
Posted by lovepiscesrising
He's offered to buy me things before, which I've declined because I didn't want him to feel like I owed him something. Especially since we weren't in a relationship.
He expressed generosity, and you declined for humble reasons, is this correct?
Posted by lovepiscesrisingclick to expand
Posted by TaurusBull1977
@Lovepiscesrising---
FYI...
A Bull will always return a good deed in ten-folds....
The loyalty of a Bull isn't grossly exaggerated by the zodiac...
It's a TRUE STORY!
Which is something I noticed you fail to mention about Bulls as opposed to you embracing the latter negative qualities, greed & materialism.
Ten years? ...And you haven't solidified anything. Why?
Let me guess, and this is pure speculation...
You're keeping him at arms length, protecting yourself, keeping your options open, discriminating, analyzing...in other words, you're all over the place, creating gray shaded areas.
Bulls, it's all or nothing, Black or White. You're in or you're out. You want him or you don't. No shaded areas.
Newsflash, even with a Venus in Aries ( I have a Venus in Aries, myself), I may not chase...But if I did, I wouldn't waste energy or solidify anything with uncertainty.
My guess, for the last 10 years, you presented uncertainty.
Posted by lovepiscesrising
The fact that all of a sudden he wants me to be his girlfriend now that he is broke and at rock bottom is very suspicious. While he had money in his pocket he wanted to play around
Posted by lovepiscesrising
He's offered to buy me things before, which I've declined because I didn't want him to feel like I owed him something. Especially since we weren't in a relationship.click to expand
Posted by MilkySoft
@lovepiscesrising
I understand now why you are sensitive and on guard to the possibility of being used.
Regarding the money specifically, I don't think he intends on using you, I think he's in a bad situation. Based on some other things you've said, I wouldn't pursue a relationship with him. After 10 years, seems like something would have already happened? His foundation is rocky anyway, not a good time to try now.
Believe it or not, money isn't everything to us. We're romantics.
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by lovepiscesrising
The fact that all of a sudden he wants me to be his girlfriend now that he is broke and at rock bottom is very suspicious. While he had money in his pocket he wanted to play around
This is not true.
Posted by lovepiscesrising
He's offered to buy me things before, which I've declined because I didn't want him to feel like I owed him something. Especially since we weren't in a relationship.
When he clearly had money in his pockets, he didn't mind sharing with you. You declined, remember?
Another question...
You stated that he chased you in the last 10 years, at what month, year in the last 10 years exactly did you tell him that you wanted to be official.
Although I have a Venus in Aries myself, it doesn't mean because I show a genuine interest, that I'm ready to commit to someone the next day.
(You indicated earlier that you fell back completely after he told you he wasn't sure)
Was there ever a gradual courtship prior to you asking to solidify a relationship?
Just curious....just trying to dot the I's and cross the T's.click to expand
Posted by TaurusBull1977
I asked a DIRECT question, and once again, you give evasive answers.
Therefore....
I can't give you any DIRECT, genuine advice....
FYI --
A 10 year chase is a long time. No pretentious, opportunist (regardless of zodiac sign) puts forth the effort without longevity.
I'm still not buying the "he's broke now, so he wants a relationship" excuse"
Good Luck!
Posted by TaurusBull1977
Another question...
You stated that he chased you in the last 10 years, at what month, year in the last 10 years exactly did you tell him that you wanted to be official.
Posted by MikellPosted by robyn808
There are a few lessons people can learn from Taurus, in cases like this is trust and faith. Its a lesson because it can often be challenging.
If you let this moment define your perception of him, then you might not be able to rise above your own retardedness.
Even at my lowest point never count me out, never lose faith. If you underestimate me, if you can't believe in me, I'll never trust you enough to show you my best. I will leave you with the burden of your own perception, showing you little more than what your expectations can fathom. You will be shut out, because you are not worthy enough to set foot in my world, and you will never dance in my riches.
or some shit.
This thread is absolutely heartrending. But when I first read this comment, I couldn't have said it better. Please listen to this lady.
Posted by lovepiscesrising
I have trusted him and told him things about how people have used me for money, and he almost looked amused.
I regret telling him.
The fact that all of a sudden he wants me to be his girlfriend now that he is broke and at rock bottom is very suspicious. While he had money in his pocket he wanted to play around.
My end game? I would like to give a shot at a relationship with him, to see if we could actually work out.
We can't only look to only one side of the coin. I think you're thinking that he won't be able to pay you and other negativities you can attached to the situation since you are full of doubt on him. How can this lady have the idea of giving a shot at a relationship with someone when she's full of doubt and seemed not very supportive of a potential partner.
However, maybe he thinks he can still prove himself to you somehow given of his low situation.
Given that:
You: Let him borrow $ 20
Him: Grateful
After +day(s).
Him: Gave you back your money
You: (insert your reaction here)
Given that he is aware of "I have trusted him and told him things about how people have used me for money...(regardless of his reaction, I think he still take it to his heart and mind about your confession but he handled it lightly)
and given the above situation I wrote, maybe he just want you to realize that when others hadclick to expand
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by TaurusBull1977
Another question...
You stated that he chased you in the last 10 years, at what month, year in the last 10 years exactly did you tell him that you wanted to be official.
This was the direct question you evaded.
It pin-points a time (duration) for the length of time he pursued you, and when you fell back completely (after he told you he was uncertain).
No one (regardless of zodiac sign) chases an individual for 10 consecutive yrs with no prospect for longevity.click to expand
Posted by TaurusBull1977
1. Was this Bull playing the field for 10 years with no relationship prospects? Was he single for 10 years?
2. Were you single for the last 10 years (no relationship) or no relationship prospects for the last 10 yrs?
3. Was the idea or concept of an exclusive relationship re-introduced or re-enforced during the last 10 yrs?
Posted by Mikell
Also, @TaurusBull1977, +infinity to your questions.
Btw, I think, in most cases that I see, for a bull to enter a relationship, he must be financially, emotionally, spiritually, physically and mentally stable first. BAM! Your taurus is exceptional so continue to watch out for that.
Posted by lovepiscesrisingPosted by MikellPosted by robyn808
There are a few lessons people can learn from Taurus, in cases like this is trust and faith. Its a lesson because it can often be challenging.
If you let this moment define your perception of him, then you might not be able to rise above your own retardedness.
Even at my lowest point never count me out, never lose faith. If you underestimate me, if you can't believe in me, I'll never trust you enough to show you my best. I will leave you with the burden of your own perception, showing you little more than what your expectations can fathom. You will be shut out, because you are not worthy enough to set foot in my world, and you will never dance in my riches.
or some shit.
This thread is absolutely heartrending. But when I first read this comment, I couldn't have said it better. Please listen to this lady.
Posted by lovepiscesrising
I have trusted him and told him things about how people have used me for money, and he almost looked amused.
I regret telling him.
The fact that all of a sudden he wants me to be his girlfriend now that he is broke and at rock bottom is very suspicious. While he had money in his pocket he wanted to play around.
My end game? I would like to give a shot at a relationship with him, to see if we could actually work out.
We can't only look to only one side of the coin. I think you're thinking that he won't be able to pay you and other negativities you can attached to the situation since you are full of doubt on him. How can this lady have the idea of giving a shot at a relationship with someone when she's full of doubt and seemed not very supportive of a potential partner.
However, maybe he thinks he can still prove himself to you somehow given of his low situation.
Given that:
You: Let him borrow $ 20
Him: Grateful
After +day(s).
Him: Gave you back your money
You: (insert your reaction here)
Given that he is aware of "I have trusted him and told him things about how people have used me for money...(regardless of his reaction, I think he still take it to his heart and mind about your confession but he handled it lightly)click to expand
Posted by lovepiscesrising
I asked him two years ago.... about September 2011.
Posted by lovepiscesrising
2. No I have been in one very, very serious relationship around the same time Taurus was in one. Except my relationship lasted a few years, I had broken up with my ex about 3 months before I asked this Taurus to be official.click to expand
Posted by lovepiscesrising
Taurus knew about my ex, he knew we had been serious and he probably thought I was still "messing" around and seeing him. Which I did, me and my ex got back together that winter after Taurus rejected me.
Posted by lovepiscesrising
He chased me, to the point where I thought I would only seem right for us to move into a relationship, so I asked him if he wanted to be official...
His response ? "Idk yet"click to expand
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by lovepiscesrising
I asked him two years ago.... about September 2011.
Subtract two years from 2013 before this Bull was rejected (Sept 2011)...any year recorded after the rejection has no merit.
This will equate to 8 years of chasing.
Posted by lovepiscesrising
2. No I have been in one very, very serious relationship around the same time Taurus was in one. Except my relationship lasted a few years, I had broken up with my ex about 3 months before I asked this Taurus to be official.
September 2011 - 3 months = June 2011 (This paints a more accurate duration period)
Prior to that duration period, you were already committed to someone else.
Which simply means while he spent 7 yrs and 9 months pining over you, he was obviously passing time with other women until you became emotionally available to be with him.
click to expand
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by lovepiscesrising
Taurus knew about my ex, he knew we had been serious and he probably thought I was still "messing" around and seeing him. Which I did, me and my ex got back together that winter after Taurus rejected me.
Posted by lovepiscesrising
He chased me, to the point where I thought I would only seem right for us to move into a relationship, so I asked him if he wanted to be official...
His response ? "Idk yet"
This is why you were given this response when you asked him to be official after 3 months of courtship.
Some Bull's are slow for a reason. Not because we're indecisive, but because we're cautious and smart!
If we see longevity or stability in a situation...this when we chaaaaaaaarge and go after what we want!
Many people have trouble understanding this about most Bulls.click to expand
Posted by DMV
Go ask one of your boys or your mama, not some girl u want a relationship with. Lol
lol, he had a venus in aries 2, chasing this horse for years!
Posted by lisabethur8
well my husband's best friend is a taurus/aries cusper, and he makes really good $ $ $ much much more than his live-in girlfriend. He bought the house and paid for most of it, since she is a part time kindergarten teacher, which isn't really that much money though rewarding. she would still be living with her parents or with roommates if he hadn't told her to move in with him. And he bought them a 6 bedroom house, and there's only 2 of them.
she's a libra sun (october 1) So it seems like a Pierce Brosnan coupling, since he's married to a Libra. Those lucky venuses!
what's with all the space? It's nice to have so much room, all the better to laze around and be happy.
Taurus and generosity is awesome, because taurus is the sign of generosity & good will too. He will give back more in return, because you are there for him (support). Just something i really noticed and admire. He likes to be pampered (meaning, make him really yummy food when him and his gf are coming over, he really appreciates the fact that you give him the best quality stuff, as if he notices. He likes sweets and cakes too.) Anyway thought i'd mention it since we caught up with him this weekend.
Posted by lovepiscesrisingPosted by lisabethur8
well my husband's best friend is a taurus/aries cusper, and he makes really good $ $ $ much much more than his live-in girlfriend. He bought the house and paid for most of it, since she is a part time kindergarten teacher, which isn't really that much money though rewarding. she would still be living with her parents or with roommates if he hadn't told her to move in with him. And he bought them a 6 bedroom house, and there's only 2 of them.
she's a libra sun (october 1) So it seems like a Pierce Brosnan coupling, since he's married to a Libra. Those lucky venuses!
what's with all the space? It's nice to have so much room, all the better to laze around and be happy.
Taurus and generosity is awesome, because taurus is the sign of generosity & good will too. He will give back more in return, because you are there for him (support). Just something i really noticed and admire. He likes to be pampered (meaning, make him really yummy food when him and his gf are coming over, he really appreciates the fact that you give him the best quality stuff, as if he notices. He likes sweets and cakes too.) Anyway thought i'd mention it since we caught up with him this weekend.
That's so sweet
She's lucky!
I wouldn't mind helping this Taurus out at all if I knew he was sincerely genuine. I'm still trying to figure him out.click to expand
We'd love to hear your thoughts! If you're not logged in, you can still share your feedback below. Your input helps us improve the experience for everyone. To post your own content or join the conversation, please log in or create an account.